GrabHisBalls:
Every weekend sex? Oga, can't you stay 2-3weeks without sex? I am not going to do that with you if you were my husband. Give your wife a break joor!

koyyess:
She plays the role of mummy and daddy while you are away. Do you think that is easy for anyone?

She is even a full time house wife which is even worse. No versatility, no hobby...nothing.

Do you take care of her? Are you a loving husband?

Ask yourself if you would be excited about anything if you were in her shoes.

daddytime:
Hmmm

Very rigid situation.

There's nothing you can do to reignite the spark In some women when they have decided to turn off the switch trust me.

I'd advise you just cable your line and find a fuckmate around you for relief.

By the time she sees you no longer ask her for sex, her body go phone her.

Laurene:
sharrap, the man is also stressing himself to provide for them.

franchasng:
In Nigeria, 90% or more of ladies don't want to have sex unless they are forced, cajoled, lured into it using money, gifts, favors, fake promises of heaven and earth, promise of employment, promotion and even promise of marriage, and this is why no Nigerian woman can win any case of rape in any Nigerian court headed by a male Judge because they understand this situation that Nigerian women only have sex by force or by deceit, don't quote me, I am inside Church Choir practice

yankison:


You can get sex outside and still be responsible to your family ... You only need a Bleep mate ... Stop been a dunce why are you shouting fear of God .. why did you even married her knowing fully well she is circumsized as you said .... well I can't live in a sexless marriage .deal with it sorry

donkilidon:


Hmmmmmmmm!!!
Can't be 100% sure bro

More over, I didn't rule that out in my initial post

daddytime:
Hmmm

Very rigid situation.

There's nothing you can do to reignite the spark In some women when they have decided to turn off the switch trust me.

I'd advise you just cable your line and find a fuckmate around you for relief.

By the time she sees you no longer ask her for sex, her body go phone her.

SageMK:
Don't listen to thośe stupíd modafúkers telling you that your wife is cheating or those advocating you to have it from someone. They are only out to destroy homes.

The truth is your wife doesn't enjoy having sex with you.
You don't satisfy her needs so she has given up on sex.

Be dominant, sit her down and have a discussion.

Let her know you are ready to try something new and it's either she's open to fixing it up or a permanent solution.
He cabt jst become dominant overnight, she already knows he is a lovestruck fool with a conscience, she wont buy it. I saw somebody mentioning doing house
Chores in your own house after working all week and having only weekends to relax and even travelling. How did ur life become like this?
Anyway its only people with d fear of God and a conscience that this can happen to. Men of nowadays are just pathetic. Feminism is winning o. Jst sad

kennydotkom:

I agreed with you the major key to make woman libido high is money, but am trying my best, cos am the only one working, she doesn't go out often, atleast I established her with small scale business. and i do assist her at home, wash my clothes, her clothes, and kids cloth on that Saturday morning, she usually commend me that I hv always relief her whenever I return on weekend.

ngwababe:
Ajohnnasa we will talk about these.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Probably the op knew that she was circumcised before marrying her. But people are wicked! What's d essence of sex if u can't enjoy it? Jeeeez

Psoul:



Kenny, I was once in that situation. So all u said here are not new to me.
Let me first of all advice u to shun extramarital affairs. It will destroy ur beautiful home. No amount of excuse can make u right if u indulges in that.

I never dreamt of leaving separately from my family but for the reason of bn able to provide for my family, my job took me away from them. I never spent weekends at my working station. I made it a point of duty to always come back to them every weekend. I can only spend weekend here only when they paid me a visit.

This separation nearly broke my family. With the wisdom of God I was able to make my family very strong. At a point she was like, one day, you will come back only to see that We have moved back to my parent's house. You have to come back and stay with us or let us come and live wt u there, I don't want to live here without my husband. I really understood how she felt. Though I would have loved to bring them over here, but my kind of job is the type that I can be called up to move to anoda station and which I cannot keep moving my family around with me. It will affect my kid's education, social life and other things.

At a point, she started denying me sex just to drive down her protest. I kept talking to her. Making her see that I understand all her pains. I avoided bringing up where I was right and all that. I was just telling her that all she was saying were all correct and how I would have done worst if I were in her shoes. I seriously worked on her psychology.

