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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Bombolistic: 12:55pm On Mar 29, 2019
We need to see your pictures so we can advice
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Derajeth(m): 12:59pm On Mar 29, 2019
momove4real25:
Me of 32 nko n many ppl don't believe my age

What do they believe,older or younger?
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Kokaine(m): 1:00pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.
Is your manhood developed for your age?
There's nothing to worry about. Hit the gym and add muscles. If you have beards, groom them too
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by MrMcJay(m): 1:02pm On Mar 29, 2019
momove4real25:
Me of 32 nko n many ppl don't believe my age

You look younger than your age. And you're beautiful too. kiss
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by OTS18(m): 1:02pm On Mar 29, 2019
Rollitout:


Is it possible you upload pictures of your face and body so that I can give you the best
advice on how to really look good, if privacy matters then you can send me your pictures personally
Provided genotype is not a risk factor


bros,share me your number on mail ajaniolayemi50@gmail.com. thanks
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by momove4real25(f): 1:05pm On Mar 29, 2019
franklingud:

Hmmnn!!!
So you too are 32?
Ah Don blivit girl, you are probably 36 or more.

But if it's true then you are really beautiful.
ayaf suffered. Wetin I do u now
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by momove4real25(f): 1:05pm On Mar 29, 2019
MrMcJay:


You look younger than your age. And you're beautiful too. kiss
thanks
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by bosunjohns(m): 1:07pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

sorry but this is funny.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Ixorat(f): 1:12pm On Mar 29, 2019
You are very right about this]Naah...you're wrong.

They may even be eager to help you once you let them in on your struggles. Some can be that matured. I've worked at a gym house so I know. Most are all too eager to play "instructor" the minute they get the chance. [/quote]
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by 99foxxy(f): 1:14pm On Mar 29, 2019
Between Aki n Pawpaw u mean? Man is ur pocket dat counts not ur stature.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by mechanics(m): 1:18pm On Mar 29, 2019
Worry not, next time that happens, you will explain to them that you are not young as they think, it's better for you because when you are 70yrs old, people will still say you look fresh.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by djoe21(m): 1:22pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

grin grin grin Guy you are just funny. This cracked me up especially the native part grin
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Tonycliton(m): 1:28pm On Mar 29, 2019
Just take it easy
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by SmartMen: 1:28pm On Mar 29, 2019
izzou:
I suspect you're an introvert, or let me say a shy guy. Don't be scared of approaching ladies. They don't bite

An concerning your physique, you don't know what God is doing for you grin

When you'll turn 55, but look 35, you'll remember this day you complained
BROS, that guy no know. when I was 23, I looked like 15 years old. till now, u can hardly know my age except I tell you. AND I love it that way. grin grin grin The OP should up his confidence and ace the game.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by lawrsmith(m): 1:29pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.
can we see your picture before we start providing solutions
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Asholami: 1:31pm On Mar 29, 2019
Change your name first. lilmaydee
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by viktor88: 1:37pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.
If you are interested to grow beard there is a concoction that you can prepare by your self, I will tell you how to, I saw it on YouTube and it helped me.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by tunize(m): 1:40pm On Mar 29, 2019
This is serious focus and make money even wizkid self nor small but based on the funds him deh do and undo...self love bro.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Thukzee01(m): 1:48pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

clear your mind away from ladies for now ,achieve what you set out for and watch them flock you like bees on honey
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by IdeeEsperanza(m): 1:48pm On Mar 29, 2019
Emotionss:
Op I can give you a Natural remedies that can make you Add some real flesh and get the respect you deserve.

100% natural
No Fat.
Oh really? I need this natural remedies.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by torhyb(m): 1:49pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.
That remind me of one girl I met on fb,the day she saw me her first word is why are you short like this ? The statement hurt me but i laugh it off.bro there is nothing you can do to cheat nature
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by IdeeEsperanza(m): 1:50pm On Mar 29, 2019
viktor88:

If you are interested to grow beard there is a concoction that you can prepare by your self, I will tell you how to, I saw it on YouTube and it helped me.
Give me the link biko grin
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by austyn0(m): 1:50pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.
You must be kidding me Op.. Why am I just seeing this now??.

You and I are not very much different in that aspect. Yes, I look very much younger than my age but I thank God I was given the height, voice and comportment to attract the respect I deserve.

