Korllami007:


Taking your wife out shouldn't be a problem but the way some people are taking it as if it's only thing that makes women have sexual urge or getting wet and that's what baffles me.
Most Nigerian marriages are boring because emphasis is laid on the men to be romantic while the wife should be rigid. It's only the husband that should be surprising the wife with gifts while the wife do nothing. So, most Nigeria marriages are just one sided. Just imagine the lady that's arguing with me. She couldn't mention one thing wife should do to spice up the marriage because she thinks is only women that should romantic and it's only women that love to be given gifts.
It surprises me more when some people are saying you should buy gifts, take your wife out and give more money to your wife so that you can have sex with your her. So, that means no natural attraction. Just like a cheap slut you meet on the street and you buy her shawarma to get into her pant.
Taking your family out should be normal thing but not that you're doing it to have sex with your wife. There are even some cases, where wives are even demanding money before having sex with their husbands. If you're have the intention of having sex with your wife by taking her out or the wife can't have sex with the husband unless she gets gift from him or her monthly allowance is increased, to be candid with you, you are married to a lifetime slut.

There should be natural sexual attraction between couple not material attraction because not everytime you will be taking her out and what if the money is coming in like before, your wife countenance will change towards you because you're taking her out like before.
I'm not kicking against husband taking his wife out but wife using that as a reason of denying the husband sex is what baffles me.
I even wrote about something like this some days ago.

FreeSpirited:
I swear to God I hate that rubbish. A lot of married women are fond of that nonsense. Whatever rift that might have ensued, even after trying to reconcile it, some wives still continue to deny their husband of sex.

To me I'm not ready to keep negotiating for sex because one woman is perpetually angry, bitter or has lost sexual appetite for me.

Instead of continuing to beg or cajole my wife for sex, which is a very annoying thing I believe will always hurt my ego, I will rather go out, fvck myself to stupor by cheating with a hot banging asss. And I won't even bat an eyelid cos I will feel justified. Though I'm still single, but by the time I marry, I'm not ready to put up with that nonsense for long. How can u control me with sex, a whole head of the family. Not gonno happen...

So married men...how do you cope? what's your advice especially for women that are fond of denying their husband sex , maybe I could learn one or two.?

FreeSpirited:


Lols. Look at this new wife. I've fvccked pussy tighter, deeper and older than yours. She's there forming one old lady cos she feels I'm a bachelor. Lol. Who gives a Bleep about your twisted logic.
If for anything, at least, start giving that man sex as from tonight, stop denying the poor man, you wicked soul. When your not a prostitute cos you call yourself a wife, yet you want money, date, beer, suya before u open ur legs for your hubby? So if he goes broke for a year, he's therefore not entitled to your dry pvvsy?...smh..lols

FreeSpirited:
I swear to God I hate that rubbish. A lot of married women are fond of that nonsense. Whatever rift that might have ensued, even after trying to reconcile it, some wives still continue to deny their husband of sex.

To me I'm not ready to keep negotiating for sex because one woman is perpetually angry, bitter or has lost sexual appetite for me.

Instead of continuing to beg or cajole my wife for sex, which is a very annoying thing I believe will always hurt my ego, I will rather go out, fvck myself to stupor by cheating with a hot banging asss. And I won't even bat an eyelid cos I will feel justified. Though I'm still single, but by the time I marry, I'm not ready to put up with that nonsense for long. How can u control me with sex, a whole head of the family. Not gonno happen...

So married men...how do you cope? what's your advice especially for women that are fond of denying their husband sex , maybe I could learn one or two.?

Korllami007:


Taking your wife out shouldn't be a problem but the way some people are taking it as if it's only thing that makes women have sexual urge or getting wet and that's what baffles me.
Most Nigerian marriages are boring because emphasis is laid on the men to be romantic while the wife should be rigid. It's only the husband that should be surprising the wife with gifts while the wife do nothing. So, most Nigeria marriages are just one sided. Just imagine the lady that's arguing with me. She couldn't mention one thing wife should do to spice up the marriage because she thinks is only women that should romantic and it's only women that love to be given gifts.
It surprises me more when some people are saying you should buy gifts, take your wife out and give more money to your wife so that you can have sex with your her. So, that means no natural attraction. Just like a cheap slut you meet on the street and you buy her shawarma to get into her pant.
Taking your family out should be normal thing but not that you're doing it to have sex with your wife. There are even some cases, where wives are even demanding money before having sex with their husbands. If you're have the intention of having sex with your wife by taking her out or the wife can't have sex with the husband unless she gets gift from him or her monthly allowance is increased, to be candid with you, you are married to a lifetime slut.

