Jokerman:
These happened in my neighborhood

A couple got marrried about 4 years ago. They have two kids( A boy and a girl). The man works with a telecoms company as an engineer while the wife works as a banker.
Two years later, the man discovered that his wife was cheating on him, Buh his wife never knew that the man was in the know because he never asked her about it, however he was gathering evidence.

All through this while, though the man was planning to go overseas without telling anyonr not even his wife....

Two days ago, it was learnt the man had traveled to Australia with his two kids, and leaving his wife behind without telling her..

The wife was judging that the man was wicked etc.. The man now forwarded photos, text messages, DNA results of his 2 kids to the family as he said he won't be returning to Nigeria anytime soon...

Now isn't this too much of revenge against the wife.... I felt he should have divorced her or asked her about the cheating etc...instead of just disapearing like that with the kids

What do y'all think... Can you do this or something worse??

Are you fooling yourself? So, the kids will not ask about their mother and how did he obtain visa for the kids? Oga! Talk another one don Allah!
Rahun rahun ati uncle e!

MhisTahrah:
I can totally understand you.But don't lump all females together, we still have some very good women.Did this happen recently?

happened on Friday morning... Left for her place on Thursday n got to her country Friday morning

magicminister:



If this is true then the man is quite stupid cos all she has to do is to report a case of child theft to the Australian embassy, file an appropriate police report and provide picture of evidence to the Nigerian and Australian police.

I doubt the authenticity of this story too, how old are the children to start with

Jokerman:
These happened in my neighborhood

A couple got marrried about 4 years ago. They have two kids( A boy and a girl). The man works with a telecoms company as an engineer while the wife works as a banker.
Two years later, the man discovered that his wife was cheating on him, Buh his wife never knew that the man was in the know because he never asked her about it, however he was gathering evidence.

All through this while, though the man was planning to go overseas without telling anyonr not even his wife....

Two days ago, it was learnt the man had traveled to Australia with his two kids, and leaving his wife behind without telling her..

The wife was judging that the man was wicked etc.. The man now forwarded photos, text messages, DNA results of his 2 kids to the family as he said he won't be returning to Nigeria anytime soon...

Now isn't this too much of revenge against the wife.... I felt he should have divorced her or asked her about the cheating etc...instead of just disapearing like that with the kids

What do y'all think... Can you do this or something worse??

It isn't too. Much. For me as a female, any wife cheating irritates me. I mean if the man no sabi do you well, why not communicate with your partner. Now the man has left her, let her go back to her partner in the cheating game and cheat freely.

Let's learn to respect the marriage institution. Men respect your vows, wives and marriage same with women.

I love this.

The man in question is a correct man!

The man deserves some accolades!

Sometimes, the best psychological wars are fought without uttering words.

Yes, like they do say, some action do speak louder than words.

No need exchanging unnecessary words with the woman.

In fact, this man is a true student of power.

Just look at how he expertly applied these laws of power:


Law 3. Conceal Your Intentions

Law 4. Always Say Less than Necessary

Law 9. Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument

Law 14. Pose As A Friend, Work As A Spy

Law 15. Crush Your Enemy Totally

Law 17. Keep Others In Suspended Terror: Cultivate An Air Of Unpredictability

Law 20. Do Not Commit To Anyone

Law 21. Play A Sucker To Catch A Sucker--Seem Dumber Than Your Mark

Law 29. Plan All The Way To The End

Law 35. Master The Art Of Timing


Just launch your surprise attack on her.

By the time she finally recovers from the shock, she will think twice before attempting or embarking on such frivolities again in her life.

Thank God we still have some cold calculated men around.

ifyalways:
Storytime !!!!

How was he able to apply for visa and fly with the children without the wifes/mothers consent?

In the 0.2% chance that this is true, the wife only needs to send an email with the children's birth certificate/immunization cards, attach evidences which the man have generously supplied her( pictures in Australlia etc) and they will be on the next flight to lagos.

Bottomline : Story time

lolz, I thought so too.

It's her kids as well. The lady I believe knows her rights as a mother to these kids. She has to look for a good lawyer. Sthey can trace the idiot. Stupid husband claiming to be a saint. Like he's never cheated on her before.

frankopit:


Na so dey finish,suck,slack and destroy my ex babe honey well. E no go beta for them money bag customers.

They can call the Maketer for 200m deposit,
Then later call her out for dinner the rest n History 801.

