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Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:37am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deji63: What are you on? We are not children or lily White Puritans here. People have sex with people they do not plan on having babies with all the time. It is what separates us from animals that are on heat periodically 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deepfeel(m): 6:37am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nkwuocha: The both of them are stupid cause having unprotected sex with someone you are not married to is risky it could have been worse apart from pregnancy STDS are there to watch out for, 500K to start with ?haba this is Nigeria things don't work like that, I have seen court divorcing married couples with 3 kids giving custody of the kids to the mother, placing the father on child support of just 10k a month 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:41am On Jun 18, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: Nature is not fair. It is the woman who is carrying the pregnancy, not so?it is the woman who will give birth, not so? It is the woman chasing the guy on social media. Nature has made it such that it is WOMEN who bear kids. So taking a lions share of responsibility for pregnancy as an emancipated adult female is a no brainer. Who is it that must avoid drugs alcohol etc during pregnancy, the man or the woman? 3 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deji63: 6:42am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: And when they take such risks they should face the consequences that come with it . Shikena. If he got infected with HIV in the process he would have faced it squarely. Wouldnt he? So he should do same with the pregnancy. Risk taker, all na consequence. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:46am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deji63: That is the issue here. The woman deliberately refused to follow through. She could have taken postinor 2,she could have gotten an abortion. All those considered she wants to be baby mama /wife by force. She is not a small pikin with no access to safe methods of termination. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by yeyeosoronga: 6:51am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: That's why it's her body . However, if the man is so averse to having children, then snip it away. Thank goodness things are changing, and people are being made to face their responsibilities. The unborn child remains the responsibility of both people who gave it life including the man who got its mother pregnant. A woman may take a lion's share in looking after a pregnancy, because whatever she does affects the fetus, but the dynamics change when you have a livebirth. OP, you should have your baby first before all this noise. Go to the courts and let them order a DNA test. Once that's sorted and he is established as the father, the child becomes his responsibility. Safe delivery, call us to come and chop rice during the naming. 4 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by murphyibiam15(m): 6:52am On Jun 18, 2019 |
CaptainMitch:chief pikko, jokwa sir, e don tey oo..how your end |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deji63: 6:52am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: My btother you be learner? You never see where woman go say she take postinor 2 still get belle? Best bet if you dont want to screw yourself up is abstain, use protection always or only go raw when you know you can marry her. That's how to stay safe. For me, abortion is tantamount to murder so its a no no. I dont encourage that. 3 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:53am On Jun 18, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: I wish her good luck. It is the poor child that will suffer in all this. Rejected by dad and very possibly resented by the same mother after all is said and done if the guy doesn't come through. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 6:56am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deji63: Yes, we see the.those who spit it out because, like the op, they want to bear someones pikin. This was a one night stand, not a week long marathon. People don't like abortion, but also do not like taking care of the armies of neglected children in this country. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by yeyeosoronga: 7:01am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: Is abortion legal in Nigeria? How do you know she has access to safe abortion? What if her beliefs are against abortion? She may be a pro lifer, and believe it is murder. She has a right to her beliefs. You shouldn't have postinor more than 2ce in a month, and I'm sure they were quaffing steadily and definitely more than 2ce a month. Who uses postinor as a form of family planning if not ignorant people? It's an EMERGENCY contraception and shouldn't be used anyhow. This is for those who swallow postinor like pure water, you're just messing up your hormones and inviting all sorts of disorders into your lives. Even oyibo that brought it don't try the nonsense people try with positnor. It's high time all these meds/ things are regulated 5 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 7:20am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deepfeel: I blame both of them.But then the bigger blame goes to the man.He already has got baggages, he should be the smarter one here, knowing how women can be , especially single ladies.He played with her feelings, lied to her , knockesd her up and now he wants to bail That lady need to contact me, i have a good doctor friend that can bill her that muxh in his private clinic in VI.By the time him pay hospital bills alone, him eye go clear 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 7:24am On Jun 18, 2019 |
bukatyne: Can call it fraud or anything, She should do that. Let the guy pay through his teeth. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deepfeel(m): 7:27am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nkwuocha:What if he refuses to pay and keeps denying that the child is not his till a DNA is done before he will spend Kobo |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 7:28am On Jun 18, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: The moment she chose to fornicate I think those religious beliefs went out the window Add adultery to the mix Then Remember that it was a one night stand, if I'm not mistaken. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 7:28am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: I dont think this case at this point needs any atom of moral compass.A fraud like himself should be seriously dealt with.The unborn child is already a meal ticket.Look, I'm not here to sugarcoat anything. When i say she should run him down, it includes stripping him off of everything left of him. If she likes make she dey dull. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 7:30am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deepfeel: No problem, when the DNA is out he will still pay na.Na just delay, but he go still pay las las |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 7:31am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nkwuocha: Lying to have sex is not fraud Men and women do it all the time in different ways. You have been watching too much oyibo tv. This is Nigeria It is a patrichal society. If you're thinking she will be hammering big chunks of the man's income as child support, you are on a very long thing. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deepfeel(m): 7:34am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nkwuocha:Las las they will just place him on a child support allowance of 10-20k the lady will still suffer more you know |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 7:36am On Jun 18, 2019 |
