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Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 10:35pm On Jun 30, 2019
At the inception of 2018 I thought my pre wedding photos will be on the front page of NL (with a new moniker wink)but it seems I am a bit mistaken. Looking forward to meeting a partner is turning to a full time job ( or maybe is not, perhaps I am over thinking or ... ) I am thinking perhaps my transfer is the main cause but I am 2years here already. I know say I done cast well but is just funny, really funny. I am not looking for advice pls, I am only thinking out loud with the aid of Budweiser, hoping to read this when I start thinking again. At least I won't have to think again.

If you happen to be in this category you can share your thought ( guys only)

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by DOMINO001: 10:36pm On Jun 30, 2019
You go hail naa.
Me las las if my schedule tight, my sis go help me find woman abeg. After all I don't attach any much importance to marriage.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 10:45pm On Jun 30, 2019
DOMINO001:
You go hail naa.
Me las las if my schedule tight, my sis go help me find woman abeg. After all I don't attach any much importance to marriage.
lol...the lady my sis was trying to recommend to me to ehhnnn, when I saw her pics, make I end story abeq

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by DOMINO001: 11:03pm On Jun 30, 2019
bluskyee:
lol...the lady my sis was trying to recommend to me to ehhnnn, when I saw her pics, make I end story abeq
Tell her to recommend like 3 then you choose one

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jun 30, 2019
bluskyee:
lol...the lady my sis was trying to recommend to me to ehhnnn, when I saw her pics, make I end story abeq

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by SageMK: 11:06pm On Jun 30, 2019
Be a success.
Set your priorities right as a man.
And you'll find it easy finding a partner.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 30, 2019
Naso e dey be o.

When e reach time to settle down,

You will realise girlfriend plenty, but wife scarce.

Men dey, na husband be problem.

You see the one wey fine, e no get sense.

The one wey get sense, she no get nyash...no sexual attraction.

The one wey get nyash, she too like instagram and snapchat. In fact, na undercover-slay queen.

The one wey get everything you want, she is in a relationship. grin


This life ehn...

Just a select few will be lucky to see every they want in one.

Last last, so many will have to compromise.

You see that your list and standard, you go dey reduce am small small.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:12pm On Jun 30, 2019
0KNM:


noted.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 11:13pm On Jun 30, 2019
You are too proud. Joor. If every body will decide what they will look like every body will look like Miss World.
Lonely man.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:14pm On Jun 30, 2019
SageMK:
Be a success.
Set your priorities right as a man.
And you'll find it easy finding a partner.
like seriously, bro I should be telling you all that. I thought I said no advise...just think out loud if you are in the same category... If you have it figured out, no point being here

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:18pm On Jun 30, 2019
DOMINO001:

Tell her to recommend like 3 then you choose one
lols she was angry I decided not to meet the lady, I don't think she will be that nice ...

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:20pm On Jun 30, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Naso e dey be o.

Na when e reach time to settle down,

You will realise girlfriend plenty, but wife scarce.

Men dey, na husband be problem.

You see the one wey fine, e no get sense.

The one wey get sense, she no get nyash...no sexual attraction.

The one wey get nyash, she too like instagram and snapchat. In fact, na undercover-slay queen.

The one wey get everything you want, she is in a relationship. grin


This life ehn...

Just a select few will be lucky to see every they want in one.

Last last, so many will have to compromise.

You see that your list and standard, you go dey reduce am small small.
bro where are you from, I like this guy already. You see the one with everything she is already taken....who them come leave the remaining for?

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Bbbwings: 11:22pm On Jun 30, 2019
Hmmm
I'm thirty this year. shocked shocked
sad

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 11:26pm On Jun 30, 2019
Filmewell:
You are too proud. Joor. If every body will decide what they will look like every body will look like Miss World.
Lonely man.
you already judging me, you are not fair. I am not a lonley man...though sometimes but not entirely. Everyone is lonely sometimes hence it is not particular to me..."lonely man" got me laughing though.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 11:57pm On Jun 30, 2019
The reason you are finding it difficult is because

Boys fvck who they can
Girls fvck who they want
But boys marry who they want
Girls marry who they can


Finding who we want is hard that's why boys detest marriage

Finding who we can is easy that's why girls like marriage

Sense will not kill me

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:13am On Jul 01, 2019
Bbbwings:
Hmmm
I'm thirty this year. shocked shocked
sad
We all age...
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:16am On Jul 01, 2019
Ighoga898:
The reason you are finding it difficult is because

