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Mcslize:
This is the system I usually use and I am using right now on a girl. I met her the last Thursday of last month. Instantly, I started boyfriend role playing by referring to her as cupcake and me as boo boo. No time to waste. Invited her the next day which was Friday to my place with no hidden intention though.

Made her feel at home. Watched movies on my system and prepared food for her. In fact, I fed her myself like Romeo feeding Juliet as she gave me a thumb up and confirmed it before me when I was seeing her off that she enjoyed herself.

Since then, the calls had been mutual and looking forward to the next invite of which I am not ready for yet. She is truly into me right now. She called me yesterday, I didn't pick cuz my phone was on silence. She called again today and we spoke till she exahuasted her airtime. I called back as the gentle caring guy that I am but not blinded by emotions and put more fire on her body and made her feel wanted.

What else do I need again? The mistake I hope not to make is asking her to be my girlfriend when she is already acting she isnmy girlfriend.

This works very fine. As a guy, I don't need to ask a girl to be my girlfriend to have her as my girlfriend. She already positioned herself as one due to how I handled things from the outset.

This method works very pretty well no be lie.

You're already giving this your so new found girl too much of your time and she would get tired of you easily.. When she called and exhausted her airtime you should not have called back, possibly for 2 to 3days,. Let her still keep doing the calling during those days while you get busy with other things with your life..

tfash96:
u need to change ur name it's really affecting ur reasoning

victorian:
Fine most frosh looking Toks2008 , I sight you o

I'm loyal to your govt.

Lol!

Nah you frosh pass.

Mariangeles:
Now, your kind should be totally ignored to oblivion !

Shut up

ibkayee:
Relationships that start as friendships >>>

With benefits or without

jaxxy:
With benefits or without

Without

Safiaa:
Toks2008 my brother, how are you sir?

You sure?

Toks2008:
Lol!

Nah you frosh pass.

But your own na follow come o!

Biko invite me to UK, make I join your govt finally.

No shaking!!!

Toks2008:
I decided to drop this after I read a thread on the front page where a lady advised fellow ladies on the criteria to look for before they give a man attention on dating sites.

The truth is that there is no rule when it comes to dating except one basic rule..BE OPEN MINDED.

It is quite understandable if a lady is very sure she does not want a guy and tells him out-rightly but we have some ladies who are just difficult for the wrong reasons...this set of ladies will like a guy but will still be acting up with the notion that if the guy truly wants them, he should sweat blood in the bid to win them like a trophy.

When a lady is too difficult, she may remain single for a very long time or most likely attract the wrong guys cos Players usually find difficult ladies very fascinating.

Real mature and responsible men don't have the time and energy for drama but they will express their sincere intentions to a woman they truly desire and will move on if she shows no interest not because they don't want the lady and it's not about pride but it is simply because they are too responsible and focused to waste their time and energy chasing an unresponsive lady.

That a guy chases you for a long time does not mean he truly wants you but he just might want to prove a point to you.

Agreeing to date a guy quickly does not mean you are cheap but[b] it is the way you comport yourself whilst dating him that matters.[/b] Proving hard to get is old fashioned and only for ladies who don't know what they want.

I hope this makes sense.

(1). Why then do men call ladies cheap? I mean to ask, what's the criteria to tag a girl cheap?
(2). How can one comport herself in a relationship?

Mcslize:
This is the system I usually use and I am using right now on a girl. I met her the last Thursday of last month. Instantly, I started boyfriend role playing by referring to her as cupcake and me as boo boo. No time to waste. Invited her the next day which was Friday to my place with no hidden intention though.

Made her feel at home. Watched movies on my system and prepared food for her. In fact, I fed her myself like Romeo feeding Juliet as she gave me a thumb up and confirmed it before me when I was seeing her off that she enjoyed herself.

Since then, the calls had been mutual and looking forward to the next invite of which I am not ready for yet. She is truly into me right now. She called me yesterday, I didn't pick cuz my phone was on silence. She called again today and we spoke till she exahuasted her airtime. I called back as the gentle caring guy that I am but not blinded by emotions and put more fire on her body and made her feel wanted.

What else do I need again? The mistake I hope not to make is asking her to be my girlfriend when she is already acting as one.

