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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 10:51pm On Jul 13, 2019
psalmylee:
guy,I for die o na small remain.my whole world crumbled ryt before my eyes.I never deserved it.I fought my family for her,starved myself to make sure she was satisfied.guy just forget abeg.I fon dey vex already set.the girl day heartless abeg.
First never fight your family over a girl.
Two why starve yourself to satisfy another who's not even family or your wife?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kirchhoff01(m): 10:52pm On Jul 13, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.

I wonder who are the cheats. grin
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Smithwilliams826: 10:55pm On Jul 13, 2019
davillian:

Only kids do that.
For the fact you got hurt by a lady doesn't stop you from loving another woman.
It only takes time but you will meet someone who will give back all the love you've given without getting back in return.
until u breakdown 8 times before ur head go correct abi? ;-)

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by psalmylee: 10:58pm On Jul 13, 2019
weyreypey:

First never fight your family over a girl.
Two why starve yourself to satisfy another who's not even family or your wife?
these are just part of the stupid n foolish things have done for love.BT my guy ,these girls don't deserve any of this..God bless my friends ,they help me tru those horrible times.naw way my heart don strong pass dangote cement.she go do regret say she ever met me.am a playful person BT very sensitive n deadly.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by momove4real25(f): 10:58pm On Jul 13, 2019
pocohantas:
Lol. I like threads like this,

Gives everyone the opportunity to play the victim.

Everyone would suddenly turn the one that was cheated on.

Create another on "How were you caught cheating?" Nobody go gree comment.
Lol
I wonder who are the cheats. grin
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 11:00pm On Jul 13, 2019
psalmylee:
these are just part of the stupid n foolish things have done for love.BT my guy ,these girls don't deserve any of this..God bless my friends ,they help me tru those horrible times.naw way my heart don strong pass dangote cement.she go do regret say she ever met me.am a playful person BT very sensitive n deadly.
I never bothered to change women..... I just observe.... point out what I have noticed.... and call it quits if no changes

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by brownbib(m): 11:00pm On Jul 13, 2019
Sorry bro. Been there before.
Lord grant us the serenity to accept the things we can't change and the courage to change the ones we can. #Wisdom.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by psalmylee: 11:01pm On Jul 13, 2019
macfish101:
Menh.... E no easy for Ezekiel at all. Girls always cheat, you can't control them. Even my present girl just traveled today, she told me that she is going for a duty somewhere in another LGA, but I know there is more to it. I over heard her talking to a man last night, he has been waiting for her to come for two days. I claimed to be asleep last night and she picked the call in my presence. Luckily for me, I could also hear the man even when the phone is not on speaker. I don't plan to confront her about it when she comes back. I only know we have no future together but I will keep her in the dark about that.
na so my guy.never break up with her o.Bleep am till ur dick z satisfied then u chase her off like a dog.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by fx45(m): 11:04pm On Jul 13, 2019
Kenturkey048:
Godddd...How would a guy cheat on you...why Guys dey fuc*kk up like dis....if I get you...I will worship the ground you step on..see as person pikin fyn...
All that glitters is not gold!

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by EngrMarve(m): 11:04pm On Jul 13, 2019
davillian:

Only kids do that.
For the fact you got hurt by a lady doesn't stop you from loving another woman.
It only takes time but you will meet someone who will give back all the love you've given without getting back in return.
bros shut up abeg... You don't know what is happening

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kirchhoff01(m): 11:07pm On Jul 13, 2019
Amuocha:


Ambode sef angry
grin


Ken sef
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by psalmylee: 11:09pm On Jul 13, 2019
got an advice from a therapist after I was cheated on n that really helped me...This thing called love is very strong. It's better not to enter into it than to be jilted. It takes a sound and strong mind to deal with heartbreak which obviously is inevitable. So long as love exist, there's tendency of heartbreak.
To be on a safe side, don't put all your mind and energy in love. Always be mindful of the fact that anything can happen. So that when it happens you can hold on to contingency options rather than committing suicide. Most importantly love yourself because you can never hurt what you love

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Iphran6: 11:11pm On Jul 13, 2019
I already suspected bea due to her numerous outings with her big bro best friend,I was in another state then but read her whatsapp mssgs when she came around and saw her chat with her supposed big bro best friend, dey fvcked and was still setting a date for more knocking...I almost went to coma

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by nuelsam: 11:12pm On Jul 13, 2019
Kenturkey048:
Godddd...How would a guy cheat on you...why Guys dey fuc*kk up like dis....if I get you...I will worship the ground you step on..see as person pikin fyn...
you are very very stewpeed.........

