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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by trapQ: 7:30am On Apr 18, 2019 |
You're just a hypocrite as are most NL men. It's not your type I blame, it's the women who stick with the broke ass men that I blame because trying to please a Nigerian man is like filling a basket with water..... pointless. You're giving excuses specifically as to why men leave not just their girlfriends but girlfriends who were their backbone financially when they were broke. Why is it when the men become rich that they know the ladies are low in financial and emotional IQ? So they didn't know before? And if a woman leaves a man for a rich man she's a gold digger right? But when aan does same it's the woman's fault? jezuzboi: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by trapQ: 7:31am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Stop supporting nonsense. So that person wasn't disgraceful when you were spending their money and only became disgraceful when you became rich? ImaIma1: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by ACE1010: 7:34am On Apr 18, 2019 |
This is one of the best article I've read on nairaland in recent times. Thanks so much. Very insightful!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by meobizy(f): 7:34am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Harwoyeez:If he isn’t far then what is the truth? |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by meobizy(f): 7:39am On Apr 18, 2019 |
lefulefu:Wait, if she is sticking with the guy while poor and still dating richer men, what stops her from replacing him? Staying with a broke man is very unlike females. Women love to stay comfortable in life and quickly dump men without potential. If she sees potential in the man (which a lot of women have a knack for) then why cheat on him in the meantime while having an idea he’ll leave once money comes? |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by deebrain(m): 7:43am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Wrong. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Fixitgood(m): 7:45am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE: This statement is naive and devoid of high level reasoning. How can one day with a straight face that; Love is bigger than growth. Growth of someone does not determine your love for the person. Example: I have a childhood friend whom I love dearly, but who has refused to grow beyond talking about chasing women and drinking excessively. If that isn't a life I want to lead, I would cut him off. Haven't you heard of people leaving someone they love/loved because of reasons other than loss of affection? Love for a partner will not be a substitute for character. Love isn't constant. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by ImaIma1(f): 7:46am On Apr 18, 2019 |
trapQ: Try to understand the point and don't be ready to pounce. Both parties need to keep developing themselves. Compatibility is important in marriage, it bridges gaps. And as i said in another post, it doesn't mean that the couple won't be married forever, it would just help enhance the marriage better. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 18, 2019 |
meobizy:staying with a guy who is not rich is not unlike a lady .if he's a young man who is hardworking and focused there will be a lady who will love and adore him.abi no be commercial drivers and male hair stylists they marry and get children? are such men super rich? though it will be unlike a woman to remain with a broke jobless unambitious dude who is comfortable with his state.as for a woman who cheats on u weda u rich oo,broke ooo ,potential or no potential woman wey wan cheat on u go cheat on u.afterall there are very rich successful men that have wives dat cheat on dem on regular basis .just pray u end up with a gurl who really likes u and respects u..dats all dat matters. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by meobizy(f): 7:50am On Apr 18, 2019 |
A lot of people did not read the write-up and as usual hyperventilated with questions already answered in it. The article makes sense logically and is easily understandable. There is a saying which goes ‘in life the only constant thing is change.’. Change occurs for good or bad, well mostly bad but it happens anyway. Anyone who doesn’t change with time or make adjustments to meet with changes gets left behind. If lucky they get picked back up when they learn to adapt. It is the law of the world, it is not nice but it’s set in stone. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by meobizy(f): 7:54am On Apr 18, 2019 |
lefulefu:It’s what I’m saying: if he’s hardworking and focused but not rich why would she cheat? If she’s going to cheat with someone rich, why not make him her guy instead of sticking and enduring with Mr. Hardworking-but-can’t-provide-her-every-need? |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Lewandoski20(m): 7:54am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE: Am sorry, but This is BS post. Between Goodluck Jonathan and Patience who do you think is richer? It’s the wife. Hell! The woman was already a big business woman before Jonathan met her. She was already importing fabrics into PH. She had financial intelligence and GEJ had Academic Intelligence. They complimented each other. That is the reason why they worked. She did not merely support him emotionally but also financially. Take a look at a relationships where the woman and the man support each other financially and emotionally and tell me how far! |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by happydays1(m): 7:56am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE: go and find out d truth before u quote op. gej's wife was very much in politics, she pushed goodluck up politically, gej is not really a political man, but his wife is tough in politics in rivers state ask people. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 7:58am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ImaIma1: You’re the wisest female on this thread . Replies devoid of sentiment and emotion, kudos . |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Fixitgood(m): 8:03am On Apr 18, 2019 |
