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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Jul 14, 2019
MenGoingThereWay:
No matter how this ladies call men dogs it still doesn't change the fact that ladies cheat more than men.

My own experience is that most of the girls I have nice time with all have boyfriends or someone they are serious with. It's so bad that they tell me about their relationship issues and I get to advise them after we have had rounds of Sex. Some even have 3 guys they claim to be serious with, some even tell me about pastors and married men who toast them or who they had unplanned Sex with and how there bf is suspecting them.

These girls keep making it difficult for me to trust ladies with their cheating and selfish ways. They don't feel a single remorse when in the act till they are caught. One was riding me and a call from her boyfriend came in and she immediately put her hands on my neck, giving me the eye sign to stop my thrusting. These babe spoke to her boyfriend as if she wasn't doing anything and even told him she loves him and after the call she aggressively rode me while she had this evil grin. I had a lot of thoughts run through my head at that moment.

The second instance, I was with this babe and her phone rang and I helped her reach for it and the call ID read " MY love" . I handed the phone to her and she just threw it on the bed saying " abeg abeg I don't have time to be answering jamb question". You can imagine.

Another one asked me in her words "how can I say I have boy friend and it feels like am single" and I was like then let him go and in her words " he is a nice guy, he understands me and will make a good husband ". These girls can be selfish and mean.

You may think it's about money, care and time but most times its not because many have serious bf who do their best to give them all these and you wonder what these girls want. I used to make out with one whose bf was super rich and cartered for her but do you know this girl opened mouth to tell me about two other men and that she will be touring with one of the men while she tells her bf she has gone to visit her sick mum.

Aside students even the working class aren't left out...That's a talk for another day.

Men take my advice and you will be happy you did

- Men don't need love we need respect. Oncertainly a girl don't respect you dump her sorry

- Always have it in mind that no girl owes you anything till you pay her bride price

- Make yourself less available for these girls. These has worked for me well. Itso good you give these girls an impression that you are busy, focused and they come second. Do this and watch how they will always want to be around you and jump to come meet you each time you call.

- Give these girls space don't choke them

- When it comes to the bed be dominant let them see you using them to satisfy your sexual cravings. Don't pity them ooh..spank ass, pull hair etc. That does a lot to their psych. Topic for another day

- Never taking a cheating girl back. I once advised my cousin the young man refused and 2 years down the line his girlfriend who he introduced to the family got pregnant for yahoo boy ���.

Many are still screwing me, they are unrepentant whilst they confess love to their bf.

- Mengoingthereway




100% CORRECTNESS!!

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Ugosample(m): 12:45pm On Jul 14, 2019
SaucyBenks:
Bitches... Especially those with flat stomach, 32inches wide butt, 52inches round hips n coconut-like pointed breasts angry

Most of you stupid guys are dating girls who's contacts are on Codedruns.com n the rest.. We Bleep them n pay them off every weekend, 18years,19, 21,22,24,25...? Just name it...!

They'd still come home to you n open them filth of a mouth and say I love you and your heads will be blowing like balloon but real guys are spreading their tight creamy cum-milking vaginas and even cumming deep deep inside of them every weekend without any I love you bullshit talk. Remember, even your boo get boo.

Some newly married women are even there... We Bleep them and pay them off the same money they use to help your families, and you'll hear one stupid senseless guy day there's this girl I met, she has all the qualities I want in a woman hahahahahaha I just laugh...

We even ask some of them this question does your husband Bleep better? And you know their responses it's even sweet fucking someone's girlfriend/wife-to-be/wife cos mine has been bleeped in the past and I have grown to enjoy the feeling of enjoying another person's woman.

chineke nna

which kind wahala be this one now undecided

is this what NiggerArea has reduced to shocked shocked

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Ugosample(m): 12:46pm On Jul 14, 2019
Nmahgood:
Have I been cheated on or have I cheated on someone,I dunno abd don't care...as far as I'm concerned the word "cheating" only applies in marriage, not some stupid relationship stuff
at least you were honest
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by pocohantas(f): 12:48pm On Jul 14, 2019
Ugosample:


what's your point tho poco *scratches head*

Experiences like this abound

I have my own experiences too but will rather not share

A lot of ladies in Nigeria today have become something else

I know men as well no dey try

But women own shocked shocked

I have seen this again and again



Lol, I wonder why you people think women are just becoming something else. Maybe it is SM bringing these things to the fore.

Last time I checked, it has been men imposing monogamy and some sainthood on women.

Anyone can cheat without any care.

I even think men are such dumb cheats, not very good at covering their tracks and for someone like me who pays extreme attention to detail, I will be waiting to pick those little signs. However, I do not STALK or check phones.