After 2 years of working with the bank , I went to test d honey pot.... Ahhhhhh jah I was disappointed. Slacked.

Which one is 200m, any man with 5m to deposit will mark register ooo

ifyalways:
Storytime !!!!

How was he able to apply for visa and fly with the children without the wifes/mothers consent?

In the 0.2% chance that this is true, the wife only needs to send an email with the children's birth certificate/immunization cards, attach evidences which the man have generously supplied her( pictures in Australlia etc) and they will be on the next flight to lagos.

Bottomline : Story time

I know the man. The OP got the story twisted tho. The wife was not cheating per se. She was an abuser. She abused the man physically and emotionally. Her father is wealthy.

While applying for the visa, the man cited domestic violence on him and the kids (the kids were damn scared of her because of her venom) and that facilitated the visa processing under asylum

jaxxy:


Lol it happens everywhere. It was his fault anyway him and his wife squandered his own share of the family properties sale and the lady felt its time to bail. What’s crazy is she left her kids behind even the 2year old baby.

Lol she didnt go there to suffer sad for the baby but then maybe they are better off without such a mother. What if she stayed and decided to sell them

Excuzeme:


You are wrong!
Because you "report kidnap", does not make the father of the children a kidnapper!
Dont mis-inform people on the web.
The embassy and the Police will have to look into the circumstances of the "father" being in custody of his kids, afterall, he was never denied custody, ab initio. Dont forget they are not even divorced as of date, according to the story.
They would know that the 'kidnap' story was just to get attention and it is a ruse
Las las, the court would require him to allow the woman access to the children of the union.


NB: I am not in support of not letting the woman "see" her children once in awhile, by arraignment if she can manage to get a Visa to Aussy.

BTW: I think the story is just 'made-up', too many loose ends in it!
For example, if ONLY one spouse is travelling with kids, the airline and the embassy issuing the Visa would have demanded a "letter of consent" to travel with the children, from the "other spouse" (the wife in this case) ......
or shall we assume he has such letter in his possession, if he actually did travel with the kids?
If that is the case then, she cant even shout 'kidnap' because such letter will immediately invalidate her claim of kidnap!

Who approved and granted him sole custody of the kids?

Did he divorce the woman like he legally married her ?

Where have you seen where infidelity makes one unfit to adequately take care of her children?

I didn't read your trash completely , only the 1st paragraph was enough to describe you as an olodo.

This can only happen in Africa. If he had tried this stunt abroad, a BOLO and bounty would have been on his head and he would go to jail for kidnap.

I did indicate she needs a quack lawyer cos all she needs is a report and their pic plus evidence of marriage submitted at the embassy.

The speed dem go take deport am eh... even him will be surprised.

No evidence of divorce, no judge order of the woman being an unfit parent then he just disappeared with the kids.

Olodo grade A. If you are a lawyer, den you be native lawyer.

skales67:


I know the man. The OP got the story twisted tho. The wife was not cheating per se. She was an abuser. She abused the man physically and emotionally. Her father is wealthy.

While applying for the visa, the man cited domestic violence on him and the kids (the kids were damn scared of her because of her venom) and that facilitated the visa processing under asylum

What!

SaucyBenks:
happened on Friday morning... Left for her place on Thursday n got to her country Friday morning

By Friday... you mean today?

MhisTahrah:
By Friday... you mean today?

last week...

SaucyBenks:
last week...

I'm sorry you went through that.

skales67:


I know the man. The OP got the story twisted tho. The wife was not cheating per se. She was an abuser. She abused the man physically and emotionally. Her father is wealthy.

While applying for the visa, the man cited domestic violence on him and the kids (the kids were damn scared of her because of her venom) and that facilitated the visa processing under asylum

probably different families. the stories are too different to claim it's the same family. This one specifically says adultery with receipts. not one mention of DV

Guest007:
Simple minded man if you ask me... why deprive children of their mother?

The only people he harms in the long run are the children.

I don't agree with women who take kids away from their father so why would I feel any different in this case.


Nonsense and blogging

She's not a woman. She's an ashawo.

izzou:


You can give her any punishment you deem necessary, but don't deny her the access to be with her children

They are hers too

Did the man say she cannot travel to see them in Australia?

MhisTahrah:
I'm sorry you went through that.

thanks... It won't happen again tho.

Exactly!!

ifyalways:
Storytime !!!!

How was he able to apply for visa and fly with the children without the wifes/mothers consent?

