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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:38pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Evercurious:You are right just that most people especially women tend to allow emotions be cloud their senses of reasoning when it comes to relationships 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 12:38pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
trapQ: No mind that one. Materialism and class is that ones problem |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 12:41pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Plz stop hiding under the guise of compatibility Your issue is CLASS AND MATERIALISM 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by ajokeade920: 12:46pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Modarun:Aye ooo 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 12:49pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE: My dear as for me I open my eyes, ear, head, brain, heart and every other one needed for the relationship to work. But most important of them all is my HEAD. Guy wey never see money start to give you some attitude and you look away.. Hmmm..very dangerous..Maybe the babe too never handle better money for her life to know that some attitude are signs of ungratefulness waiting to explode. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:54pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Evercurious:lol |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by LordAdam16: 12:57pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
lefulefu: Money can change anyone. And don't act surprised that men can be jerks, assh*les or more appropriately douch*bags. When it comes to loyalty, a lot of it is personal rather than gender-specific. A lot of females stick with a guy because there's no better alternative in the offing in the same way many guys stick to a female because they don't have enough yet. When you are upgrading to newer cars, newer clothes, better living space, meeting fancier ladies, some just go the whole mile to upgrade their SO as well. It's a sh*t thing to do, but humans are inherently selfish. The only reason this doesn't happen often enough among the wider society to be pandemic is that social mobility is low. And when finances improve, it's often moderate. Like formerly eating 3 square meals was a problem, now you can rent a flat, buy a tokunbo sedan, and you're comfortable by Nigerian standards (enough to have funds to start thinking about buying land, building your own small bungalow, or opening a provision store). The vertical shift is not drastic. And it's not like the distribution of women now available to you is now somehow night and day compared to your former situation. So sticking together isn't something you have to actively think about. You just do it, like moving from one level to another in school. Ditto for the elite. For guys who go from struggling to having more money and influence than they know what to do with it, it can be a rude change. Like from high school to college. Especially if it happens quickly. All of a sudden all the ladies from hotel lobby attendant to flight attendant to bank reps look at you approvingly; the women you see at the ball, the etiquette, the experiences they've had, their taste. It's just radically different. Within this crowd, people like Jonathan and Denzel are not a large majority. Women who stay often have to deal with sh*t they wouldn't take if he was because of the financial security. This entire topic is nuanced, but people don't typically do right by other people whom provided value at some point. If they did, we wouldn't have the saying "failure is an orphan" and "success has many friends." It's f*cked up. But so is life. -Lord 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 1:00pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Stillthebest: You see the issue 'try and be poor before and then become rich'.. This is why 'I CAN NEVER THROW AWAY THE EFFECTS OF BACKGROUND IN THE LIFE OF ANYONE. so sorry to say this but my dear may God HELP AND DELIVER your MENTALITY . Sincerely this is the reason why I say all things being equal the worse set of guys to date is the 'broke' ones. If not for the sake of true love, I wouldn't advise any lady to go close to them |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by nkemjacob2(m): 1:10pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
D ladies ain't saying anything |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 1:15pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sorry dear Elder0001: |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 1:17pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
anyways that one no concern me sha who is he tho AntiBrutus: |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by micxwell(m): 1:24pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE:Particularly if she's flexible and teachable. Nice submission. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by ImaIma1(f): 1:28pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Evercurious: All i see in your comment is a preconceived notion, ignorance and lack of understanding or an unwillingness to understand. Whatever the case, learn to disagree and comment objectively and with maturity instead of childish outbursts. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 1:31pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Modarun: Lolzzzx... Isn't this a comedy? |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Evercurious(f): 1:33pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Learn to always come out straight.. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by nkemjacob2(m): 1:36pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