This works very fine. As a guy, I don't need to ask a girl to be my girlfriend to have her as my girlfriend. She already positioned herself as one due to how I handled things from the outset.

This method works very pretty well no be lie.

When next she visits proceed to kiss her..
If she insist it isn't right because you haven't properly asked her out..

Just tell her you thought you were dating already.. That your heart has asked her heart out and they have both agreed to go out with each other..

Don't ever tell her to be your girlfriend.. If you do she might want to, but at the same time she might have just found something to leverage you on which would make her gain power over you.

And once most girls have gained power over you, you become less attractive to them.

tydi:
You're already giving this your so new found girl too much of your time and she would get tired of you easily.. When she called and exhausted her airtime you should not have called back, possibly for 2 to 3days,. Let her still keep doing the calling during those days while you get busy with other things with your life..

I don't call her. I don't even chat with her on WhatsApp. She calls often, but sometimes I don't even pick cuz I always put my phone on silence. She messaged me on WhatsApp this evening. But not to act like a snubber, I replied her and ended the chat.

When it comes to girls, I don wise up. I no be sissy type of guy o. There is another one I am still dealing with but she is playing hard to get. Though we do chat. Still another, business partner gradually turning lover. I don put that one on hold.

ngwababe:
(1). Why then do men call ladies cheap? I mean to ask, what's the criteria to tag a girl cheap?
(2). How can one comport herself in a relationship?

A cheap lady is a lady that sleeps around.

Comporting yourself means acting virtuous.

internationalman:
When next she visits proceed to kiss her..
If she insist it isn't right because you haven't properly asked her out..

Just tell her you thought you were dating already.. That your heart has asked her heart out and they have both agreed to go out with each other..

Don't ever tell her to be your girlfriend.. If you do she might want to, but at the same time she might have just found something to leverage you on which would make her gain power over you.

And once most girls have gained power over you, you become less attractive to them.

You are right bro.

That's not a prob at all. I could have done that that first day but I told myself, let me make this girl fall by herself for me. We dey discuss things that relate to that aspect already. She actually wanted me to make a move that first day cuz I noticed it from her body language but I allowed it slide. But next visit, things willnplay out by itself without even making a move.

Toks2008:
A cheap lady is a lady that sleeps around.

Comporting yourself means acting virtuous.

Oga please, what do you mean by acting virtuous? Do you mean to say not having sex?

devilmaycry:
he aint stupid....that is his opinion bro,u shuld respect it

That is intolerance. #gbam

ibkayee:
Without

I agree to a large extent bt a lot of guys are scared of this so as not to fall into or get stuck in the frnd zone. Not that I have such issues bt that’s the general thinking.

Toks2008:
I decided to drop this after I read a thread on the front page where a lady advised fellow ladies on the criteria to look for before they give a man attention on dating sites.

The truth is that there is no rule when it comes to dating except one basic rule..BE OPEN MINDED.

It is quite understandable if a lady is very sure she does not want a guy and tells him out-rightly but we have some ladies who are just difficult for the wrong reasons...this set of ladies will like a guy but will still be acting up with the notion
that if the guy truly wants them, he should sweat blood in the bid to win them like a trophy.

When a lady is too difficult, she may remain single for a very long time or most likely attract the wrong guys cos Players usually find difficult ladies very fascinating.

Real mature and responsible men don't have the time and energy for drama but they will express their sincere intentions to a woman they truly desire and will move on if she shows no interest not because they don't want the lady and it's not about pride but it is simply because they are too responsible and focused to waste their time and energy chasing an unresponsive lady.

That a guy chases you for a long time does not mean he truly wants you but he just might want to prove a point to you.

Agreeing to date a guy quickly does not mean you are cheap but it is the way you comport yourself whilst dating him that matters. Proving hard to get is old fashioned and only for ladies who don't know what they want.

I hope this makes sense.

Post of d year***

But where is tosyne2much na?

This used to be his type of thread.

AmNuhRegular:
Can you people just let women be?

exactly that what am saying

Interesting.

I believe women play hard to get to test a man's emotional strength if he crumbles under the pressure then he is not man enough to handle them.

jaxxy:
I agree to a large extent bt a lot of guys are scared of this so as not to fall into or get stuck in the frnd zone. Not that I have such issues bt that’s the general thinking.

