You are generalizing. Some women already do all that and some get bashed for it.

stupidity:
ofcourse women have rights to all these you mentioned.

But does the equal rights ends there? You know what equal rights is don’t you? Rights to everything and all things.


[b]Until women starts approaching men on the streets, woo men and end up proposing to and paying a man’s dowry. [/b]That’s only when I will take your course or whoever is in this course serious.


You don’t agitate for equal rights that’s only of interest to you and leave the vital ones.

everyone knows men are physically stronger than women, no dispute. However, with technology, the need for physical strength is gradually being phased out. I can change my tire and I can top the pressure on my tire. Go check Amazon there are many gadgets there that make these tasks so much easier. Another example, before you would need a man’s strength to drive a nail, now all you need is a nail gun. Let me not even start with power drills.

All that doesn’t mean men and women don’t need each other.

Korllami007:


Okay. Let start from here. Can you change a tire of a car?

Can you dig a well or a suck away?

stupidity:
ofcourse women have rights to all these you mentioned.


But does the equal rights ends there? You know what equal rights is don’t you? Rights to everything and all things.


Until women starts approaching men on the streets, woo men and end up proposing to and paying a man’s dowry. That’s only when I will take your course or whoever is in this course serious.


You don’t agitate for equal rights that’s only of interest to you and leave the vital ones.

wich kain rough play be dat? woman toasting a man and paying his dowry or like all those men who sit at home doing nothing but collecting allowance from his wife .such a man is not fit to be called a a man but a creature with pingolo b/w his legs.

I agree. However, it’s beginning to change though. More women are increasingly starting to recognize their self worth, hence the backlash from men.

Deepfeel:

Nigerian women Don't have high self-esteem, the training they got from their parents even contributes to their low self-esteem, most of them don't know their worth, marrying a rich man is an ultimate achievement for most of them in life, they see themselves as weaker vessels like their religion make believe, they see men as superior, even those women richer than men, give men money to pay for their bride price, to show they are under a man, the problem is right from the African culture and religion

Or those female Kurdish fighters that fought ISIS.

AmazonTopaz:

I never brought physical aspect to it you did.
Even when you quoted you never initially stated physical aspect but all of a sudden you have gone there so who is shifting the goal post now.
Besides is physical aspect the only thing that make men superior to women.
Some women are exceptions to such notions.
Soft work hard work yet men and women even though at different percentages still do the so called soft work and hardwork.
Talking about war check on women in the israeli military.

liberalchick:
everyone knows men are physically stronger than women, no dispute. However, with technology, the need for physical strength is gradually being phased out. I can change my tire and I can top the pressure of my tire. Go check Amazon there are many gadgets there that make these tasks so much easier. Another example, before you would need a man’s strength to drive a nail, now all you need is a nail gun. Let me not even start with power drills.

All that doesn’t mean men and women don’t need each other.

liberalchick:
everyone knows men are physically stronger than women, no dispute. However, with technology, the need for physical strength is gradually being phased out. I can change my tire and I can top the pressure of my tire. Go check Amazon there are many gadgets there that make these tasks so much easier. Another example, before you would need a man’s strength to drive a nail, now all you need is a nail gun. Let me not even start with power drills.

All that doesn’t mean men and women don’t need each other.

ehn sister really u can change ur car tyre? na where u take get strenght to jack d car up? any time u have to change ur car tyre it should be d job of ur husby or boyfwend or any guy close to u at dat moment.

No.

Bossjakande:
are u a christain.am writing a blog now it will be out Sunday afternoon or evening so I can mention u.

read my comments na. Seriously, you don’t need to pump to jack your car up again. Go to Amazon.

lefulefu:
ehn sister really u can change ur car tyre? na where u take get strenght to jack d car up? any time u have to change ur car tyre it should be d job of ur husby or boyfwend or any guy close to u at dat moment.

AmazonTopaz:
In simple terms
Equal participation means it is open to everybody.
Simple english, and yes we are wired differently even men among themselves they are wired differently and different in some aspects it is an individual thing that we are wired differently does not mean it should not be open to everyone which is where diversity comes in.

After you made this statement I was expecting you to say that you will organize and stage a protest in front of the national assembly or aso rock with your fellow women that you guys need equal participation in war front. Women participation will start from attending to wounded soldiers. You'll do it the same way some women stage a protest that they want equal participation in national assembly. Whereas, no one is stopping them from contesting. . You women protest for job where A/C de blow left and right, and money de pump in up and down. Na sweet place and sweet job una de fight for equality but a life threatening job, where chances of dying is higher, una no de protest for that one. Chai. Women una too like comfort.

lefulefu:
wich kain rough play be dat? woman toasting a man and paying his dowry or like all those men who sit at home doing nothing but collecting allowance from his wife .such a man is not fit to be called a a man but a creature with pingolo b/w his legs.

Na them de fight for equality now and women can also be the head of the family according to them. They should fight for equality completely now. Why choosing where to fight for equality.

liberalchick:
read my comments na. Seriously, you don’t need to pump to jack your car up again. Go to Amazon.

u mean a mechanised car jacker? ok i will check it up. anyway i was thinking u were using a manual car jacker. anyway when lady is doing physical work its always natural for a man around to offer to help because thats the right thing to do and simple courtsy demands it.any man who sits back and watch his wife or girlfriend trying to change oil in the generator or trying to fix the switch or bulb in d house is not a man.

Korllami007:


Na them de fight for equality now and women can also be the head of the family according to them. They should fight for equality completely now. Why choosing where to fight for equality.

Korllami007:


Na them de fight for equality now and women can also be the head of the family according to them. They should fight for equality completely now. Why choosing where to fight for equality.

everybody get im own role.man get im role and woman get her own role.it will look out of a place of a woman come dey propose to a man nau. she can give signs to a man if she 's attracted and from dere d guy go pick up.even yankee how many times we don cee women dey propose to man?