WomanOfRace: Hahahaha |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Fixitgood(m): 8:05am On Apr 18, 2019 |
meobizy: Because most times the rich man is either married or feels she is beneath his standards to take as wife. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Dcaliphate(m): 8:09am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE:God bless you my brother, same should go for the woman who gets financially balanced b4 the man who's been there for her. This generation has become too selfish, self-absorbed and self-centered, God help us. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Imo1stson: 8:10am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Poor men stick with average women because they have no choice but money gives a man wide range of variety. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Obodo999(m): 8:22am On Apr 18, 2019 |
There is nothing stopping a woman from making her own money. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by CuntMiner(m): 8:22am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Wayne4uall:round of applause for u......that is my summary,u nailed it 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by hesilo(m): 8:25am On Apr 18, 2019 |
There is no such thing as "I was there when you had nothing"....what exactly where you doing? fucking him? financing his education? staying at his shop?...women should stop this their nonsense thinking of i was there when he had nothing. Truth is, if a woman was truly there when a man had nothing, he just cannot wait to get money and spend on her. This is just the simplye truth. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by joeleh(m): 8:30am On Apr 18, 2019 |
i can only stick with her.. if she's part of my success story |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Stillthebest: 8:34am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE: Lol you misunderstood him. The Guy wrote what's happening around the world not what should happen. You re only writing what should happen and world doesn't revolve that way... And Goodlucks wife.. well everything isn't about going to school to acquire knowledge. Patience has a lot of qualities that won't make a man dump him some she displayed before and during his husband's rein... Op is actually talking about growth in intelligence and not growth in education. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Samakus(m): 8:34am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Op, I will prove this your hypothesis wrong. My bae that stood by me during my struggling times won't be dumped as long as she didn't dump me. There are still principled and loyal guys out there. Needless to say that I'm one. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by 9gerian: 8:39am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Well said ANGELMARVE: |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Stillthebest: 8:41am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Before you condemn this write up. Try and be poor before and then become rich. Then you can determine. Money changes tastes. Most rich men today don't have their first wives and their retained wives. Though, the ball is played differently by different people. A lot of things make you want to retain or let go. Some less iq women stay in a marriage just because they think there is no place to go. Life could diverse |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by crossfire47(m): 8:55am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ImaIma1:well said, growing up as a younger person, I'll rather place more emphasis solely on a lady's physique. Don't get me wrong cos It still matters to me but I'll prefer an average looking lady that I can relate with intellectually, I reckon the beauty will fade |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by tollyboy5(m): 9:09am On Apr 18, 2019 |
sweetilicious:sister i love ur word you are an icon to all ladies a real model. your words are beautiful. life is unfair many people struggle and still dont make it. you are struggling please just note these dont take life too serious enjoy self at the right time. be humble and when you see other ladies having fun dont feel superior because they might be of help one way or the other. god bless your relationship and increase your wisdom. From my own profile pic it certain that im more likely a street nigger but im actually hardworking im my own way. God bless the fruit of our labour |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by sharpwriter(m): 9:10am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Elder0001: Mr Man shut up! Lefulefu is one of the few people that is sane with a good perception of civility and being realistic on this forum. You on the other hand is the opposite... What you know to do best is to throw tantrums and pride yourself in twisted mindset about some perceptions in life which you got from westernization which may not be applicable here.... Oga we know it's likely you no dey live in Nigeria and it could be seen from some of your write ups, but I can boldly tell you that you have spewed many thrash on this forum which can make many question your morality! Even the abroad life wey you dey pride yourself in, many moral and good people dey there wey no dey live life according to their destructive aspect of civilization.... So shut up and don't criticize one of the few good people here when your own character and intellect is questionable. PS: you won't be dignified with a reply. Thank you! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 9:24am On Apr 18, 2019 |
CruellaDeVil:Wrong. Very wrong |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 9:31am On Apr 18, 2019 |
this is rubbish, your right up only encourages this behavior, men who do these things are fools, becos the new friends never saw anything good in them during their struggles. 1 Like |
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