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Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 11:03am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Graduateacher: So in your interpretation, traditional marriage should be abolished? |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by deebrain(m): 11:05am On Jul 23, 2019 |
You are right. The real marriage is the traditional marriage. The reason why church marriage is yet required amongst Christians is because, its more or less the "discipline" marriage. In African traditional marriage, you can marry as many women as possible. Ditto for the courts if you have a good reason. In church marriage, you aside being getting married to your woman, you are taking an oath to be with only her for life. Any other marriage after this is taken with great reservations. That's why many countries for documentation reasons approve church or mosque and court marriages to prevent possible complications rather than traditional marriages. Thanks. 3 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 11:05am On Jul 23, 2019 |
kilisi: I don't understand what you mean by future necessities. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by veesion: 11:08am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Hmm |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 23, 2019 |
bros why are you like this?, most men in Nigeria have been fornicating with their intended even before before they do introduction, as a professional sales person I always advice my clients to try out the product before buying. product testing is a basic human right. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 11:15am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Arysexy: Does the certificate stop a man from divorcing his wife? Does the certificate stop a man from infidelity? The essence of marriage is a unification of 2 persons(body and spirit) becoming as one and keeping true to each other. It does not rests on certificate or rings or hand bands. The use of certificate for issuance of visa etc,etc, is for a different purpose and if you go through the process you'll see that it was specifically formulated because of the women folk as proof to be shown. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Omudia11: 11:15am On Jul 23, 2019 |
When a man deceives you with only traditional marriage, without white wedding or court marriage I hope you won't come crying in the future when it boomerangs. If you don't know the benefits of white or court marriage then please ask questions. Tina26: 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by akdjr(m): 11:16am On Jul 23, 2019 |
A man has every right to sleep with a girl whom you are not married to as long as both of you agree to Nack. 80% of the couple's around the world had sex before they were legally married. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Otunba2004(m): 11:20am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Rapmoney:kudos bro you nailed it right at the head, as you can see bible only recognised paying of dowries which is traditional marriage you're talking about not white wedding but most of African people especially Nigerian has been brainwashed with foreign religion by their so called fake pastors mind you am a Christian but doing specifically what my bible say not what my pastor said, most of them fighting for pastor never one day carry the Bible and read it but believe anything coming out of their pastors, my brother may God help us, we are so religious but not Godly. 2 Likes |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 11:20am On Jul 23, 2019 |
deleyi20: The law also recognises traditional marriages which the customary court is in charge. Please read about it. The purpose of the court wedding and certificate issue is for a different intending unforseen reason. This of which even a person's WILL can over ride. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by mamajj17(f): 11:20am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Lucky me i can go for any Styles oya my Man give it to me |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by kilisi(m): 11:21am On Jul 23, 2019 |
bixton:Travelling out, alimony...... |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Omudia11: 11:23am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Please who forced Jesus to turn water into wine? naijadrivablog: |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 11:26am On Jul 23, 2019 |
PHIPEX: There's no error in tithe. The only error is from those who interpret it for whatsoever reasons best known to them. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Otunba2004(m): 11:30am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Lordave:bad guy, that's the truth |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 11:30am On Jul 23, 2019 |
kilisi: Okay. As regards alimony, I think the Nigerian system needs to look into prenuptial agreements. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by salt1: 11:31am On Jul 23, 2019 |
akdjr: Children! You just pull up statistics from no where. Enjoy! The last time I knew, there's freedom of worship in Nigeria. If you don't agree with an organization's teaching, you move to another. It's a free world. I chose to belong to an organization that teaches no sex until after the Church/legal wedding (in my Church, it's one and the same ceremony), and my spouse and I waited until then to consummate the relationship. We're still very happy that we did. We have fond memories of our wedding night and we're very happy in our marriage. If you choose to consummate after TM, your life and your choice. If you choose to lie that you hadn't so that pastor can wed you, it's still your life and your choice. Don't run anybody down or insult another as being brainwashed. You that aren't brainwashed, I haven't seen your fantastic earthshaking inventions. Or maybe, you're busy inventing insults 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Amacaco: 11:39am On Jul 23, 2019 |
