Modarun:
Most times these so called long term girlfriends are not as loyal as they pretend to be. But konji being a bastard, poor boy has no choice, cos i mf he chase her away, no more feeding and pocket money and free pvssy from his girl, so bros will act loyal. the very moment he hits money, he then runs off.

you no lie atall...most times I look people when they say I was with him when he had nothing ,now that he has money he left me..what have been your behaviour ever since that he had nothing..when you don't have money ,she makes you feel like ,,I JUST DEY MANAGE YOU...she picks series of calls in front of you without even respecting your presence..when you ask questions she gets angry and insult you..being the broke nigga you are ,,na u go still go beg her because u no get option..she disrespects you in any given opportunity,,.but you kept mute just for peace..when e reach pay back time ,people wey no know wetin u don pass tru for the relationship go turn judge.

iRepNaija1:
I swear, any opportunity to blame a woman. If she stays with rich guy, she's a gold digger, she's an opportunist. If she stays loyal to a guy who comes into his own, she's a liability. Smh.

Me self, my heart cut. Like how can someone be a cocktail of wickedness and stupidity?

sweetilicious:
Change your mindset.My sister is verrryyyy successful.She is the neck and the husband is the head.They live so in peace.They build castles and invest appropriately.What you beleive will come to you.

Exactly!! People like to focus on the bad parts as if there are no successful women out there that are still living peaceful lives with their husbands.

People should try to emulate the successful ones and not focus on the ones that failed.

ImaIma1:


Are you still aching from the post from gaspardd?

Because you obviously carry things in mind. Take it easy sha.

My comment on this post is straight forward. I am only responsible for my comment and not for how to choose to interpret it.

Aching you said? ooh dear, I ll advise we don't visit that You got it all wrong. But learn this, ALWAYS COME OUT STRAIGHT

Evercurious:


Aching you said? ooh dear, I ll advise we don't visit that You got it all wrong. But learn this, ALWAYS COME OUT STRAIGHT

As i said, i am only responsible for what i say. However you choose to understand or interpret it is your kettle of fish.

Class and materialism indeed

generationz:


Jesus!!

Lord KO
you are lord of KnockOuts


Technical knockouts

Lol. Don't mind me, I want to use ElderSonsAndDaughtersEnterprise to horn my KO skill for the upcoming world KO competition.

sweetilicious:
Thanks.I just don't like the way some Nigerian ladies lazy about.We were supposed to help a man in building.From my research,76% of African men die so young because of stress.The expectations on African men is too much.When they die,life becomes so hard for their widows because they weren't prepared both financially,emotionally,and physically to take up the challenges.They weren't used to that.Now as a result,the children will be affected so much by the challenges.This is not good if we want to breed society devoid of avoidable crimes.If Nigeria wants to get it right,it will have to start from the family.What do you teach your children.Do you just tell your daughters that the most important thing is for her to rally around and look for a rich man to marry that it would be the best security for her? Do you just teach your sons that as a man,he should bear all the burden? He is not supposed to ask for help no cry? So many LADIES that are graduates don't even know what or why they had to study the course they did.All they want to learn is how to make up and sell clothes,weavon,bags and sandals.They won't learn how to make all this. I want a change.Let everyone help each other to build.The stress in this life is so much to be borne by one party. An Igbo adage says"Anyuko Mamiri onu,ogbaa ufufu".

Rare gem

jezuzboi:
Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.

While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.

A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.

Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.

A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.

If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.

Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.

That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.

That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.

We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.

The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?

If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.

That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.

Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.

Jezuzboi©

" Any woman can supply emotional needs"? Ok we yaff hear oo. Pls dont come here crying that your gf left you for a rich guy because the message has been sent and ladies have taken notes, even married ones, unfortunately. May only guys/men who deserve it get it henceforth.

.

Martinez39:
If you feel disgraced about your spouse whom you claim to love then you are not the right person for your spouse since people's validation are more important to you than your spouse. Sincerely, this is a vain and childish thing to say. You must not act like everyone.

WORD!! Preach it, bro'. Pre-ea-ach!

LordKO:
Look at this hypocritically disingenuous entity - wannabe libertarian and egalitarian. Now vamoose and look for your ilk elsewhere. Bumpkin.

Chimo! See finishing.... Oga, show am mercy, small!

