I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

Hh

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.
Lalasticlala,,,,,Mynd44,,,,kindly do the needful

I feel your pain bro..For u to come out if it,you have to change your thinking.Think about how rich u want to be that even miss world wud always dance to your tune.
In a nut shell bro
Think of money,pass ya exams,project and reason like a man.

What ever is your own wont pass u by.Ladies to much for dz world dan to dey start to dey brood ontop one hole wey no get sense.

Bro.u v a brighter future.just stay focus

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?


When you are confused you are confused

Weak sissy don face ur book and graduate o

No advice here can help you. Only you can help yourself.



But to be honest, e go hard I swear. Especially that moment when you see her walking with her new guy and the guy is grabbing her asx, your heart will sink and your GP will drop instantly.

stupidity:
No advice here can help you. Only you can help yourself.



But to be honest, e go hard I swear. Especially that moment when you see her walking with her new guy and the guy is grabbing her asx, your heart will sink and your GP will drop instantly.

very funny

stupidity:
No advice here can help you. Only you can help yourself.



But to be honest, e go hard I swear. Especially that moment when you see her walking with her new guy and the guy is grabbing her asx, your heart will sink and your GP will drop instantly.

what do you intend to achieve? ehh

OP to be completely honest with you,I always reason like nobody is irreplaceable also when a woman/lady/girl is fed up,there's practically nothing u can do except to move on.

so move on,it simply means she's not meant for u and enough should do u out of another man's property or haven't u drilled her before?

abeg focus on ur studies and become a better person.

op just let her go, after all pvssy once fvcked can never be unfvcked #i feel ur pains bro

Why are you disturbing yourself on person that doesn't care about you you're acting like sissy

Brotherman... Step up ur game, after all there are lot of girls around... Life is too short to be wailing because of a girl......... Nah, make ursef happy......... Explore......... Roll with more girls even if its her friends buh this time around......... Care less, don't get too attached, whenever u guys come across, just let out a huge grin and ignore her like she aint worth it.......... I've tried this on 3 diff gyals and its working like magic....... They buzzing my cell phone with calls now

lol..crazy dudes above me sha......
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really feel your pain...bro.av gone tru this same thing b4......
the solution is simple.....try staying off her....it might be a bit hard now that u guys are still in college together....u would always bump into her occasionally and ur chest will nw start beating and constricting like crazy .....i understand......am talking from personal experience here o...loved a gal lyk crazy a few years ago...and dem boom she broke up.. felt there was notin more to live for... almost ran into depression(lol..imagine!!).....but bro the answer to ur issue is avoiding her like for months(which is why am glad u soon going for nysc).u will be suprised after a few mnths u would forget abt her.......this includes getting rid of her pixtures....not going to her social media profile.....jst anything that reminds u of her should b avoided.....
its like a deep wound....yea..it hurts like hell now but it would heal with tym

I know say e no go reach front page but make I just book space

cosse:
lol..crazy dudes above me sha......
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really feel your pain...bro.av gone tru this same thing b4......
the solution is simple.....try staying off her....it might be a bit hard now that u guys are still in college together....u would always bump into her occasionally and ur chest will nw start beating and constricting like crazy .....i understand......am talking from personal experience here o...loved a gal lyk crazy a few years ago...and dem boom she broke up.. felt there was notin more to live for... almost ran into depression(lol..imagine!!).....but bro the answer to ur issue is avoiding her like for months(which is why am glad u soon going for nysc).u will be suprised after a few mnths u would forget abt her.......this includes getting rid of her pixtures....not going to her social media profile.....jst anything that reminds u of her should b avoided.....
its like a deep wound....yea..it hurts like hell now but it would heal with tym

op listen to this man...

o.p am currently facing what you are facing now,we broke up 4months ago, school in the same campus and live close off camp..

o.p listen, its not going to be an easy task, so have that at the back of ur mind.,it requires a lot of work about you to be done to avoid and get over her..she wont or she isn't going to be affected cux she has moved on..