Thank God i don't know any men with such features. Have only met them on nairaland.

donbachi:
What is the low esteem there?you just sounded like a total feminist and like a woman that will never be submissive to any man,knowing your grandmother and mother did same to their husbands..as christians,we all know that the bible also talked about women been submissive to husbands.i don't know the point you are trying to prove..stop discouraging other women out there.most men are what you women made of them...it's you that really need to be reoroentations on how to respect and be submissive to men.

It is so cliché these days for guys to counter such discussions with "feminism" and hide behind it.

What is feminism?

ImaIma1:


It is so cliché these days for guys to counter such discussions with "feminism" and hide behind it.

What is feminism?

feminism is a woman that cannot stand and pee,challenging a man that can...can u spell girl with ur pee?

liberalchick:
Or those female Kurdish fighters that fought ISIS.

Exactly.

liberalchick:
“She is too emotional” it’s a sexist slur. It insinuates women are devoid of logic and incapable of making rational decisions.

Whereas they are as emotional and illogical as they claim women to be.

fieryy:
I totally agree with you. A lot of Nigerian men embrace a very toxic form of masculinity. The more misogynist a society is, the more you see this toxic masculinity ish.

The Nigerian society for example puts a lot of pressure on men. Their worth is usually defined by material things like their salary and not their character.
We all know how fickle material things are and truth is majority of men will always belong to either the middle or the lower class.

Since a lot of men also do not know how to communicate properly because it is interpreted as showing weakness, they tend to bundle up all their emotions.
The inability of not being able to handle your emotions and talk about how you feel means you having to eventually let it out in other ways.
This is usually done by hiding their vulnerability as well as insecurities behind anger.

A broke man, who knows society approves of men with big pockets is more likely to complain about gold diggers, even though he doesn't even really have the gold.

It's a man whose worth and respect is tied to his pocket that will feel insecure when he meets an independent lady. He'd rather go for a woman who depends on him financially, so he can complain with his pals about how women are useless and bring nothing to the table.

He's more likely to never date a woman who has more money that him. His excuse? "They can't handle succes".

From your comment, it sounds like men are confused and narcissistic.

These days, it seems like the test of a man is in how much he can insult ladies and call them lewd names

liberalchick:

“Molosho” never heard this before, very funny

It has been used on thos forum sonce last year.
Molosho is the male version of olosho.
Sameway shovel is to hoe(the name they call some ladies) I call them shovel.

lilbest4:
the men who patronise them don't cry that women objectify them

But they cry that women demand for money after sex

Korllami007:


After you made this statement I was expecting you to say that you will organize and stage a protest in front of the national assembly or aso rock with your fellow women that you guys need equal participation in war front. Women participation will start from attending to wounded soldiers. You'll do it the same way some women stage a protest that they want equal participation in national assembly. Whereas, no one is stopping them from contesting. . You women protest for job where A/C de blow left and right, and money de pump in up and down. Na sweet place and sweet job una de fight for equality but a life threatening job, where chances of dieing is higher una no de protest for that one. Chai. Women una too like comfort.

This your post does not concern the topic.
You mus not comment if you have nothong to say.
Since you have a problem since it is your idea you do the aforementioned

AmazonTopaz:

But they cry that women demand for money after sex

when you buy tomatoes from Market you have every right complain if you feel the price is too high or you discovered that they are rotten
Those men only complain that after buying a vagina they discovered that it stank like rotten fish or it is a well.

lilbest4:
when you buy tomatoes from Market you have every right complain if you feel the price is too high or you discovered that they are rotten

It is foolhardy to liken a human to a tomatoes.
Try better mr man my mention and your reply do not correlate

AmazonTopaz:

It is foolhardy to liken a human to a tomatoes.
Try better mr man my mention and your reply do not correlate

lol women sell their vagina what's the difference between it and tomatoes?

donbachi:
feminism is a woman that cannot stand and pee,challenging a man that can...can u spell girl with ur pee?

I see

lilbest4:
lol women sell their vagina what's the difference between it and tomatoes?

A tomatoes does not dictate it's price neither is it a living thing.
Very silly of you to make such comparison. So men sleep with tomatoes.
This shows your IQ is low.

AmazonTopaz:
A tomatoes does not dictate it's price neither is it a living thing.
Very silly of you to make such comparison. So men sleep with tomatoes.
This shows your IQ is low.

lol emotional outbursts already. Such a weakling.
Your vagina doesn't dictate its price, you the seller do just the same way a tomatoes seller dictates the price of his tomatoes.
Men pay and sleep with the oloshos you were defending for satisfaction the same way we buy tomatoes to cook and eat for our satisfaction. Different kinds of satisfaction but satisfaction all the same

lilbest4:
lol emotional outbursts already. Such a weakling.
Your vagina doesn't dictate its price, you the seller do just the same way a tomatoes seller dictates the price of his tomatoes.
Men pay and sleep with the oloshos you were defending for satisfaction the same way we buy tomatoes to cook and eat for our satisfaction

The bold does not work on me try something better.Only people who have no solid argument use that phrase.
You are actually making no sense.

liberalchick:
I agree. However, it’s beginning to change though. More women are increasingly starting to recognize their self worth, hence the backlash from men.

Same way it's beginning to change in women recognizing their self worth, men are changing too accepting the fact that, women are worth more than what our culture and religion made of them

AmazonTopaz:

It is irrational to liken a parent to a child and vice versa.
A parent and a child are two different entities are you insinuating that my father had no part to play in my upbringing?

Hmmn! When rastaman throws a stone over a fence & a dog yelps, then rastaman hits a dog.*just passing by*

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