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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Femston: 9:46pm On Jul 13, 2019
Got to know when I prayed to know if God approves of our union or not. Prayed and God says NO through some deep revelations. I told her no, we can't continue and she said she did hers too that we are OK together. Ask me to forgive if she have offended me, crying and begging and that was how she just continue to open up on certain things I knows nothing about but all thanks to the Almighty through the the Holy Spirit.
I just dey sink all the confessions inside of me with a firm and composed physical features but my mouth was widely opened/agaped with surprises in spirit and skeleton

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by MobilityExpress: 9:47pm On Jul 13, 2019
Illuminated993:
My guy, that incident must have left a terrible scar on you. But the good thing is, scenarios like you had help you learn and get stronger. I got to know my ex slept with a married man while in a relationship with me. The man was her teacher in secondary school. For me now, I'm not after love, my motives are mostly sex driven, let's just fucck, I don't care about the games the woman I'm with plays when I'm not around. I'm not that guy who monitors his woman, or goes through her phones anymore. I now understand that a man can't stop a woman from playing her games. I only demand sex and respect from the woman I'm with, nothing more. I don't bother with the thoughts of her getting fuccked by another man. Maybe she's probably getting fuccked. Being cheated on really does affect one.

It will affect you because ultimately you're all sharing disease. Condoms are not 100% safe. Finding a loyal partner is a better move than not caring if your partner or sex mate is fucking the whole community or is an interstate olosho grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by noble2faith(m): 9:48pm On Jul 13, 2019
ericsmith:




what kind of reason be these ..just say d guy was broke , my own was even better she left just becos i farted inside the kitchen ..begged n promise never to fart again ... she left & never came back.

that ur fart must be A-graded for her not to come back again.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 13, 2019
Joystark:
Just here to read comments.
This should make front page in a bit... If it hasn't already.
you better say your own, or have you not been cheated on before or you have never dated any guy before
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 13, 2019
Jacqueline22:
Through his phone I was admitted immediately
grin cheesy

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by NewDelhi(m): 9:49pm On Jul 13, 2019
I used to form strong man and laugh at my colleagues who feel bad and even cry like babies after a break up but I was wrong grin

Omo the feeling is out of this world honestly. You might not cry but there's this unexplainable feeling in your heart. Food will stare at you , u won't eat. Even to sleep go turn war. grin no be here o .grin. I always wondered why people even commit suicide after a breakup until I had mine. Its just insane.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Aidejay(m): 9:50pm On Jul 13, 2019
Adonko:
Ok let me pour out mine on three fronts.
Firstly ,when I was at the university, I was dating one babe from microbiology dept who was a year lower than me in school levels, I also had a strong pal who was also in her Dept but same level with me. It all happened that I travelled home for 3 days and . I came I never told babe but visited my pal who called me to come around and narrated everything playing between his cousin and bae ( who is a member of Aye and and from a different school), he was quite tall, he told me that my bae is even coming that evening and they will be going to the nite club together ...aaaah I almost died lol, I decided to catch her red handed cos his cousin went somewhere far, I quickly took his timberland boots and kept it outside and took his Aye overall and wore it( I am tall too) and deemed/switched the light to club light and lie down on the bed while my guy was sitting on the reading table.

Bae came as expected around 8pm, greeted my friend and ran to the bed straight telling the guy (which was me ) if he forgot they are going somewhere while rubbing his chest ( what pains me most is that is my bae that was doing the tripping), when I switched on the light cos I was holding the switched, she shouted as if she saw a ghost and quickly open her bra and put her breast in my mouth ( knowing fully well I liked her boobs so much) ... I just jeje remove her breast stood up uttered nothing and left.

I WILL CONTINUE THE SECOND SOON.
damn! walahi undercover detective go fit u die

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by noah24(m): 9:50pm On Jul 13, 2019
Wen she slept wit my cousin.... angry*dat bitch*

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Goddyj(m): 9:51pm On Jul 13, 2019
I discovered that the Punamy has become so wide, so I needed no body to tell me that some dude with a larger cucumber is seriously pounding my baby cry cry

So I left with my tiny joystick angry

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:52pm On Jul 13, 2019
martyns303:
Guy called and she couldn't talk properly, she was saying "hmm" "OK" "yes" "ok". snatched the phone from her and put it on speaker, the guy wasn't happy with her about something, he was yelling at her through the phone "is this how u used to talk to me"? "hello, hello!!!!!" I ended the call, she kneeled down and started begging.