op i really dnt knw how to advise you or things to do cux am still trying to work my way out too bt i will tell u the little i can and how have been managing mine..

op if you are an introvert, then its going to be a double wahala cux it will affect you alot..your confidence,self-esteem, emotions, feelings, everything about you both mentally and physically will drastically reduce, you will be painedddd! angry, short of breath, stomach arch, at a time you wont feel like eating anything (especially if the breakup is fresh), infact o.p, you will loose ur self, imaging the pain and feelings you get wen you see her with another guy,imaging that same guy bleeping ur formal hole..abt that,o.p there is nothing you can do again to stop that..

this is where you will need to work on yourself, whatever advise you receive, apply them but know providing this is/must be costant;

*TIME!!...give yourself time...even in nysc camp, u may not see urself getting over her in first 2-3months..
*deleting every single inch about her,
*accept the pain,regret,grieve and whatever is happing to you,its all normal,they happened to me too..
*try and eat well and stay healthy.
*no matter how introverted you are,am sorry o.p cux you will have to break that chain and go out to mingle with females ONLY!..if you must mingle with guys, associate yourself with guys that sleep with girls alot or guys that are very funny lyk comedian..those 2 set of guys can make you forget ur pain.
*o.p you have to improve urself, like dress well, exercise, woo girls,even if they are ugly or even if they dnt accept u, just do it for fun sake, it build ur confidence..
*always smile and be happy when u see her,even if ur mind fly,form or forge the smile

and lastly,please do ur best to ignore her, dnt go seeking for her knowing fully well u will see her at a particular road,store or place jst to get her attention,it wont help u...

SIR0:
I just had a
Thanks in anticipation.
Lalasticlala,,,,,Mynd44,,,,kindly do the needful

Sorry for your loss bro, take heart, but the truth is that another guy dey knack your babe well well,and she dey suck d guy dickk, she dey even cum for the guy dick wella,
Take hear bro

Withdraw from uni

Apply wisdom...

I can bet this op did not fvck the girl till they broke up a girl you fvcked more than 10 times will not give you much heartache because you will always have that feeling that she lost not you.

Am also going through the same dilemma but am using a psychological formulae to handle it of which I will teach you.

Step 1: Raise your spirit up and tell your yourself no mortal born of a woman is worth it to disturb my peace of mind.

Step 2: visual the future and think of your beautiful kids always smiling at you while you drive them to school or picnic. Now imagine a woman who truly love you as their mother and see how beautiful the future is.

Step 3: Think of your career, business or job which you aspire for and always remind your spirit man that you will succeed.

My brother MOVE ON and prepare for the future.
YOU ARE A MAN.
now repeat these words to your inner soul " I AM A MAN AND WILL FACE ANY STRUGGLE.

dust your feet and step out....She is now part of your history.

bigpriik:
I can bet this op did not fvck the girl till they broke up a girl you fvcked more than 10 times will not give you much heartache because you will always have that feeling that she lost not you.

dude it's not by that..

i f.ucked my ex nothing less than 50-80times during our 5years dating without cds,pregnancy or abortion

we f.ucked to the extent she was the one reminding me like "love, we dnt fvck today ooh"

dude,after she cheated on me,cried 5years out of my life..
not because i can't see someone else like her 2 bleep,just that when i love someone,no AMOUNT of SEX with different style can make me stop loving that person and not giving me sex still wont change anything either.

dating her wasn't all about sex, i just love her so much and wanted a future with her..

y am i even telling you all this self

no mind me jor..

try not to move alone whenever u are outdoor(in campus)

Love na Scam....

Fondness and attraction is the koko

Lass lass, u go dey alright.... We break up to make up

Peace Bro!

Lol

Focus your energy on completing your studies bro.. you got project and exam coming your way.. Women come and go.. Love is only a facade.

You can't survive man. Do the needful.

D

Concentrate on other things and act like nothing happened.