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jul 13, 2019
Nmahgood:
Have I been cheated on or have I cheated on someone,I dunno abd don't care...as far as I'm concerned the word "cheating" only applies in marriage, not some stupid relationship stuff
fu,,, ck me and i pay u
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kenturkey048(m): 11:15pm On Jul 13, 2019
nuelsam:
you are very very stewpeed.........
na you I quote.??i don't know how you people comfortably throw insults on people you don't know online...

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Kenturkey048(m): 11:17pm On Jul 13, 2019
fx45:
All that glitters is not gold!
you need to come close to authenticate na....
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by TemmyT002(m): 11:25pm On Jul 13, 2019
luvyaself95:
I have start disbelieving long term relationship sometimes can't lead to marriage..

Disbelieving, abi believing

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by TemmyT002(m): 11:27pm On Jul 13, 2019
ericsmith:




what kind of reason be these ..just say d guy was broke , my own was even better she left just becos i farted inside the kitchen ..begged n promise never to fart again ... she left & never came back.

Hahahahaha

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Acedave1(m): 11:36pm On Jul 13, 2019
today at 2:38pm have bin expectin my gal to cal cos her phon don spoil nd she normal cal arnd 1pm bt wen she ddnt cal i decided to cal her cos she do take her office phon to her aos, i called nd her younga sis pick nd said she z nt arnd, she said who am i nd i tld her jus tel her som1 cal nd she wil undastand nd d gal ask am i ope nd i said yea nd she said its unfair of me dat wen eva i come i dnt gret dem nd i said am sorry dat wen next am comin i wil buy her somtin bt nt to tel her sis i called, later she called nd i ask who ope is nd she said she dosnt knw wu am tlkin abt den i clos d chapter, in my mind she z nw my LovePeddler.. bt i really love dis moda fucka

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Damfostopper(m): 11:44pm On Jul 13, 2019
I always hack the facebook account of any girl am dating after certain period to know how far..... las las.... na dere I dey find out everything.....
I broke up..... the cycle continues.....



the past 3 girls.... I caught them cheating right there.....


las las this girls ain't worth it

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by yomi007k(m): 11:47pm On Jul 13, 2019
Damfostopper:
I always hack the facebook account of any girl am dating after certain period to know how far..... las las.... na dere I dey find out everything.....





How do u do this? The owner of the account will know that the account has been opened naaa.

I wan learn.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Moneywirer: 11:49pm On Jul 13, 2019
pcguru1:
When Zenith Bank sent a large stamp duty and atm maintenance charge.


the same way access is cheating on me

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by FreeSpirited: 11:49pm On Jul 13, 2019
Pvssy was not made for one deek..and a dick was not made for one pvvssy....You people can go and die..rubbish

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by dierich: 11:52pm On Jul 13, 2019
my own story is bad and critical. I don't even know where to start.
I caught her thru whatsapp. and imagine my gf I've intro to my parent. my church & prayerful girl, believer, begging a guy for no string attached relationship.. my heart almost pull out...
guys, beware of girls day act like a church girl o
she once swear with her life that she'll never cheat on me, but I'm always prepare for heartbreak. anything happens inside life

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by AbuAeesha: 11:56pm On Jul 13, 2019
Damfostopper:
I always hack the facebook account of any girl am dating after certain period to know how far..... las las.... na dere I dey find out everything.....
I broke up..... the cycle continues.....



the past 3 girls.... I caught them cheating right there.....


las las this girls ain't worth it






how do you hack a Facebook account?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 11:57pm On Jul 13, 2019
EmekusTHEgreat:
Lemme drop mine here under the cloak of anonymousity, happened back in 2017, I was in my third year, she was in her first year, she wasn't my first girlfriend and I wasn't hers either, but she was the one that really got to me, like my first real love, the first one I ever opened my soul to.

NOTE THAT I'm a very suspicious person, I tend to expect the worst from people and most times they don't fall short of expectations.

So the story goes like this; I and this dark skinned beauty had been dating for a some months then, if you've dated in university you would know that going on vacation is the real test of strength for any university relationship (except where the couple lives together), so there we were, we would be apart for the first time since we started dating, I had to leave my school in the East to go home in kaduna while she had to go to Lagos where her family lives. she had calmed my suspicious with her soft, convincing words and her beautiful smile, she had often told me that she could never cheat in a relationship, and of course like a fool in love I believed her, I called everyday and tried to know everything that went down in her day, not for the sake of suspicious but just to show her that I cared, one random evening around 7:30 I called her and I noticed that she seemed off, a bit unsettled and on alert, I asked her where she was and she started stammering - something she never did, she's soft-spoken but never stammered - she's said that she had gone to see a friend in a hotel near her house, I asked which friend and her response seemed like she was lying, as usual my mind started raising red flags but I wiped it off, I seemed a bit angry and it seemed like the way I spoke really got to her that evening (calm but aggressive, not a regular trait of mine), when school was back on session and we met after the long vacation, my mind just ran back to that day and told me that I should ask about it, as usual she seemed to be a bit edgy, this really triggered me, but I didn't make it obvious, however from that moment I made it a point to know what went down that day..

