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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Hades2016(m): 8:52am On Apr 18
Brother in fela voice " run ooo "
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by goshen26: 8:52am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

Op, did the accident affect your performance in bed?

If no, then sit her down and ask her wat is it that you have done.

Because broken home usually have negative effect on the children, four eyes can never be same as two.

Pls try as much as possible to fix ur marriage.

God will help you Sir

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Athena4: 8:54am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
thanks I will do that
OP. Have you talked with your wife? As in call your wife ,have her sit down and confront her with what she had said. Hear what exactly is her problem,let her know that she has hurt you. Talk and come to a compromise.There are children involved here.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Dessy96: 8:55am On Apr 18
please sir pack and leave that woman... she has said her mind....
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by sawdi: 8:55am On Apr 18
Amakavula:
She meant it , she meant everything !! The truth is she now resent you for losing your legs, but there is an underlining context to that resentment. what did you do when you lost your legs ?

How did you react. Did you also panicked and was wishing to die while she comfort you or you took it as a man and even encouraged her about the future.

Women never like to be in charge, we may say it but actions never reaffirm that statement. Losing your legs is bringing out those fears.


You my friend are full of wisdom.
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by yinkeys(m): 8:55am On Apr 18
So done with Nigerian women. That's why immature people shouldn't get married. What part of for better or worse do most people not get ?
This happens when they like and marry you for the change you've been giving out.
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Mac2016(m): 8:55am On Apr 18
iTearHerToto:
Was she like that when your shattered legs were still intact? If NO then answer the following ;

1. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

2. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

3. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

If your answers are NO then you're in for it cos she might do worse

These Hoes don't joke with good sex and the moment they can't get that from you they go on a search and if unfortunately for you they find a solution then you are a loserangry

Someone is already fvckiing your wife stupidly angry.

Forget all these you're not whole or strong enough crap, forget about money, cos they don't care. The only thing they care most about is to get banged well.. What's my own with bang sef It's Fvck, I say fvck them well and they will love you forever even if you are headless sad

It's either you do the needful and stand a chance to revive your deceased Love or run like a coward angry
someone's wife you just referred as a hoe? undecided undecided undecided

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Weedhustler: 8:55am On Apr 18
U need to give her two dirty slap to reset her brain for saying trash.
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Muscomide: 8:56am On Apr 18
crackhaus:

You know his wife?

She fit be the wife even
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by macello4(m): 8:56am On Apr 18
teresafaith:
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it
u don't give what u did not have, nothing like frustration. Its from play u get the real atitude of a person.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nnemuka(f): 8:56am On Apr 18
Dangers of one sided story...
Tell us how you became a demon because of an accident that kept you in a place for so long.
Tell us what you keep telling her that made her say things like this to you
Abeg quit frustrating the young girl because you had an accident.
Sugar coating a story to sooth you cool cool

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by safarigirl(f): 8:57am On Apr 18
PharoahIII:
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@op I will advise you as someone who's been in that situation before. Most people giving advice have never been in that situation before so please don't listen to them, especially the useless ones asking you to sleep with her. Please secretly do a DNA test, and if you are their father then please if possible straight from the hospital whisk them away, don't even bother coming back to that house. The worst thing that can happen to a man is for a woman to take his child to someone else, if you want me to kneel down for you I will but please leave that woman otherwise ...(I will not be the one to complete the statement but a word is enough for the wise)
you may have been in a similar position, but with a different person.

No be everybody wey get body pains, dey suffer malaria, so the medication will vary.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by CyberWolf: 8:58am On Apr 18
She is probably cheating especially if she doesn’t allow you to touch her again. For her to open mouth and tell you that she there just for the kids, Oga you’re not in the picture anymore. Whatever you decide to do, good luck but remember, you’re not in the picture again.
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by v2: 9:00am On Apr 18
teresafaith:
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it

Really? You are in her mind abi?
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by GoldHorse(m): 9:01am On Apr 18
You somehow omitted an important, if not the most important, aspect of marriage.... S3X. How is it?
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Jidibia(m): 9:01am On Apr 18
Most marriages are like that and have been like that. A lot of women stay put in marriage because of their kids.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Lexusgs430: 9:01am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

Pleased you would soon be back on your feet.....

She is probably having plans or already seeing someone else, she has her mind made up.......

Best to let her go happily, than live/leave your wife/life with a frustrated wife/life.....

Goodluck...........
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Homguy(m): 9:03am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks
you need to be careful for your life bro.

Be careful of what you eat from her.

Notice most of the ladies here are subtly supporting her, when they know the truth.

Many wen have died prematurely from their wife being tired of staying in the relationship.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by freethinker01: 9:04am On Apr 18
kafulka:
She never loved you from the beginning she only married you for convenience

When one partner starts acting up like what u just stated you know he/she is already cheating

Be careful, she could send u to untimely death so she can be free from u especially if you have property that she can inherit

Many men have gone that way,and I'm a witness to that
.
Actually, she did love him just that the way women love is quite different from the way we men love.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by sonofthunder: 9:04am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks
You didn't share what happened before she made said statement.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:05am On Apr 18
Nnemuka:
Dangers of one sided story...
Tell us how you became a demon because of an accident and kept you in a place for so long
Tell us what you keep telling her that made her say things like this to you
Abeg quit frustrating the young girl because you had an accident.
Sugar coating a story to sooth you cool cool
This is harsh undecided....You aren't different from the Op

@the bolded, you may be the wife after all grin

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Martinez39: 9:05am On Apr 18
She meant it. grin

Do a paternity test on your kids. grin

It seems the future is dull. grin
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by ppogba: 9:06am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks


The moment you are married with kids, there is always the need for you not to be in haste with your decisions.

I pray this is a phase that will soon go away in your life.

But one hard fact I will tell you is, this woman has hinted you. Prepare for the worst. I pray I am wrong..

One prayer every married man should always pray is "Oh Lord, do not allow me to see the worst side of my wife". If condition warrants it and you see the worst side of your wife then, you will know that the woman you have at home is deep red but merely appearing as pink.

Best of Luck and pray like a mad prophet.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Truechic(f): 9:06am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks


This story is one sided o
What have you done to drive her to that point?
You shattered your legs and she has been carrying the home for almost four years, do you know her level of frustration.?
You say you still provide the basics etc is it all about money?
The way you sound here Oga you may not even be treating that woman respectfully & she has to vent her frustration somehow.
If she was the one in your shoes you for don dey run around dey straff anything in skirt!
Better cool down and appreciate, love & respect that woman that is sacrificing her all for you as her husband.

If she really wanted to leave she won't be there telling you that so better go back to your drawing board.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by dicksonadams(m): 9:06am On Apr 18
1, the woman is already getting bleeped outside

2, she can kill you to be rid of you

3, run... Run... Run
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by akan102: 9:07am On Apr 18
teresafaith:
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it
Naaa, I refuse to accept this, the statement is too heavy, not once but twice to allow anger triger it
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by JoshMedia: 9:07am On Apr 18
teresafaith:
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it

comradee1248, don't let people who doesn't have a home advice you!
The lady I quoted now is correct!
She didn't leave you while your treatment was tough but now you're feeling better you want to leave her?

Sir, the truth is bitter but act wisely and rightly!

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by zlantanfan: 9:08am On Apr 18
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks
Call her one on one and trash out the differences, tell her your plans and future, ask her about her specific concerns.

If its about what the future looks like you can reassure her.

If its about your predicament and shame then let her go because she really didn't love you for you

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