Most times, when I comes back home, I help her do most of the things she want to do. I spend all the time with her and the kids. Stay with her in the kitchen and stuffs like dat. I make sure she is ok. I read where u said she does her business at home and only takes care of the kid, implying that she has no stressful thing she do at home. Bros, this is not true. If you know what it takes to keep your kids, you will understand that it is not easy at all. Only that can drain all ur energy dat u will have none for sex.

My brother, take it easy with ur wife. Don't just come as if u came to take sex and go back. Make her see it as love making and not sex taking. Check if she is unhappy cos of ur absence and reassure her that u are always with her. Give her phone calls severally a day. Engage her and ur kids on video calls. This will bridge the gap of ur absence so that she will always be happy with u. It's only a happy soul that can give love and make love. Don't tell her that it is ur right to have sex with her. This does not work. Stop telling her that u can always find a girl over there to sex and be satisfied. Don't forget that she can also do same at ur back.

So he enough lough and patience, I beliv she will have every reason to understand u once she sees that u understood her pains.
May God bless ur beautiful family and also bless u materially so that u will soon stop working for someone and establish ur own business that will offer you the opportunity to live together with ur family.

kennydotkom:
Bro thank you, I have spoken with her many time, there was a time earlier in the morning on Monday I ask her for sex before I embark on my journey to place of work she refuse me and make sure I left home Hot and she never care what I can do or go to get myself satisfied till I return on Friday. I do help her with house work, that is what I like most, I do cook, sweet even wash her cloth and my kids cloth, I stop the cooking when her immediate younger brother join us to stay with us, atleast I need to respect myself. When it comes to sex,
I don't rush at all I can spend 40mins for pre-intimacy to make sure she enjoy it. What am thinking is that may e because she was circumcised, cos they usually have low sex drive

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

bigl:


Hmmmmmmmmm.... i understand u bro .... its probably stress and the fact that you are living apart ...

If she was like this when u got married; as in u always have to cajole her, etc before u have sex, then there's little chances she will change but if she's not being like that, then you really should address this head on.

But I don't think she's cheating. I still want to believe its the stress of taking care of the kids ... i'm a father and i know how tiresome one can be after chasing all these kids around (especially if u have them plenty).

And it can also be age factors affecting her hormones.
Sometimes, for strange reasons, some people stop having sex cos they just don't have the urges and they too can't explain; so they hide under "stress, tiredness, etc" though that can also be a contributing factor.

Try this: If u have a parents, let your kids go there for the weekend for the next couple of weeks, leaving u and your wife. Then take her out to see the world. Give her some trip/trills out there then come back home and have mind blowing sex.

If these doesn't work then there is need to see a doctor.

Whatever u do, pls pls and pls, don't report her to anybody: its like nailing a half dead man in a coffin.

If there are some more infos to these writeup, buzz me on whatsapp for some more private discussion. Good counsel ..

bigl:


Hmmmmmmmmm.... i understand u bro .... its probably stress and the fact that you are living apart ...

If she was like this when u got married; as in u always have to cajole her, etc before u have sex, then there's little chances she will change but if she's not being like that, then you really should address this head on.

But I don't think she's cheating. I still want to believe its the stress of taking care of the kids ... i'm a father and i know how tiresome one can be after chasing all these kids around (especially if u have them plenty).

And it can also be age factors affecting her hormones.

Sometimes, for strange reasons, some people stop having sex cos they just don't have the urges and they too can't explain; so they hide under "stress, tiredness, etc" though that can also be a contributing factor.

Try this: If u have a parents, let your kids go there for the weekend for the next couple of weeks, leaving u and your wife. Then take her out to see the world. Give her some trip/trills out there then come back home and have mind blowing sex.

If these doesn't work then there is need to see a doctor.

Whatever u do, pls pls and pls, don't report her to anybody: its like nailing a half dead man in a coffin.

If there are some more infos to these writeup, buzz me on whatsapp for some more private discussion

MobilityExpress:


From what you just said it is clear that your wife is cheating. No real wife will turn down her husband that has been gone for a month. She will even be the one to initiate sex and swallow you like a hungry lion. The fact that she is not interested with you is 100% proof she is already sleeping with another man or men. Don't accuse her randomly, get your evidence and one of the surest ways is checking through her phone when she doesn't expect. If she hides it from you or the type that you don't know her password, then she is obviously an expert in cheating already. Then you have no choice than to let her know you will start dating another woman and even marry another wife and watch how she will either correct herself and behave or continue misbehaving and expose herself that she too is seeing another person.