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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 8:32am On Apr 12
IronPants:
Gurus in the house, I want you guys to say something about this whole going out on a date thing that started with Gaspardd's thread

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As a real G, how do you handle such a situation? Do you go in and start spending recklessly? Or as a G who can never lose his balls to a girl, you stand your ground and not impress her by spending like a maga?
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Cc Harddon
Kollinzgee
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Make una say something abeg.





Read the thread from the beginning to page 30@least.....

you don't go on a date with women, let them come and hang out with you @ur convenient time..The phrase answers all other question like spend at ur convenient time not to impress one she-
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MJBOLT(m): 8:33am On Apr 12
stop disturbing her with calls and start reading this thread from page 1

louisobire7:
Hello.

There's this girl I have been dating for about 2 months now, I must confess I really love her but her... sudden change is really pushing me away... I feel like calling everything a quit...
it all started when she asked me for money to make her hair which I told her I don't have at the moment.. that she should use the one she intend using for something else, that I was going to give her back once I have the money...but giving her the money back is not the issue but she just changed completely as she no longer picks my calls on time I'll have to call her multiple times before she picks and when she picks up she would be like...yes.. ok ooo.. I have heard you all sort of simple and short answer.. she even behaves as if I irritate her...now. She does not even call me. Only flash and I'll call her back.. just because of the money I Promised to give her. And I am yet to give her after about 3 weeks, I only want to see her reaction...

Guy please I need your advice on what to do....
Thanks...

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MJBOLT(m): 8:37am On Apr 12
spending recklessly on a date just to impress a girl is foolish

IronPants:
Gurus in the house, I want you guys to say something about this whole going out on a date thing that started with Gaspardd's thread

.
As a real G, how do you handle such a situation? Do you go in and start spending recklessly? Or as a G who can never lose his balls to a girl, you stand your ground and not impress her by spending like a maga?
.
Cc Harddon
Kollinzgee
.
Make una say something abeg.




Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Pharmtj: 2:33pm On Apr 14
MJBOLT:
stop disturbing her with calls and start reading this thread from page 1

guy I was once like u, this is what u will do, just ignore the babe and meet new quality chicks,life is just too beautiful to start worrying yourself over a girl.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MJBOLT(m): 2:35pm On Apr 14
Pharmtj:
guy I was once like u, this is what u will do, just ignore the babe and meet new quality chicks,life is just too beautiful to start worrying yourself over a girl.

Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Pharmtj: 2:39pm On Apr 14
[quote author=MJBOLT post=77534012][/quote]?why u da look me like that,hahaha, na ironpant I wan quote bare,error. Your baby is cute
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 606thearena: 12:55am On Apr 15
Baba Harddon you tight
Your drills life changing
They work like magic never knew my game was wack untill I came across your thread.
Thanks harddorn twuale for you

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 6:06pm On Apr 15
I am starting to get my balls back

I saw a pretty specimen as I was rushing to the bank to cash a cheque, the cheque suddenly lost importance as I trailed her till she got into an eatery, I decided that it was not prudent to discuss with her as she joined the queue, so I found myself a seat in the eatery and waited for her to order and walk out.


After she did, I followed her, then walked up to her and told her that I walked out of my car to cash a cheque when my eyes got fixated on you, and I had not choice but to strike up a convo with you, I can see you are rushing back to work, can I have your number so we can see another time, so she asked for my phone to give me same, I got it, dialed her to confirm the number and off I went.


I felt a serious need to do this because all along I have this in-built fear not to approach a girl, but of the people watching me, so this is a necessary exercise to kill the self consciousness that has been instilled in me from youth.

I will keep practicing till it is natural.

What is my score over 10?

I know that it is wrong to call the next day, so I plan to call over the weekend currently at drill page 77

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 9:10pm On Apr 15
olaboy1:
One of the biggest problems I have noticed from my friends I hang out with who look alpha in physique is that many of the cute dab guys have approach anxiety sadly, and it makes me feel sorry for them. I am above 30 and I conquered approach anxiety I think when I was 16 or 17.

I did this by going out a lot back then to talk to random girls even before I discovered game and the drills.

So it's hard to play sendless drill without your ability to be able to approach other girls.


I would say first go out and fix your approach anxiety if you have any.


