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Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by ibkayee(f): 4:09pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
pocohantas:Lool I don’t know for them 6 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
eodavids:I hate men like you more than the devil...all male feminists should be killed and their carcasses fed to dogs. You don't know what the eff you're saying. |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Habeyy(m): 4:09pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
@op bros How this one take comcern you is what I am finding hard to phantom Is it your headache Moralist like you are the real problem of this country Face your business If you learn to mimd your biz,you will have less time for this In other words, thanks for informing us Get busy with ur hustle... pray for them if you truly cares 10 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25: not only nigerian women. google |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Arkmanbuddy(m): 4:10pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25: Do they have kids? |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by franchasng: 4:12pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
eodavids:Tell them!! 5 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Halo22: 4:13pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
The truth remains that every man should at least try to be able to be feeding and paying his house rents before thinking of how to have a family else, u are on a woe. I am writing from experience. 4 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by trapQ: 4:13pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
If you don't want to be disrespected by your wife in the presence of a guest then you shouldn't disrespect her in the presence of a guest. eni4real: 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by kevin25(m): 4:13pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Arkmanbuddy:yes a boy and a girl |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Xisnin:Pick him from the gutter The man is not educated?? He won't eventually get employed He will never be successful without the woman intervention I think I will have to agree with the op on this. Avoid every woman that think you are less of a man or want to negotiate leadership with you just because she is about to assist your struggling self... Sometimes, You can't blame culture and religion that promote polygamy . This woman is the only one. Why won't she tun herself to a demi God... I pity the man tho, she married a woman meant for a temperamental man.. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by GRACEGLORY: 4:13pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
kevin25: It's only a problem of both inferiority and superiority complex. Nothing is wrong with a woman being well schooled and bouyant than her husband. It doesn't change the standard of the home, except in a case like this, where both parties don't know their roles, and are ego murdered. All a man and a woman has belongs to both parties. Ignorance breeds headache. 3 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Ugosample(m): 4:14pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
pocohantas:the one wey I see na im I talk. Or you want me to lie on this forum? I respect those women tho they hustled like mad tho it is now telling on their bodies |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by ibkayee(f): 4:15pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
pocohantas: Ugosample: 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by trapQ: 4:15pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Lol, my brother was once this way, until his fiance got ill and he had to wash not just her clothes but her vomit. Life has not hit you, don't worry. eni4real: 6 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
trapQ:"Dear pls dish my food" is a disrespectful call right?? That is immaturity on the part of the woman. There is nothing disrespectful in that!!! 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by gforce5: 4:17pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
I am so tired of niggaz complaining about dating/marrying women who earn more than they do. When they tell you to marry women of your levels, you will not listen. A woman who is a high salary earner is not going to endure your "Headship" B.S. Even the religious ones can only endure for so long. I'm not giving these women any excuses on their behaviour but something's got to give guys. When you find yourself in that situation, you have to bring something to the table in order to make them appreciate you. It could be your intellect, charisma, bed skills or character. If you really want someone who is going to "submit" to your "headship" then marry a someone you can control. Otherwise, you have to change your attitude and be smart. You cannot be whining about poor girls bringing nothing to a relationship but sex and then when you find someone who brings more than that, you nag that she's not respectful enough. The reality on ground is that most Nigerian women regardless of class are very materialistic. Choose your poison. 13 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Arijude(m): 4:17pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure:Everyone can't be a pvssy like your husband . |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by mechanics(m): 4:17pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Not all women. 2 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Theyoungmatron: 4:18pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Billy0naire:TELL THEM SIR. 2 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Inception(m): 4:18pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
olaolaking: HOLD THAT WOMAN WELL OOO!!!! When we played , millions of girls were at beck and call. It was when we decide to marry, that you you will realize that women are very, very, very, very , very, very,very, very... Scarce. To the OP i will only say this: RESPECT IS EARNED. NOT BOUGHT. NOT DEMANDED FOR. 8 Likes |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by HBB1(m): 4:18pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Dated a woman who was earning 5 times what I earned. She was the kindest, smartest person I know. Though her sanguine nature sometimes got on my nerves-- as she 'talks a lot,' she has the kindest heart! Only girl I know who washed my underpants... Wakes me up with food, and constantly sends food to me at work ( even when outside the country). We were not on the same level, at all, she was smarter than me and way more charismatic! How did we gel? I allowed her be herself, I was not intimidated about her successes, and constantly asked her to improve herself. She had never done well with controlling people as she has an adventurous spirit, so I never sought to do so. Every sane human being despises control, but wants to be lead. Our cultural evils have a lot centred on control-- Parent, Husband, Pastor, Boss, Politician... All thinking they are the all-in-all. I say to such people, ' calm the Bleep down!, You are just a human being' I however don't support abuse and arrogance from a woman and vice versa, if my wife changes to something else, I will leave her, no time for rubbish. My father controlled my mum and she never realised her true potential-- her charisma, charm and talents all died because my dad was afraid. I was trained to wash dishes, do house chores and I do so till date. My woman won't end up looking like a hag due to overwork. This is not me defending feminism though, a man is the head, he leads but doesn't rule! 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by mirexxx(f): 4:19pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
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Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by LordKO(m): 4:20pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
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Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by LordKO(m): 4:20pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
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Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by trapQ: 4:20pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Even this one that can't type properly is deriding women. It is well. kevin25: 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Ugosample(m): 4:20pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
ibkayee:lmao what's funny |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by juwoonn(m): 4:20pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
sassysure:Nigerians love to judge.. Don't judge if you do not hear from both couples.. this report is from a third party. As much as this info looks like a complete story, I'm sure we don't have up to 70% of the info that can necessitate an accurate judgement. No need to take it personal. |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
From time I cant move in with a woman that stacks more than myself. Subconsicously she will never respect you, no matter how lovey dovey it seems 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
trapQ:Of Course. That is understandable!!! She is ill. Even if she is not sick but tired. Helping out is not a problem. But to say that "I have never dished out food for my husband since we married. After he finish eating his food he will wash his plate any dish he met on the basin..." Ha ha. You guys should stop emasculating men especially those that are gentle.. Issues like this make Polygamist believe they are better off.. 1 Like |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by ibkayee(f): 4:22pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Ugosample:Thanks for appreciating we hardworking Yoruba gals |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Bossjakande: 4:22pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
ogorwyne:gosh my delta beauty how did u know IBO like dis.? hahaha how much now I will give u d key to my heart and plenty kissed lol |
Re: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by Theyoungmatron: 4:22pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
eni4real:I didn't read where the man said dear dish my food Please where is it ? He must have exhibited the usual Nigerian men character and was shocked to the marrow by the reaction. Action and reactions are always equal and opposite. No woman will wander away at the sound of a pet name, she will snicker and behave anyhow but will still respond somehow. 9 Likes |
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