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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 7:36pm On May 12, 2019
Chamber2000:
Sweetheart did you see where they wrote SYNONYM for Demand as Ask[/color][color=#550000]please read it Very well
Darling, I only said "demand" is stronger than "ask" & nothing more.

But since you want to argue, did you see words like: order, command, ultimatum, insist on, press, compel etc as synonyms for DEMAND?
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 7:39pm On May 12, 2019
chuksp09:

Right you are..... But he hasn't come of as weak..... Not in the least.
Don't forget that half the people who are living comfortably are probably doing so because one of their forefathers have done something shameless to lift the family line out of the mud.....
The world isn't black and white....
Ok....you are right. I agree with you. He's more shameless than weak.
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 7:41pm On May 12, 2019
Chamber2000:
It seems you are certain with your research that guys like me enjoy my money being devoured by ladies? Call a spade a spade and congrtulate me for demanding o4 asking for my right
I ca'tnt. Meaning, I can't not!
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by adaksbullet: 7:48pm On May 12, 2019
Chamber2000:
She gave me a rumpled 1k and I need to barb my hair when going home to prepare for tomorrow work so I don't see how the money can help me
bus, are u collected ur trans spot money?? carried his proparties and ran away!!! use less gilrs!
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 7:49pm On May 12, 2019
pocohantas:


Op, is obviously one bored alfa, trying to create a self-entitlement thread. The type their kinda girlfriends create.

Anything wey im wan demand, that one concern them. No be if them see who go give them? cheesy
Abeg has he gone home or he still dey suffer the poor lady. grin


Im too lazy to read sad
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by CAPSLOCKED: 8:03pm On May 12, 2019
MissJoy29:

The girl and her female colleague are wicked. They are the type of ladies I advise my cousin and male friends to stay away from. These ladies are wicked, opportunistic, self-centered, greedy, selfish, stingy, manipulative, emotionally, psychologically & financially abusive. Above all, their love is never genuine. As a lady, these type of ladies utterly disgust me (part of the reasons why I have really COUNTABLE female friends) so I wonder how a man can stomach them.

MANY WOMEN MAKE THIS CLAIM, THAT THEY PREFER THE COMPANY AND FRIENDSHIP OF MALES.

SO YOU SEE, IT'S NOT EASY BEING A MAN AND ENDURING ALL THE NONSENSE YOU WOMEN HAVE TO OFFER, BUT HATE TO RECEIVE FROM YOUR OWN SELVES.

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Chamber2000: 8:06pm On May 12, 2019
Latest update.

I'm finally home grin grin grin

Ladies need to understand that relationship is not a full-time job nor an extortion scheme so don't demand for what you know you can't give if you are asked same.

Relationship needs to be an equal footing where both partners share tangible and intangible things together with love. Let's not see it like its a taboo for the guy to ask for what you do ask him.


Thanks to everyone that made this worthwhile


CC donlexxybaze crackhaus Austeenxx ubunja kollarmi007 shege45 MajorJeffery iLegendd Sirmuel1 sisisioge pocohantas capslocked jasonscoolari missjoy29 marialAvina onyididi and numerous others.

Please let's not always throw insult because we want to pass a message rather apply decorum and ask yourself * Will I insult this person like this if we are offline and having such discuss, *

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Sirmuel1(m): 8:11pm On May 12, 2019
MissJoy29:

Lol....I see what's happening. Nice goal-post shifting.
When they tell you guys to stop dating leeches with entitlement mentality, you won't hear.

But let me also restate that it's a man's duty to provide. I have ALWAYS supported that. Then it's the woman's duty to HELP/SUPPORT. However, because our girls are so greedy, they want to stifle the man with their needs. And to make matters worse, because they are self-centered & selfish, they can't reciprocate or help the man out once in a while & even when he needs help. It's unfair.

Now, there's absolutely nothing wrong in giving my guy T fare if I know he can't afford to (for that time). BUT......he shouldn't be demanding it like you are doing. That's frankly disgraceful & weak of you. This is something I should know about before coming. We will talk about it and it will be established that I'm footing his bills. What if I don't also have at the moment? And before I do that, he must have proven himself worthy to be worth it.

So the drama you are putting up won't go down well with me if I were your lady. If it gets to that, I will give you the money back but after that, you will kiss my pretty asş goodbye! I have acute phobia for weak & clueless men!

cc: Cassyrooy



So because you can't afford to give him Tfare, you would end the relationship? Well, we are tired of Broke Girls. Goodbye!
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Sirmuel1(m): 8:15pm On May 12, 2019
Chamber2000:
Latest update.