Now, I don't know if you have any of those aforementioned attributes but you should never, I repeat, never allow your physical appearance and what others think of you push you down the cliff in life. I seriously hope you are still standing on the edge of that cliff, look at me and others like us waving towards your direction, come down to us and let's walk this life together and we will definitely be fine, we always are because happiness is a choice.

Even if you are not tall, have a bass voice or even handsome, you can be matured with your acts and reasoning and as well, you can have money. These attributes help you get respect come what may.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by torhyb(m): 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2019
germanized:
Post your pictures...
see this one
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by viktor88: 1:52pm On Mar 29, 2019
IdeeEsperanza:

Give me the link biko grin
Just type how to regrow lost hair on YouTube
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Paramount01(m): 1:52pm On Mar 29, 2019
decatalyst:
Look beyond the physical shortcomings.

Equip yourself...read a lot, when you talk it would be filled with substance and people would be amazed and respect you.

Lastly, surround yourself with people of substance and like minds.


Which type of books
Peace.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by austyn0(m): 1:53pm On Mar 29, 2019
izzou:

When you'll turn 55, but look 35, you'll remember this day you complained
I am telling you man. grin
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Madeu(m): 1:53pm On Mar 29, 2019
Ops should be grateful for having a good genes that makes you looks younger than your actual age. The chances of living longer till old age without any form of degenerative diseases are high.

Ageing takes place at the cellular level, where there are destruction of cell membranes and body tissues due to accumulation of oxidative substances leaving you without much energy at the mitochondrial and weaker immunity; predisposing you to illness and old age degenerative conditions.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by austyn0(m): 1:57pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.
This is unbelievable.

You even tried methods just to grow beards? Same beards tryna force themselves outta my jaw and upper lip that I don't like? This is serious.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by optimusprime2(m): 1:57pm On Mar 29, 2019
dgee1:


What kind of funding do they require, is it block account funding like in Germany? I'm actually seeking for a scholarship. With all sense of humility, I have a good academic record in my first degree but it seems the Nigerian system does not appreciate these things anymore. I want to ship out in a legit way but from a very humble home. Thanks

Step 1: Find a school check their requirements and apply if you meet the requirements.

Step 2: if you get accepted, talk to them about your situation, they will advise you accordingly.

What may apply for you, would be different from someone else.

Like I said, contact a school after your application... and see if you were destined to go there.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by austyn0(m): 2:01pm On Mar 29, 2019
NiggasInParis:
grin grin grin grin

I dun laugh tire...

OP we belong to the same FAM o, but it seems i better pass you to an enviable extent.. Plus my self esteem alone can bring down Sky scrapers..

My advice:

1. Build your self esteem. I don't know how I will explain this but this goes beyond just reading self help books. For example, using the incident in your post...

There is a kind of demeanor your gestures will depict that girl would have given you full reps no matter your size. Haba now.. Gestures, appearance, composure and how you speak exudes your self esteem.


2. Make money I repeat Make money. This is not to impress but for yourself. Just make the money first , you will understand later.


3. Read books wildly. I believe you watched Game of Thrones? You saw that imp(my favorite actor in the series grin). That guy had different women all over him with a dedicated lover for that matter.. He was a dwarf, but his intelligence is taller and well built like Karl drogo. His esteem, humour and doings says it all. He said, he may not know how to handle sword, arrows and fight wars but he has knowledge and intelligence that commands attention and directs victory. And where does knowledge comes from? Reading!

4. Hit the Gym. Adding some more flesh and growth Starts with physique and to do this you need physical exertion. Plus you will love it..


5. Kill Fashion. Mehn! Let your neighbour know you as that uncle that can dresssss!


Cheer up bro and follow my tips. I have been petite since my sec school days about 15years ago but i have never been disrespected and looked down on..
Today when I go out with my clique, all my friends be looking like machos and old men, I will be that Cheerleader guy with small body , but my carriage, composure and looks omoh no be here. Prince Charles things
You finish talk baba, mai help you throwaway mic.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by saajus: 2:01pm On Mar 29, 2019
It is a blessing for you. You will appreciate it better as you grow older. If you want to add weight, your best bet is muscles not fats. You can register at a nearby gym and add some muscles. If you are serious, you should be able to add 20lbs of lean muscles in a year. If you are not rich to pay for gym or no gym nearby, there are some cheap weight lifting equipment you can acquire. Your time starts now!!!

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

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