Called the guy later with my phone, talked to him as man and he opened up and gave me the whole rundown. I died 1001 times within 5mins.

Oh! did I mention we had been dating for 6yrs?




You fainted because your gf was cheating on you? You are such a weakling

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by DESAN(f): 9:55pm On Jul 13, 2019
He mistakenly or stupidly downloaded call recorder on his fone at a tym we just had a fight after which he kept promising to pay me bck with surprise. I then took his fone and found out he usually delete d recorded calls without him realizing he needed to also delete them in music app. To cut the long story short i transfered via bluetooth to my fone frequently called numbers from the music app and discovered he did not only toast my sisters but uncountable gals.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:55pm On Jul 13, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.

I wonder who are the cheats. grin





This is a faceless forum, it's a different world from the real one we know.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by MrFly(m): 9:55pm On Jul 13, 2019
Adonko:
Ok let me pour out mine on three fronts.
Firstly ,when I was at the university, I was dating one babe from microbiology dept who was a year lower than me in school levels, I also had a strong pal who was also in her Dept but same level with me. It all happened that I travelled home for 3 days and . I came I never told babe but visited my pal who called me to come around and narrated everything playing between his cousin and bae ( who is a member of Aye and and from a different school), he was quite tall, he told me that my bae is even coming that evening and they will be going to the nite club together ...aaaah I almost died lol, I decided to catch her red handed cos his cousin went somewhere far, I quickly took his timberland boots and kept it outside and took his Aye overall and wore it( I am tall too) and deemed/switched the light to club light and lie down on the bed while my guy was sitting on the reading table.

Bae came as expected around 8pm, greeted my friend and ran to the bed straight telling the guy (which was me ) if he forgot they are going somewhere while rubbing his chest ( what pains me most is that is my bae that was doing the tripping), when I switched on the light cos I was holding the switched, she shouted as if she saw a ghost and quickly open her bra and put her breast in my mouth ( knowing fully well I liked her boobs so much) ... I just jeje remove her breast stood up uttered nothing and left.

I WILL CONTINUE THE SECOND SOON.
u wore an Aye regalia meanwhile u weren't number 7

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by lilbarracuda(m): 9:58pm On Jul 13, 2019
I've never had a GF. So I will come back later maybe in the year 20infinity

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by macho44(m): 9:58pm On Jul 13, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.

I wonder who are the cheats. grin
If u ask me, na who I go ask?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by netmillionaires(m): 9:59pm On Jul 13, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.

I wonder who are the cheats. grin
Oga no kill me with laff o abeg... No be lie u talk shall.

But truth is that I have not cheated on a lady before and God can bear me withness. The thing is that I believe in one girl at a time. I have got the opportunity to but if you aren't my babe, I will feel disgusted looking at your unclothedness let alone sleep with you. Maybe it is just the way I am wired.

No be say I be saint though o. I just don't cheat...

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Virus99: 9:59pm On Jul 13, 2019
DESAN:
He mistakenly or stupidly downloaded call recorder on his fone at a tym we just had a fight after which he kept promising to pay me bck with surprise. I then took his fone and found out he usually delete d recorded calls without him realizing he needed to also delete them in music app. To cut the long story short i transfered via bluetooth to my fone frequently called numbers from the music app and discovered he did not only toast my sisters but uncountable gals.

Your sisters ?
Damn! That's an all time low.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by bodilong: 10:01pm On Jul 13, 2019
mine was funny too.. during my nysc days my girl came to visit n we enjoy ourself well, not knowing she as another thing in mind.. She got home meet up wit d other guy she start enjoying her self.. I dey form super man say I trust my girl.. got home few month later n she came to say hi to me, she spend d night I remember d day she came as we dey talk, she was on chat wit d other guy telling him I love u.. devil wey go catch her, d next day I wanted to sub for r n d network was acting up, she was busy cooking dat wen i saw a sms message wen d guy dey warn my girl not to stay long over my side.. I ran to shower first.. i open r WAPP, i nearly run mad.. girls can be funny sha.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by udemzyudex(m): 10:01pm On Jul 13, 2019
I'm a sensitive person, I like to observe a lot, that's why I prefer to listen than talk. I hardly talk much and this has always help.


