Villageppl:
Most Nairaland male specimen will type slander and nonsense with their yellowing fingers against Bisola and assertively claim Fatinyobo, a pastor need I remind you, sexing a 16/17 year old was consensual. That's because it matches them and their filthy fathers' past and current evil deeds of preying on young girls and teenagers and if they admit she was raped, they'll have to confess to themselves how they are in the same WhatsApp group with a rapist

However it's all good. The day some progressive humanitarian creates a Nigerian sex offender registry, I can guarantee no less than 80% of nairaland males will enter that list.

Busola was in a relationship with the man

partnerbizz5:


The one he denied already is it factless?
They had an affair simple.

Busola could have made a mistake with names or dates but the truth is, pastor slept with her.


I will cut to the chase; straight to the point.

There was an intercours.e. Yes there was.

But it wasn't rape. She was spellbound, star struck or hypnotized. She was stupid too even at 17.

What exactly did he deny?
He claimed he never raped any woman. He carefully used the generic phrase to avoid future problems.
Do you really expect a rapist to accept raping women?
Wait! Busola could have made a mistake with dates because predators usually ask for age before pouncing
on their victims.

WHY IS SHE BITTER NOW?

She feels Fatoyinbo took her virginity without sweating or spending. This is same virginity she could have auctioned even on e bay. Yes, people sell it. Check.

She felt pastor got it very cheap. That's why prostitutes will ask you:

" HOW MUCH YOU PAY ME YOU WAN TOUCH MY BRESS"?

HOW MUCH YOU PAY, YOU WAN FUC.K DOGGY?

They (women) want you to pay well, suffer or work hard to get the pusssy; let alone a virgin pusssy.

So Busola now feels cheated. She reasoned that the man is happy now after cheating her.
And she came to this realisation not too long ago.

Now, the only way of paying him back is to hurt him too. And the most effective way of hurting a pastor is through seex scandal.

If you allege he stole 2 billion dollars, it would gather no storm.

I don't know you but most women even in sexually liberal countries don't sell virginity.
Maybe sex work is the trademark of all the women in your family but don't generalize.
Even the hardest misogynist knows the difference between promiscuity and prostitution.
Don't be shocked, very few women out there are into sex work.

BUT WHY COME OUT NOW?

The husband Timi, heard of the "rape" lately. Maybe Busola got depressed and mood swings after the RECENT realisation that the pastor cheated her.

Timi felt bad. He felt cheated too for being served a second hand pusssy.

He could have eaten the pusssy first. So he encouraged her to hurt the pastor. That way both Timi and Busola would feel a bit better.

IT WAS NOT RAPE PEOPLE.

How many people marry virgins?
Are you saying most married men are miserable because their wives are not virgins?
Will your husband(assuming you are a woman) drink sniper when he discovers that you are not a virgin?
It is not rape because you declared it so.

USE your senses.

You don't appear to have one and I am seriously suspecting that you are Kemi Olunloyo the psycho or closely related.
Your use of language is even more worrisome.

THAT'S MY ANALYSIS as a self proclaimed behavioral therapist.

Analysis is based on facts, not fiction or fantasy. That is why you are "self proclaimed"

LEGAL VIEW:

Rape or even any sexual assault case cannot be proven against Fatoyinbo.

You can't prove a rape case without proving that there was a PENETRATION. See the case of Upahar vs State. See S.357 of CC etc. And it's been long. No medical evidence too.

Nothing will happen to Fatoyinbo. The only damage has happened already. And that's to his reputation.

We will soon forget it. Life goes on.

OBJ, Tinubu, Okorohcha, Oshiomole, Akbabio, T.A Orji, Onoghen, Saraki, PEJ.
I am sure you think one of the men on the list above is corrupt.
Do you have a shred of evidence that they are corrupt?
Of course not.
Why do you think it is fair to accuse any of them without proof?
Is it because you are jealous or due to extreme poverty?
Your answers will be illuminating.

FINALLY, I DON'T SUPPORT RAPE. IT'S TRAGIC. [/b]

That's why it's considered a crime against humanity in International criminal law.

#SAYNOTORAPE.

You support rape 100% and maybe a rapist yourself.
To your kinds, any rape allegation where there is no witness is not rape
and fight, bruises, and injuries must also be involved.
You have effectively absolved all rapist save the unlucky ones of any consequence.

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Classickj:
did he force her

shuu I tire for people with shallow brain o, the man did not even used violence or threatened her with a weapon, a beg that no be rape jare, she bend down give the man doggy style for front of the bonnet.

