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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:40pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:
And that feeds your egoist appetite.
that feeds my dick
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Korllami007: 2:42pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.
When the Op stopped calling the girl, the girl realised that she has lost one of the guys that has been given her attention. So, she had to call him after some months and check on one of her attention givers. I'm pretty sure the girl would have been waiting for the Op's call within the period of the time he stopped calling her.
Girls always feel on top of the world when guys start giving them too much attention, and this where pride will set in. Even if a girl is into you and you give her a lot of attentions and start worshiping her, especially most of our girls from Africa, my brother, she won't reciprocate 2% of what you're doing for her. She don get your mumu button be that. She will start toying with you and start using your head to play ludo.

If guys can withdraw the attentions they give most girls, they will become useless and become humble.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 2:45pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you
For pie's sake what kinda people have you been dealing with? I mean,how can you put someone in a box and only refer to em when it suits you and it somehow increases their desire for you? I don't get how that works...
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 2:49pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
that feeds my dick
Cheers to the end point of it all. undecided lipsrsealed
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:50pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:
For pie's sake what kinda people have you been dealing with? I mean,how can you put someone in a box and only refer to em when it suits you and it somehow increases their desire for you? I don't get how that works...
I also don't get how it works. But it works like clockwork
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Newguyhere: 2:53pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
the best way to fail with women is to be perfect. Men don't get that logic. Because it's not logic. It's female logic. Which is always backward and reverse and upside down. The things that don't make sense are the things that pull women to you. It's fvcked up. It's like some code of sorts.

New material definitely coming up. Being a Gemini, my mind is always changing. So I can make a list of topics I will present on, but at the last minute change and present topics on other things.
Bro please what advice can you give to someone dating a gemini girlfriend? .. Lol
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:54pm On May 07, 2019
Korllami007:
When the Op stopped calling the girl, the girl realised that she has lost one of the guys that has been given her attention. So, she had to call him after some months and check on one of her attention givers. I'm pretty sure the girl would have been waiting for the Op's call within the period of the time he stopped calling her.
Girls always feel on top of the world when guys start giving them too much attention, and this where pride will set in. Even if a girl is into you and you give her a lot of attentions and start worshiping her, especially most of our girls from Africa, my brother, she won't reciprocate 2% of what you're doing for her. She don get your mumu button be that. She will start toying with you and start using your head to play ludo.

If guys can withdraw the attentions they give most girls, they will become useless and become humble.
girls want what they can't have. That means the thing that she wants she wants it from the guy who does not want to give it to her. That's the magic key to everything.

Get that and you got women by the ovaries.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 2:55pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
I also don't get how it works. But it works like clockwork
Good news for you then.... Pussy rain!!!
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(op):
ubunja:
the best way to fail with women is to be perfect. Men don't get that logic. Because it's not logic. It's female logic. Which is always backward and reverse and upside down. The things that don't make sense are the things that pull women to you. It's fvcked up. It's like some code of sorts.

New material definitely coming up. Being a Gemini, my mind is always changing. So I can make a list of topics I will present on, but at the last minute change and present topics on other things.
I'm also a Gemini and I've always wondered if my mind flips easily because I'm messed up alas I've met my kind... Do well to dish out some good stuffs even if we have to pay they are worth it
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 3:14pm On May 07, 2019
catwalq:
Good news for you then.... Pussy rain!!!
mwaah
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 3:15pm On May 07, 2019
Imoh555:
I'm also a Gemini and I've always wondered if my mind flips easily because I'm messed alas I've met my kind... Do well to dish out some good stuffs even if we have to pay they are worth it
Gemini all the way bro.
Will share what I know by all means necessary
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(op): 3:28pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
Gemini all the way bro.
Will share what I know by all means necessary
Ubunja for president
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 3:34pm On May 07, 2019
Newguyhere:
Bro please what advice can you give to someone dating a gemini girlfriend? .. Lol
I can't coz I don't remember dating one. Or I did without realizing it.

Not that I put much value in star signs, but what I have seen on the forums I frequent, the consensus is that Geminis seem to work well with Aquarians.
What star sign are you
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by MrHighSea: 3:34pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you.