People change, that's for sure and some partners will rather keep shut instead of talking about it so I always make it a routine to ask any babe I date every 3 months if there is anything she noticed about our relationship she doesn't like or any attidue that is pissing her off.

When a girl start misbehaving and you ask her what's wrong and she keep saying it's nothing, hmmm.
I ask her on many occasions she still insist it's nothing, one day she finally opened up to me and we parted ways.


The last one was cheating and I knew it, when you're with ur babe and she keeps receiving unnecessary calls, Nna make way.
Being the person that hardly talk, I'll just gather enough evidence and point and throw it at her..

She go surely jabo, I don't want to know how good you are in lying.
Since then if I notice any nonsense attidue and I try to make things work and she's not doing anything to make it work too.


No time to waste time abeg.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by pappilo(m): 10:03pm On Jul 13, 2019
Joromi12:
Facebook during nysc. I bot a blackberry uk used phone. Babe said i must buy hers( got money from my bro wey dey malay then). So the phone get issue she had to gimme her password make i go para for the seller. She once told me she used same password for all her things. So one day she say she dey go one anglican youth ish in port harcourt. 3 hours from where i dey serve. For night i go charge my lappy for my principal house to use airtel cheat browse before dem block am. Our gen for corper lodge no gree work. As i wan enter facebook i saw my babe email der . She had logged out. Devil just told me to type d password she gave me like a week ago. Wetin i see on her chats . I almost died . She was going to PH to meet an offshore worker and d guy asked for anal sex plus dey gisted about bj she gave( which she said she can never do) . I check other chats i counted 3 oda guys. 1 married man, 1 pastor, 1 boutique owner. That very day I stopped trusting women.

Maud!

Your babe nor dey fear God? shocked
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by netmillionaires(m): 10:05pm On Jul 13, 2019
Jacqueline22:
Through his phone I was admitted immediately

How were you admitted? Did you faint?
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by RexTramadol1: 10:06pm On Jul 13, 2019
Haha



I don suffer once
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by STARKACE(m): 10:08pm On Jul 13, 2019
DESAN:
He mistakenly or stupidly downloaded call recorder on his fone at a tym we just had a fight after which he kept promising to pay me bck with surprise. I then took his fone and found out he usually delete d recorded calls without him realizing he needed to also delete them in music app. To cut the long story short i transfered via bluetooth to my fone frequently called numbers from the music app and discovered he did not only toast my sisters but uncountable gals.
this guy is a real MVP, he knows wassup. But I don't get caught sha.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by sircrabo: 10:08pm On Jul 13, 2019
Thts why i like the idea of checking phones and social media accounts of your bf/gf. It helps reveal a lot. mine was having her puna greased by one yahoo boy in our street. On one occasion, we were supposed to go out together. I waited at the bus-stop for her but she never turned up. One day she gave me her facebook password to upload pic for her. My heart was heavy after logging into that account. I saw her chat with the guy about how he didn't last as long as he used to, but she still enjoyed him though. I found out that the day they had the sex was the day i was waiting for her at the bus-stop. She said she was searching for a job and i volunteered to assist her, just to contribute positively to her life. we used to move round ikeja looking for opportunities together. That's the day i knew some people don't deserve to be treated like humans but as animals. Some ladies will always prefer people that have nothing to offer them (bad guys). I later confronted her abt her affair and she said "Did i ever tell you that i loved you"...... She later came apologizing, even said she cant marry the guy because he is Muslim. still apologizing yrs later but i have locked up completely. No atom of feeling for her now..... I once traveled to Abia state from Lag to see this SHE GOAT. Three years old relationship went down the drain. CHECK UR PARTNERS PHONE PLS

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by stchinedu: 10:09pm On Jul 13, 2019
Learnstuffs:


And that is how women bring out the monster in men. You break a good man's heart. He starts breaking other people's heart and the vicious circle continues
Abi o

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by omooba969(m): 10:11pm On Jul 13, 2019
oluwamaich:


I am planning to join the group of heart breaker now, cus ain't trusting my girl's Attitude recently.