It's painful leaving ur woman especially when u re rich. If u say IQ is d reason most guys leave their woman then I ask Wat IQ do u have wen u re poor? Wat re u looking for when u find her, was her IQ then not attractive?. Build ur woman as u both grow in relationship whether rich or IQ otherwise there's nothing sweeter as dis. To see woman as loyal when u are poor is had to find. If u really love ur girl there no reason to leave her 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by LordKO(m): 1:56pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
spades: Esprit de corps. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 2:02pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
LordKO: This supposed hatred all came from the fact that I support feminism and I’ve rebuked you in the past for your semi- traditionalist and archaic views on male and female relationships. The hate was becoming too much that’s why I stopped commenting on romance section since last year but it’s obvious you’re still in deep pains which resulted from the call outs . An egoistic bastard who think he knows it all , foisting his archaic ,primitive and misogynistic thoughts not only on romance section but on the family section . 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by LordKO(m): 2:08pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Elder0001: Lol. You always amuse me. Don't worry, I don't hate you. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 2:12pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
MissRaine69: You’re one of the wisest females that ever graced nairaland ! Though , we don’t always agree but you’re right today . 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
LordKO: Go fvck yourself . I have no dealings with traditional misogynists. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by LordKO(m): 2:26pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Elder0001: Look at this hypocritically disingenuous entity - wannabe libertarian and egalitarian. Now vamoose and look for your ilk elsewhere. Bumpkin. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by ImaIma1(f): 2:51pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Evercurious: Are you still aching from the post from gaspardd? Because you obviously carry things in mind. Take it easy sha. My comment on this post is straight forward. I am only responsible for my comment and not for how to choose to interpret it. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 3:13pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
trapQ: A man can cheat on his wife and still love her A man who can never cheat on his wife can never cope with a woman who has a smelly personality. Now do the math! |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by meobizy(f): 3:50pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Saffi:How you girls twist everything men type in this forum into victim stories amazes me all the time. It’s the reason why I hardly respond to (f) monikers because they never involve logic when composing responses. I’ll leave your reply to one of these attention seeking guys to continue from. I already know no answer I’ll give will change the victim mentality you’ve already conjured. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Epatty(f): 4:03pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE:Nice one. I was super shocked when many were been supportive of leaving a woman who has sacrificed a lot. The truth is, we have a lot of greedy and selfish men these days who will always give excuse (s) for every of their failing actions. To all women out there, pls be careful on how you support people totally, you never can tell who is using you to get to his goal 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Epatty(f): 4:06pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
meobizy:That's because most of you men don't apply logic to every of your actions. We have a lot of selfish men out there who think only about themselves... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by bolafez(m): 4:38pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Evercurious:I love your spirit, honestly! your name? |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by centboy123456(m): 4:47pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sweetilicious: wow I can't believe this is coming from a Nigeria girl wow so surprise u are very right most Nigerians girls all there dearms re to get married and have kids and looking for a man to put them in his house and feed them nothing to add to the man life that why most men die young am still very much surprise this is coming from a Nigeria girl I really wch to know you as a friend because is girls like you I want in my life not all this one I see there own to to marry that all can we be friends |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 4:47pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Guy na trash u dey yarn like dis. Absolutely trash. U guys are trying to change the true meaning of love.... To a business oriented concept.... U guys don dey turn am to a business venture where u seek for profit(ur profit only...maximize profit... Do away with things dat gonna make u spend ur income... Love is not selfish... Love is all about sacrifice,,, complementing each other. You cannot define love using economic principle. It doesn't work like that. If you're financially buoyant d best thing to do is to support and empower the lady wey don suffer with you...d Lady dat has been loyal and faithful to you. Na una type go see better woman dump am... Later come online dey look 4 divorce advice. E no concern me.... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by generationz(f): 5:26pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
LordKO: Jesus!! Lord KO you are lord of KnockOuts Technical knockouts |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by sweetilicious(f): 5:29pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Change your mindset.My sister is verrryyyy successful.She is the neck and the husband is the head.They live so in peace.They build castles and invest appropriately.What you beleive will come to you. boban007: |
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