Anyway, my point is, everyone has been cheated on, but not many people admit to being cheats, except unrepentant cheats. I have no tale though, never CAUGHT anyone.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by pocohantas(f): 12:53pm On Jul 14, 2019
stinflame:


A supposed well groom man, came one a faceless forum. Spilling trash of gang rapping a lady, and here you go rebuking her for giving a sound Clap back.
Well done uncle, posterity is always fair to us and our children unborn...

Ignore the foolish dolt... grin
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by jiboladhino(m): 12:54pm On Jul 14, 2019
Bought a new phone for her and decided to take her old one , unfortunately she failed to clear her Whatsapp conversations , the rest as they say is history ..... Funny thing is I still love her to bits ....

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jul 14, 2019
Joystark:

I couldn't care less if you did. undecided
should we kick the ball rolling
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by iberu001(m): 12:59pm On Jul 14, 2019
Damfostopper:
she won't know....... I will turn off the chat when I am logg in.....


I can access any fb account I wish to.... and the owner won't know.... except I decide to change the person password and have total control of it
.

Pls I need your help,have issues with my girl and I'm suspecting cheating but I need evidence,pls how can u help me to check her FB chat and also whatsapp chat.I need ur help pls.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Ugosample(m): 1:02pm On Jul 14, 2019
pocohantas:


Lol, I wonder why you people think women are just becoming something else. Maybe it is SM bringing these things to the fore.

Last time I checked, it has been men imposing monogamy and some sainthood on women.

Anyone can cheat without any care.

I even think men are such dumb cheats, not very good at covering their tracks and for someone like me who pays extreme attention to detail, I will be waiting to pick those little signs. However, I do not STALK or check phones.

Anyway, my point is, everyone has been cheated on, but not many people admit to being cheats, except unrepentant cheats. I have no tale though, never CAUGHT anyone.

interesting

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 1:05pm On Jul 14, 2019
iberu001:
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Pls I need your help,have issues with my girl and I'm suspecting cheating but I need evidence,pls how can u help me to check her FB chat and also whatsapp chat.I need ur help pls.
If not loyal leave her bro. Don't waste your time tracking her

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Ugosample(m): 1:10pm On Jul 14, 2019
4ckTOT0:
this hoe will you shut up, i swaer if i knew you in person i for pay boys to rape you

This is uncalled for
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Ugosample(m): 1:11pm On Jul 14, 2019
BrainSanitizer:
She caught you with a woman. She was furious. Nearly left you. You begged. Swore never to cheat on her again. But you weren't sure you'll stop 'cos she's far better than your wife in bed. Clean. Tight. Curvy. 1st class in BJ. Grade 1 lips. 2 days later, you found out that the woman you were 4king is the wife of the guy who's 4king your wife.
Why would somebody in their right senses cheat on a woman like the one you cheated with? You asked yourself. Someone preferred your lazy, unromantic, wide-holed wife to a classical lover? Unbelievable!

The above is to all men and women.
Do not be complacent. Even millionaires who wear gold get tired of wearing gold sometimes. They want to feel how it feels to not wear gold.
It's natural.
Men, women, be dynamic. Give your partner something new. Don't be like what you were yesterday. You'll turn out to be boring no matter how fantastically endowed you are.
Good luck to all men and women.

This is an interesting twist to it
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Enugupikin: 1:15pm On Jul 14, 2019
Press333:
In my case I was the one who cheated on my partner we have been dating for 2yrs and still dating till date I had a feeling that my partner was cheating on me.
I was like why being loyal to a guy who cheats on you (I never caught him oo I just had the feeling) .
So I decided to date a guy that have been asking me out, we were not even in thesame state he was in Abuja it was a long distance relationship we only met once we did not have sex then my partner started suspecting me he went through my chat with the guy and my guy saw the part where I denied him and every other thing....long story.
We sought everything out and we are still dating but I know deep down that he is cheating.
why not you both quit, nawa ooooo..you cheat and he cheats so what da Fvck are u doing together?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by iCauseTrouble: 1:16pm On Jul 14, 2019
Jacqueline22:


Send me the money I will get milk myself
PM me your account number
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Mikocake(m): 1:17pm On Jul 14, 2019
dierich:
my own story is bad and critical. I don't even know where to start.
I caught her thru whatsapp. and imagine my gf I've intro to my parent. my church & prayerful girl, believer, begging a guy for no string attached relationship.. my heart almost pull out...
guys, beware of girls day act like a church girl o
she once swear with her life that she'll never cheat on me, but I'm always prepare for heartbreak. anything happens inside life
church girl begging for no string attached relationship?? This one shock me..are u still with her?
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by EngrMarve(m): 1:21pm On Jul 14, 2019
davillian:
Lmao. You are a learner when it comes to relationship and women.
Ok
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by somalianprince: 1:21pm On Jul 14, 2019
https://www.nairaland.com/5295943/armed-robbers-kidnappers-caught-enugu