ImaIma1:


As i said, i am only responsible for what i say. However you choose to understand or interpret it is your kettle of fish.

Class and materialism indeed

But you should know that the under tone of your comment isn't difficult to comprehend

ANGELMARVE:
See bro, Nobody is useless in life.
Even if the woman failed to meet the standard, you can help her make the standard.

If someone is not educated, then the person should develop on his or her talent or have a handwork.

So did the successful man got to the top on his own?
Did people not help him got to the top?

what if people refused to help him when he was poor because he is low class?
would he be at the top today?

This generation has destroyed the concept of love with too many principles of westernization and people are too money, class and material conscious.

When you truly love a woman, it don't matter if she is this or that, You stick with her to the end.

God bless you.

You will make heaven

You've just nailed it, as it is.


Sighs when I was trying to find my feet in becoming someone and resourceful, guys I dated or hope to date bailed out on me, cause I was still a student struggling to find a head way in life. Back then I was as slim with a great height like a model but none could be able stand by me, through my struggles in life, even though I was ready for us to work as a team.

Since I have my business and career going for me three years after nysc, I now look chubby and all. Guys are all over professing imaginary love.

Really? Love

Sighs if not for God and my unborn kids, I will never wish to love a man, settle down and marry. That's the honest truth

May God help this generation. Almost everyone has thrown the true meaning of love to the dustbin. What we have now, is lust lust and more lust. After lust and with series of passionate moments, everyone waka to the next available person that catches their fancy. Just too bad. Only very few percentage of people practise true love, the rest is zero. Nothing there.

Good morning.

Evercurious:


But you should know that the under tone of your comment isn't difficult to comprehend

This is how people create conflicts in their homes unnecessarily... reading their own meanings to everything and keeping things in mind.

This was my comment:

Try to understand the point and don't be ready to pounce. Both parties need to keep developing themselves.

Compatibility is important in marriage, it bridges gaps. And as i said in another post, it doesn't mean that the couple won't be married forever, it would just help enhance the marriage better

Please point out where it speaks of class and materialism from the above comment. If you can't do that, please go and look for your class and materialism that you have been holding so tightly and trying to force on my comment in another person's comment.

LordKO:


Lol. Don't mind me, I want to use ElderSonsAndDaughtersEnterprise to horn my KO skill for the upcoming world KO competition.

jezuzboi:
Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.

While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.

A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.

Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.

A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.

If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.

Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.

That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.

That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.

We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.

The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?

If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.

That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.

Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.

Jezuzboi©

Bro OP, dis one u are saying is no sense at all, why can some1 claim they have sense only when money arrives.

You leave a woman that has been by you all thru your poverty allign beginning and blame it on the woman for not working on her IQ.

biko, if it's play stop it.

What happens to normal human conscience , why not tell her what to do to increase her IQ, cos you too have been zero IQ till money appeared.

Why can't you help one another to continue growing?

For some men, the so called low IQ woman gives them plenty peace.

victorian:












God bless you.

You will make heaven

You've just nailed it, as it is.


Sighs when I was trying to find my feet in becoming someone and resourceful, guys I dated or hope to date bailed out on me, cause I was still a student struggling to find a head way in life. Back then I was as slim with a great height like a model but none could be able stand by me, through my struggles in life, even though I was ready for us to work as a team.

Since I have my business and career going for me three years after nysc, I now look chubby and all. Guys are all over professing imaginary love.

Really? Love

Sighs if not for God and my unborn kids, I will never wish to love a man, settle down and marry. That's the honest truth

May God help this generation. Almost everyone has thrown the true meaning of love to the dustbin. What we have now, is lust lust and more lust. After lust and with series of passionate moments, everyone waka to the next available person that catches their fancy. Just too bad. Only very few percentage of people practise true love, the rest is zero. Nothing there.

Good morning.

it's a shame really

Jumoke has kicked out the man in her life based on this premise


Now the same guys supporting this thread are on the other one condemning jumoke :Dwhy una like double standards na

Modarun:
Most times these so called long term girlfriends are not as loyal as they pretend to be. But konji being a bastard, poor boy has no choice, cos i mf he chase her away, no more feeding and pocket money and free pvssy from his girl, so bros will act loyal. the very moment he hits money, he then runs off.

On point

sorry dear

what? good to be back though.

Elder0001:



You’re obviously sick . This hungry bastard male hiding under a female moniker to gain attention

Any account not bearing elder0000 or hanseel or fadedvoices isn’t me.