But the spirit of God in me would not let me cry

Grow some balls!

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by hormoty(m): 10:13pm On Jul 13, 2019
Illuminated993:
My guy, that incident must have left a terrible scar on you. But the good thing is, scenarios like you had help you learn and get stronger. I got to know my ex slept with a married man while in a relationship with me. The man was her teacher in secondary school. For me now, I'm not after love, my motives are mostly sex driven, let's just fucck, I don't care about the games the woman I'm with plays when I'm not around. I'm not that guy who monitors his woman, or goes through her phones anymore. I now understand that a man can't stop a woman from playing her games. I only demand sex and respect from the woman I'm with, nothing more. I don't bother with the thoughts of her getting fuccked by another man. Maybe she's probably getting fuccked. Being cheated on really does affect one.


See bad chaill bros....... cheesy
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jul 13, 2019
Learnstuffs:


And that is how women bring out the monster in men. You break a good man's heart. He starts breaking other people's heart and the vicious circle continues

Abegi!
Hasn't the girl been heartbroken before too?

Who hasn't been heartbroken?

Let the vicious cucle continue na.

One day, game boy and game girl go jam.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by jayextra(m): 10:13pm On Jul 13, 2019
Omo see past questions for Relationship 101 grin grin

I'll come back wen i finally get a girlfriend grin
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by omooba969(m): 10:14pm On Jul 13, 2019
Jacqueline22:
Through his phone I was admitted immediately

Lol cheesy

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Sirmuel1(m): 10:15pm On Jul 13, 2019
Ralphjoe:
It was on a bright and colourful day, we were supposed to meet at an eatery but she refused to show up, I called her and she didn't pick, then I remembered that I saw here inputting her fb username and password at a time, I didn't use it before then because I love and trust her, this altitude that she just displayed spur me to check her fb account and what I saw got me down for more than 3 months, she went to see another guy, she and this dude chatted so raw about how they were so looking forward to having sex that very day we were to meet, aside that dude, she was chatting with about 3 other guys in that same manner, I got so down and the next day she called telling me all sort of bullshit excuses, I told her how I got to know about where she really went to, I ended the relationship there, she kept on begging and calling me, I got so pissed that I blacklisted her number from calling me...... download crypto browser and mine Bitcoin as you browse normally with the browser, download it below.


Is it possible to mine bitcoin through the browser?
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Stillthebest: 10:16pm On Jul 13, 2019
Being dating hrr for a year, sickness struck me and that prompted me to visit her at school(400l) over the weekend since I haven't since I started dating her, and using the off work opprtunity...

Gave me her phone to fix..Aye mi oo WhatsApp messages just came in Tom Tom...I tried to close my eyes but the messages were pepperish..

"I cant give you 25k till day break today.. I'm not burst up" And is that why you didn't reply since morning?"

I thought for a sec, then followed up... My brain was at it' s best..

"I didn't even know you, but you kept saying the same thing since morning" I replied.

Omo na so the guy vex dey talk how we had met morr than once mentioning the hotel...

Na so I vexed called my "runz" girl to come and check.. I couldn't hold my grip... Threw the phone at her, then tried to get it back and shower her what I saw cus she was askingme what exactly was I yalking about.

Boom! She had deleted the whole of WhatsApp app on her phone. I could not believe my eyes that day even till now.

Na so I left ADO EKITI SAME DAY I ARRIVED without spend the proposed three days.

Got to my base, she came the following day and opened up on her runz life. I couldn't believe I still had two ears.

Fear students... I suspected her but she really cleared her track each time she visited. She would always travel all the way to spend weekends with me this it would be hard to conclude she was into runz... I tried to reconsider her because she won't let me be always saying they told her i was her husby... But I couldn't just forget it. That's how I cut her off and changed my area by renting an apt in another area before I transferred myself out of the city when her problem was too much for me.

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