fastseo:
Just advice her and not because of that send her back.
Not necessarily flogging but advice and prayer and she will be fine.

GboyegaD:
Manage her till the end of NECO which is another 2months. Before then, take your time to have a heart to heart discussion with her what your concerns are and how you would have to let her go back to her parents after NECO since she is hell bent on living a life you are not comfortable with. If she doesn't change, send her back to her parents after NECO before people ask you insulting questions should anything happen to her. Also, let her know you beat her because you sent her on errand and she was expected to return home and then seek permission before going to see her friends. This is needed so that the friends do not confuse her with the lies that you do not want her to enjoy the good things in sex is why you are restricting her.

lacapine:
okay. Been doing that. This evening hubby came back late and sent her and Hubby's nephew staying with us to buy something. She branched to her friend's place and when Hubby's nephew was telling her that they should hurry back, she was reluctant and he just came home my himself. The effrontery!

sisisioge:


She's in SS1, Neco is until SS2 or SS3 fa.

dingbang:
Las las you will soon have a pregnant maid under your own roof.


If she cannot obey you as her employer then she should be sent to live with the boyfriend who she is frolicking with.

waleyp:
You have done your own part, you can’t kill yourself na, just leave her to do whatever as per say you don try your best, inform her parents, it will be bad if she gets pregnant under your watch...

waleyp:
You have done your own part, you can’t kill yourself na, just leave her to do whatever as per say you don try your best, inform her parents, it will be bad if she gets pregnant under your watch...

GboyegaD:
Manage her till the end of 3rd term which is another 3-4months. Before then, take your time to have a heart to heart discussion with her what your concerns are and how you would have to let her go back to her parents after this session since she is hell bent on living a life you are not comfortable with. If she doesn't change, send her back to her parents after the session before people ask you insulting questions should anything happen to her. Also, let her know you beat her because you sent her on errand and she was expected to return home and then seek permission before going to see her friends. This is needed so that the friends do not confuse her with the lies that you do not want her to enjoy the good things in sex is why you are restricting her.

sisisioge:
Return her immediately. All these plenty stories sef. She's gotten to the point where she's forgotten why she's in your house so much so that she openly disrespects you and your hubby(keeping bfs against your will is disrespect, branching off the course of an assignment and leaving a partner to return alone is disrespect). Biko return her...she's over stayed her welcome. Maybe going back home will help advise her.

ireneidiva:

Stop flogging someone's child. If you can no longer handle her, send her back to her parents. Beating her is just wicked. Injure her and it becomes a police case.

legendarygeo:
You have played a very good part,you have flogged her where she needs flogging, you have advised her where she needs correction, you have prayed for her but it is like those demons don't want to leave her.The age we are now is an "idiotic era" if she gets pregnant! trust me she might successfully abort the first but she would be forced to keep the child of a street guy.
In this situation, you don't do your best and leave the rest for God.
You must do all it takes to get her out of your house since she can no longer abide by your rules and regulations, in 2014,my dad asked me to go to the saloon and cut my hair;and I told him the hair belongs to me and I was not ready to cut it and he said if I could not cut it I have to leave his house,back then I was only 17,I finished secondary school a year before.
There are lot of people out there who are looking for jobs,they don't Even mind if you don't pay them,all they need is clothing, shelter and food.
The faster you act,the better to avoid getting yourself into unwanted trouble.
After sending her back to where she came from,you can still send her monthly allowances if you have and if peradventure she gains admission,don't forget to render a helping hand. She's like your blood.
For now, she doesn't know your value.
To everything under the sun, there is a season.
Her time is up!
Thanks.

Fhemmmy:


She is in village getting allowance, how will she really learn then? Mind you she doesn't have to do anything to even deserve the allowance.
I like your advice except the giving her allowance without doing anything to deserve it.
The attitude of thinking the world owe us has been the author of Africa's downfall till date, when a parent in Nigeria rewards only the good of the kids and make the kids work to pay for their own tuition, there will be less fraternity at the university.

legendarygeo:

That's why I used the word "if"

NwaAmichi:
return as collected. she has overstayed her welcome. She'll only end up bringing enmity between you and her parents.

lacapine:
. Noted. Only that she doesn't want to go back. I still dey watch.

legendarygeo:
You have played a very good part,you have flogged her where she needs flogging, you have advised her where she needs correction, you have prayed for her but it is like those demons don't want to leave her.The age we are now is an "idiotic era" if she gets pregnant! trust me she might successfully abort the first but she would be forced to keep the child of a street guy.
In this situation, you don't do your best and leave the rest for God.
You must do all it takes to get her out of your house since she can no longer abide by your rules and regulations, in 2014,my dad asked me to go to the saloon and cut my hair;and I told him the hair belongs to me and I was not ready to cut it and he said if I could not cut it I have to leave his house,back then I was only 17,I finished secondary school a year before.
There are lot of people out there who are looking for jobs,they don't Even mind if you don't pay them,all they need is clothing, shelter and food.
The faster you act,the better to avoid getting yourself into unwanted trouble.
After sending her back to where she came from,you can still send her monthly allowances if you have and if peradventure she gains admission,don't forget to render a helping hand. She's like your blood.
For now, she doesn't know your value.
To everything under the sun, there is a season.
Her time is up!
Thanks.