MdRabx:
I'm in a distance relationship with a lady i intend to marry, am a graduate still hustling/managing and as well hoping for a better job. It took me a year to get this lady to date me after i had to travel all the way to see her in school, we ve been dating now for almost a year but she does not call me and she's not bothered if i don't call, then when i complain about this she ll always apologize and promise to change then sooner she go back to status quo. She claim she has never been in a relationship and does not know how to love to some extent her friends started arranging dates for her with guys, am scared she don't ve emotions or she has some sort of psychological problem.
She's in her early to mid twenties and still a virgin, please has anyone here been in this situation before and what do you advice a brother, do i leave her and move on? Could it be she's not interested but she is seeung someone else or she's not interested which i doubt

MdRabx:
I'm in a distance relationship with a lady i intend to marry, am a graduate still hustling/managing and as well hoping for a better job. It took me a year to get this lady to date me after i had to travel all the way to see her in school, we ve been dating now for almost a year but she does not call me and she's not bothered if i don't call, then when i complain about this she ll always apologize and promise to change then sooner she go back to status quo. She claim she has never been in a relationship and does not know how to love to some extent her friends started arranging dates for her with guys, am scared she don't ve emotions or she has some sort of psychological problem.
She's in her early to mid twenties and still a virgin, please has anyone here been in this situation before and what do you advice a brother, do i leave her and move on? Could it be she's not interested but she is seeung someone else or she's not interested which i doubt

pocohantas:


Reverse psychology works like mad.

MdRabx:
Wow, I've been duped

Fountainofyouth:



Exactly, slow people can never understand

pocohantas:


Lol, I have always been of the opinion that men could want commitment and attention from their loved ones. But they have mastered the act of acting "uninterested", thereby making the woman come at them with all force. It will now look like she is the one desperate for marriage...

Subtly ignore him and watch him come around. Even if he doesn't want it, he will wonder if she is normal.

ibkayee:
Reciprocate her behaviour and if she continues she definitely isn’t into you

MdRabx:
thanks but am a guy, and the person an referring to here is a woman i love but am confused, she don't contribute anything to the relationship, not even call, i had the opportunity to ve sex with her but considering she's a virgin i declined for the love i have for her.

MdRabx:
Thanks that's exactly what am doing now, haven't called for five days and she hasn't as well.

MdRabx:
I'm in a distance relationship with a lady i intend to marry, am a graduate still hustling/managing and as well hoping for a better job. It took me a year to get this lady to date me after i had to travel all the way to see her in school, we ve been dating now for almost a year but she does not call me and she's not bothered if i don't call, then when i complain about this she ll always apologize and promise to change then sooner she go back to status quo. She claim she has never been in a relationship and does not know how to love to some extent her friends started arranging dates for her with guys, am scared she don't ve emotions or she has some sort of psychological problem.
She's in her early to mid twenties and still a virgin, please has anyone here been in this situation before and what do you advice a brother, do i leave her and move on? Could it be she's not interested or maybe she is seeing g someone else

MdRabx:
I'm in a distance relationship with a lady i intend to marry, am a graduate still hustling/managing and as well hoping for a better job. It took me a year to get this lady to date me after i had to travel all the way to see her in school, we ve been dating now for almost a year but she does not call me and she's not bothered if i don't call, then when i complain about this she ll always apologize and promise to change then sooner she go back to status quo. She claim she has never been in a relationship and does not know how to love to some extent her friends started arranging dates for her with guys, am scared she don't ve emotions or she has some sort of psychological problem.
She's in her early to mid twenties and still a virgin, please has anyone here been in this situation before and what do you advice a brother, do i leave her and move on? Could it be she's not interested or maybe she is seeing g someone else

MdRabx:
I'm in a distance relationship with a lady i intend to marry, am a graduate still hustling/managing and as well hoping for a better job. It took me a year to get this lady to date me after i had to travel all the way to see her in school, we ve been dating now for almost a year but she does not call me and she's not bothered if i don't call, then when i complain about this she ll always apologize and promise to change then sooner she go back to status quo. She claim she has never been in a relationship and does not know how to love to some extent her friends started arranging dates for her with guys, am scared she don't ve emotions or she has some sort of psychological problem.
She's in her early to mid twenties and still a virgin, please has anyone here been in this situation before and what do you advice a brother, do i leave her and move on? Could it be she's not interested or maybe she is seeing g someone else

NUJABEZ:
Why are you panicking like she is the only woman in the world?

1. Is she not calling because she doesn't have money? Highly unlikely. N100 credit is about 40+ minutes of talk time.
2. Is she not calling because she doesn't know how to reach out to people? Again, not true because she does call friends, colleagues, and family.
3. Is she not calling because you are a boring conversationalist and she prefers to talk to you face to face? Check yourself.
4. Is she not calling because she doesn't feel anything for you? Of this I am 90% certain.

You should prepare yourself mentally and check out bro. There are so many women out there looking for someone like you. Women who will love you to pieces, but what you got to do is put yourself out there. Talk to lots of girls. For instance, if you approached forty girls, you can easily sleep with ten, and find true love in the arms of one.

Give yourself brain. Don't force love.

NUJABEZ:
I experienced something like this a while ago. We dated for about six months. The first few months were really intense, but then, by the third month, I found myself doing all of the work in the relationship while she didn't bother anymore. That was the first sign she'd checked out. I spoke to her about it severally, she promised to change but never did. I got tired of complaining because her attitude was causing me heavy distress. I took stock of the situation and told myself it was time to move on. I didn't call her for six weeks, she didn't make any attempt to reach out to me. I didn't break up with her though, but what I did around the seventh week will shock you.

Now, this ex of mine worked at a certain establishment I liked to frequent. It's a lounge/restaurant. My female cousin who is drop-dead gorgeous came around to visit us, so one fateful day, I took her to the place. When we got in there, I held her waist, led her to a table, and pulled out a chair for her to sit. Luckily, ex was around and viewing the film in full HD. One of the waiters wanted to take our orders, but ex left her station and took over the order. We placed our orders, but when she brought our food and drinks, I introduced my cousin as my new girlfriend and told ex she was now free to totally forget about me. See film!

She went stark mad. Poured pepper soup on cousin, and broke drink bottle and came after me. Her coworkers restrained her. Me, I just called Inspector, a good friend of my family to come and arrest her. She was detained for four days. Lost her job and all. Flawless victory for me.

MdRabx:
What suprises me is bro i ve fleet of more beautiful and classy girls rushing me but i actually want a cakm headed lady to end up marrying.

MdRabx:
I'm in a distance relationship with a lady i intend to marry, am a graduate still hustling/managing and as well hoping for a better job. It took me a year to get this lady to date me after i had to travel all the way to see her in school, we ve been dating now for almost a year but she does not call me and she's not bothered if i don't call, then when i complain about this she ll always apologize and promise to change then sooner she go back to status quo. She claim she has never been in a relationship and does not know how to love to some extent her friends started arranging dates for her with guys, am scared she don't ve emotions or she has some sort of psychological problem.
She's in her early to mid twenties and still a virgin, please has anyone here been in this situation before and what do you advice a brother, do i leave her and move on? Could it be she's not interested or maybe she is seeing g someone else