Boys fvck who they can
Girls fvck who they want
But boys marry who they want
Girls marry who they can


Finding who we want is hard that's why boys detest marriage

Finding who we can is easy that's why girls like marriage

Sense will not kill me
I never thought it will be this difficult. I have fun on my own terms but I thought by now I should have settled. But I have not had a reasonable date. Sadly I can't marry a colleague, due to policies. Not that I fancy any female colleague though

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 12:35am On Jul 01, 2019
bluskyee:
you already judging me, you are not fair. I am not a lonley man...though sometimes but not entirely. Everyone is lonely sometimes hence it is not particular to me..."lonely man" got me laughing though.
Not judging. Saying what I understand from your post.
Everyone is lonely at some point but some are more lonelier than others. -George Orwell
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 12:44am On Jul 01, 2019
Filmewell:

Not judging. Saying what I understand from your post.
Everyone is lonely at some point but some are more lonelier than others. -George Orwell
I just didn't like the person I saw on the picture, no offense intended. I am not lonlier, I have friends come over weekin- weekout...I am just as lonely as the average person
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 12:50am On Jul 01, 2019
bluskyee:
I just didn't like the person I saw on the picture, no offense intended. I am not lonlier, I have friends come over weekin- weekout...I am just as lonely as the average person
Why are you awake still. Am having insomnia what's your reason?
Okay you are not lonely I agree after all it was my opinion. But with the fun you ve had all the while you need 6 years of celibacy so that you can really see a wife not a fling..

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by bluskyee: 1:00am On Jul 01, 2019
Filmewell:

Why are you awake still. Am having insomnia what's your reason?
Okay you are not lonely I agree after all it was my opinion. But with the fun you ve had all the while you need 6 years of celibacy so that you can really see a wife not a fling..
I am awake because I am awake, I will soon retire though. I still need to wake by 5:30am, I am used to it though cos if I were not surfing, I will be studying. 6years is too much na haba! How long have you had insomnia?
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Filmewell(f): 1:05am On Jul 01, 2019
bluskyee:
I am awake because I am awake, I will soon retire though. I still need to wake by 5:30am, I am used to it though cos if I were not surfing, I will be studying. 6years is too much na haba! How long have you had insomnia?

About 10 years now.
How I wish I can just close my eyes and sleep.
Good morning and have a good week.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by actoor(m): 1:43am On Jul 01, 2019
Filmewell:


About 10 years now.
How I wish I can just close my eyes and sleep.
Good morning and have a good week.



Hnmmmmmmmm
I just dey Waka pass....

Looking left & right before crossing Nairaland main Express road...

Vooo Ooo uu oomMmm...

Thank God oh,
I almost got hit by reckless NL Okada riders...

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Donchukz(m): 2:50am On Jul 01, 2019
You guys are disturbing me,I needed to wake around 5:30 for a little work out,then take my shower around 6:30,then off I go. But,reminding of how to look for life partner,am yet to see one...you guys can recommend my future wife to me,if u see her. Tell am say I dey wait. Do have a wonderful wk
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 3:02am On Jul 01, 2019
I do here stories like yours... Say wife dey scarce.. I wish you success in your search bro

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by coruso(m): 7:06am On Jul 01, 2019
bluskyee:
At the inception of 2018 I thought my pre wedding photos will be on the front page of NL (with a new moniker wink)but it seems I am a bit mistaken. Looking forward to meeting a partner is turning to a full time job ( or maybe is not, perhaps I am over thinking or ... ) I am thinking perhaps my transfer is the main cause but I am 2years here already. I know say I done cast well but is just funny, really funny. I am not looking for advice pls, I am only thinking out loud with the aid of Budweiser, hoping to read this when I start thinking again. At least I won't have to think again.

If you happen to be in this category you can share your thought ( guys only)
nah this level me I dey too oh!, the thing is no time to even socialise.
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 7:33am On Jul 01, 2019
I can relate with you OP. For me I am outside of the country and I already made up my mind not to marry from outside the country. I have been meeting people online but after relating with them for sometime I realise the extent of how ignorant, materialistic and focus-less most ladies are.

I was following up with a lady last week, then I saw her whatsap status - ENU GBE, E FUN MI LOWO ENU GBG (i am broke, please give me money I am broke). What kind of human being comes on social media to write such trash ? People dont even have respect for themselves or their families.

WheN i WAS in school I was placed on minimum wage and I tried to live within my means how can people just begin to behave like peasants, so that pissed me off and I just cancelled that babe.

