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Hello nairalanders!!

Their is this girl am into and we've been close enough. Recently I went to her house and we talked and did some other things!!

I told her my feelings and she said she's afraid of heart break, that she's not ready for that now, that we should be friends!!

She has been begging me not to feel hurt,
I was hurt but I didn't show it!!

I wanted to say something negative but I don't know if its right!!

Please I need your advice, I don't know what to do!!

Because a girl told u she is afraid of heartbreak, you said you are hurt. U get sense at all

Fizzymike1:
Because a girl told u she is afraid of heartbreak, you said you are hurt. U get sense at all

My brother I tire ooo

Instead of him to go extra length to prove his love for the girl which the girl is indirectly asking, he is here telling us he is hurt just because the girl said she don't want heart break again.

TRUE LOVE does not always have to MARRY or DATE.

Sometimes when you love a person you need to have the wisdom of letting them go else if you MUST have your way, it becomes emotional kidnap.

You BOTH are not ready for a relationship.... She definately is being polite to tell you NO... maybe you are not rich enough... so she used the excuse of heartbreak, maybe you are a ANGRY KID and she does not want that kind of man to father her kids... DID YOU EVER THINK OF THESE THINGS? Or YOU WERE TOO BLIND WANTING WHAT YOUR ERECTION WANTS.....

Pls remove your BRAIN from your DIK so that your erection will not give you a direction that will lead to your destruction due to lack of discretion.

YOU SHOT YOUR SHOT AND IT WAS BLOCKED... simply have the maturity to MOVE ON AND STILL BE FRIENDLY... she may need to date wrong guys before she realizes that you were always the right one but in the process you BOTH would have GROWN UP.

As friends you both have already made out and gotten sexually aroused... you simply want to legalize it in your mind by asking her FORMALLY for the only excuse for sex that the generation understands.... A RELATIONSHIP which really is just a SEXATIONSHIP.

Bro, get rich or die trying and 80% of girls will even propose to you not minding if you are married.

Themhi1:
Hello nairalanders!!

Their is this girl am into and we've been close enough. Recently I went to her house and we talked and did some other things!!

I told her my feelings and she said she's afraid of heart break, that she's not ready for that now, that we should be friends!!

She has been begging me not to feel hurt,
I was hurt but I didn't show it!!

I wanted to say something negative but I don't know if its right!!

Please I need your advice, I don't know what to do!!

That mama love you die!!!
Girl wey u don do 'other stuff' with na here?
Your f up be say u show say u dey needy too much....
Or she no dey sure of u

Equation89:
My brother I tire ooo

Instead of him to go extra length to prove his love for the girl which the girl is indirectly asking, he is here telling us he is hurt just because the girl said she don't want heart break again.

She asked me to prove it!

How can prove it!

Is it still possible after she said we should be friends?

stay away from relationship, since a guy with full grown mane on his regions is this confuse and can't understand girl's codes

Themhi1:
...

The solution you need is inside a short book called Mr. Friendzone, but it's unfortunate most youths will prefer to come to Nairaland to cry about their relationship issues than read the solution in a book.

Download and read the book below and thank me later.

http://www.wetclef.com/topic582.html

Fizzymike1:
Because a girl told u she is afraid of heartbreak, you said you are hurt. U get sense at all

Yep! I get sense!

And I know what am talking about!!

topedoski:
That mama love you die!!! Girl wey u don do 'other stuff' with na here? Your f up be say u show say u dey needy too much.... Or she no dey sure of u

Guy watn I go do next nw

Guy go to Malaysia

Make money

Come back

The girl will be the first to ask your hands in


Marriage.

Do this thank me

2020

This issue is a straight forward one. You do not need to feel hurt as she told you before hand what she was afraid of. If you really love her, then you will start with been friends as she told you. When she feel she can trust you, she will give into being in a relationship with you.

Themhi1:
Guy watn I go do next nw

Slow down act like say u never tell her, infact just start to dey act like her boyfriend, no show emotions oo, just suprise her, like if una dey waka just hold her hand, do like say u want kiss her den give her pecks, give her signs say u love her (no turn to mumu o), den when time ripe u go know, nobody go tell u say make u ask her out.

topedoski:
Slow down act like say u never tell her, infact just start to dey act like her boyfriend, no show emotions oo, just suprise her, like if una dey waka just hold her hand, do like say u want kiss her den give her pecks, give her signs say u love her (no turn to mumu o), den when time ripe u go know, nobody go tell u say make u ask her out.

Okk!
Thanks!

But how I go deal with that "am not ready to date" issue??
Cos she still talk am yesterday!!

But you have chopped the real food