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Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shit ticks us off. shows you are in charge and have Capacity.

I man with power, money, and fame would never over respect any, you are to him an equal.

Earthquake3:
Na wa o all for a girl
If they tell una to initiate chat na so una go dey piss for pant

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, het the lady on the defense, then swap in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which..

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignoring the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

GISTM0RE:

derrydinny:
and which law states that it I only the man that should make the conversation lively?


but the man f up true true, wtf is what does gloria likes to do?

ibkayee:
Don’t see anything wrong with what the guy wrote. He asked basic introductory questions, what ‘meaningful’ thing did she want him to contribute at that stage? Lol

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

LesbianBoy:
Maybe she wanted him to ask her personal question like "Are you a virgin"? Or tell her "Send me your account number"


Meanwhile.....


Oya change this ya profile picture Eyaff tey!

LesbianBoy:
It's a lie! It will work with you too stop forming!

Amakavula:
I have a "blocklist " of monikers on Nairaland I don't reply or interact with what so ever. If you want to join them , call me a liar again.

Amakavula:
I have a "blocklist " of monikers on Nairaland I don't reply or interact with what so ever. If you want to join them , call me a liar again.

LesbianBoy:
Oshey.....Nairaland's beyonce!

**Uses mic so she can hear it very well**

Liarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

Liar Liar pants on fire!



**Drops mic**

AwkaetitiBabe:
Men of these days are fond of the "What do you do" question, immediately you guys start chatting.

Quite annoying

pocohantas:
If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

Go for organizations dinner parties, you see people introducing themselves and asking these questions. No one gets angry, maybe because it is a gathering of professionals or because they are seeing physically.

Him; What do you do?

She; I am a doctor, a baker, a cook, an olosho...

Throw the question back at him. What do you do too? If they are in similar sectors, fine. Another topic done commot o!

If for confidential reasons she isn't ready to disclose that, she can politely decline.