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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Westtimeline: 5:21pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:


Shhhush. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Anyway you are free to post what makes you happy since you know all of us offline. What makes you sleep at night in delusion is okay by megrin cheesy.
Las las na yourself you dey do.
Go and sleep jare. Go and meet your mumu boyfriend. I don't take female like you that seriously. Go and pay the dowry of your weakling future husband and take control of him. No one cares.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jun 08, 2019
ornicus:


See what I mean - you’re like white trash redneck racists. The only thing they can hang on to is that they are ‘genetically better’ than blacks, because take that away from them, and they are absolutely nothing.

It is only the most abject of failures who have to rest on God made us superior, since they are inferior in most other endeavors.

Pele. Hope thats not what you hold on to when smarter girls beat you in class. Like the day a guy was telling his senior i am older than you, completely oblivious to the implications
sacrificing your nature given position will not guarantee you a successful life.
the richest men in the world did not get there just by throwing away their God given position

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Cuteamigo1(m): 5:23pm On Jun 08, 2019
uvie66:
I can easily pick holes in your argument, firstly it is women that have low self esteem of themselves, they are usually happy to become first lady rather than being governors themselves, they don't mind becoming 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or 5th wife as long as the man can pay the bills...Oba of Benin, Emir of Kano, M C Olumo etc...they don't care whether you are an abero, the watch word is pepper rest. The porn industry is dominated by women because it pays well, here again self esteem is non existent.
wait for them to tell you it's the fault of men. Everything that is wrong with them is never their fault but a man must take the blame. I won't take them seriously if were you.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by CorperKola: 5:24pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:

It is irrational to liken a parent to a child and vice versa.
A parent and a child are two different entities are you insinuating that my father had no part to play in my upbringing? undecided
Yeah you were raised by a weak man

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:25pm On Jun 08, 2019
Westtimeline:
Go and sleep jare. Go and meet your mumu boyfriend. I don't take female like you that seriously. Go and pay the dowry of your weakling future husband and take control of him. No one cares.
bye boy cheesy grin
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 5:26pm On Jun 08, 2019
CorperKola:
Yeah you were raised by a weak man

Tell that to your fathercheesy

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by odimbannamdi(m): 5:27pm On Jun 08, 2019
partnerbizz4:
All these baloney are for males like me, who are poor cool sad cool

Women keep saying one thing but doing the opposite.
Women are not seen or treated as commodities.

But it is what they have made themselves.

They have openly kept themselves as objects to be bought by the highest bidder -- applying the law of demand and supply. This hitherto, had been there albeit subtly.



Look at Ned and Regina. Why on earth did Regina leave the young, handsome boyfriend for Ned? Love?

The man bought her. Simple. Like you go to a car stand and buy a benz.
Look
Ubi franklin and his mamas
Iara and Oshiomhole
Davido, WizKids and mamas. Why would chioma stick with Davido for 5 years?

In these 5 years he had imprenated many girls, yet she stayed put. Why? Because of money, fame and affluence.


I admit that there are exceptions like the Jeff Bezoz's wife but it's just few.


So no need playing the victims. Women made themselves commodities. They aren't treated as such but they made themselves so.


At any rate, I won't support the slut shaming of women as seen in this forum. I also understand why men do it. It's survival instinct. Only a few would understand.

Shout out to my nigga franchasng. cool shocked

Baba, oil dey your head!

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Olatara(f): 5:33pm On Jun 08, 2019
tydi:


You did economics in sec school

I believe you know the law of demand and supply..

They close legs, we zip up.
No! They should close up, then u kidnap and rape girls still blame them for dressing inappropriately. Only few guys are mature, the ones on Nairaland are different breed entirely, loud, immature and abusive.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jun 08, 2019
Mk93:

sacrificing your nature given position will not guarantee you a successful life.
the richest men in the world did not get there just by throwing away their God given position

what rubbish are you talking about? you think every rich man is like those in your village? have you ever heard bill gates or jeff bezos run their mouths about how they are great because they can write their name with their piss?

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jun 08, 2019
partnerbizz4:
All these baloney are for males like me, who are poor cool sad cool

Women keep saying one thing but doing the opposite.
Women are not seen or treated as commodities.

But it is what they have made themselves.

They have openly kept themselves as objects to be bought by the highest bidder -- applying the law of demand and supply. This hitherto, had been there albeit subtly.



Look at Ned and Regina. Why on earth did Regina leave the young, handsome boyfriend for Ned? Love?

The man bought her. Simple. Like you go to a car stand and buy a benz.
Look
Ubi franklin and his mamas
Iara and Oshiomhole
Davido, WizKids and mamas. Why would chioma stick with Davido for 5 years?

In these 5 years he had imprenated many girls, yet she stayed put. Why? Because of money, fame and affluence.