There should be natural sexual attraction between couple not material attraction because not everytime you will be taking her out and what if the money is coming in like before, your wife countenance will change towards you because you're taking her out like before.
I'm not kicking against husband taking his wife out but wife using that as a reason of denying the husband sex is what baffles me.
I even wrote about something like this some days ago.

Mstick:
Dear child there is nothing brutal about your post. Men cheating on their spouse is not news. Do you know what is? When a man doesn't cheat. You're a simple dolt if you couldn't make sense of my post. Get married and cheat. WHO CARES? With your dirty STD ridden penis and stinky groin. But then again some women don't have class so am sure you would find the perfect doormat.

biz2get:


I understand you point largely.

But let's stick to the topics discussion.

When your wife is reacting in such a way as denying you sex. It only tells you something is on her mind that needs concern. And you are not paying attention to her(her mind)

Solving the problem is easy. You only have to make her feel loved again and she will open up to you. Making he feel loved does not always need money.

To your argument

You are the one currently assuming that only if you give money to her will you have sex. Which makes her a slu-t.

No it is wrong.

Just so you know I used to take my wife on 500Naira Dates.
Also taught her how to do the same, in cases where I am overwhelmed

This will bring back that spark that connected you both at first. That vibe
She gets to see you as that friend she use to know her best buddy. She's becomes open to you of her worries and you listen to her. That's all.

The moment you are returning home EVEN GOD CAN NOT STOP THE HOT SE X THAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT SEF. FUC K THE KIDS.

You have to get Game bro. It adds to the romance.
Don't just come home and say open legs lemme fu-ck.
Bcus it sounds like "open wallet give me money"

To whom sense is given sense is expected. Enjoy

FreeSpirited:
I swear to God I hate that rubbish. A lot of married women are fond of that nonsense. Whatever rift that might have ensued, even after trying to reconcile it, some wives still continue to deny their husband of sex.

To me I'm not ready to keep negotiating for sex because one woman is perpetually angry, bitter or has lost sexual appetite for me.

Instead of continuing to beg or cajole my wife for sex, which is a very annoying thing I believe will always hurt my ego, I will rather go out, fvck myself to stupor by cheating with a hot banging asss. And I won't even bat an eyelid cos I will feel justified. Though I'm still single, but by the time I marry, I'm not ready to put up with that nonsense for long. How can u control me with sex, a whole head of the family. Not gonno happen...

So married men...how do you cope? what's your advice especially for women that are fond of denying their husband sex , maybe I could learn one or two.?

lukui:
list of cheap things on earth
air, water, and pvssy especially in India, China and most poverty stricken countries

bigmic111:


I like women but here is the bitter truth you have to know.

all women are manipulative and crave attention/validation.

marrying a woman doesn't guarantee steady sex and if you force her or yourself on her, you may be accused of rape or termed insensitive and that will give you only fewer sex.

women see their pvssy as a hidden treasure you have to go on an adventure to explore. ultimately they want to stress you before you can enjoy it, or limit how often you can enjoy it. they derive joy from it, I don't know why. so how do you win as a married man?

it's simple. before konji hits you at all or even comes try to pay attention to your wife and things she likes. for example helping out in the house.
but this alone will not help you. she may give you sex this way as a way of saying thank you in return but it will not be as steady unless you combine it with this next step.

always ensure a day or two those not go without you giving attention to your wife's body. sex is not the intention but to ease, please and tease her. you can give her a massage, hug her tightly, stroke her, tickle her, do anything that will please her senses and make her laugh or relax and when she is almost at the climax, leave her hanging. do not initiate sex. make that a routine and she will begin to lust after you. try not to initiate this in the bedroom, she may be reluctant thinking sex comes next. do this anywhere else.

her sex drive will be so high from all the teasing that she will practical beg you for sex. when she finally does give her in quantum until once again the lust in her dies, then repeats steps one and two from the top, again and again.

I repeat never ever beg her for sex. it wont serve you well for the long term.

and learn to pay attention to your wife and not only when konji comes calling. she too has feelings no matter how manipulative she may get.

