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lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

I don't know why this sounds untrue and funny to me.
Putting on native attire Monday to Sunday?

It has nothing to do with your physical appearance bro.

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lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy. People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is. So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.
I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me. please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

You're the one destroying yourself, being small or looking young is not an excuse.

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

oga go and make money, ladies and respect will pursue u for d rest of your life

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Oga start keeping beards. It will help

We are in the same boat brother.

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Send me a direct message on nairaland.

Pishure or adonblivit.

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lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Show us pictures without ur face ni

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izzou:
I suspect you're an introvert, or let me say a shy guy. Don't be scared of approaching ladies. They don't bite

An concerning your physique, you don't know what God is doing for you

When you'll turn 55, but look 35, you'll remember this day you complained

I tell u, person like wey be 35 i look like 60 yrs nko. Make him dey thank God. Forever young gene dey him blood.

Oga all u need is talk and let dem no say u no be small boy at all. Woman matter na small tin. Honey na money

it's not bad nau..I also know some that's worse but it was cos of a sickness...#love yourz

lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

This really got me laughing. Nigerians and useless mentality wearing shirt and trouser automatically makes you look like a pastor. That's why most Nigerians are being scammed by take pastors.

Bro you need to believe in your self and grow the confidence.

Its starts with you, you already look down on yourself. People will treat you how you treat yourself.

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when that guy pretty mike saod beware of short people we were here insulting him. fact is Smallish people naturally come with a factory fitted inferiority complex. Bros no one is perfect, learn to love your self cos you cnt change it.

I do understand how you feel but i think you need to build your self esteem and don't allow anyone look down on you.

Have a positive attitude. You need to work on yourself boss. Start gyming.

Some of us are even praying to look 10, the beards won't allow us. Every 3 days shaving just to look young. So many can relate.
You have a valid argument but still thank God that in a country that ages citizen quickly like Nigeria, you still look teen. No be small something

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czarina:
Naah...you're wrong.

They may even be eager to help you once you let them in on your struggles. Some can be that matured. I've worked at a gym house so I know. Most are all too eager to play "instructor" the minute they get the chance.

You're so so correct

word of mouth has killed so many in Naija than bullet

lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

EmperorKpee:
Some of us are even praying to look 10, the beards won't allow us. Every 3 days shaving just to look young. So many can relate.
You have a valid argument but still thank God that in a country that ages citizen quickly like Nigeria, you still look teen. No be small something

Baba you no lie o.. This beards na war

Are you suffering from down syndrome...if not. Nothing is wrong with you. Accept who you're. Don't give a flying fvck what anybody think about you. Pursue ur life goals.

I can't date small girls
Once I call them Na sir be the reply so I only date mature and older girls.
Use this as an advantage they will think u a small boy but don't know you 2x older then them.
If I'm u Na 17-19 years girls I go de smash their pkomo Na oiling e de bring no be water

Bro where is your location? I want to know if I can be of help

Write your age on a paper and paste it on your forehead

Bro, I am 36 but actually I look 21, no one can easily believe that I am up to 25, I think I enjoy it.

Some friends of mine have told me to build up, but I will always tell them that I would wish to build up in wealth and not in size.

Ladies do the same to me, but for me, no kwalms.

There was a night armed robbers came to our compound, when they entered my apartment, they could not imagine that I am the "Oga" of the house, I figured out what they thought, kept calm, they assumed me of being a small boy and took few things and left and entered my neighbors'

A girl visited me late last year, she was very busy asking me who owns the house, who pays the bills, she still thinks I am a small boy living with my brother, till today, she never takes my call serious and claims she does not do thing with "small boys" like me. I chuckled.

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Stop porn/masturbation first.

Go and make money... Money commands respect not statue