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fatpogba7:
Hi Hardon,

First time posting here,I and my babe have dating for a while ,she's a virgin my issue is how do i shift from various sex chat,kisses and etc to the main act ,she's the scared type,she wants it too but she very scared due her background and stuffs .kindly help

Goterry0123:
Do you talk about sex in Person or Only via Chat?

fatpogba7:
Via chat 80% of the time

majormofor:
Your matter Don enter dustbin already!!!!!...if you read this pages from the beginning,you will get to find out you don't tell girls you love them.... Oya to page 1,you go.... else you go wait tire o

Goterry0123:
No help for you dude. You go about preaching love like a peacock on heat.

Now you are trying to convince her on how much you love her, instead of her working her Ass out to show you she is a gf material.

At times we Win some, few Times we lose some.

Let her GO.

But how did you get her number?

Dammyofficial:
Thanks bro

After reading this thread from page 1, I realized my mistakes.


For the question you asked : I got the number from her

fatpogba7:
Hi Hardon,

First time posting here,I and my babe have dating for a while ,she's a virgin my issue is how do i shift from various sex chat,kisses and etc to the main act ,she's the scared type,she wants it too but she very scared due her background and stuffs .kindly help

lakesidepapa:
Her mind and her intention is what I need to know, Im still learning the ropes and the game as I have a lot of things at hand... So I haven't catch up properly...

After relocating me from the sit i was sitting to another sit by the exam invigilator,There's this extremely beautiful girl that sat at the back of my sit that i was relocated to during exam today, actually I was overloaded and couldn't remember most of what I have red, as I was trying to solve the solution,this chick called me and asked if we are doing the same course and I said yes, she sharply related with me and started giving me some answers without even asking her then I began to recall all what I have red, the girl really showed kindness and readiness to help me amidst the hard-faced invigilators..., she even tried to recall and explained some clue to me as it's in the handout inorder to recall what I have red, I also gave her some clue thou but she showed the readiness most as if we have knw each other before..
She left the exam hall before me, I began to look for this girl around the school premises after the paper is done amd dusted but I couldn't see her, she later sighted and called me with a slightly smile on her face, I called her to come over to where im, she asked about the exam and I replied "it was fine" *I asked if she has paper on Monday and she replied yes* "two papers* she talked very fast and seems to do the boss thing as she was just eager to leave as she saw im leaving the school for somewhere else, I asked we will see on monday, she said okay and I zoomed away..

I need some evaluation on this chick my Ogas.
Thanks

HARDDON et.al

fatpogba7:
Hi Hardon,

First time posting here,I and my babe have dating for a while ,she's a virgin my issue is how do i shift from various sex chat,kisses and etc to the main act ,she's the scared type,she wants it too but she very scared due her background and stuffs .kindly help

shadeyinka:
Why do you hate her this much?

She's a virgin right!? After you sleep with her what does she become? Can she be restored back?

So after you have slept with her, what advantage does it confer on her?

If either of you decide to end the relationship for any reason, who is the looser?

There is difference between LUST and LOVE!

Saneesk:
how do I woo a girl I've never met but I got her contact
so we could chat I wanna nail everything dats y I'm posting
it here.pls in details how I start though she doesn't know
me and I really luv her

harddon
n co. PLs help

Saneesk:
how do I woo a girl I've never met but I got her contact
so we could chat I wanna nail everything dats y I'm posting
it here.pls in details how I start though she doesn't know
me and I really luv her

harddon
n co. PLs help

jackals:
I can see harddon himself viewing this thread. Harddon,how about drills for we ladies too. We need it

Between, won't be that bad knowing you off here,what you think?

Note; I am not asking you out oooooo

HARDDON:
To help u take control of your emotions, u have to learn how to turn down ladies. start by the little things;
turn down that airtime request from that your crush, turn down that ur course mate/colleague lunch request, turn down that outing request, however u may, but subtly, funnily and cockily.

SENSE PILL 1b : for once, have d balls to be brave, be YOU and do things because you want to do them not because they cajole u to!
dont be fooled ladies know exactly what they are doing when they go demanding for things they dont even need and airtime they wud never call you with( this is how mugus and magas are made, this is where friendzoning begins) , it is your duty to fashion responses to deflect their demands and hold your sway.

Bae: babes could you u help me get that over there?
YOU: yea sure, after i'm done with this game..or you can say sure, if only u beat me in this game....we know that game isnt ending soon nor can she beat u, she wud be forced to go get it her self (subtle but very effective).

slowly u grow in this game: from subtle refusal to outright funny ones. the only time u wud master this act is when bae starts touching u, u respond, then when every one is steamy, all cloths off and she launches for ur weapon, remove her hand, she wud try again, remove it still, after the 4th time she tries u can let her, i can bet you it wud be explosive! dont ask me why

then be man enough to turn her outright down one day!

i'm not really in the mood to get down tonight B, just want us to cuddle and kiss thereafter we sleep! she wud try her best but if you can stand your ground, you wud have passed this great test. she wudnt bliv it that a guy can turn her down with his hardness and her wetness! she might act funny thereafter, ignore it..... She knows u r becoming a Man!

