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| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by babyfaceafrica: 10:12am On Jul 13, 2019 |
gnykelly:statician i hail!!! |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by nkemjacob2(m): 10:12am On Jul 13, 2019 |
If have not propose pls can u send me her number privately. God has directly send Ur ur wife. If u can't see it, pass it to me |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Nobody: 10:12am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Don't be too forward cuz marriage is a different ball game entirely. I think you both would be compatible at business level only; remember biz and family Don't mix |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by nkemjacob2(m): 10:13am On Jul 13, 2019 |
If u have not propose pls can u send me her number privately. God has directly send Ur ur wife. If u can't see it, pass it to me |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by MrCoker: 10:13am On Jul 13, 2019 |
![]() virgoquin:I was about to ask the same question, so I decided to see if someone else who thinks like me already did the job for me. That is the most useless, selfless and stupid advice so far, so good. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Henitan24(f): 10:15am On Jul 13, 2019 |
konkonbilo:Yeah because I want you to...lols |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by opemite: 10:18am On Jul 13, 2019 |
I have similar experience with yours, I married one of my dedicated staff, now my business soar 3x what it use to be and I enjoy my marriage. My advice for you is to follow your heart, marriage is a journey of faith. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by bennynaza(m): 10:23am On Jul 13, 2019 |
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| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Theflint1(m): 10:26am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Who told you he's marrying out of pity? Didn't you see where he mentioned that he had the same feelings for the girl already? babyfaceafrica: |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by 27Pushing30: 10:27am On Jul 13, 2019 |
ellalina:Not to be a kill joy but I’d suggest courtship before marriage ... don’t just propose when you ha ent had sex Don’t just propose when you haven’t actually dated (bf n gf) But alas propose! If you’re certain marrying her will bless other aspects of your life |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by miqos02(m): 10:29am On Jul 13, 2019 |
ellalina:the guy needs to discover the other side of the lady. Dealing with her as a sale girl will be different from dealing with her as a wife. I advise he allows the girl work somewhere else while they start dating, from there he can make a final decision on marriage. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by WhoBeThisMan: 10:31am On Jul 13, 2019 |
ellalina:my brother you marry with your head not your heart. On rare ocatio s like this the head ad the heart converge. If you don't marry this girl, thunder.... Look at how she has grown your business organised your life to the point you want to resign. You are here asking yeye question. No dot marry her, marry one pretty looking olosho that will ruin your life and distroyall you worked for .. dey there ... I dey vex |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Bellotelli: 10:32am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Is she sweet in da oza room. If yes, that completes the equation... Marry her or I will find her ND marry her. ![]() |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by srclark: 10:32am On Jul 13, 2019 |
fujirice:A Nigerian submitting her tips that is a red flag she is targetting the op and he his falling for it .The naija society mounts alot of pressure on women so once they see any opening and the guy is comfortable a bit they know how to crawl their way into his life .Not that it is a bad thing but the op needs to do his findings properly and be sure he can afford to marry such a girl and the other parts that matters .The proposal should come later not now my own opinion |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Aidejay(m): 10:34am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Kneephy: epic epic |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by trilobite: 10:34am On Jul 13, 2019 |
To me the girl sounds like every man's dream. Women like her are very rare, almost extinct. I'm going to use the instance of another man. He started a small indomie cooking business, after a few years he got a sales girl. This girl expanded the business from indomie to full restaurant making as much as 200k profit every month. We all saw her good qualities and begged him to marry her. He refused!! Saying they were not of the same tribe. He went to the village and married an illiterate, who sacked the the sales girl because she felt threatened. Within months that restaurant crashed!! The last time I saw him he was looking worst than a beggar. Date ( for a few weeks no sex) and marry this girl. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by koyyess: 10:35am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Why are you still confused? If you want to marry her just because she helps boom your business, then forget it. You will not be faithful to her. Spare her the betrayal of finding your 'Regina Daniel' and abandoning her. But if you are attracted to her in every aspect, go ahead but watch it. If you mess up, your business will crumble. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Suspect33(m): 10:35am On Jul 13, 2019 |
softwerk:my best friends wedding ![]() |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by greggng: 10:37am On Jul 13, 2019 |
ellalina:Go and do more due diligence about her family....check her genotype to ensure if you guys are compatible. ...do background check if madness runs in their family etc...if everything is fine, then you got yourself a good wife |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Worldbest281: 10:39am On Jul 13, 2019 |
