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| Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Blastedholligan: 5:24am On Jul 21, 2019 |
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant. Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school. Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job. My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi. Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to. Pardon my scattered words. 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:30am On Jul 21, 2019 |
The ball is in your court in this case. You have to make the best decision for your self. Your case is still better because she let you to know all about her debt before you got together. We read of a fellow that it was after their wedding, after the partner got to Yankee and after many many months of them living as a couple that the partner got to know of IRS debt, Student loans, personal debts etc of the other partner, now, they are both stuck in it. (an amount around what you wrote up there!). Make up your mind. This is personal to you! 36 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by bisi16(m): 6:52am On Jul 21, 2019 |
You want to enslave yourself bro? $150k no be here o! Also bear in mind women change after marriage. She’ll surely change for the worse. Use your upper! 68 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by cenaman(m): 6:54am On Jul 21, 2019 |
Bros u no dey go anywhere who una wan live this country for if everybody travel go yankee? we die here together. 121 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by ednut1(m): 6:54am On Jul 21, 2019 |
Abort mission. This one dey find helper 20 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by alien1: 7:43am On Jul 21, 2019 |
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| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by alien1: 7:44am On Jul 21, 2019 |
post=80475070: If i'm getting you clearly, they'd both have to pay up the loans right? As i'm in talks with one who is in debts of about $200k 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by justwise(m): 9:57am On Jul 21, 2019 |
Blastedholligan: Please don’t mortgage your life for the rest of your life. Think hard about this. 43 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Blastedholligan: 10:20am On Jul 21, 2019 |
justwise:Thanks boss. Please help push this to FP so I can get more views people. |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by prettyynx(m): 2:15pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Firstly, you do not have to pay for her debts, its a loan of a life time and most of them do not pay it all back during their life time. now your concerns should be 1) how to fund your schooling over there 2) can you actually live with an akata with one kid, think about this one very deeply, itas easier said than done. 3) are you ready to be a bread winner cos thats what your signing up for although its going to be 50/50 FYI, if you eventually make it over there with the right papers, you will get a job that will cater for your family in naija properly. Plus your generations will always have dual citizenship which is a gift to any child . Blastedholligan: 43 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by soberdrunk(m): 5:45pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Just 2 words-------- Fear Akata!!! 13 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by RDPMAN: 5:45pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
You think oyinbo women are like the black woman, she doesn't need you to pay her loan, how much do you have, after her course she will get a better paid job and the loan will be removed in her salary ... Common, leave the fucking country. 77 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Automatic3444(m): 5:45pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Dear pls becareful of ur emotion it will lead you to disaster. Especially when it come to woman issue.. Read the book of proverb 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Butoneday2(m): 5:46pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
If u like!!! |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
You said you're taking a digital marketing course. See this OP. Digital marketing is hot cake abroad - if you're truly good at it. Plus, I don't know what's the problem with debts. As long as the debts were not a result of irresponsible lifestyle I think there's no big deal in it. What are her plans to pay the debt? Ask her and see if they're feasible and realistic. The only issue I see in your case is are you convinced that you two truly love her and she loves you? Once you can answer that every other issue is minor. Both of you will overcome any other obstacles. However, I've never left the shores of Nigeria. So my opinion might be myopic. I advise that you give preference to the words of people who have witnessed how debts operate in US. I rest my cass 48 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Offpoint: 5:46pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Some advice people seek online makes me wonder what happens to natural sense... Let me know who you voted for in the last presidential election, that's the only way I'll know the kinda advice I'll offer. 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Bossontop(m): 5:47pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
 Mhen.....seriously?? I cant deal mhen [img]https://media1./images/76af6d8d84fdb0b0534721cfed65d6b4/tenor.gif?itemid=14480734[/img] |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by LordKO(m): 5:47pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Don't marry her based on the material things you can gain from her (and vice versa). As for her loans, both accumulated and yet-to-be accumulated, the repayment plan she's in place will go a long way to determine your final decision. 15 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Pavore9: 5:47pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Risky. |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by lastempero: 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Keep marrying Buhari,akata is better than marrying Buhari. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Iogobenz(m): 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
 This one never still know whatsup. You never even reach America you don dey behave like white already. Don't travel and help your family you hear?stay here dey ask annoying questions. There are 2 things you can do; -propose a business to her in oil and gas that has very high yield that she will use to clear her debts and sponsor her education,collect like $30k from her and kupu  Or -travel to meet her jejely,manage whichever attitude she give you till you fix your immigration status and get small bread of your own,then you bounce. Don't impregnate her o before child support kill you! My guy use your upper 23 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Tobimillar1(m): 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Very funny . the loan is in wher name and it has nothing to do with you . post=80475070: And oga sir you are wrong . except the file tax jointly he is not liable to anything. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Ziel20: 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Yes, abi na me u dey wait for  1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by 1x2x3: 5:49pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Bush meat wan catch this particular hunter. Who no know no go know. Baba no make that move. Tell her make una start business here and be serious with whatever business you want to venture into. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by happney65: 5:49pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
cc dayleke baba over to you! |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Nemesis0147(m): 5:49pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
she might be testing your love for her
..all this Yankee women ba 7 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Don't do it bro! Flee the Harlot, do you think she's a catch that's why she's looking for some mumu African to marry her? No sane man marries an American woman, not to talk of one with a child and debts, don't let anyone use coming to America to induce you into slavery, believe me, America is not that great. 18 Likes |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by namiji2598: 5:50pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Their is no better answer than NO 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by uglodoh(f): 5:50pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Look before you leap. Aside nairaland, consult your family as well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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