It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me.
This ur comments intrigues me. Coupled wit dt huge followers. Who'r u?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Newguyhere: 3:57pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
I can't coz I don't remember dating one. Or I did without realizing it.

Not that I put much value in star signs, but what I have seen on the forums I frequent, the consensus is that Geminis seem to work well with Aquarians.
What star sign are you
Scorpio
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 4:01pm On May 07, 2019
Newguyhere:
Scorpio
damn. I don't know what to tell you bro
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 4:12pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
this is the reason why we always tell guys STOP SIMPING. STOP BEING NICE GUYS. The problem is the sexual market has been oversaturated with Beta Mangina Simps who are competing to worship women.
When we tell Martin0 to stop idolizing women it's like we are bad guys. But worshiping women gets them mentally spoiled. On Social Media, guys desperate for pussy will call an average 5 girl that she's a 10 just to flatter her. And the same idiots complain that average girls on the street are forming like 10s. Yet these same niggahs are responsible for that behaviour in women. Men need to stop simping and everything will revert back to normal.

Stop giving compliments everywhere. Stop validating these whôrés. You're making things difficult for yourselves
tell em.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by lepasharon(f): 4:13pm On May 07, 2019
This is so odd to me. Is that a Nigerian lady thing?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Topmaike007(m): 4:13pm On May 07, 2019
Imoh555:
I am very blunt and plain with women especially when criticizing them and telling them they look terrible or they ain't shiit and the good thing is that women love it when you actually don't worship or idolize them,....treat her good and she takes you for granted, treat her like a piece of rag and watch her never wants to depart from you... (boys don't get this logic) it doesn't mean you guys should be women beaters... Thanks for your educations ubunja I hope there are some new stuffs to read from you soon.... I'm starved
who is UBUnja?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Hoodbilonia: 4:15pm On May 07, 2019
Nigerian ladies are ungrateful.
The last went away wuth my towel,singlet and wireless charger. Said she liked them.
Bich


I just bang and move on
If u call.u no call..bone me for whatsapp,block me.
Trust me
Ham.
I'm on to the next one
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by austyne22ex(m): 4:18pm On May 07, 2019
Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense
The girl is not into U...If u meet someone that is genuinely interested in U, trust me, U will be the one avoiding her calls...#fact#
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by amokeme(f): 4:19pm On May 07, 2019
Another female bashing episode
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Akuruoulo(m): 4:19pm On May 07, 2019
Jodha:
Yhu sound like a weakling... How will yhu be contributing 50-50 with a woman...tufiakwa...even dates...

Yhure not ready at all ...

And as for the girl...I don't blame her at all...yhu were the one chyking her ..so why would she call yhu?...it's not like yhu guys were in a relationship sef..
This is a typical girls comment
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Dami12345: 4:20pm On May 07, 2019
Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense
I support 100%. Until the game changes and am a multi billionaire this is my rule.

Even during sex na 90-10 the guy will be doing all the work while the girl will just lie down, or hold a comfortable pose. Tell her to ride and watch her complain about her waist in less than 10mins flat. angry
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Pholadime(m): 4:20pm On May 07, 2019
Women are selfish while men are jealous naturally.
Don't be surprised if they don't reciprocate.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by lewis512(m): 4:20pm On May 07, 2019
ubunja:
the best way to fail with women is to be perfect. Men don't get that logic. Because it's not logic. It's female logic. Which is always backward and reverse and upside down. The things that don't make sense are the things that pull women to you. It's fvcked up. It's like some code of sorts.

New material definitely coming up. Being a Gemini, my mind is always changing. So I can make a list of topics I will present on, but at the last minute change and present topics on other things.
cant wait
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by IjebuWarrior: 4:20pm On May 07, 2019
grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Akuruoulo(m): 4:20pm On May 07, 2019
tee59:
The girl is not into you, that's the fact.
collect 5
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by PointBlankFOREX: 4:22pm On May 07, 2019
Well it's all about the mindset.. As much as there are good ones out there who do reciprocate good gestures, I think a vast majority of ladies don't.. And it all boils down to the flawed entitlement mentality of our Nigerian present day women.. They believe a man should be the one trying to win them and not the other way round.. that is the definition of love to em.. They forget it's reciprocal.. sad
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