comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

munas:


Take them and leave for where?

You think if they divorce,then the man will be allowed to keep the children abi?

All these nairaland children self.

Any little thing go away,drive her,divorce her ,do DNA....bla bla bla rubbish.


Marriage is more than keeping a woman at home to Bleep as you wish.

15ssDRIVE:
Boss.
Abeg Abeg Abeg, cool down for Jesus. Since 2013 till now,she no leave!

Now wey e remain weeks for your to walk,you wan leave with the kids?

What if the doctor tell you again,that you need another 6 months ? Then you will need her again?

Money is different and caring is the main thing.

Think oh ...... think well-well. She might have her own Bleep ups,but you tell me .... U no get Bleep up ?

Call her home,talk to her like you daughter,ur sister,ur aunt,your Mom and finally like your loving darling wifey.
Ask here reason for those: words.
Ask where did you get it wrong?
What can be done for amendments.....

No mind people wey dey tell you say... kut her head,shootttt her. Their own case worst pass this matter wey dey ground .

comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

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The woman will take his children in this Nigeria?
I agree. You are as naive as a child.

Stick to watching Hollywood movies and don't bother with issues beyond you.

You know nothing.

dicksonadams:
1, the woman is already getting bleeped outside

2, she can kill you to be rid of you

3, run... Run... Run

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The woman will take his children in this Nigeria?
I agree. You are as naive as a child.

Stick to watching Hollywood movies and don't bother with issues beyond you.

You know nothing.

Amakavula:
She meant it , she meant everything !! The truth is she now resent you for losing your legs, but there is an underlining context to that resentment. what did you do when you lost your legs ?

How did you react. Did you also panicked and was wishing to die while she comfort you or you took it as a man and even encouraged her about the future.

Women never like to be in charge, we may say it but actions never reaffirm that statement. Losing your legs is bringing out those fears.

munas:


I am a man...

Married for good 10yrs.

All you single people all over Nairaland will be shouting.... i cant take that rubish.....do DNA bla bla.

You have not live with a woman for 2yrs and you are giving marital advice.

Almost 90% of women has said that in their marriage.

But that does not in anyway mean they are cheating or they intend to cheat.

They are only reacting to emotional trauma that may have arise due to pressure in the marriage.

The man needs to fix the pressure pint and all will be fine.

Listen: If push comes to shoves,he will lose those children to the woman till they are 18yrs

iswallker:
What's kind of fake stories are these..

He works for paramilitary and is spending a fortune on broken leg and he bought bungalow in the process..

Obodo999:


Why can't a woman financially support her own kids too?

lefulefu:
someone is probably smashing ur wife and u asking weda to leave her or not.the choice remains wit u weda to stay or leave but know 4 sure wen ur woman is showing u attitude then another man is slamming her silly in za oza room.

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iRepNaija1:


Okay. So, according to you, you're financially providing for your family. But are you doing more than that? Some men seem to think that if they give the basics of what a husband is "supposed" to, they've done enough. But that's not necessarily the case. Consider the following:
Do you help with the errands around the house?
Do you help with your kids' homework, the schools runs, the chores for the children?
Do you take her out to dinner once in a while?
Do you guys have weekly date nights?
Have you bought her a small trinket just because? What about flowers?
When was the last time you told her she was beautiful/hot/sexy? Do you make her feel desired?
Do you remind her why you had to have her as your wife?
Have you taken her on a trip? Did you guys have a honeymoon?

Maybe you're doing the aforementioned. Maybe not. We only know your side of the story. But packing up and taking the children you have together should not be your first choice. Who are you to even take her kids away from her? That's a red flag right there. Go talk your wife and work it out.

