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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 10:12am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ebig21: D lack of sex mata na big problem! But Nairaland women dey systematically skip dah side... Dey don't wanna ask d man question about his bedroom ability after d accident.... PS ==Sips my coffee as I continue dey read comments!! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by RTSC: 10:12am On Apr 18, 2019 |
On a normal circumstances, I would ask you to take your children and leave once you are strong. But in this case, it would be a very hasty decision. She has stuck around when you were at your lowest, she deserves the benefit of the doubt that she is just frustrated. Sit with her and have a heart to heart talk with her. Give her the opportunity to bear her mind. It would tell you if the marriage is salvageable. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by munas: 10:13am On Apr 18, 2019 |
wifeesnatcher: Any small thing DNA.... Are married at all? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by 15ssDRIVE(m): 10:22am On Apr 18, 2019 |
wildikeman: Boss. There’s a Yoruba saying that. Oju lando,obo were oyato. Meaning say Na face we dae Bleep... mad woman pussy no different. Leaving one woman for another woman,don start since time immemorial. What’s the assurance say the newest Na the messiah? Marriage no dae work with money,AKA Alhaji Dangote is not married. Anthony Joshua still rocking. Na God dey partner person or else Na everyday shouting and hating. Only suru Na him fit do am. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by bobolistica(m): 10:22am On Apr 18, 2019 |
[quote author=iTearHerToto post=77621327]Was she like that when your shattered legs were still intact? If NO then answer the following ; 1. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole 2. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole 3. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole If your answers are NO then you're in for it cos she might do worse These Hoes don't joke with good sex and the moment they can't get that haahahahahahahaahahahahahaa this guy ooooo... |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 10:23am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Sally97: And you think the man is not going through things too? |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by wifeesnatcher(m): 10:24am On Apr 18, 2019 |
munas: I guess you're a Lady? If yes, you Lady are unpredictable and complicated. The nightmare anyone don't want to dream is nursing another man kids If I'm married or not, how is it your headache? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Amhappy(f): 10:24am On Apr 18, 2019 |
OkpaNsukkaisBae: Nwanne okwu gwuru m n'onu. Wetin I wan comment again. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Spain007(m): 10:26am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 10:26am On Apr 18, 2019 |
teresafaith:one of her supporter spotted |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nnemuka(f): 10:33am On Apr 18, 2019 |
sparko1:Yea she just woke up one day and started using provocative languages |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nnemuka(f): 10:36am On Apr 18, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss:If i were married to that ingrate, i wouldn't be living with him by now. Marriage is for better for good nowadays, you must not die there just to please a nagging husband. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by naturefellow(m): 10:38am On Apr 18, 2019 |
iTearHerToto:I was already in full agreement with this post until I saw your moniker, which makes me think you shouldnt be taken seriously. Comrade1248, take note! |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Amiblaize77(f): 10:39am On Apr 18, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE: The only sendible comment have read soo far , Thank you jare beta pikin |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by CHoccolaTE: 10:39am On Apr 18, 2019 |
I don't believe for one second that the Ops hands are clean. I think he did or said something to provoke that statement from his wife. Its only a mentally unstable person that will just get up after years of supporting and helping you to turn around and stop showing support when you haven't done anything to offend them. That's how these men come to Nairaland to paint their wives bad and make themselves look like angels. That's how one of them came to spoil his wife's name after she built a house in her name and refused to sign the ownership of the house to him. If not that the wife logged into Nairaland to tell her own side of the story we would have never known what happened. Sorry about your accident oo Op but I will not castigate your wife until I hear her side of the story. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by munas: 10:40am On Apr 18, 2019 |
wifeesnatcher: I am a man... Married for good 10yrs. All you single people all over Nairaland will be shouting.... i cant take that rubish.....do DNA bla bla. You have not live with a woman for 2yrs and you are giving marital advice. Almost 90% of women has said that in their marriage. But that does not in anyway mean they are cheating or they intend to cheat. They are only reacting to emotional trauma that may have arise due to pressure in the marriage. The man needs to fix the pressure pint and all will be fine. Listen: If push comes to shoves,he will lose those children to the woman till they are 18yrs 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by munas: 10:42am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Jman06: when you get married,you will know better... |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by bluefilm: 10:43am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Na wetin frustration dey cause. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by 15ssDRIVE(m): 10:44am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Amiblaize77: Thanks Dear I know say u self Na beta pikin. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Lovelyn451(f): 10:53am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Taking care of a sick person is not easy at all o, its all about the sick person..she's just frustrated 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Obodo999(m): 10:54am On Apr 18, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Why can't a woman financially support her own kids too? |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by munas: 10:55am On Apr 18, 2019 |
