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Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:59pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
MiaB: I agree with you. All you need do is call your wonderful and hard working mum, not in your brother's presence though and let her realize the lie the guy is living. Thereafter, wait for a feedback from your mum. What's the girl also doing fir a living? She can't become a leech on the woman too. Think ahead of what other thing that brother of yours can do to add to his present job, or a new one outright. All the best. Never allow the situation to become a tug of war between you and your brother! |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by CORRECTMAN788: 8:00pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
You had better allow your mum to give help to anyone among you she chooses. Shun the shit you are feeling now, because you are already hating and envying your brother. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by BENEFICIAL12(m): 8:00pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
LET ME COME AND BE GOING BEFORE MY MTN FREE 10MB WILL FINISH |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by afrika4real(m): 8:02pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Aplaudez:you are in your mid twenty so you are not too young to start your home as well. Go and marry 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by SexynSerious(f): 8:03pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Word. I have noticed the same thing myself. Mrkumareze: |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Bakpeacb(m): 8:06pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Dear friend, Please this matter is domestic in nature but since you have this facts concerning his source of income, your mother should call him to order and you guys,should talk about it... #JustSayingMyMind. |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Mizwisdom(f): 8:07pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Aplaudez: You're just in your mid twenties means you can't work? even teens are working and fending for themselves talkless of mid twenties you and your brother are not making your mum happy 3 Likes |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Ozzypen(m): 8:10pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Persuade your mother to stop rendering financial support to him. The truth is your mother is not helping him at all because he is being childish by asking your mom for money |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by DanEmakoji(m): 8:10pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Is his(your) mum complaining? |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by vivalavida(m): 8:11pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
[quote author=Rexology post=77796285][/quote] Well said |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by vivalavida(m): 8:13pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Gforce2019: U no well I swear lmao |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Guyman02: 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Eze2000: You have spoken like an experienced elder. Coming between mum and her first son will not end well for him, he is her light and his condition worries her and she will be praying that it gets better. Despite losing your parents at an early age, you will still feel the presence of mum as a first son time to time and believe that the prayers she offered on your behalf as protecting and guiding you and your siblings, that's the kind of bond he doesn't understand. Kudos sir. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Mindlesskid: 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Cheredeux: Seriously this guy is in need of advice not English teacher. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by IdreamOfUnicorn(f): 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
SexynSerious:I'm good thanks, you ain't female? |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by lilianofentse(f): 8:17pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
iTearHerToto:after snubbing my mentions today you finally responded. Or maybe i don't spell your moniker right. Why the wrong use of emoji |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Beface(m): 8:17pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
StarUp:To drain the parent of their money through sickness or accident and not through joblessness, right? I believe in spell but if you ask me I would say the guy does not have a job because their are millions of jobless people in Nigeria (although God can do wonders). And the mother have a benevolent heart,hence we could say the guy is taken advantage of that. The woman can choose to or not to give her son. That is why I believe mummy is not under spell. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by SexynSerious(f): 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
all femme, my dear. just as friends … nothing naughty IdreamOfUnicorn: |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by RealityShot: 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
iTearHerToto:shut that your trap! You think that is an isolated case ba? I have a similar case. All these first born males of our generation are very lazy! Waiting to Acquire property like they have leprosy and can't work! Mtchewww! If you hear My own what will you say then? How much you Wan contribute self.. Mtchewww The young man said, the thing is affecting his mom negatively despite her good job, but you no read that side. Pst! |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by lilianofentse(f): 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
iTearHerToto:i missed you. But truly are you SmellySperm |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Glycosunde: 8:20pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Op u can look for something to do n also help your brother to get a job if u can. It is not easy to be jobless n be asking n begging 4 money from anybody. I know how u feel but take it easy so dat it will not cause enmity btw u guys 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Naanlong01: 8:20pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
yesloaded:Honestly, that's if he sees things from this angle or else it won't make a single sense to him. Youths (majority) are increasingly becoming lazy and less active when it comes to taking charge of their own life, they don't understand the abundant joy that accompanies bein able to pay your own bills by yourself even when you have willing and able parents to do that for you especially when you attain the mark 20. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by IdreamOfUnicorn(f): 8:20pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
SexynSerious:oh no worries just checking, hope you're good |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Sanchez01: 8:20pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
KingSatan:You should see a psychologist. |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Lastanza: 8:20pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
My advice to you is this, 1. Tell ur mother that she is not helping him by taking the whole burden off ur brother. That she is rather aiding his joblessness and unseriousness by what she is doing. Any man that takes a woman home in marriage should be able to cater for his family. Mum and relatives can support when he has issues but not being totally dependent. She should encourage him strongly to find something doing. 2. Let her know the consequences of neglecting the need for care and attention for her other children because her supposed first son brought home a woman he is not ready to cater for. |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by SexynSerious(f): 8:21pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by okpanachipeter: 8:21pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
And how is that suppose to be your concern? The woman who gave birth to you is also your elder brother's mother. You are only envying the lady impregnated by your brother. I advise you mind your business before your elder brother will realise your role and give you the lesson of your life. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by abbasajao(m): 8:22pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Must you expose and bring your family issue here. This is social media for God sake. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Omonigeriarere: 8:22pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Aplaudez: I just pray for you not to experience such when you are married. But the truth is that marriage consumes a lot of finance to the extent that over 80% of the employed ones struggle to match. Go and double you hustling bro, your mum cannot meet her own personal need not to talk of the needs of you guys. The earlier you realize this, the better. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by pek(m): 8:25pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
iTearHerToto:comments like this makes me wish for the dislike button. |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Daisy17: 8:25pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
StarUp: Rubbish |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Fhemmmy: 8:25pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
To start with: 1. Your Mom has the right to spend her money whichever way she want 2. At mid 20s, you are old enough to take care of yourself too and get your nose off how Mama spend her money, at the rate at which you are going too, you might end up depending on your mother 3. Your brother is not jobless because you said, he is managing at hotel 4. Your sister in law has a job and i am sure they can all be OK, if they manage their home and finances well But my advice to you is, mind your own business and get off the back of your MOM 2 Likes |
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