Enugupikin:

why not you both quit, nawa ooooo..you chest and he cheats so what da Fvck are u doing together?
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jul 14, 2019
This thread makes me feel really blessed being single.
Haha! My lack of interest for romantic relationships has just skyrocketed to 90% .
Thanks to the OP, and others who have shared their experiences. grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by joromii: 1:29pm On Jul 14, 2019
romenna:
Mine is very fresh.
Met her in a conference last yr.
She 28 n me 32. Our focus was clear, friendship- dating-marriage.
She told me abt her ex bf who left her to marry anoda lady.
She visited me last month - June 2019 n I gave her an iPhone.
She downloaded all social media apps n was really happy abt her new fone. While she was in d kitchen, her fone was in d living room with me.
All of a sudden, there was dis rush of msgs on her Instagram. The last msg read "I love you" and dat caught my attention.
She didn't lock d fone yet cos it wud really not make sense to lock a fone I just gave to her even wen she is still in my house.
Na so I open her Instagram app, went straight to her inbox n found out she was still fucking her ex bf dat left her to marry anoda lady.
I was devastated.
They meet in diff hotels n chatted like dey were still dating.
I allowed her return to her base b4 disclosing wat I found in her fone n told her to stay with d guy n stay away from me.

You no collect the iPhone back?

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by joceey(m): 1:38pm On Jul 14, 2019
dober:
Got her a new phone and within a week,she locked it with a password. I see her chat and delete sometimes and this raised my suspicion and I had to hack into her whatsap and behold... I was only a side guy... The rest was history.

Pls I like to ask u is it possible to hack a whatsapp live video call and listen or watch d video??
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by ekene101: 1:47pm On Jul 14, 2019
Been in and out of many relationships,last one was a coded runs babe so I called it off,she begged and begged and still denied it even when a mutual friend who is a street guy said it to her face that he has banged and paid her on 3 occasions the ode still dey deny. Me wey hate to use condom bang woman,I just quickly go do test,buy plenty antibiotics,even agbo Jedi and all,still did another series of tests just to be sure am clean. The fear of contacting disease from these farm tools is not d issue, what guys should be scared of is not go get ur destiny hacked/hijacked because many ritualist claiming yahoo boys do deposit something in these girls and any guy who crosses them will start experiencing backwardness financially and otherwise,while the ritualist excel in his trade. I know few guys who does it and many of these girls are walking corpses spreading evils among guys who can't keep their pencils in their bags but be looking for sharpener upandan. I have decided to remailed celibate and cause trouble here on nairaland when am bored or not on duty. Don't have time for those useless farm tools. Konji is a thing of the mind,anyone can learn to control d urge,believe it or not.
Note: I come from a family of boys only,so I know how to cook and do stuffs,I even hate the ideal of a girl doing my laundry because am used to doing it myself, so why do I need any stoopid girl to come tear my life apart and render me disorganized, I eat Wat i want wen I want,wear Wat I want,I don't send any body my hard earned money for hair,clothes or any stoopid tin apart from family, no unnecessary dramas. I'm just free as in totally free.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Jacqueline22(f): 1:50pm On Jul 14, 2019
iCauseTrouble:

PM me your account number

Lol
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by romenna: 2:06pm On Jul 14, 2019
joromii:


You no collect the iPhone back?
I didn't ask but she packaged d fone and returned it to me.
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by duchessvikki0(f): 2:18pm On Jul 14, 2019
I'm yet to confirm being cheated on. I pray my man doesn't cheat and I'm yet to cheat and I pray I don't

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Ugosample(m): 2:18pm On Jul 14, 2019
MenGoingThereWay:
No matter how this ladies call men dogs it still doesn't change the fact that ladies cheat more than men.

My own experience is that most of the girls I have nice time with all have boyfriends or someone they are serious with. It's so bad that they tell me about their relationship issues and I get to advise them after we have had rounds of Sex. Some even have 3 guys they claim to be serious with, some even tell me about pastors and married men who toast them or who they had unplanned Sex with and how there bf is suspecting them.

These girls keep making it difficult for me to trust ladies with their cheating and selfish ways. They don't feel a single remorse when in the act till they are caught. One was riding me and a call from her boyfriend came in and she immediately put her hands on my neck, giving me the eye sign to stop my thrusting. These babe spoke to her boyfriend as if she wasn't doing anything and even told him she loves him and after the call she aggressively rode me while she had this evil grin. I had a lot of thoughts run through my head at that moment.

The second instance, I was with this babe and her phone rang and I helped her reach for it and the call ID read " MY love" . I handed the phone to her and she just threw it on the bed saying " abeg abeg I don't have time to be answering jamb question". You can imagine.