Agugbadin:
Kemi, you were not there when it happened how come conclude that she lied. Why will she lie at this stage, what benefit is she going to get nothing, it not logical to say she lied, what you can do is to ask Biodun whether he had sex with Busola and then you can investigate

It is possible that the alleged victim lied. It is also possible that she is saying the truth but exaggerating it. I want to believe that the journalist is rely on party to give judgement which to me isn't fair enough

Dpharisee:
We know already, the 20years old allegation was used to try to divert our attention from Ruga

How can a man rape you a 17 years old girl in your father's house, then he did it again in his house when you went for 'omugwo' and as he was dropping you off he gave it to you sorry I mean he raped you again in his car bonnet doggie style and in all of this you never raised any alarm nor call for help. Haba

Timi was just angry that the Pastor ate the juicy part of his wife before him, leaving the chaff for him to enjoy

Let me assume that you will never marry because someone already ate the juicy part of your would-be wife.

Agugbadin:
Kemi, you were not there when it happened how come conclude that she lied. Why will she lie at this stage, what benefit is she going to get nothing, it not logical to say she lied, what you can do is to ask Biodun whether he had sex with Busola and then you can investigate

she claimed to baby seat in 1999 . The pastor was only engaged then. So what kid did she babyseat

weyreypey:

How old was the alleged lover then?

the guy was over 18, an upcoming pastor then.
The girl was still in sec school then.

If the guy was 17yrs old too, then under the law, it is termed "romeo nd Juliet affair".... but it becomes rape if he is an adult nd the girl is a minor.

I taught she was against the coza pastor. Hmmm na wao

Obainoneandonly:
a sane person knows dat she wasn't raped. maybe d man promised her marriage back then and now dat she sees him been so successful she then thought now is d right time for payback

Marriage to 17 year old person already engaged in a church/ club setting

King44:
let me ask you a question firstly if someone who u know comes into you parent house to rape u when your sister is under same roof won't you scream? fine let's assume u won't scream cos u are in shock, Same person carried u in his car to a public place and branch to a street that people seldom pass and gave you a doggy without tying you hands or gagging your mouth won't you scream for help at least or run for help?

I would beat him but I have self defense training and I am not 16 so I can't dismiss Bisola because she did not react how I would have. Also
Same person carried u in his car to a public place and branch to a street that people seldom pass how will she run when she's in a disorderly state with at least her bottom clothes halfway off her body, shocked from the assault and she's in a place where there's barely any people to come to her aid. How is a 16 year old girl supposed to outrun a grown man (which gives him a natural advantage for strength and speed and he has a car to chase her with) especially in an area he drove to by car and there's no around to run to?

Aunty kemi plz are you the CCTV cameras at the venue?

mysticwarrior:
to testify as what, eye witness? Abeg go sit down for one corner.

OK o

slim75d:
whenever i take a deep look @ busola i see her as a nymphomanic mayb she grew up as a weird teen probably the pastor took advantage of that to comb her now that the man is rich she tried to cashout but her slip cut

Her slip cut. Hahaha. Epic.

weyreypey:

Busola was in a relationship with the man

In civilized countries and not that savage zoo you hail from, even just a romantic relationship between a grown man and a 16 year old is classified under statutory rape talkless a sexual relationship which you did not deny.

Even if she wasn't rape, the man of dog was cheating on his wife with a minor church member. He must have done it with half of the ladies in the church even underaged girls.

joseph1832:
Whether it was consensual or not, if Busola was 17 years old at the time, Biodun Fatoyinbo raped her, statutory rape that is.

thank you!

partnerbizz5:


The one he denied already is it factless?
They had an affair simple.

Busola could have made a mistake with names or dates but the truth is, pastor slept with her.


I will cut to the chase; straight to the point.

There was an intercours.e. Yes there was.

But it wasn't rape. She was spellbound, star struck or hypnotized. She was stupid too even at 17.

WHY IS SHE BITTER NOW?

She feels Fatoyinbo took her virginity without sweating or spending. This is same virginity she could have auctioned even on e bay. Yes, people sell it. Check.

She felt pastor got it very cheap. That's why prostitutes will ask you:

" HOW MUCH YOU PAY ME YOU WAN TOUCH MY BRESS"?

HOW MUCH YOU PAY, YOU WAN FUC.K DOGGY?

They (women) want you to pay well, suffer or work hard to get the pusssy; let alone a virgin pusssy.

So Busola now feels cheated. She reasoned that the man is happy now after cheating her.
And she came to this realisation not too long ago.