I admit that there are exceptions like the Jeff Bezoz's wife but it's just few.


So no need playing the victims. Women made themselves commodities. They aren't treated as such but they made themselves so.


At any rate, I won't support the slut shaming of women as seen in this forum. I also understand why men do it. It's survival instinct. Only a few would understand.

Shout out to my nigga franchasng. cool shocked

As painful as it might be, I must agree with you. undecided
Kuddos for the gentleness with which you delivered the bitter truth.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by CorperKola: 5:38pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:



Tell that to your fathercheesy
tongue
On a serious note
Whatever rocks your boat.
Everybody will get whatever(or whoever) they want at the end(even if it takes long)
In the meantime Continue searching for a man like your Father.
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by CorperKola: 5:38pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:



Tell that to your fathercheesy
tongue
On a serious note
Whatever rocks your boat.
Everybody will get whatever(or whoever) they want at the end(even if it takes long)
In the meantime Continue searching for a man like your Father. tongue

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Westtimeline: 5:39pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
That is your opinion.The word weakling is not applicable in this sense.My parents are not complaining so mind your business.
I did not ask for your family's history.
So who ask you to bring your weakling dad's situation here in the first place.


Do not use you weakling family to advise anyone her, no one gives a flying folk about that.

Like I said, if you want a weakling husband you can't be submissive to. Start searching for him, maybe you will see in the next ten years.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jun 08, 2019
cococandy:
Lack jobs and productivity that’s why
but not all feminine are working? Tracing from a true source, 95% of women got employed through the other means. Ain't trying to counter your comment, but see it from other perspective.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by ufotty2001: 5:40pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:



Tell that to your fathercheesy
People like u after @ age 40.. Best place u will know best is prayer house and going to different church for husband. Nonsens.e

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Westtimeline: 5:41pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:



Tell that to your fathercheesy
His father is not weak. So you are the one to tell your own weak father.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Westtimeline: 5:42pm On Jun 08, 2019
I spit on weakling husband and father.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jun 08, 2019
ornicus:


what rubbish are you talking about? you think every rich man is like those in your village? have you ever heard bill gates or jeff bezos run their mouths about how they are great because they can write their name with their piss?
have you ever heard them say they become great because the gave away their natural position? if you think one can become rich just by accepting women as equal, then I will have to let you know you are wrong boy
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Westtimeline: 5:43pm On Jun 08, 2019
ufotty2001:

People like u after @ age 40.. Best place u will know best is prayer house and going to different church for husband. Nonsens.e
Shilo things grin.

She wants mumu like her hommie

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jun 08, 2019
Westtimeline:
So who ask you to bring your weakling dad's situation here in the first place.


Do not use you weakling family to advise anyone her, no one gives a flying folk about that.

Like I said, if you want a weakling husband you can't be submissive to. Start searching for him, maybe you will see in the next ten years.
hahahaha
my niggaa!
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by hesilo(m): 5:46pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:

I agree are you ready for me to come and pay your groom price?
Hope your friends would not call you a weakling?
Come pay mine, but i would have to assess if u have what i need in a woman aside being a feminist. Call me
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Westtimeline: 5:46pm On Jun 08, 2019
Olatara:
No! They should close up, then u kidnap and rape girls still blame them for dressing inappropriately. Only few guys are mature, the ones on Nairaland are different breed entirely, loud, immature and abusive.
See mature girl
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jun 08, 2019
Olatara:
No! They should close up, then u kidnap and rape girls still blame them for dressing inappropriately. Only few guys are mature, the ones on Nairaland are different breed entirely, loud, immature and abusive.
what are you still doing on niaraland when you know we are all whatever bad thing you could think of here?

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
Liberalchick, bukatyne, cococandy,choccolate,daeylar, pocohantas and many others I would love to read your thoughts on this smiley


Do you know there is no equality anywhere in the world , its either the system gives the women more power synonymous to overseas or men are allow to exercise there fundamental power.
There can never be two captain on a ship, even pilot onboard aint equals ... these has nothing to do with culture, mentality or been archaic its what life as bestowed upon us. you said:

"the African society focuses on training females more than males. They teach girls how to be good wives and mothers and they forget to train our boys" ALOL lemme correct that with my analogy
men are hardware while women are software lol!! do you know programmers & investors spend more time & money on creating softwares antivirus than the hardware itself ... you av a gadget than only get an update once a year but installed apps/softwares get updated almost every month grin
women are trained to be good wives just as those apps on your gadget are perfected with update regularly so as to be immune to the bugs & virus ..hence good softwares.
womens are draft becos man was lonely to be our companion preferably our partners .. shikena

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by kushme: 5:48pm On Jun 08, 2019
Kai, some men get time sha, dey argue or debate with women..