Another one asked me in her words "how can I say I have boy friend and it feels like am single" and I was like then let him go and in her words " he is a nice guy, he understands me and will make a good husband ". These girls can be selfish and mean.

You may think it's about money, care and time but most times its not because many have serious bf who do their best to give them all these and you wonder what these girls want. I used to make out with one whose bf was super rich and cartered for her but do you know this girl opened mouth to tell me about two other men and that she will be touring with one of the men while she tells her bf she has gone to visit her sick mum.

Aside students even the working class aren't left out...That's a talk for another day.

Men take my advice and you will be happy you did

- Men don't need love we need respect. Oncertainly a girl don't respect you dump her sorry

- Always have it in mind that no girl owes you anything till you pay her bride price

- Make yourself less available for these girls. These has worked for me well. Itso good you give these girls an impression that you are busy, focused and they come second. Do this and watch how they will always want to be around you and jump to come meet you each time you call.

- Give these girls space don't choke them

- When it comes to the bed be dominant let them see you using them to satisfy your sexual cravings. Don't pity them ooh..spank ass, pull hair etc. That does a lot to their psych. Topic for another day

- Never taking a cheating girl back. I once advised my cousin the young man refused and 2 years down the line his girlfriend who he introduced to the family got pregnant for yahoo boy ���.

Many are still screwing me, they are unrepentant whilst they confess love to their bf.

- Mengoingthereway


wow ;o
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by carter009(m): 2:27pm On Jul 14, 2019
Imagine, this girls are not worth it, that's why I will never spend any huge money on them, I don't trust them, I Bleep them and dump them, even when they are crying and begging me to tell them what they did wrong , I simply told them that am not interested again, will never allow what happened to my guy to happen to me, I don't care what anyone thinks, is very hard to see a girl that will not cheat on you, they worst is that they don't think, imagine his ex left her to marry another girl, she's still fucking the same Guy that left her, most of this girls are useless with no brains, all they know is sex sex sex and nothing else.
romenna:
Mine is very fresh.
Met her in a conference last yr.
She 28 n me 32. Our focus was clear, friendship- dating-marriage.
She told me abt her ex bf who left her to marry anoda lady.
She visited me last month - June 2019 n I gave her an iPhone.
She downloaded all social media apps n was really happy abt her new fone. While she was in d kitchen, her fone was in d living room with me.
All of a sudden, there was dis rush of msgs on her Instagram. The last msg read "I love you" and dat caught my attention.
She didn't lock d fone yet cos it wud really not make sense to lock a fone I just gave to her even wen she is still in my house.
Na so I open her Instagram app, went straight to her inbox n found out she was still fucking her ex bf dat left her to marry anoda lady.
I was devastated.
They meet in diff hotels n chatted like dey were still dating.
I allowed her return to her base b4 disclosing wat I found in her fone n told her to stay with d guy n stay away from me.

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by weyreypey: 2:29pm On Jul 14, 2019
Nwanneni where you dey
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by goalgetter01: 2:30pm On Jul 14, 2019
paroh137:
I see a lot of people dont know how to hack Facebook and Whatsapp. Chat me up on Whatsapp I go give you her password live. For a fee sha
Your WhatsApp number bro
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by romenna: 2:33pm On Jul 14, 2019
carter009:
Imagine, this girls are not worth it, that's why I will never spend any huge money on them, I don't trust them, I Bleep them and dump them, even when they are crying and begging me to tell them what they did wrong , I simply told them that am not interested again, will never allow what happened to my guy to happen to me, I don't care what anyone thinks, is very hard to see a girl that will not cheat on you, they worst is that they don't think, imagine his ex left her to marry another girl, she's still fucking the same Guy that left her, most of this girls are useless with no brains, all they know is sex sex sex and nothing else.
very worthless behaviour n inferiority complex I tell ya
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by paroh137(m): 2:36pm On Jul 14, 2019
goalgetter01:
Your WhatsApp number bro
link on my signature
Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobleking2000(m): 2:47pm On Jul 14, 2019
paroh137:
I see a lot of people dont know how to hack Facebook and Whatsapp. Chat me up on Whatsapp I go give you her password live. For a fee sha
.

Your WhatsApp number or chat me on o7o38=9825=13

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Re: How Did You Find Out That You're Being Cheated On? by Nobleking2000(m): 2:51pm On Jul 14, 2019
PotatoSalad:

Go to the person's file manager, then go to WhatsApp, go to databases and find the chat backup of the day you want to explore. It's in .crypt12 format
Copy and send the database to your phone via Bluetooth. Don't forget to clear Bluetooth activity after sending. Then download WhatsApp Business, paste the database file in the WhatsApp folder/databases and do as if you're creating a new account, enter your second number and restore backup.
All her chats will now be displayed on your WhatsApp business app. Then read and drink sniper


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