SHE LOVES IT BUT FROM ANOTHER UNKNOWN GUY. she's SUSPECTIÑG YOU ÀS HIT AÑD RUN. .

continue like dat and later on she go fall after marriage

Use the jungle method as practiced by Lord Dauda the Sezy Guy

RUN THE FVCK AWAY!!!

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

She's probably not into you... Or not even into deeks... If you know you know...

omochelsea004:
yes she was circumcised... the person that did it no even try at all, & i knw that's the problem with her, but if there are medications that can help improve her sexual drive, i am ready to take it as one of my responsibilities, as a matter of fact i heard about one "Spanish fly" but i don't know much about it & i don't want anything with side effects

Bros, make sure you have "Tiger nuts and Dates" in your house 24/7, ensure she eats it regularly, she'll be the one begging you for sex.

If you know you can't take the situation why did you allow the relationship to get to this stage? She never hid it from you. Now you are looking for support to break someone's heart or to be miserable in your marital life. You are on your own o.

omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it

Based on what you explained above, try and talk to hope, hope she has notbeen sexually abused before for her to be turn off at the move for sex. Even if she has low likeness for sex with what you described above no matter how she doesn't like sex with those moves of pre-intimacy she should at least go for it but since she usually lose interest at that point, try and talk to her maybe she has been abused before if not then maybe the sexual education that has been given to her has made her wired her thinking that sex is not pleasurable because if she's like this before marriage, pregnancy and child bearing might make her loose interest finally, and this won't be good for you because that's one of the important bond that will keep you going. Talk to her well pls she might open up. All the best

[quote author=omochelsea004 post=80417858]Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

ever heard of the word sniper?its for people like you when things doesn't go your way.

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omochelsea004:
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my brother marry her o, if e do you anyhow too much after wedding release it outside, if you marry a sexmaniac, do you know the difference between completely finished and finished completely... eh morning, she go drain your blood, if you want stay late till 13am she will wait, if you never knack she no go chop, you will be looking lean like patient, final advice; it is better you are begging for sex than for one maniac to be raping

There are worrying signs here. Even women with low sexual drive takes time to ensure their husband or fiance are sexually satisfied by at least trying, even if she isnt fully enjoying it

It you are that bad, she wouldn't be planning on marrying you in the first place. So why is she not even making efforts to try? A wise woman would easily know sex is important in a relationship not to mention marriage. Why is she not bothered?

Obviously a woman that has been circumcised has little sexually drive but not in all cases. The fact this person gets turned off when you get ready for this means she actually doesn't care about the things you love. What if you also show similar disdain for those that matters to her?

It seems to me she doesn't really love you as you claim. Or she is so selfish she thinks of herself alone. Either way the prognosis doesn't look good.

For me it is not about solving the sex drive issue. There are worse underlying issues here than just sex drive. I had a patient that came with the wife some weeks back. When they are in the act, he could see the woman is in obvious pain and sometimes draws blood biting down on her lips due to pain. He knew she wasn't enjoying it and in pains but she was making all the sacrifices to please him. He brought her to the hospital to seek solution. Here is the thing. She was making an effort even in pains and he could see the sacrifices

In this case she turns off selfishly with little or no consideration of his feelings. I do not think it's a medical issue at all and if you really wish to continue you must explain the consequences of her conduct. She probably is used to always acting selfishly and getting her ways and doesn't even know her conduct is improper. If however she knows and choose to act this way regardless, then you have a decision to make. A medical solution only comes in when you are sure this is what would really solve your problem because at this point, I do not think that is the case

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Maybe she was circumcised? Maybe she's never had great sex? Maybe you no sabi fvck? Even if she has a good sex drive and you get married, you're still going to cheat so why is it a problem? Start building your hoe empire today!

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What an irony..

While me here I'm about dumping my fiancee of being too sexually active or maniac

Op your own situation is cool

Oyerinde16:

my brother marry her o, if e do you anyhow too much after wedding release it outside, if you marry a sexmaniac, do you know the difference between completely finished and finished completely... eh morning, she go drain your blood, if you want stay late till 13am she will wait, if you never knack she no go chop, you will be looking lean like patient, final advice; it is better you are begging for sex than for one maniac to be raping

No be lie.. Maniac go sex u ehn till u lean finish

Try spanish fly or sex doll and thank me later

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

it might be...she still want to respect herself since no marriage ... Man can still break her heart...try to do it with much pre-intimacy anytime not rushing for sex without prepare her mind.

omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it

Bro I don't want to talk much here, but u just draw my picture here, my problem turns to b spiritual husband, small move in prayers the problem was solved and I set my mind for it because sex is from d mind so I tell myself I need it , there was arrangement of Hausa herbs that work like magic, am now happily married with 4kids in 16yrs. That problem never ever comeback ooo i was worse than what u explain ur fiance b4

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

ask if she's circumcised?

May be she was raped or sexually abused at a younger age or she witnessed something like that or the men she dated in past treated her badly even after giving them her body freely. These are few things that can make a young woman hate sex.
it could be that she was circumcised may be 3rd degree or something Which might make her have pain when having sex.

See a psychologist and or a gyneacologist

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

Sex is most enjoyable ,when it is scarce.and for your information, it is not food.

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Baba where you get his your response from naaaaaaaaa?? You r so on point.

thesicilian:

So after 8yrs he should keep looking for her weak point to activate? Even the buttons to nuclear weapons don't take that long to locate.

pcguru1:


Some people are asexual. Not everyone likes or craves sex

NA LIE...!!!!!!! THERES NOTHING LIKE ASEXUAL. IF U FIND IT HARD TO GET TURNED ON, U HAVE A HEALTH / MENTAL PROBLEM. TAKE IT FROM A DOCTOR WITH 10YRS EXPERIENCE

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Every morning before her breakfast, she should eat one cucumber everyday and that will activate her sex homone. Later on, she will be begging you for sex.

Give me a feedback later.

Bros, I know you won't like my advice. But I will still say it. Leave her alone and find someone you are sexually compatible with. or else you will leave the rest of your life complaining, side-chiking, lying, and possibly eventually divorce. A marriage without reasonable sex brings agony , conflicts, hatred, and misplaced aggression. The best time both of you can discuss how to progress, the matters in the family and the success of your children is when you sleep together in one love, in one emotion, in one heart. And these come only when you have lovely sex together. Let those who have ears take to what the spirit is telling the church. Speaking from serious experience. Thanks

Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.

Let the wife tell he husband her weak point and stop doing CT and dog

tyup:


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This one is obviously in la la land,far away from reality....Vaiin-megalomania is written all over you.

Your type is the type that carries every kmown STD in the World looking for whom to share them..

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abiolamitodun:

guy u just spoke my mind...and that's what most men are facing...and the funniest part is that their type are the one that come with good brain to bail u out of ur failures...but the sex part...bro they are complete zero..so u end up fighting to choose between the brain or the Virgina

Spoken like a true Nigerian dude..always shallow in your thought-process.

Seems nobody is considering she might just be a lesbian, abroad she could live her life without a man, in Nigeria the stigma will be too much to bear. Simply put it, she may be more aroused by her fellow ladies, it just may be a possibility. I may be wrong though.