₦airaland Forum

Oluromantic:
And some ppl want kids but don't want wife

IamPlato:
Somebody else will give her kids

Logobenz:
We are the same bro.i cannot sacrifice my happiness to make anyone's future better,hence I think I don't want them.
God those little things are work!can't deal.

Contumely:
How do you explain to Nigerians that won't mind their business?

And do you think you will ever regret it?

Contumely:
This is weird. It's strange and outside the societal norms.

But then, I have yet to see compelling reasons why I should have kids especially in this sinful world, nay Nigeria.

The most prominent reason I hear is

"I want someone to bear my name"

This reason to me is asinine.
If your dad had used a condom, all this thrash u wrote here would have kept u company in the toilet.

I mean, what's my business with people bearing my name?
Will it matter upon my demise? Of what benefit or use is that if I die?

I feel If I care so much about immortalizing my name then starting a company like Toyota, Toshiba etc should do that. Or maybe writing books : Achebe, Robert Green etc.. Or establishing a school, hospital etc.


Another reason is "Who will take care of you in old age?"

I feel like this shouldn't be an issue if there is some money somewhere that one could rely on. Money answers all things you know!



I just feel like I need a woman whom I would love, cherish her as my companion, travel the world with her and of course have seex and share our lives together.


I love women. But don't feel like I want kids. Could it be that I feel I may be unable to sacrifice a lot for them?

Or could it because I feel the world is evil with so much pain hence no need bringing kids into the world.


It seems I am an antinatalist you know.


Firstly, What do you think about this?

Secondly, How do I find a woman that has same views?

Cheers!

Contumely:
This is weird. It's strange and outside the societal norms.

But then, I have yet to see compelling reasons why I should have kids especially in this sinful world, nay Nigeria.

The most prominent reason I hear is

"I want someone to bear my name"

This reason to me is asinine.

I mean, what's my business with people bearing my name?
Will it matter upon my demise? Of what benefit or use is that if I die?

I feel If I care so much about immortalizing my name then starting a company like Toyota, Toshiba etc should do that. Or maybe writing books : Achebe, Robert Green etc.. Or establishing a school, hospital etc.


Another reason is "Who will take care of you in old age?"

I feel like this shouldn't be an issue if there is some money somewhere that one could rely on. Money answers all things you know!



I just feel like I need a woman whom I would love, cherish her as my companion, travel the world with her and of course have seex and share our lives together.


I love women. But don't feel like I want kids. Could it be that I feel I may be unable to sacrifice a lot for them?

Or could it because I feel the world is evil with so much pain hence no need bringing kids into the world.


It seems I am an antinatalist you know.


Firstly, What do you think about this?

Secondly, How do I find a woman that has same views?

Cheers!

Logobenz:
No I don't think I will regret it.
All that money from not spending on any kid will go a long way.las las you hire a butler that will clean and keep you company.
I may or may not get a wife.i want my freedom.
Besides I've got a huge family that will give me all the company I might need.
And den no born the idiot that will confront me about my life choices well...
N.a. so

Logobenz:
We are the same bro.i cannot sacrifice my happiness to make anyone's future better,hence I think I don't want them.
God those little things are work!can't deal.

blissgregory:
And u tink u will see such a wife??old age neva catch u.Money is nt everytink wen it cums to having somone to care for wen u r old.Raising ur kids is d best tink dat can ever happen to mankind.R u impotent or scared of responsibilities??

Contumely:
Know there is a difference between impotence and infertility.

Impotence is when I can't get the peniis up or sustain it's erection.

.

I can get it up.


As per responsibilities, I doubt if I can make sacrifices required to raise kids because I hate mediocrity. I like A one in all I do. I love the best.

Again, I feel this world is unfair and painful. I don't think I want to bring anyone here.


I feel I may find a woman with such views too.

blissgregory:
D probability of finding one is zero

Contumely:
A woman with fertility issues and knows may agree.
Or someone like Nse Ikpe Etim who had to remove her womb as a medical solution.

Again, I have heard few girls say they don't want kids.

blissgregory:
Gudluck on ur searching.Me,i love kids

Contumely:
This is weird. It's strange and outside the societal norms.

But then, I have yet to see compelling reasons why I should have kids especially in this sinful world, nay Nigeria.

The most prominent reason I hear is

"I want someone to bear my name"

This reason to me is asinine.

I mean, what's my business with people bearing my name?
Will it matter upon my demise? Of what benefit or use is that if I die?

I feel If I care so much about immortalizing my name then starting a company like Toyota, Toshiba etc should do that. Or maybe writing books : Achebe, Robert Green etc.. Or establishing a school, hospital etc.


Another reason is "Who will take care of you in old age?"

I feel like this shouldn't be an issue if there is some money somewhere that one could rely on. Money answers all things you know!



I just feel like I need a woman whom I would love, cherish her as my companion, travel the world with her and of course have seex and share our lives together.


I love women. But don't feel like I want kids. Could it be that I feel I may be unable to sacrifice a lot for them?

Or could it because I feel the world is evil with so much pain hence no need bringing kids into the world.


It seems I am an antinatalist you know.


Firstly, What do you think about this?

Secondly, How do I find a woman that has same views?

Cheers!

Contumely:
Nice to hear shaa.

Phenomenal16:
Are u a Nigerian? I doubt.....

Contumely:
Yes, I am from the East too.

Phenomenal16:
....nwannem nwoke this is quite surprising...... U don't want onochie....wait until your mom hears this

Contumely:
How do you explain to Nigerians that won't mind their business?

And do you think you will ever regret it?

folake4u:
Cc:
mysticgal.


I don't want kids too.

folake4u:
Cc:
mysticgal.


I don't want kids too.