Currently trying to resolve approach anxiety as described above
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by GOLDENWOLF(m): 10:52am On Apr 17
Oga harddon, please I need your help. There's the girl I want to Bleep at my area. We talk, gist and all. I really want to fvck this girl though I don't act thirsty before her. How do I get flirty and get in her panties. Thanks bro.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 3:30pm On Apr 17
GOLDENWOLF:
Oga harddon, please I need your help. There's the girl I want to Bleep at my area. We talk, gist and all. I really want to fvck this girl though I don't act thirsty before her. How do I get flirty and get in her panties. Thanks bro.
Tell her she's looking good but she's not ur ducked, she's not someone you can Bleep

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by GOLDENWOLF(m): 6:09pm On Apr 22
majormofor:

Tell her she's looking good but she's not ur ducked, she's not someone you can Bleep

Why did you say she's not someone I can fuckkkk
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by suckmywilly(m): 1:50am On Apr 24
Pls boses in the house help: there is this girl I met about a month ago and we started talking mostly via chat. I have deployed techniques from this thread and she is responding well. But I realised that I always start the conversation, except once, when she chatted me up to check up on me because I was not online that day. I teased her that she must have missed me really bad, but she said nope. If I initiate a conversation she will respond very well, even ask me questions about myself. Now I don't know what to do cause I'm tired of always initiating conversation abeg what do I do?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by banjicom(m): 10:31am On Apr 24
suckmywilly:
Pls boses in the house help: there is this girl I met about a month ago and we started talking mostly via chat. I have deployed techniques from this thread and she is responding well. But I realised that I always start the conversation, except once, when she chatted me up to check up on me because I was not online that day. I teased her that she must have missed me really bad, but she said nope. If I initiate a conversation she will respond very well, even ask me questions about myself. Now I don't know what to do cause I'm tired of always initiating conversation abeg what do I do?

If she doesn't initiate a conversation you too don't initiate! is it by force for you to chat first? Leave her until she chat you up even if it takes a month and if she ask you questions, tell her you have been busy with work and besides you also have other beautiful girls in your life who are making you happy. Learn to create some value for yourself bro.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by EngrMilly(m): 11:54am On Apr 24
lolzz.. Banji Com and chop knuckle
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 12:51am On Apr 25
Most  instances of The Friend Zone can easily be avoided, but it requires a willingness to take risks. Getting stuck in The Friend Zone is almost always the result of playing things too safe; it’s the end result of being too passive and too unwilling to put yourself out there in such a way that you couldn’t possibly be misinterpreted.

In short: you acted too much like a friend and not enough like a lover.

It’s an easy trap to fall into; many nerds assume that the best way into a woman’s heart is to be a nice guy and act like her new BFF. They make a point of being available at all hours, they want to talk every day about everything and nothing, they want to hang out all the time. This is friend behavior; the same behavior, when mapped onto a potential suitor1, would scream needy and no life whatsoever. Not only is this unattractive behavior in a potential lover, it’s misleading and will inevitably cause a misunderstanding of intent. When your behavior is incongruous with your intentions, it’s very easy to round down to friend rather than up to lover.

If you’re interested in wooing somebody, you need to be willing to be unavailable at times. This means not leaping to the phone as soon as you see your crush’s number flash on the caller ID screen; you can text her or call her back later. It means not dropping all your plans just because they called you up and suggested getting together – tell her that you can’t make it today but (and this is critical) you are free this other day and you would love to see her then. Keep in mind however: this does not mean playing games out of “The Rules” – you’re not making poo up just to keep the supposed “upper hand” in the relationship by being artificially unavailable, you’re just establishing that you have your own life and you’re busy living it.

By the way, don’t get me wrong: this is not to say that you can’t be friends with someone you’re attracted to or want to have more than just friendship with. Friendship and attraction are not antithetical binary states where you can only be a friend or interested in somebody with nothing between them. However, there are decided differences in behavior when you’re offering someone a platonic friendship and when you’re letting them know that you are interested to them as being more than friends. Part of avoiding the Friend Zone means knowing the difference and, critically, making sure that you’re not sending out the wrong signals.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by jackals(f): 6:29pm On Apr 25
Out of Inquisition, I finished this drills even tho I don't need it as a woman. Harddon, you're the typical alpha male I do read and fantasize about in Novels. How I wish guys understand what You're preaching and the essence of this drill. Do you have any E-material you write by yourself, that I can buy for Boo? I want his rebirth,Lols. the touch of an alpha man can never be outta place ,you know

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by joeeee240(m): 2:36pm On Apr 26
jackals:
Out of Inquisition, I finished this drills even tho I don't need it as a woman. Harddon, you're the typical alpha male I do read and fantasize about in Novels. How I wish guys understand what You're preaching and the essence of this drill. Do you have any E-material you write by yourself, that I can buy for Boo? I want his rebirth,Lols. the touch of an alpha man can never be outta place ,you know
Please tell me the names of the novels you read
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MUSACALLY(m): 7:10am On Apr 28
Oga Hardon
Please how can I pass a girls test. When she asks me a question like "why do you call me" "why should I save your number" "why do you like me" and so many others.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nastydroid(m): 10:48am On Apr 28
MUSACALLY:
Oga Hardon
Please how can I pass a girls test. When she asks me a question like "why do you call me" "why should I save your number" "why do you like me" and so many others.
sense of humour is the way out wink
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Drinkwater06: 8:08am On May 04
Hello HardDon,

There's this girl that's apparently interested in me but not ready to say it. She would text and text all day asking all sorts of questions. Lately she started asking me to gist her. When I ask her about what, she would say anything. I seldom try to make her be precise, she'd still insist on anything.