the ultimate test in this self control drill is this:

try and hook a new catch, after the 1st - 3rd hang outs, they usually feel comfortable, wanting to come know ur place because you have been deflecting all talks away from where u stay( we wud talk more about this soon. it is a perfect way to have any lady BEG to come know your place instead of you begging to have her over as u have been doing and she has been refusing because she knows what your plans are already! )

so lets say you finally agreed to have her over, and after all said and done, reggae turned blues and u guys are on each other, cloths flying with supersonic speed off your bodies as u kiss( more on this in DRILL NUGGET 3) passionately in anticipation of a sumptuous session,
then just as she pulls u over and want u inside of her, u pull away, sit on the bed for a while thinking, then after a brief moment, pick your boxers and start wearing it! she wud be wondering what is happening, tell her u just lost it, that you gtg now. she wud cajole, implore, seduce and do all possible to have you, DONT YOU YEILD! remember this is a test! and to help you scale tru, always remember it your final test. wear your cloths, apologize and hit the street. u wud literally murder her with thots like : is it that he has a gurl friend and doesnt wano cheat on her? or is my kini smelly like that of that blogger? stretch marks on my laps? or is he impotent? cudnt B because i touched his hard Jrod..... is there something i did wrong? ...... if only she knew....

yea i know, it is not fair to do this to any lady, but sit back and ask yourself, is it fair to do this to a guy? Ladies do this to guys all the time that is why they have mastered the act of staying on top of their game, and only let in guys they really want into their web, and for you to master your act also, this you must learn to do, not with one, but as often as u can,,,,,u wud bcome a master in no time, Jrod wud learn its place and then cease to control you.

jackals:
I can see harddon himself viewing this thread. Harddon,how about drills for we ladies too. We need it

Between, won't be that bad knowing you off here,what you think?

Note; I am not asking you out oooooo

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 1B

WHY ARE NICE GUYS BORING?

Cos they have no Life of their own! they put the happiness of ladies above theirs and let Jrod and emotions rule them at will!

and as the Ladies would put it: they are just too PREDICTABLE!

Telvin7:
Mrs prider.....
Go ubunja thread .......

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 2:

HOW TO APPROACH LADIES( THE VERY BEST, YOU GOT TO HAVE STANDARDS NOW),
GET THE NUMBER AND GET OUT( WITHIN 5MINS)

To start off, we would like to advise: for now, your aim is to try and build your confidence, douse tension and expunge the fear factor first; let's make friends instead looking for mating dates.
D

SENSE PILL 3: Go with FRIENDS making ATTITUDE NOT DATING/MATING one.

have it at the back of your mind that for every lady u meet from now henceforth, you wud be genuinely interested in meeting them and making NEW FRIENDS not the boo0bs and down below.


Reason for this is that when you go with a dating attitude,
it breeds tension, which sometimes breeds stuttering, oozing off of needy personality( doing all to please her ) , losing your respect and self worth and ultimately losing her. or you get friendzoned or turned into a mugu( this usually happens when she senses u can do anything to please her but she doesn't really like u, just ur cash).


and if peradventure she rejects you, talks down on u and embarrasses u in public( never experienced that,How can u also? Armed with fun n quick wit?), u wud handle it like a man should and not let it make u withdraw into ur sheLL from d world of women



Meeting a lady with just friendship attitude, removes the tension, u are more likely to be u and in full control of the convo and how it swings, throw in wit and kill it off with humour. by this, you learn to be more relaxed around the super hot ladies, fear factor is blown out and u get to realize them hawt ladies luv to meet guys as much as guys luv to meet them, just that they have filters you must get tru b4 they shine tru

a practiced hunter is frigid with his weapon, he aims and takes out targets( no matter how far) but to get to that peek of perfection, one thing is most needed; practice. he wud miss alot of great kills while at it, but if he keeps his head down, and learn his trade, Experience wud be his life long anchor.
R
Remember, the monkey earn his right to life, by humping from one tree to the other.


So first learn to crawl( make friends) b4 you dare to fly( mate dates)



go out and meet ladies, whether they appeal to you or not, just poke some fun and walk on by while she laughs loudest. build your confidence, then u begin to get selective and only approach the super hawt ones as your balls grow and you learn to think more funly on you feet!

temi4fash:
Boss man
Why dont you take things and don't over push stuffs

jackals:
Why yiu so sturbborn. is et ur pride

Telvin7:
Mrs prider
Am not stubborn unless I activate it and ur keyboard needs servicing coz it's dead

jackals:
How do u know

Themhi1:
ubunja ceeroh lilwetdick davidthegeek
kollinzgee nd co pls help me out.

I hv decided not to go into any form of dating becos of many heart breaks.

I have never had sex before and I don't know how to chat with a girl about sex, I was known to be a good and nice guy.

I don't want to be a good or nice guy any more, I want to be a bad guy /player for a short period.

Pls how can I chat a girl I just wanna have sex with, I got some hot chicks but afraid of chatting them up about sex.

Pls help a brother.
Thanks to all the bosses here.

lilwetdick:
pls stop trolling..how does a man understands and knows the feeling of heartbreak if he hasn't been in a relationship before

Themhi1:
I have been.
But not about sex