Now, the only way of paying him back is to hurt him too. And the most effective way of hurting a pastor is through seex scandal.

If you allege he stole 2 billion dollars, it would gather no storm.

BUT WHY COME OUT NOW?

The husband Timi, heard of the "rape" lately. Maybe Busola got depressed and mood swings after the RECENT realisation that the pastor cheated her.

Timi felt bad. He felt cheated too for being served a second hand pusssy.

He could have eaten the pusssy first. So he encouraged her to hurt the pastor. That way both Timi and Busola would feel a bit better.

IT WAS NOT RAPE PEOPLE.

USE your senses.

THAT'S MY ANALYSIS as a self proclaimed behavioral therapist.


LEGAL VIEW:

Rape or even any sexual assault case cannot be proven against Fatoyinbo.

You can't prove a rape case without proving that there was a PENETRATION. See the case of Upahar vs State. See S.357 of CC etc. And it's been long. No medical evidence too.

Nothing will happen to Fatoyinbo. The only damage has happened already. And that's to his reputation.

We will soon forget it. Life goes on.



FINALLY, I DON'T SUPPORT RAPE. IT'S TRAGIC.

That's why it's considered a crime against humanity in International criminal law.

#SAYNOTORAPE.

I had to like, share and quote this post.

Very sensible and apt, devoid of any form of sentimental bvllsh!t.

You've said it all.

King44:
let me ask you a question firstly if someone who u know comes into you parent house to rape u when your sister is under same roof won't you scream? fine let's assume u won't scream cos u are in shock, Same person carried u in his car to a public place and branch to a street that people seldom pass and gave you a doggy without tying you hands or gagging your mouth won't you scream for help at least or run for help?

Also I find it hilarious that you said she should've shouted for help. Nigerians have to be the most unempathetic people on this Earth after white people and Asians. Even if there were people around, judging by the attitudes of Nigerians to damn near every rape case including pre teens, that girl would still be in trouble as just as long as that goat bleets something about being a pastor and falling to the charms of a "Jezebel", the people who could've turned up and helped her could easily be manipulated to work against and condemn her. And bring everlasting shame to herself and her family.

Bleep

Things that baffles me in this Busola vs Fatoyinbo

1. According to her, she lived in a duplex as at the time the incident happened.
Let's think, Can there be a duplex without fence and gate? Who opened the gate for Fatoyinbo that morning or were there more than one apartment in the house?

2. She said she opened the door and the man just pushed her to the chair and started the rape thing.
Let's think, Is Fatoyinbo aware that she's the one coming to open the door? She was home with her sister according to her, therefore any of them could have come to the door.

3. Can a man go to visit a family to check on them and before meeting any other person in the house, grab their daughter and rape her? Please think!

4. She said there was blood, on the chair and her night gown and she stood up fetch water and soap and clean the scene after taking the *Krest*, then she will have to go and clean herself in the bathroom and wash the clothes and her sister in the house was not aware all the while?

5. Let's say the abuse continued from 1999 to 2002 according to her babysitting the baby then, that's like 3 years!

6. Imagine Fatoyinbo a Pastor of over 10, 000 congregations is lying about all these, having known that God is aware of everything and knowing that God's judgement is terrible and yet still refuse to say the truth, don't you think he's in big trouble with God and when you enter trouble with God you know you are finished!

These and many more are the things that baffles me about this case.

According to the law of Moses on rape, a lady being raped in the city having people around to call but refuses to shout is guilty as the man.

According to Criminal Code Acts of Nigeria, a rape can only be judged by tangible evidence or medical report confirming violation or presence of semen belonging to the suspect. After 3 kids from Busola do you think violation can still be detected or semen?

According to faith, knowing that God the great judge knows all that transpired and can punish offenders! What is the their fate!

Just imagining....

Tareq1105:



Mad woman.

See the person defending the Pastor.

My advice for Biodun is to just allow the sleeping dog to lie.

There's no point trying to defend himself. That, to me, will amount to a man of God telling lies.

It's not an easy decision for a happily married woman to come up with such allegation.

I don't want Biodun to create another issue because he will definitely do while trying to deny the obvious and such will further portray him in bad light.

He should turn to God for forgiveness because I believe the pastor did it.

So the girl can talk, and the pastor should not defend himself eh?

You dey crase

post=80083704:
FOR THE NEUTRALS: One day, we will get to the root of this serious allegation.

Someone or some set of people must surely go to jail after it all.

Rape is as serious as false rape accusation.