Mstick:
Actually you're the bitter one and it's written all over your post. You're not even married yet, instead of you to make money so your family will be comfortable, ask questions on how to build your family you're here opening a juvenile topic. Am sure everyone reading will be able to tell who has the higher IQ between you and I.


My husband loves my gold digging after all he didn't meet me in the dump. I was doing very well before we married and he's keeping to that standard.


Meanwhile you can go on thinking about how you're going to frustrate the innocent woman that would marry you the same way your father frustrated your mother.


Oh BTW your mom is a prostitute and your father is an abusive douchebag because if your parents brought you up with love you wouldn't come to the internet to type such trash.

biz2get:

You know the Game well. Brother!

LilMissFavvy:
Very true, so many Nigerian women are going through a lot of shittt...... Almost everything you said is correct.

FreeSpirited:
I swear to God I hate that rubbish. A lot of married women are fond of that nonsense. Whatever rift that might have ensued, even after trying to reconcile it, some wives still continue to deny their husband of sex.

To me I'm not ready to keep negotiating for sex because one woman is perpetually angry, bitter or has lost sexual appetite for me.

Instead of continuing to beg or cajole my wife for sex, which is a very annoying thing I believe will always hurt my ego, I will rather go out, fvck myself to stupor by cheating with a hot banging asss. And I won't even bat an eyelid cos I will feel justified. Though I'm still single, but by the time I marry, I'm not ready to put up with that nonsense for long. How can u control me with sex, a whole head of the family. Not gonno happen...

So married men...how do you cope? what's your advice especially for women that are fond of denying their husband sex , maybe I could learn one or two.?

Martinez39:

In this topic, I touched it a little but they came for my head.

Smart men don't get married.

Penisinpenisout:


Is life all about breathing? This era breathing is now overrated.

Nopanties:
Mumu! Who said u can't have 2 wives?
Fucking up n down can be very deadly

Bamz:


Hi , I sent you a mail.

dreamwords:

He never said marriage is all about sex, but he is talking about the sexual aspect of marriage

FreeSpirited:


Lols...My guy no even get time for the topic on discussion... man been hustling and scouting for new lubricant

FreeSpirited:
I don't have to fvvck up and down Ode. Having one or two side chick per time that will guarantee me sex is not a bad idea.

Nopanties:
Idiot! Any 1 or 2 girl that will guarantee u sex n is not ur wife is an Olosho.
How old are you sef

Fountainofyouth:



So you are equating sex with breathing? If you don't have sex you can't breath? Meaning you'll suffocate and die? Issokay.

lukui:
most women think that their pvssy is worth a million dollars but it isn't. the pvssy that you are denying your husband, another woman is giving him free of charge!!! with " thank you sir" when will you come again sir?

goooze:
I don't like commenting on marriage issues because I believe its a different stroke for different folks but I want to highlight the following;
1. Men take care of your homes in the best way you can but enjoy yourself as well. The day you start depriving yourself of your enjoyment all in the name of being a good or homely husband believe me you have reduced your lifespan by a quarter.
2. Remember you have you own destiny to fulfill as an individual aside your children and also aside satisfying a wife that believes putting family worries on your head makes you the best man on earth.
3. Wives you want to own it all. Remember, you've once enjoy all these things you are accusing the man of. You have children that needs to be given future to now, you owns and control the children because before any man will reap 5% of its labour on children you've already reaped 70% out of the mans...with yours still 100% intact.
4. Have anybody ever asked him or herself why we have lots of widows when its time to get dividends of parenthood? Its either the man has finished himself with struggling and worries about how to make the future right for his family and satisfying a wife without actually "enjoying himself to keep his body and soul together or possible being killed by the so called wife so as to enjoy everything alone.
5. Wives you go to the UK,US, CANADA to do " omugo" and refuse to come home on time in the name of I'm taking care of my grand child leaving this man to the hands of the maid to take care of.
6. Men get this right, women will always be enemy to whatever you derive pleasure from differently from her it doesn't need to be only cheating.
In conclusion, men please stop this ego of I am the man of tge house. women owns their children they have greater influence on them than you even in the time of enjoying what you've laboured for therefore, take care of you home by giving your family a good future but enjoy yourself now because there no guarantee for you getting that in the future unless you are lucky to have children that's is not under the influence of women manipulation.