What gist do you think I can start bombarding her with?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nastydroid(m): 8:19am On May 04
Drinkwater06:
tell bike to take you to page 1... don't thank me angry
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:02am On May 04
Drinkwater06:
Hello HardDon,

There's this girl that's apparently interested in me but not ready to say it. She would text and text all day asking all sorts of questions. Lately she started asking me to gist her. When I ask her about what, she would say anything. I seldom try to make her be precise, she'd still insist on anything.

What gist do you think I can start bombarding her with?

Even though I'd still end this piece by referring you back to the beginning of this thread, let me punch on the liberty button and address this magnanimous piece of IGNORANCE that men always display ( refer to the Emphasized above)

When a female is concerned,
God created Man(you) to lead. To direct. To show the way. To be a step higher on the knowledge bank. To always have cool/crazy/fun answers. To dazzle her.

A true man feels WORK and in essence money solves most if not all of his problem. Because work was here before he was created. He would always wano work. Look up to work to solves his issues.


on the other hand, the first thing a woman met was Man. Therefore, it is only natural, giving that he was here before her and supposedly have more earthly experience, for her to look up to him for direction and answers.

Hence he would always be faced with questions like; "What do you think? " What should we have? It this nice? Do you like my hair? What should I prepare? Etc

Hungry? Yes. Ask her what she would love to eat and she says she doesn't know because she expects you to make a choice for her.
Or she would say she would have whatever you are having.

You: Babes, I'm at the shopping mall, what should I get for you?....
Her: anything cheesy


Her: Tell me something
You: about what?
Her: Anything.


Here is the IGNORANCE gist:

She can't be looking up to you and you turn around and look up to her. She can't be seeking direction from you that is supposed to BE IN THE KNOW and you turn around and instead of providing direction, start talking like someone that doesn't KNOW.

That is just super DUMB. However, in the world over, that is how most men behave! DUMB.
Just like good looks can help a lady hook up a man but only character can keep him, so also Money can attract a lady but only wit and wisdom and the knowledge spread across these pages can keep her from friendzoning you, turning you to a maga or mugu.( bf or husby, notwithstanding)

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:23am On May 04
HARDDON:


Even though I'd still end this piece by referring you back to the beginning of this thread, let me punch on the liberty button and address this magnanimous piece of IGNORANCE that men always display ( refer to the Emphasized above)

When a female is concerned,
God created Man(you) to lead. To direct. To show the way. To be a step higher on the knowledge bank. To always have cool/crazy/fun answers. To dazzle her.

A true man feels WORK and in essence money solves most if not all of his problem. Because work was here before he was created. He would always wano work. Look up to work to solves his issues.


on the other hand, the first thing a woman met was Man. Therefore, it is only natural, giving that he was here before her and supposedly have more earthly experience, for her to look up to him for direction and answers.

Hence he would always be faced with questions like; "What do you think? " What should we have? It this nice? Do you like my hair? What should I prepare? Etc

Hungry? Yes. Ask her what she would love to eat and she says she doesn't know because she expects you to make a choice for her.
Or she would say she would have whatever you are having.

You: Babes, I'm at the shopping mall, what should I get for you?....
Her: anything cheesy


Her: Tell me something
You: about what?
Her: Anything.


Here is the IGNORANCE gist:

She can't be looking up to you and you turn around and look up to her. She can't be seeking direction from you that is supposed to BE IN THE KNOW and you turn around and instead of providing direction, start talking like someone that doesn't KNOW.

That is just super DUMB. However, in the world over, that is how most men behave! DUMB.
Just like good looks can help a lady hook up a man but only character can keep him, so also Money can attract a lady but only wit and wisdom and the knowledge spread across these pages can keep her from friendzoning you, turning you to a maga or mugu.( bf or husby, notwithstanding)

So Guys, when next you are faced with these direction/answers seeking questions from ladies, have some freaking fun answers ! And stop "DUMBING" up. Stripping our royal balls of all its colours, gait and glory.

Drinkwster06, she has been presenting you with opportunities to wow her world and take her mind on a royal spin but like a drenched dock, you have been docking angry

Just take a look at these fun pills:

Her: gist me
Me: first you have to promise me you wouldn't fall DEPPER in love with me than you already have.

Whatever she says, tell her a story of how two female friends classmates/colleagues have been drooling over you and beefing themselves but none has been bold enough to tell you their feelings. How u heard it from another of their friends.....