Lol I didn’t mean friendships that hopefully turn into relationships though, I meant relationships that just happened to start as a friendship, if that makes any sense

Toks2008:
I decided to drop this after I read a thread on the front page where a lady advised fellow ladies on the criteria to look for before they give a man attention on dating sites.

The truth is that there is no rule when it comes to dating except one basic rule..BE OPEN MINDED.

It is quite understandable if a lady is very sure she does not want a guy and tells him out-rightly but we have some ladies who are just difficult for the wrong reasons...this set of ladies will like a guy but will still be acting up with the notion that if the guy truly wants them, he should sweat blood in the bid to win them like a trophy.

When a lady is too difficult, she may remain single for a very long time or most likely attract the wrong guys cos Players usually find difficult ladies very fascinating.

Real mature and responsible men don't have the time and energy for drama but they will express their sincere intentions to a woman they truly desire and will move on if she shows no interest not because they don't want the lady and it's not about pride but it is simply because they are too responsible and focused to waste their time and energy chasing an unresponsive lady.

That a guy chases you for a long time does not mean he truly wants you but he just might want to prove a point to you.

Agreeing to date a guy quickly does not mean you are cheap but it is the way you comport yourself whilst dating him that matters. Proving hard to get is old fashioned and only for ladies who don't know what they want.

I hope this makes sense.

Jees, this is exactly what I told my babe! Thanks for dropping this, so true. Players enjoy the game hard girls play while the true guys ain't cut out for that shit. Ladies pls learn.

You guys have said it all. Ladies tame your excessive difficulty to accept romantic proposal a bit

faithfull18:
Their day isn't complete without it.

Nature made it that way.

Mariangeles:
I disagree .

Not officially asking a girl you like to be your girlfriend is cowardice because you're afraid she might say No .

Ask her out officially so you have her word .
If you don't, she might use it against you at anytime .
In the end, you'll come to realize you've been wasting your time on a girl you thought was yours .

That's the code for players - they never ask girls out but make girls fall in love with them. The ultimate goal is to never ask the girls out in the first, i.e. at the end they gave you no commitment at all so you cant hold them down as boyfriends

truthsayer009:
Until you end up like this man. Friend zoned till death.

You people are so silly...

Must every relationship end in sex?
That you like someone doesn't mean that person will like you back.

This man KNEW Dany would have nothing to do with him romantically. She was his Queen and he was loyal to death.
It was more than his feelings. There where more important things. It's called loyalty and priorities.
Alpha behavior.

;

Airtel Nigeria is cheating. This is a problem. I received a message that my bundle is finished when I barely used it. I was on wifi for a majority of the time. I will not keep quiet. If nobody is going to stand up to them, i will.

Toks2008:
I decided to drop this after I read a thread on the front page where a lady advised fellow ladies on the criteria to look for before they give a man attention on dating sites.

The truth is that there is no rule when it comes to dating except one basic rule..BE OPEN MINDED.

It is quite understandable if a lady is very sure she does not want a guy and tells him out-rightly but we have some ladies who are just difficult for the wrong reasons...this set of ladies will like a guy but will still be acting up with the notion that if the guy truly wants them, he should sweat blood in the bid to win them like a trophy.

When a lady is too difficult, she may remain single for a very long time or most likely attract the wrong guys cos Players usually find difficult ladies very fascinating.

Real mature and responsible men don't have the time and energy for drama but they will express their sincere intentions to a woman they truly desire and will move on if she shows no interest not because they don't want the lady and it's not about pride but it is simply because they are too responsible and focused to waste their time and energy chasing an unresponsive lady.

That a guy chases you for a long time does not mean he truly wants you but he just might want to prove a point to you.

Agreeing to date a guy quickly does not mean you are cheap but it is the way you comport yourself whilst dating him that matters. Proving hard to get is old fashioned and only for ladies who don't know what they want.

I hope this makes sense.

the truth is.... Toks2008 you just revealed my kind of person.... All my years of wooing a girl... This is exactly me

Toks2008:
A cheap lady is a lady that sleeps around.

Comporting yourself means acting virtuous.

acting virtuous is different from being virtuous... The former is fake while the later is genuine

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