marry her please, good girls are scarce these days, pray about it too...... don't find her flaws after all nobody is perfect |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by bamasite2: 10:41am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Don't delay brother! ellalina: |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by AntiMCU: 10:45am On Jul 13, 2019 |
softwerk: |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by kennydora: 10:57am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Guy stop beating abt d bush, grab ur honest wife |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by TemmyT002(m): 10:57am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Na the kind of girl under look for be that o Don't waste your time bro. Get her before someone else gets her. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by sahm4u2nv(m): 10:59am On Jul 13, 2019 |
That's your wife Boss God bless your Union ![]() |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by sundayoluwatimi(m): 11:03am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Pardon the length of my reply. It's a piece I wrote yesterday. If you eventually decide to marry her and she agrees too, then you may find my reply below very helpful. How to Build Your Relationship with Moments of Truth By Anani Sunday During my courtship days with my wife, we had some frank moments. They were moments of truth (MOT). They were times we had some serious discussions pertaining to our future together. As Mute Efe (Author of Get Naked Before You Get Naked) puts it, they were times we got naked before we got naked. They were moments of hard truths. She would ask questions upon questions and it was my responsibility to answer her convincingly. She needed assurance that certain things will never happen. She needed to know my conviction on in-law relationship, family finance, care for our aged parents, housemaid, etc., and what I will do if certain things happen. Whenever we ended such tough discussions, we didn't have the strength to say we loved each other. Those weren't times to profess love; they were times to reflect. We ended those long telephone calls as if we just began a fight. The MOT is a game changer. Well, we didn't just end a fight. We only cleared some debris we could have met today as impediments. When you're in a relationship, it is good to have good times. Nobody may stop you from going to the cinemas or eating out. No one may stop you from waking each other in the morning with romantic telephone calls, exchanging gifts and even telling the world you're engaged. But if you don't tell each other the truths that will serve as your reality checks, you will marry only to spend your first two or more years wondering if you just took in a stranger as a spouse. The moment of truth during your courtship is a life-saving time. It is the period you live in the future today. You discuss pertinent matters that will affect you. During such times, you will know the kind of man or woman you're about to marry. There are some questions you will ask that will make your RELATION SHIP hit the iceberg like the Titanic, or make it withstand the fierce storm ahead. You need your boat to be rocked now instead of later. There are certain things to watch out for about the MOT. I will mention just three. Firstly, if both of you don't tell each other the simple truths that stare at you in the eyes about your relationship, then both of you are not serious. You have no business being together. Secondly, if you demand that you discuss important matters about your future but he always dodges the MOT, then he may not be ready yet. If he says the future will take care of itself, you need to remember that marriage does not survive on faith alone. It requires finance and faithfulness. You need to talk about them. Lastly, if he submits to the MOT but his body language is the opposite of what he says, you may just be close to stepping into the Lagos lagoon without a good boat. I am sorry but you may drown. In conclusion, three things will save you from bitter future heartbreak and stories that touch the heart and muscles. The first is that you tell yourself the truth. The second is that he tells himself the truth. The third is that you tell each other the truth. If these three are missing, you are on your own. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Ladipodeal: 11:04am On Jul 13, 2019 |
bdchange:Dating for a year to prove what? You've known someone for over a year and she has been consistent, so what else you looking for? If she was wayward you must have noticed before now, delaying might only give you opportunity to find unnecessary faults in her, afterall nobody is completely perfect. Just find out more about her family and move on. Family plays an important role in marriage. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Abolore25(m): 11:06am On Jul 13, 2019 |
My first time of doing this just for you bro. Please � hurry up and do the needful. While on Nairaland reading people's comment, you might be wasting time. Go get it done ASAP. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Respect55(m): 11:09am On Jul 13, 2019 |
SavageBoy:Hoe |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by feodan: 11:10am On Jul 13, 2019 |
@ Deebee13 wat do u have to say concerning dis ? |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Toyeford900(m): 11:16am On Jul 13, 2019 |
ellalina:Yes, I know of someone who had been in your shoe and made the decision and today he is thanking God bcoz his business had grown to up. |
| Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Bamz(m): 11:17am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Kneephy:I was the 500th person that liked your comment ![]() |
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