You have the wrong handle. all this thing you're accusing me of is not true. you're talking to the wrong person.

Exactly. The next time I see a thread talking about how women ain't loyal to a broke niggas, THIS IS WHY!!!!!

ANGELMARVE:
Absolute Nonsense.

A lady stuck by you when you were broke, now that you are Rich, you left the lady because in your words, "She has now become a liability"
So tell me why Goodluck Jonathan is still with patience Jonathan?

Are you more richer and educated than Goodluck Jonathan?

Yes!!! i know a woman must develop her own self, mentally, educationally or resourcefully but that do not mean that if she fails to meet the requirement guaranteed for your financial level, that you should dump her.

A real man will use his wealth to uplift his woman financially, educationally and transform her to your standard.

That's why most of ya'll will never be rich.

Btw, in the real world, black women tend to have higher incomes than black men. It was designed that way to keep black men down. That's why ya'll be killing your imported African wives when they start making more money than you and they find out how the system in the West really works!!

blackpanthar:
the LONG TIME Girlfriends... did not GROW RICH... they felt love would be enough BUT it never is.

If the girls stopped sabotaging their own progress by waiting for a MAN TO BE RICH before progressing in their own lives in the name of love or in the name of "BEING THERE" for him.... even when the man gets money... he will be humble towards her.

MONEY CHANGES TASTE... both for women and men. RICH girls too dump guys who grew up with them... its called LIFE.

No one should WAIT for anyone... everyone should be moving.

I clearly said everyone should BE RICH... everyone should not wait for anyone.... Did you not see it? so Why this reply?

MarjieJ98354:
That's why most of ya'll will never be rich.

Btw, in the real world, black women tend to have higher incomes than black men. It was designed that way to keep black men down. That's why ya'll be killing your imported African wives when they start making more money than you and they find out how the system in the West really works!!

You can only know the real behaviour of a man only when he gets money.

Wayne4uall:
Most of the the long time gf once or more than twice cheated on the poor dude, the guy was only managing her because he was broke....

God bless you for this.

ANGELMARVE:
See bro, Nobody is useless in life.
Even if the woman failed to meet the standard, you can help her make the standard.

If someone is not educated, then the person should develop on his or her talent or have a handwork.

So did the successful man got to the top on his own?
Did people not help him got to the top?

what if people refused to help him when he was poor because he is low class?
would he be at the top today?

This generation has destroyed the concept of love with too many principles of westernization and people are too money, class and material conscious.

When you truly love a woman, it don't matter if she is this or that, You stick with her to the end.

is cheating included?

i mean a girl might still love you and cheat when she knows you are broke.

skywalker240:
is cheating included?

i mean a girl might still love you and cheat when she knows you are broke.

A woman who truly loves you will not cheat on you. Women are not wired like men are....when it comes to such issues.

laudate:

A woman who truly loves you will not cheat on you. Women are not wired like men are....when it comes to such issues.

Maybe a woman who truly loves you wont cheat, wont argue that.
the fact remains that such women are extremely rare, and another fact remains that at a point in your life when you are extremely broke even those who are close to you tends to lose respect and value for you. a woman loves may love you genuinely when you're extremely broke, but then she might have things a man should be capable to meet (dont say she should get a job, dont say she has a father) and it might not be that much (there are things a man should do finance included. and then there's that rich dude who's all over her preaching, dont forget her freinds who boast of their rich boyfreinds, and then the african society.

nobody can be loyal forever it doesnt mean they dont love you.

nobody is above temptation, even a most loyal and loving girlfreind.

skywalker240:

Maybe a woman who truly loves you wont cheat, wont argue that.
the fact remains that such women are extremely rare, and another fact remains that at a point in your life when you are extremely broke even those who are close to you tends to lose respect and value for you. a woman loves may love you genuinely when you're extremely broke, but then she might have things a man should be capable to meet (dont say she should get a job, dont say she has a father) and it might not be that much (there are things a man should do finance included. and then there's that rich dude who's all over her preaching, dont forget her freinds who boast of their rich boyfreinds, and then the african society.

nobody can be loyal forever it doesnt mean they dont love you.

nobody is above temptation, even a most loyal and loving girlfreind.

Too #sweet to read

skywalker240:

God bless you for this.

Uwc bro