[quote]He was living with a lady before we started talking. The lady moved out. He jumps from club to club and ladies to ladies.Caught him more than 3 times. I told my friend all these and the reply he gave her when she queried him was that the lady cheated on him and he told her to go. 7. This is not about money. It is about him doing what is right. I am ready for any test or DNA just to prove to the fool that he baby is his. [/quote ] Just FYI. I think it should be clear now that the op is just stoopid. She walked into this with her eyes and vagina wide open. I was even think3the guy was husband material. Na real wa. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 7:50am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: Look, I come from a very responsible family setting, forgive me if i find some certain things irritating. I had to boldly rubbish your "feminism" sentence because i noticed many if you here use that to slut shane women, even when its absolutely not necessary. A man is FULLY responsible for any PREGNANCY he committed, it DOESN'T matter if his intention was never to have a baby.ANYMAN that sleeos without a woman without protection MUST be ready to accept whatever consequences thereof.... I absolve the lady of any serios blame when i realise that she is not even aware he is a married man.Guy, we know how e be, many men are adulterous.Around me, you see very wealtgy ones sleeping around but cases like this hardly comes by.Its all this one-room lowlives, you see creating more nuisances in the society despite their limited resources. "Unliterally taking a decision to bring a child?Na she fuk herself?So you want her to abort the child?And what if she dies in the process?Are you aware that even if(God forbid) she dies at childbirth, this guy is also in serious problem? If we all know tgat nigerian women are desperate why then my guy man go looseguard?Him comot nylon lick sweet now hom dey complain of stomach ache. Finally, to me the lady is lenient.She just got a foul mouth, thats all.There are some " strong " minded ladies that he wont try this and still standing on his feet.For a lady who stays in Ikorodu, Ijebu ode environs, and the guy still dey waka, She has a good heart. 7 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 7:51am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deepfeel: As long as he pays for child support to qualms.No be naija we dey?Who is having it easy?Even if its one kobo, let him pay. 2 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 7:53am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Poor child, the internet never forgets. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Nobody: 7:56am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nkwuocha:
That is your innocent victim. What was she expecting? I have alway been feminist. And for me it is not just about rights but about TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LIFE. You do not commit pregnancy. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 7:56am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: Who is talking about bog Chucks?Before she concluded her message i already knew already the guy must be this lowlives who are greatly irresponsible.Lying to have sex may not be fraud but its a Lie and lying sometimes may come with hefty consequences.The lie don turn to 8 months, No matter how he runs from it, as long as she takes legal means, he definitely will be mandated to show some level of responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by bukatyne(f): 8:01am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nkwuocha: @bold: One of which is not fraud. |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 8:03am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: The court wont even waste time to know who was living with what!NO!We are talking about a pregnancy here and not what led to what.There's no time for that.Did he have unprotected sex with her?If he did, a DNA may be conducted and he will be forced to pay.Simple! I dont care if you're a feminist. There are women who are not!It doesnt make them less irresponsible.Many of you feminists these days are even becoming babymamas just like every other girl.Dont force your doctrine on people. 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Rosarie(f): 8:04am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deji63:pls stop making excuses for stipudity.the man in question has always been irresponsible.its like u see a mad man!u know he is mad and u still slept with him. First he had a woman without paying dowry living with him.what do u expect from such a person.you openly choose to be a second fiddle. Let me tell u something;women have what we call intuition but choose to ignore it due to gain or desperation. Then again he is sleeping around and u knew.u did not break up.lf he gave her hiv do u think she would say ityou choose to settle for less.less you will get.women need to realize themselves and stop been petty.you see signs he is not the one then why not break up.when u know it will all fall back on you.women need to love themselves more you will see a lady date a man for so many years.las Las he will not marry.when u know as a woman your time ticks.my dear the blame falls on women.so use your brain women.by God's grace I have daughters and I am already grooming them to know their worth.these days girls open their legs without shame.dont be surprised she and her friends had discussed to get preggy that the man will marry her .guy nor try women ooo.i am a woman.whilst the man is living with another woman at home.why did she not consider the one at home.you will see a side chick saying she is in love with a married man.and yet know he is married;if such is done to u how would you feel.she is getting what she planned.why not use CD.do u know women have the highest rate of hiv. this is a man's world.find your feet as a woman.love yourself and never allow yourself to be treated less than u deserve . 3 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 8:05am On Jun 18, 2019 |
bukatyne: Its not fraud.. its payback time.He is lucky the said lady isnt who i know personally.The guy salary go red! |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Deepfeel(m): 8:05am On Jun 18, 2019 |
nkwuocha:Yes or na naija we dey that's why am more worried about her cause even if the man is forced to be paying child support he might not do it, the system is too F*cked up to follow up such cases, I know of a lawyer barrister Emeka ugwounye founder of the due process advocate, who handle cases like this and follows it up, but the man is in prison in Abuja cause of a sensitive information he posted in public regarding the murder of one of his female client 1 Like |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:08am On Jun 18, 2019 |
ornicus: Jeez how the hell will a man have a one night stand and not use condom? One night stand means "e no go happen again" and "I no go see you again", so why should a man be that careless? When sex is involved, it is a two way thing, anything that happens after is their responsibility, if it is pregnancy and agree for abortion, two of them should foot the bill, if it is pregnancy and she doesn't abort, two of them will take care of the child simple. 8 Likes |
Re: He Abandoned Me With Pregnancy.Please Where Can I Report Him For Child Support? by nkwuocha: 8:09am On Jun 18, 2019 |
Deepfeel: Yes! This is naija.The system is fcked like you said.But the bills that will come in early years of the lad, he must participate.Thats one of the most crucial moment in a child's life. 1 Like |
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