Riyadhgoddess36:





I dey for front. Just opposite the altar

gloria34:
You soak head for groundnut oil this morning abi? Husband and wife quarrel all the time and you think because words were exchanged then she is cheating? So he didnt say anything and the woman just said that because she is mad ni? Let him divorce her na, i Sorry for women when still they fear divorce for this century. He said he will leave with the children? I will drag you to court and fight for custordy. Have they not been quarreling since he had the accident? But na now when he is almost better that he wants to leave, why not leave since? Cause he needs the woman but now making excuses. Divorce her and let her go and live her life, obviously she is Tired of you also

15ssDRIVE:
Boss.
Abeg Abeg Abeg, cool down for Jesus. Since 2013 till now,she no leave!

Now wey e remain weeks for your to walk,you wan leave with the kids?

What if the doctor tell you again,that you need another 6 months ? Then you will need her again?

Money is different and caring is the main thing.

Think oh ...... think well-well. She might have her own Bleep ups,but you tell me .... U no get Bleep up ?

Call her home,talk to her like you daughter,ur sister,ur aunt,your Mom and finally like your loving darling wifey.
Ask here reason for those: words.
Ask where did you get it wrong?
What can be done for amendments.....

No mind people wey dey tell you say... kut her head,shootttt her. Their own case worst pass this matter wey dey ground .

comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

gloria34:
. Divorce her and let her go and live her life, obviously she is Tired of you also

15ssDRIVE:
Boss.
Abeg Abeg Abeg, cool down for Jesus. Since 2013 till now,she no leave!

Now wey e remain weeks for your to walk,you wan leave with the kids?

What if the doctor tell you again,that you need another 6 months ? Then you will need her again?

Money is different and caring is the main thing.

Think oh ...... think well-well. She might have her own Bleep ups,but you tell me .... U no get Bleep up ?

Call her home,talk to her like you daughter,ur sister,ur aunt,your Mom and finally like your loving darling wifey.
Ask here reason for those: words.
Ask where did you get it wrong?
What can be done for amendments.....

No mind people wey dey tell you say... kut her head,shootttt her. Their own case worst pass this matter wey dey ground .

iTearHerToto:
Was she like that when your shattered legs were still intact? If NO then answer the following ;

1. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

2. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

3. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

If your answers are NO then you're in for it cos she might do worse

These Hoes don't joke with good sex and the moment they can't get that from you they go on a search and if unfortunately for you they find a solution then you are a loser

Someone is already fvckiing your wife stupidly .

Forget all these you're not whole or strong enough crap, forget about money, cos they don't care. The only thing they care most about is to get banged well.. What's my own with bang sef It's Fvck, I say fvck them well and they will love you forever even if you are headless

It's either you do the needful and stand a chance to revive your deceased Love or run like a coward

Mace0lane:
Common sense should tell you the woman saying all this nonsense about poo is a die hard career orientated pathetic liar. No woman in this life will have the temperament to make complaint such as this n still stay with the men except you are the barefaced liar. Can you imagine such a foolish senseless lie.

15ssDRIVE:
Boss.
Abeg Abeg Abeg, cool down for Jesus. Since 2013 till now,she no leave!

Now wey e remain weeks for your to walk,you wan leave with the kids?

What if the doctor tell you again,that you need another 6 months ? Then you will need her again?

Money is different and caring is the main thing.

Think oh ...... think well-well. She might have her own Bleep ups,but you tell me .... U no get Bleep up ?

Call her home,talk to her like you daughter,ur sister,ur aunt,your Mom and finally like your loving darling wifey.
Ask here reason for those: words.
Ask where did you get it wrong?
What can be done for amendments.....

No mind people wey dey tell you say... kut her head,shootttt her. Their own case worst pass this matter wey dey ground .

comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

munas:


I am a man...

Married for good 10yrs.

All you single people all over Nairaland will be shouting.... i cant take that rubish.....do DNA bla bla.

You have not live with a woman for 2yrs and you are giving marital advice.

Almost 90% of women has said that in their marriage.

But that does not in anyway mean they are cheating or they intend to cheat.

They are only reacting to emotional trauma that may have arise due to pressure in the marriage.

The man needs to fix the pressure pint and all will be fine.

Listen: If push comes to shoves,he will lose those children to the woman till they are 18yrs