In the 0.2% chance that this is true, the wife only needs to send an email with the children's birth certificate/immunization cards, attach evidences which the man have generously supplied her( pictures in Australlia etc) and they will be on the next flight to lagos.

Bottomline : Story time

ifyalways:
Storytime !!!!

How was he able to apply for visa and fly with the children without the wifes/mothers consent?

In the 0.2% chance that this is true, the wife only needs to send an email with the children's birth certificate/immunization cards, attach evidences which the man have generously supplied her( pictures in Australlia etc) and they will be on the next flight to lagos.

Bottomline : Story time

Very true . But who knows if he forged and submitted d wives death certificate or even divorce cert. The heart of man is desperately wicked.

The onus will be on d lady to back up her claims with proper documentation and he would loose custody of d kids.

SaucyBenks:
you think I care anymore? Ladies of this generation don't know what it means to have a good man...

Imagine travelling for hours for a surprise visit, stressed and tired only to see another man right on top of the woman of your dreams. What's heart breaking than that?

in reality love is a scam and women are simply insatiable.the greatest mistake a man will ever make is to be 100% committed to a woman.na depression Las Las. I have been through the road and knows how it feels.it was so bad that my ex told me she is dating two guys and that the other guy knows about me and doesn't complain because he loves her so much, I don't love her that's why I feel uncomfortable with her actions.i kukuma made my her my sex slave and kept quiet thereafter.

SaucyBenks:
thanks... It won't happen again tho.

I hope this doesn't mean what I think it does.

MhisTahrah:
I hope this doesn't mean what I think it does.

I actually don't know what you're thinking but I am still hurt... The image won't leave my memory.

Youngjohnosas:
in reality love is a scam and women are simply insatiable.the greatest mistake a man will ever make is to be 100% committed to a woman.na depression Las Las. I have been through the road and knows how it feels.it was so bad that my ex told me she is dating two guys and that the other guy knows about me and doesn't complain because he loves her so much, I don't love her that's why I feel uncomfortable with her actions.i kukuma made my her my sex slave and kept quiet thereafter.

they deserve no loyalty... Not a cent!

SaucyBenks:
they deserve no loyalty... Not a cent!

Hei! Oga please we're sorry na

kutashi:


Are you fooling yourself? So, the kids will not ask about their mother and how did he obtain visa for the kids? Oga! Talk another one don Allah!
Rahun rahun ati uncle e!

The way Cristiano Ronaldo son is asking for his mother abi?


You can contact jokerman for the woman's contact so that you can fvck her as a reward f9r defending her on nairaland.

skales67:


I know the man. The OP got the story twisted tho. The wife was not cheating per se. She was an abuser. She abused the man physically and emotionally. Her father is wealthy.

While applying for the visa, the man cited domestic violence on him and the kids (the kids were damn scared of her because of her venom) and that facilitated the visa processing under asylum

Seriously?

Are you serious on this that you really know the man?

izzou:




Wonderful
I never thought about this

You're a genius bro

Lol
I see what you did there

She kept her plans and betrayal secret and he did the same.

Youngjohnosas:
in reality love is a scam and women are simply insatiable.the greatest mistake a man will ever make is to be 100% committed to a woman.na depression Las Las. I have been through the road and knows how it feels.it was so bad that my ex told me she is dating two guys and that the other guy knows about me and doesn't complain because he loves her so much, I don't love her that's why I feel uncomfortable with her actions.i kukuma made my her my sex slave and kept quiet thereafter.

actually you could have been her sex slave rather...who knows if she was a nypmph .....

Lies...

Fictitious...

Nollywood kind...

OP is better off telling us he's trying to start his own movie production or learn how to write a script...
Or probably OP has never applied for a visa before...

On the slightest chance it is a true story, then the wife must be an ILLITERATE banker who signed documents without reading coz you need a consent form signed by both parents for children under 18 years of age to travel, especially when they're not travelling with both parents to combat child trafficking which becomes very much critical when a girl child is involved...

And even if he succeeded to fake all the documents, as others have said, unless his wife is indeed an ILLITERATE and ignorant banker, all she needs to do to ruin his life is a phone call or letter to the Overseas High Commission and all that the man has spent will be in vain...

However, if na sharp guy, he can change identity and lose; possibly move to a regional or country town until the case dies... Anyway, I'm just tryna complete the script for OP! The guy still dey Lagos or Abuja with him kids