RTSC: Take them and leave for where? You think if they divorce,then the man will be allowed to keep the children abi? All these nairaland children self. Any little thing go away,drive her,divorce her ,do DNA....bla bla bla rubbish. Marriage is more than keeping a woman at home to Bleep as you wish. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by dicksonadams(m): 10:55am On Apr 18, 2019 |
munas: I pity people that listen to this. What you don't know is that this man can actually lose his life. him need to run for his dear life. You don't have to experience something to gain experience any more, just dig around for the outcome of similar situations. Na death of the man dey end am |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Obodo999(m): 10:56am On Apr 18, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: But you are already judging the man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by handsomeyinka(m): 11:01am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Preshy561:You are blessed......Some fathers are childish |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by LadyHeaven(f): 11:03am On Apr 18, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE: Chai, are you a man? I never knew NL men still had sense in abundance, just goes to show if the head is rotten some parts may still be as clean as ever...Op please heed this mans words There are a million and one things i am sure you didnt tell us, if we listen to your wife's side of the story i am sure many commentators would change mouth, no one knows how you treat her in return, how your family treats her, what she goes through everyday, i am 100% sure it goes deeper than what you just said here, my neighbor abandoned his wife that stood by him for 11 years when he was down (court gave her custody), he went about balling with different chicks on a daily, suddenly the illness came back in quantum, family, friends and chicks abandoned him immediately, no one could deal with his mood swings, complains and neediness so they ran, he then remembered how one woman took up his cross for him all those years, could he get her back? NO, she had moved to UK and was working as an aged care nurse and studying to be a RN, unfortunately after awhile he ****, everyone said it was karma and blamed him, sameppl who hailed and asked him to leave his wife initially. The world is two faced, NL is multi faced, ppl give opinions based on the likes they can get for savagery so take their advice carefully, if you are looking for real life advice go to Quora or Reddit support groups, Life is not easy but what we give is what we would receive. Cheers 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 11:03am On Apr 18, 2019 |
lefulefu:You soak head for groundnut oil this morning abi? Husband and wife quarrel all the time and you think because words were exchanged then she is cheating? So he didnt say anything and the woman just said that because she is mad ni? Let him divorce her na, i Sorry for women when still they fear divorce for this century. He said he will leave with the children? I will drag you to court and fight for custordy. Have they not been quarreling since he had the accident? But na now when he is almost better that he wants to leave, why not leave since? Cause he needs the woman but now making excuses. Divorce her and let her go and live her life, obviously she is Tired of you also 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by meekparagon(m): 11:03am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Honestly, this must be one of the worst statement that could ever come's out of a woman's mouth to her husband. Due to your post: she told you the same statement twice, and my question are, 1. Was it that she told you firstly b4 your accident and later renounced it after your accident. If so, be wise man okay. I hold up |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Chuksyno(m): 11:05am On Apr 18, 2019 |
It is not new op. I got married since 2011. Believe me when I tell you that most family women are like your wife and my wife isn't exceptional. Women respect and adore their husband alot when their husbands are too active on family responsibilities, forget " for better for worse" stuff. The op's wife is frustrated and she is running out of patience and it's a clear signal for the op to understand how women behaves. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Judybash93(m): 11:07am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Sally97:I would have also advised him to subscribe to your idea if not for my experience with women. They can't be reasoned with, believe me, they don't expect you to sit them down so as to trash things out... They'll rather expect you to take matters into your own hands and then take control. If the man hasn't done anything outrightly wrong, then i think it's time for both of them to either seek professional help or go their separate ways. There's no need to stay in a toxic relationship. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Vyolet(f): 11:17am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Ungrateful man, a woman you ought to worship is who you are thinking of divorcing and leaving with her kids. She endured all your pains, frustrations, bickering's, needless needs all these while, all your provocations inclusive and you are here yearning dust. You should get your woman back, reassure her of your love for her, listen to her worries and stop making everything be about you for once. She needs to be pampered, it is only your leg that is broken, not your hands neither is it your heart. How is your personal hygiene? Do you take care of your body? Do you still smell good, take care of your mouth and all? You can't depend on her for these ones too can you? If it is about sex, you can please her with your tongue and fingers, you can make her ride you, you can even get a vibrator to spice things up, get down and make her feel great and come back and tell me if she will still open her mouth to say that statement. Little things to keep marriage together, you guys cannot do it, every small thing, DIVORCE, haba. 1 Like |
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