There are four kinds of Marriages recognized under Nigerian Law viz: (a)court marriage (b) christian Marriage; (c) Customary marriage and (d) Islamic Marriage. Court and Christian Marriages are called Marriage under the Act. Most marriages are a hybrid of customary and christian marriage but are strictly recognized by law as customary marriage because the Church blessing and ceremonies do not add anything to the customary marriage which had already been contracted with the payment of bride price and fulfillment of customary rites. So if one sleeps with his wife after payment of bride price, you are strictly within your legal rights. But if you are a member of a particular Church which forbids sexual intercourse before Church blessing, you are bound by the rules of your Church as disobedience and rebellion everywhere is Sin before God. Strictly Speaking, Marriage under the Act does not require payment of bride price and parental consent but consent of the two adults intending to get married. Fornication and adultery therefore in these cases will arise where the two have not completed the requirements and process under the Marriage Act. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by NoToPile: 11:45am On Jul 23, 2019 |
All this story arises because of those that will do traditional marriage today, fix church wedding 6-8 months later. Cant all ceremonies be done within a week, days even? I still cant wrap my head around the long space people put between both ceremonies. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 11:47am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Ode nie. When you realize white wedding is the traditional wedding of the white people. Sense would fall on you tee59: |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 11:48am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Once I pay ur bride price and you refuse to give me premium logins, I will simply cancel my subscription and ask for refund. No long talk. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by karli4nia(m): 11:52am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Criticaltemp: Introduction far sef... Once its settle BTW the couple and their God, they can have sex...as sex is the real marriage.. Marriage is Spiritual. If they wish, they make it official and legal via a marriage registry. Too many confused and misguided religious fanatical and hypocritical folks think otherwise.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by InvertedHammer: 11:53am On Jul 23, 2019 |
/ Is this a post from 1914 or 2019? Folks sleep with each other years before marriage (which may not happen) comes into the picture. / 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Comedian2019: 11:55am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Michelle55:Don't mind them. Inferiority complex no go kill us. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by vital94(m): 11:58am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Problem with traditional marriage is that it doesn't have a certificate, please let the traditional rulers issue marriage certificate to couple to make it more important. For me both traditional and church are important. 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by bixton(m): 11:58am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Amacaco: As regards the bold as long as it conforms to the word of God as written in the Holy Bible then it's right. There are too many age long miss-interpretations of the word of God and people will still use them against those who do not the study the Bible. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by deltateam: 11:59am On Jul 23, 2019 |
Nat404: Everyone has the right to his or her belief. Don't insult anyone because of it. I believe white wedding may not be compulsory especially where money is an impediment but then you can opt for church blessing in its place. 1 Like
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Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by deltateam: 12:02pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
zainaboo19: Is there a honey in the moon? Honeymoon is only for virgins. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Nat404: 12:02pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
deltateam:This is not about having the right, this is about having common sense. Stop sounding like an adolescent! 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by Graduateacher(f): 12:17pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Grupo: Read my post again, I said church wedding only needs the presence of the minister of God and the couple and members of both immediate extended families (a cousin of mine married like this), if anybody choses to make theirs elaborate, that is their business. The white dress was to signify purity of the bride but now that almost every bride is pregnant during church wedding, there's absolutely no point in wearing it. The vail was to show virginity but now that people engage in premarital sex, there's no point in wearing it. |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by jamesbridget13(f): 12:23pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
It's d bitter truth. You can imagine i n hubby had our trad around march dat year but we had to be questioned about sex because our wedding was slated for may. My hubby told d pastor that we had sex. He said we shld not do it again . Na wa 1 Like |
Re: A Man Has Every Right To Sleep With His Wife After Traditional Marriage by betterpikinn: 12:30pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
franciskaine:You're the one wallowing in confusion. Any wedding you do using your religius guideline is a traditional wedding. YOUR RELIGION IS YOUR TRADITION! Not until u invite sango or ahmadioha |
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