Whatever story you choose to tell her, real or imagined, should drive home the point that you got BALLS or lota ladies are on the roll call or sendless or some other stories that can blow up your value in her mind and alter her thinking process about u forever!

SENSE PILL:

A hunter who does not know how to bring a prey in his trap home for.... should kindly take up skating as a hobby; Roll, Fall, rise. No mental stress.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by monerozi5590(m): 11:42am On May 04
HARDDON:


So Guys, when next you are faced with these direction/answers seeking questions from ladies, have some freaking fun answers ! And stop "DUMBING" up. Stripping our royal balls of all its colours, gait and glory.

Drinkwster06, she has been presenting you with opportunities to wow her world and take her mind on a royal spin but like a drenched dock, you have been docking angry

Just take a look at these fun pills:

Her: gist me
Me: first you have to promise me you wouldn't fall DEPPER in love with me than you already have.

Whatever she says, tell her a story of how two female friends classmates/colleagues have been drooling over you and beefing themselves but none has been bold enough to tell you their feelings. How u heard it from another of their friends.....

Whatever story you choose to tell her, real or imagined, should drive home the point that you got BALLS or lota ladies are on the roll call or sendless or some other stories that can blow up your value in her mind and alter her thinking process about u forever!

SENSE PILL:

A hunter who does not know how to bring a prey in his trap home for.... should kindly take up skating as a hobby; Roll, Fall, rise. No mental stress.



Boss.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Drinkwater06: 12:45pm On May 04
HARDDON:


So Guys, when next you are faced with these direction/answers seeking questions from ladies, have some freaking fun answers ! And stop "DUMBING" up. Stripping our royal balls of all its colours, gait and glory.

Drinkwster06, she has been presenting you with opportunities to wow her world and take her mind on a royal spin but like a drenched dock, you have been docking angry

Just take a look at these fun pills:

Her: gist me
Me: first you have to promise me you wouldn't fall DEPPER in love with me than you already have.

Whatever she says, tell her a story of how two female friends classmates/colleagues have been drooling over you and beefing themselves but none has been bold enough to tell you their feelings. How u heard it from another of their friends.....

Whatever story you choose to tell her, real or imagined, should drive home the point that you got BALLS or lota ladies are on the roll call or sendless or some other stories that can blow up your value in her mind and alter her thinking process about u forever!

SENSE PILL:

A hunter who does not know how to bring a prey in his trap home for.... should kindly take up skating as a hobby; Roll, Fall, rise. No mental stress.

This is so succinct and I've gotten even more than what I needed. Thank you.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Dammyofficial(m): 1:08pm On May 04
There is this girl that I've been eyeing for a long time in my hometown, got her number and we have been chatting for a week now..

although am currently not in my hometown, I decided to let her know how I feel about her yesterday but she said I'm too late already,.. I tried to let her know how much I love her but she was just saying OK OK....I've not called or chat her since yesterday cuz I don't know how to convince her.

I'm kind of confused now cuz i really like the girl.

Bosses in the house abeg reason my matter

HARDON
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Goterry0123: 1:26pm On May 04
Dammyofficial:
There is this girl that I've been eyeing for a long time in my hometown, got her number and we have been chatting for a week now..

although am currently not in my hometown, I decided to let her know how I feel about her yesterday but she said I'm too late already,.. I tried to let her know how much I love her but she was just saying OK OK....I've not called or chat her since yesterday cuz I don't know how to convince her.

I'm kind of confused now cuz i really like the girl.

Bosses in the house abeg reason my matter

HARDON

No help for you dude. You go about preaching love like a peacock on heat.

Now you are trying to convince her on how much you love her, instead of her working her Ass out to show you she is a gf material.

At times we Win some, few Times we lose some.

Let her GO.

But how did you get her number?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 1:39pm On May 04
Dammyofficial:
There is this girl that I've been eyeing for a long time in my hometown, got her number and we have been chatting for a week now..

although am currently not in my hometown, I decided to let her know how I feel about her yesterday but she said I'm too late already,.. I tried to let her know how much I love her but she was just saying OK OK....I've not called or chat her since yesterday cuz I don't know how to convince her.

I'm kind of confused now cuz i really like the girl.

Bosses in the house abeg reason my matter

HARDON



Your matter Don enter dustbin already!!!!!...if you read this pages from the beginning,you will get to find out you don't tell girls you love them.... Oya to page 1,you go.... else you go wait tire o

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Lynette2cute(f): 2:00pm On May 04
Please guys, I know it's a wrong thread to post but I really need assistance. Please who knows a female on the island that I can squat with for a month?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fatpogba7(m): 3:02pm On May 04
Hi Hardon,

First time posting here,I and my babe have dating for a while ,she's a virgin my issue is how do i shift from various sex chat,kisses and etc to the main act ,she's the scared type,she wants it too but she very scared due her background and stuffs .kindly help

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