I'm finally home grin grin grin

Ladies need to understand that relationship is not a full-time job nor an extortion scheme so don't demand for what you know you can't give if you are asked same.

Relationship needs to be an equal footing where both partners share tangible and intangible things together with love. Let's not see it like its a taboo for the guy to ask for what you do ask him.


Thanks to everyone that made this worthwhile


CC donlexxybaze crackhaus Austeenxx ubunja kollarmi007 shege45 MajorJeffery iLegendd Sirmuel1 sisisioge pocohantas capslocked jasonscoolari missjoy29 marialAvina onyididi and numerous others.

Please let's not always throw insult because we want to pass a message rather apply decorum and ask yourself * Will I insult this person like this if we are offline and having such discuss, *



smiley

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by mistyebby(f): 8:15pm On May 12, 2019
Chamber2000:
I've eaten and I think I will leave now.

Cc mistyebby



Drama king!
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Chamber2000: 8:20pm On May 12, 2019
mistyebby:




Drama king!
grin grin
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 8:21pm On May 12, 2019
Sirmuel1:




So because you can't afford to give him Tfare, you would end the relationship? Well, we are tired of Broke Girls. Goodbye!
Go back to my first & main post & you will understand better. I never said I can't give him. I can but not the way he was going about it.

Modified: you quoted my first post. So how come you didn't see the answer to what you asked?
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 8:27pm On May 12, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:


MANY WOMEN MAKE THIS CLAIM, THAT THEY PREFER THE COMPANY AND FRIENDSHIP OF MALES.

SO YOU SEE, IT'S NOT EASY BEING A MAN AND ENDURING ALL THE NONSENSE YOU WOMEN HAVE TO OFFER, BUT HATE TO RECEIVE FROM YOUR OWN SELVES.
You are right. We get plenty wahala. Una dey try abeg. I have already decided that I will come as a guy if there's a next world.

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 8:30pm On May 12, 2019
Chamber2000:
Latest update.

I'm finally home grin grin grin

Ladies need to understand that relationship is not a full-time job nor an extortion scheme so don't demand for what you know you can't give if you are asked same.

Relationship needs to be an equal footing where both partners share tangible and intangible things together with love. Let's not see it like its a taboo for the guy to ask for what you do ask him.


Thanks to everyone that made this worthwhile


CC donlexxybaze crackhaus Austeenxx ubunja kollarmi007 shege45 MajorJeffery iLegendd Sirmuel1 sisisioge pocohantas capslocked jasonscoolari missjoy29 marialAvina onyididi and numerous others.

Please let's not always throw insult because we want to pass a message rather apply decorum and ask yourself * Will I insult this person like this if we are offline and having such discuss, *
Nice message passed & received. But that's for leeches and I ain't one.

PS: I know that last paragraph is for me. But sweetie, you know I wasn't insulting you na grin
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Sirmuel1(m): 8:30pm On May 12, 2019
MissJoy29:

Go back to my first & main post & you will understand better. I never said I can't give him. I can but not the way he was going about it.

Modified: you quoted my first post. So how come you didn't see the answer to what you asked?


No vex. I saw this first. cool

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 8:55pm On May 12, 2019
Sirmuel1:



No vex. I saw this first. cool
It's alright sir cool
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 8:57pm On May 12, 2019
MariaLavina:
Guest007 will like this thread. grin

I need a summary grin
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 9:08pm On May 12, 2019
Guest007:


I need a summary grin
I will try, grin one of our resident Alfa male (in poco's voice) went to his girlfriend's place to spend the weekend, when it was time to go he demanded for tfare from the lady which she found ridiculous and refused to yield to his request.
He in retaliation,decided to remain with his girlfriend until she gives him transport fare back home.While fighting for his right as he claimed, he opened this thread. grin


You will laugh hard if you read through the thread.
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by pocohantas(f): 9:22pm On May 12, 2019
MariaLavina:
Abeg has he gone home or he still dey suffer the poor lady. grin


Im too lazy to read sad

Lol, read through the pages? Say wetin happen. Abeg, read and summarize for me grin
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 9:35pm On May 12, 2019
pocohantas:


Lol, read through the pages? Say wetin happen. Abeg, read and summarize for me grin
Oga don gree collect 1k go home.


The end grin
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by boiz2men(m): 9:41pm On May 12, 2019
MissJoy29:

Lol....you are not serious!