The next one was even a little promising but on 2 occasions I was speaking to her and she was speaking to other people, imagine chatting someone and they admit they are also chatting up to 7 people at the same time.

Then I rebuked the person and the next few days we are talking on phone and the person is typing and after I asked what was going on she said she was chatting with people while speaking with me on whatsap call, I did not even react, but I just cancelled her in my mind.

It is quite tough really, the quality of women out there is really very low, we just have a few who are young and have proper sense.

Goodluck as we continue to search... grin grin grin

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Ishilove: 7:38am On Jul 01, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Naso e dey be o.

Na when e reach time to settle down,

You will realise girlfriend plenty, but wife scarce.

Men dey, na husband be problem.

You see the one wey fine, e no get sense.

The one wey get sense, she no get nyash...no sexual attraction.

The one wey get nyash, she too like instagram and snapchat. In fact, na undercover-slay queen.

The one wey get everything you want, she is in a relationship. grin


This life ehn...

Just a select few will be lucky to see every they want in one.

Last last, so many will have to compromise.

You see that your list and standard, you go dey reduce am small small.
Oversense dey worry yoh

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 7:40am On Jul 01, 2019
bluskyee:
I never thought it will be this difficult. I have fun on my own terms but I thought by now I should have settled. But I have not had a reasonable date. Sadly I can't marry a colleague, due to policies. Not that I fancy any female colleague though
Stop finding and let your partner locate you themselves
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Ishilove: 7:44am On Jul 01, 2019
calgaryFriend:
I can relate with you OP. For me I am outside of the country and I already made up my mind not to marry from outside the country. I have been meeting people online but after relating with them for sometime I realise the extent of how ignorant, materialistic and focus-less most ladies are.

I was following up with a lady last week, then I saw her whatsap status - ENU GBE, E FUN MI LOWO ENU GBG (i am broke, please give me money I am broke). What kind of human being comes on social media to write such trash ? People dont even have respect for themselves or their families.

WheN i WAS in school I was placed on minimum wage and I tried to live within my means how can people just begin to behave like peasants, so that pissed me off and I just cancelled that babe.

The next one was even a little promising but on 2 occasions I was speaking to her and she was speaking to other people, imagine chatting someone and they admit they are also chatting up to 7 people at the same time.

Then I rebuked the person and the next few days we are talking on phone and the person is typing and after I asked what was going on she said she was chatting with people while speaking with me on whatsap call, I did not even react, but I just cancelled her in my mind.

It is quite tough really, the quality of women out there is really very low, we just have a few who are young and have proper sense.

Goodluck as we continue to search... grin grin grin
It seems you are a very difficult, rigid and impatient person.

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Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by boiz2men(m): 8:10am On Jul 01, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Naso e dey be o.

Na when e reach time to settle down,

You will realise girlfriend plenty, but wife scarce.

Men dey, na husband be problem.

You see the one wey fine, e no get sense.

The one wey get sense, she no get nyash...no sexual attraction.

The one wey get nyash, she too like instagram and snapchat. In fact, na undercover-slay queen.

The one wey get everything you want, she is in a relationship. grin


This life ehn...

Just a select few will be lucky to see every they want in one.

Last last, so many will have to compromise.

You see that your list and standard, you go dey reduce am small small.
my dilemma sad
Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 01, 2019
calgaryFriend:
I can relate with you OP. For me I am outside of the country and I already made up my mind not to marry from outside the country. I have been meeting people online but after relating with them for sometime I realise the extent of how ignorant, materialistic and focus-less most ladies are.

I was following up with a lady last week, then I saw her whatsap status - ENU GBE, E FUN MI LOWO ENU GBG (i am broke, please give me money I am broke). What kind of human being comes on social media to write such trash ? People dont even have respect for themselves or their families.

WheN i WAS in school I was placed on minimum wage and I tried to live within my means how can people just begin to behave like peasants, so that pissed me off and I just cancelled that babe.

The next one was even a little promising but on 2 occasions I was speaking to her and she was speaking to other people, imagine chatting someone and they admit they are also chatting up to 7 people at the same time.

Then I rebuked the person and the next few days we are talking on phone and the person is typing and after I asked what was going on she said she was chatting with people while speaking with me on whatsap call, I did not even react, but I just cancelled her in my mind.

It is quite tough really, the quality of women out there is really very low, we just have a few who are young and have proper sense.

Goodluck as we continue to search... grin grin grin
Hahaha this is so funny lol. But can she not complain if she’s thirsty? cheesy cheesy

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