Most Men just want three things from wiimen(breeders) and they are :

1. Our belly filled (good food)...
2. Our balls empty(fvck us well)..
3. Give us space..


Well, shebi, I say these days men with power dey give jobs to more wiimen than men ..

Now, many young men are angry with society because of these men in power and the wiimen(pucci pass opportunists)..

Things hard but i dey sorry for those guys( especially the thirsty lazy ones) wey dey depend financially on girlfriend/wife for a long time support..
Cos, with time, she go rob am for your face.say, "no be me dey feed you".

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by laxxy(m): 5:48pm On Jun 08, 2019
I feel the day women stop seeing a man as a means to her meal ticket and start holding meaningful conversation and giving useful advices instead of the normal answer of I will pray for you as the answer to all problems then I believe the men that look down on them would start respecting women...most ladies sell themselves short.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jun 08, 2019
Mk93:

have you ever heard them say they become great because the gave away their natural position? if you think one can become rich just by accepting women as equal, then I will have to let you know you are wrong boy

people become rich by chasing their ambitions. losers remain where they are by focusing on how to hold down those 'nature has put below them'

no question as to which of the two cadres you fall into.

your permission is not required for anyone to do anything. continue wailing and grinding your teeth and 'she has nohusbanding' ' she is evening newspaper' as your see your betters advance to heights not even available to you in your dreams.

its funny - chauvinists are the same the world over. no difference between you and the nutcases who tried to kill malala. perpetually intimidated by the idea o uppity women who will not know their place in the league of those who can stand up to pee.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Smile4daddy(m): 5:54pm On Jun 08, 2019
AmazonTopaz:

The awareness is out there and will continually be and I do mine too.
I don't need you to take me serious neither is my personal life your bisiness.
I do not associate with chauvinist, misogynist and any dysfunctional male.
Don't forget you are a CHICK just be submissive.

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jun 08, 2019
ornicus:


people become rich by chasing their ambitions. losers remain where they are by focusing on how to hold down those 'nature has put below them'

no question as to which of the two cadres you fall into.

your permission is not required for anyone to do anything. continue wailing and grinding your teeth and 'she has nohusbanding' ' she is evening newspaper' as your see your betters advance to heights not even available to you in your dreams.

its funny - chauvinists are the same the world over. no difference between you and the nutcases who tried to kill malala. perpetually intimidated by the idea o uppity women who will not know their place in the league of those who can stand up to pee.
the president of this country believe his wife should belong to the kitchen and the other room but that did not stop him from being successful.
the nonsense you pasted up there will not make you successful and rich. having women walk on your head will not give food to your empty stomach
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by trapQ: 5:57pm On Jun 08, 2019
Next time a female boss orders you around, tell her to sit her ass down that you're in charge okay?
stupidity:
what equal rights are you lots always talking about? There is a reason God created man and woman differently. There’s a reason man pays a woman’s dowry and make her his wife. So many reason why a woman is a woman and a man being a man and superior. There can never be an equal right.



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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by cococandy(f): 6:00pm On Jun 08, 2019
If it’s not lock and key, it’s hardware and software. Y’all use meaningless analogies to avoid the discussion about being decent human beings. Nonsense
ericsmith:



Do you know there is no equality anywhere in the world , its either the system gives the women more power synonymous to overseas or men are allow to exercise there fundamental power.
There can never be two captain on a ship, even pilot onboard aint equals ... these has nothing to do with culture, mentality or been archaic its what life as bestowed upon us. you said:

"the African society focuses on training females more than males. They teach girls how to be good wives and mothers and they forget to train our boys" ALOL lemme correct that with my analogy
men are hardware while women are software lol!! do you know programmers & investors spend more time & money on creating softwares antivirus than the hardware itself ... you av a gadget than only get an update once a year but installed apps/softwares get updated almost every month grin
women are trained to be good wives just as those apps on your gadget are perfected with update regularly so as to be immune to the bugs & virus ..hence good softwares.
womens are draft becos man was lonely to be our companion preferably our partners .. shikena

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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by trapQ: 6:01pm On Jun 08, 2019
These niggas have an average IQ of -40.
Don't let them deplete your IQ please.
breakerofchains:



That is a BLOODY lie.

This is how you keep saying trash and defending it with "nature"

Leadership skills? See how they have managed the world affairs. Ruining everything with their silly egos and stupid sense of masculinity.

A greater percentage of crimes and acts of violence towards women and even their fellow men are commited by MEN.

Don't mention men and leadership qualities in the same sentence.

Emotional intelligence nkor?

Let's not even go there.
If you want us to do this debate, let's create a whole new thread and do just that just as long as you leave your religions and stick to logic and facts


I have time today.

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