stanliwise:
please stop assuming the O here is the victim, he didn't tell us what happened.

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

MissRaine69:
Make that a life lesson.
Do not fish, sh1t and bathe in the same body of water.

Lovelife433:
this is why is good to have plenty girl friend.

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

dreamwords:

Sorry for your loss bro, take heart, but the truth is that another guy dey knack your babe well well,and she dey suck d guy dickk, she dey even cum for the guy dick wella,
Take hear bro

stupidity:
No advice here can help you. Only you can help yourself.



But to be honest, e go hard I swear. Especially that moment when you see her walking with her new guy and the guy is grabbing her asx, your heart will sink and your GP will drop instantly.

united442:


dude it's not by that..

i f.ucked my ex nothing less than [b]50-80times during our 5years [/b]dating without cds,pregnancy or abortion

we f.ucked to the extent she was the one reminding me like "love, we dnt fvck today ooh"

dude,after she cheated on me,cried 5years out of my life..
not because i can't see someone else like her 2 bleep,just that when i love someone,no AMOUNT of SEX with different can make me stop loving that person and not giving me sex still wont change anything either.

dating her wasn't all about sex, i just love her and wanted a future with her..

y am i even telling you all this self

no mind me jor..

vicfy:
Dude, allow d pain; feel it, accept it, carry the cross....for it makes u a man, a stunch, and prepares u 4 d world u r about to enter. NB: Never go back to ur spit.

Debramaye:

Focusmind:
Kids everywhere. Face your studies and graduate with a good grade and come and face the world.

when you are successful, all these issues becomes irrelevant. I am telling you from example. I had similar experience but decided to make my studies a priority, graduated, secured oversea scholarship, came back and was doing relatively well.

When she saw me years somewhere in Jakande bus stop, Lekki, where I dropped off someone and behold she was at that Jakande bus stop waiting for Danfo. I horned and she was hesitant to come but I had to alight to go and meet her. She shouted, entered my car and we discussed at length. She came for a call center interview near by. She told me she has been job hunting years after our graduation without success. I could see the stress and hustle of Lagos life - No porn intended.

When she got to know where I was working then, see disturbances every where and I was like "see the babe that some how "dealt" with me", now falling over herself to get my attention. After visiting me like four times, she said that the person she is staying with in Abule-Egba, wants her to leave and if I should allow her to stay till she secure accommodation. I said no, that I will prefer to lend her money to find a small room apartment around Ajah, which I did, but she did not bother to pay for the accommodation but continued staying with the friend she claimed wanted to chase her out. I knew the friend did not want to chase her out. She just wanted to come and take position in my house.

So I tell young men, focus on success first and ladies will surely come.

stupidity:
No advice here can help you. Only you can help yourself.



But to be honest, e go hard I swear. Especially that moment when you see her walking with her new guy and the guy is grabbing her asx, your heart will sink and your GP will drop instantly.

Lildreezy:
Op I'd just advice you to:

1. Delete her number
2. Delete her friends number because you might see their pictures with her on their whatsapp status
3. Block her on FB for a while, depending on when you are sure you've moved on, then you can unblock her thats if you remember her.
4. Get busy.. its hard to do anything to develop yourself at first because the trauma comes back once you are about to start something worthwhile
5. Start talking to every chick you meet at a joint, if successful with the collecting of numbers, start calling them anytime you want to start thinking about her. There are the ones that want sex, those that want to just talk, flow with them, visit them, if you are boxed up, take them out to not so expensive places.
6. The ones that click, bang their life out. You can overcome the feeling of her under a month.

I had a nasty break up two weeks ago, the worst I've ever experienced cos she's probably or was probably the best thing that happened to me, until I redefined the term "best thing". Annoying thing is we are both very committed members of a choir, and we must just see not less than 4 times a week!

Thank God for my work and finances, free wifi and constant ladies at my beck and call at my work place...The ones that are friends with my ex go as far as consoling me with their.......................#censored.. and I'm so over the chick now!

nuelsam:
Brotherman... Step up ur game, after all there are lot of girls around... Life is too short to be wailing because of a girl......... Nah, make ursef happy......... Explore......... Roll with more girls even if its her friends buh this time around......... Care less, don't get too attached, whenever u guys come across, just let out a huge grin and ignore her like she aint worth it.......... I've tried this on 3 diff gyals and its working like magic....... They buzzing my cell phone with calls now

AgreatMan:


Bros but wetin u want gain from lies? There are 260 Weeks in 5 years. And let's say u "meet" ur girl 80 times. 260/80 is 3.25. You guys only did it once every 24 days or 3.25weeks. why are u painting it like it was everyday n u be don?

U too dey lie, that's why d girl broke up with u

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.

stanliwise:
have you truely loved anyone b4? if yes then you wouldn't want to cheat by have external affairs.

victorazyvictor:

Otapiapia is still in market.