THIS IS THE FIRST TIME YOU ARE TYPING SOMETHING SENSIBLE SINCE YOU REGISTERED ON NAIRALAND.

GOD, PLZ DONT ALLOW COMMON SENSE TO DEPART FROM THIS MAN AGAIN .

AMEN!!

Cultist can do anything

The same way a 15-year old Gauff can't beat a Serena Williams.abi?
Make Lion pursue am make we see whether the alleged rapist will catch her.16 years tori no dey finish?
Try to chase 10year old who is determined to escape, then come and tell us how easy it is.

Villageppl:


I would beat him but I have self defense training and I am not 16 so I can't dismiss Bisola because she did not react how I would have. Also
Same person carried u in his car to a public place and branch to a street that people seldom pass how will she run when she's in a disorderly state with at least her bottom clothes halfway off her body, shocked from the assault and she's in a place where there's barely any people to come to her aid. How is a 16 year old girl supposed to outrun a grown man (which gives him a natural advantage for strength and speed and he has a car to chase her with) especially in an area he drove to by car and there's no around to run to?

partnerbizz5:


The husband Timi, heard of the "rape" lately. Maybe Busola got depressed and mood swings after the RECENT realisation that the pastor cheated her.

Timi felt bad. He felt cheated too for being served a second hand pusssy.

He could have eaten the pusssy first. So he encouraged her to hurt the pastor. That way both Timi and Busola would feel a bit better.

IT WAS NOT RAPE PEOPLE.

USE your senses.

THAT'S MY ANALYSIS as a self proclaimed behavioral therapist.

#SAYNOTORAPE.

Please base your analysis on facts and not 'hearsay'. Timi did not just find out that his wife had an affair or was raped as the case may be, in fact, the pastor who wedded them knew about this issue and even acknowledged. So this particular analysis and mood swings talk is just pure BS. That's my take. #DropsPen

willyjacs:
forget the long note.
Sleeping with a girl under the age of 18 is statutory rape under the law..... The child rights act,the Nigeria sexual offence laws nd the United Nations of which Nigeria is a signatory termed a child below 18 as a minor...according to the law, an underage is termed "not responsible"

The nail is ,did he sleep with her?
If yes, how old was the girl then?
Was she under age or not?

If he did it when she was underage,then it's statutory rape whether u like it or not.

A pastor was jailed in Canada last week for defiling a lady kept under his care for 14 long yrs..meaning he was sleeping with her since childhood till she became an adult.... she sued him, court sentenced him with the help of other women who came accusing the pastor of same thing....no hospital samples were needed.
What nailed him was defiling her when she was underage.

Una nor get sense here.


A lot of rapes happen in this country every day...so if a victim was raped...because it took them long to speak out and no medical reports to prove it, the culprit should just go unpunished?

What about local communities where they don't know about going for medical reports?

Statutory rape might not be forced or brutal penetration(medical reports are mostly needed in forced or brutal rape).... but with an underage girl of 15yrs +,she might consent due to adolescence naivety nd curiosity in every child..... so u as an adult taking advantage of dat is also termed rape.

Make we try get sense for this country.

hypocrite ! now you quoting law. we have many instance of under 18 marriage around us but you are interested in the coza own case. yeye dey smell. ask your sisters and family memebers when they lost their virginity if it was not under 18. go and sue their ex bofriends yeye! when its time to pretend they're smart they'll start quoting rubbish

joseph1832:
Whether it was consensual or not, if Busola was 17 years old at the time, Biodun Fatoyinbo raped her, statutory rape that is.

Thunder kill your generation

joseph1832:
Whether it was consensual or not, if Busola was 17 years old at the time, Biodun Fatoyinbo raped her, statutory rape that is.

Can you read or you are just wired to believe it when a woman says rape.

The child she was going to babysit at 17 was not born until 3 years later...so she was 20 or older...

I said this before, lets just wait and see how this all plays out

Gentew:



What popular opinion is that? Ur own shallow opinion i guess.

You had to insult me to make your point?

Lol... People though.

Adakintroy2:


It's not easy to go against popular norm it'sself. But someone has to do it. You just trying to cast a shadow over her take on this matter. She is lucid enough. Her though not different from many out there.

I'm not trying to cast any shadow. I don't have a stake here. Just shared my observation. She could be right or wrong for all we know.

Roon9:


You know the truth bros... She was stating facts not some krest and car bonnet rape shid

Honestly, I wish I knew the actual truth, bro.

The problem here is people stamping their speculations as truth/facts.