Now this side note is for the gents out there, when a lady starts playing the "so you don't trust me" then guy know just know that you have reason to not trust her...

One day I managed to get into her Facebook account, she had logged into it with my phone and forgot to log out (rooky mistake right!) so I took the platter-given opportunity to do some investigating, after a really long night and really weird chats, I ran into her dm with her THEN bestfriend, where she had told her that she suspects that I know what she did that summer, the friend encouraged her to continue lying and telling me that nothing happened, I scrolled abit further up and saw what she had been hiding from me, happens that her ex boyfriend had invited her to his hotel room and she decided to go pay him a little visit, deep down I know she was Hot and just wanted to feel something intimate, well, she got what she wanted, they had sex, she let him have sex with her, for "closure". It happens that immediately she was leaving the hotel, my called had come through, that was what made her edgy. It really pained me, I felt betrayed.
I had prior made it a rule to never cry because of a woman who isn't my mom or sister but damn!, that day was my exception, you're truly cried.
I confronted her and at first she played the "so you don't trust me" card, so I brought up the evidence and she came clean, I realized that she still loved the guy, she apologized and explained the whole thing to me, I told her to resolve whatever she had with him, and I guess she did.

ehhnn, fast forward to today, we got back together some months later, we moved past the cheating incident and she dropped the friend, I realized that nobody is perfect, fidelity isn't easy, words are easy, actions aren't as much, I can say "I love you to the moon and back" with a big ol'smile on my crooked lips but really would that love ACT when it's called upon?. I love her, she loves me too, and I know that if she were given the chance to cheat again she wouldn't.

Moral of the story is this; we are not perfect, as humans we are made to lie, to fear the impact of the truth, we say over estimate our abilities, we try to convince others that a lie isn't a lie when actually we're trying to convince ourselves that the truth isn't as it is, cheating doesn't have to be the end of a love story. Thanks for reading this short story from my life.

I pity your life

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 12:00am On Jul 14, 2019
Acedave1:
today at 2:38pm have bin expectin my gal to cal cos her phon don spoil nd she normal cal arnd 1pm bt wen she ddnt cal i decided to cal her cos she do take her office phon to her aos, i called nd her younga sis pick nd said she z nt arnd, she said who am i nd i tld her jus tel her som1 cal nd she wil undastand nd d gal ask am i ope nd i said yea nd she said its unfair of me dat wen eva i come i dnt gret dem nd i said am sorry dat wen next am comin i wil buy her somtin bt nt to tel her sis i called, later she called nd i ask who ope is nd she said she dosnt knw wu am tlkin abt den i clos d chapter, in my mind she z nw my LovePeddler.. bt i really love dis moda fucka

You are disgusting for writing like a junkie

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 12:01am On Jul 14, 2019
Damfostopper:
I always hack the facebook account of any girl am dating after certain period to know how far..... las las.... na dere I dey find out everything.....
I broke up..... the cycle continues.....



the past 3 girls.... I caught them cheating right there.....


las las this girls ain't worth it







Abeg how I go take dey hack my babe face book account?
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Spectre007: 12:02am On Jul 14, 2019
DESAN:
He mistakenly or stupidly downloaded call recorder on his fone at a tym we just had a fight after which he kept promising to pay me bck with surprise. I then took his fone and found out he usually delete d recorded calls without him realizing he needed to also delete them in music app. To cut the long story short i transfered via bluetooth to my fone frequently called numbers from the music app and discovered he did not only toast my sisters but uncountable gals.
Mr and Mrs Smith.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Damfostopper(m): 12:10am On Jul 14, 2019
yomi007k:


How do u do this? The owner of the account will know that the account has been opened naaa.

I wan learn.
she won't know....... I will turn off the chat when I am logg in.....


I can access any fb account I wish to.... and the owner won't know.... except I decide to change the person password and have total control of it
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Acedave1(m): 12:12am On Jul 14, 2019
i dated dis gal in 2014 nd dat day she came to my aos afta we've Bleep each oda, i tld to go nd take a showa den i chk her phon, she jus met dat guy on fb it was d guy dat bot d android phon she brot to my aos n lied it was her elda bro, den i scrol down to d mssg d guy was tnkin her 4 d sex dat its been 3yrs he had had sex last nd he cudnt blv her puna is stil tait nd next time dey wil go extra mile nd me takin it easy on her. make i no lie i failed my post utme the next day score 49%, my virgin gal is anoda man sex machine. me broda wey mumu

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