So you mean you mean to say you are the only Nigerian guy who hasn't met leeches?! Shocking!!
And please, tell that to the birds!!!

serious oo... i havent. maybe when they meet me... they study me and figure my personality and they dont show their leeching character

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by boiz2men(m): 9:43pm On May 12, 2019
MariaLavina:
I will try, grin one of our resident Alfa male (in poco's voice) went to his girlfriend's place to spend the weekend, when it was time to go he demanded for tfare from the lady which she found ridiculous and refused to yield to his request.
He in retaliation,decided to remain with his girlfriend until she gives him transport fare back home.While fighting for his right as he claimed, he opened this thread. grin


You will laugh hard if you read through the thread.

one question miss

do you think he dis the right thing?
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by MissJoy29(f): 10:11pm On May 12, 2019
boiz2men:


serious oo... i havent. maybe when they meet me... they study me and figure my personality and they dont show their leeching character
Maybe. Just maybe.

Aren't you one lucky chap then?
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by boiz2men(m): 10:15pm On May 12, 2019
MissJoy29:

Maybe. Just maybe.

Aren't you one lucky chap then?

grin grin grin grin

abi

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Donlexybaze(m): 10:24pm On May 12, 2019
Ope ooo! my guy is finally home!!! ijo Ope!!!
Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 10:25pm On May 12, 2019
boiz2men:


one question miss

do you think he dis the right thing?
Lol... this is like asking me if a lady who decide to use the men's room a public place or a lady who walks chest bare on a beach. You see, some ideas, attributes, norms and attitudes are naturally fixed, these are passed from generation to generation until they are questioned, challenged and changed by people who don't see them good enough.But then change is a gradual process and sometimes not easily accepted, so it should be expected that for it to occur there will be chaos. There will always be contention, either caused by those against the change or by extremists who take things too far. So agent of transformation are people brave enough to accept whatever comes their ways, that I give to Op.


That said, I'm not going to say he did right or not, he felt the need for change in his girlfriend's orientation and he went for it overlooking the peoples possible reactions. It's his relationship, his life, he knows where his shoes hurt. Now do I play a judge at something I know little of? No!

However I will like to make this clear, entitlement mentality is not a woman's thing but humans' thing, just like a man expects sex as soon as a lady says yes, or expect his girlfriend clean his room whenever she visit, or cook for him same way expect her man to spend on her. Every being exhibits entitlement mentality according to what he or she is limited to or have little control over. smiley

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by boiz2men(m): 10:42pm On May 12, 2019
MariaLavina:
Lol... this is like asking me if a lady who decide to use the men's room a public place or a lady who walks chest bare on a beach. You see, some ideas, attributes, norms and attitudes are naturally fixed, these are passed from generation to generation until they are questioned, challenged and changed by people who don't see them good enough.But then change is a gradual process and sometimes not easily accepted, so it should be expected that for it to occur there will be chaos. There will always be contention, either caused by those against the change or by extremists who take things too far. So agent of transformation are people brave enough to accept whatever comes their ways, that I give to Op.


That said, I'm not going to say he did right or not, he felt the need for change in his girlfriend's orientation and he went for it overlooking the peoples possible reactions.

However I will like to make this clear, entitlement mentality is not a woman's thing but humans' thing, just like a man expects sex as soon as a lady says yes, or expect his girlfriend clean his room whenever she visit, or cook for him. Every being display entitlement mentality according to what he or she is limited to. smiley

wow.

I didnt know "YES" or "NO" could be written as a book.

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 12, 2019
boiz2men:


wow.

I didnt know "YES" or "NO" could be written as a book.
Life is not always in black and white. smiley

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by boiz2men(m): 11:02pm On May 12, 2019
MariaLavina:
Life isn't written in black and white. smiley

It is. Sorry you just finding out.

Good or Evil

Rich or Poor

Male or Female

Happy or Sad

YES or NO

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 11:09pm On May 12, 2019
boiz2men:


It is. Sorry you just finding out.

Good or Evil

Rich or Poor

Male or Female

Happy or Sad

YES or NO
Lol grin
Good, bittersweet, evil

Rich , comfortable, poor

Male, hermaphrodite , Female

Happy, Vague, Sad

Yes, Maybe , No

Agree, Indifferent, Disagree.



Do you have anything else to say? grin
Once again life isn't always in black and white! smiley

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Re: Help! I'm Stranded In My Girlfriend House by Nobody: 11:12pm On May 12, 2019
MariaLavina:
I will try, grin one of our resident Alfa male (in poco's voice) went to his girlfriend's place to spend the weekend, when it was time to go he demanded for tfare from the lady which she found ridiculous and refused to yield to his request.
He in retaliation,decided to remain with his girlfriend until she gives him transport fare back home.While fighting for his right as he claimed, he opened this thread. grin


You will laugh hard if you read through the thread.

Shut up!!! Nlanders will kill me grin grin grin

Okay let me read... BRB

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