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akaahs:
Hope we aren't dating the same girl. My ex used to have the same character and attitudes not until I decided to frustrate till she quit the relationship by herself.
Till up to date, she is so pained after 3 years each time my friend called her , she keeps lamenting what I did to her thinking I ll come back and apologise.
Ops don't ever apologise, there type ll never apologise either they think they have what it's takes to attract their kind of guys. Just live ur life nature has a of resolving such issues. Move on.

greggng:
I thought the said ijebu woman worse pass?

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

tunjilee003:
I'll advice you to drop ego and beg her, begging her won't cost you anything

healthserve:
You men should stop being unreasonably problematic. Always imagine that what you do to other women will be done to your sister. Maybe that'll make it better




Women. Na wa o. You people should be forgiving us nau

tommyken:
I followed your advice bro, I went to her house with a friend with an intension to tell her no need to hold a grudge against me when we could all moved on happily but guess the funny thing? She lock herself inside the room with key that she don't want to see but she can talk with my friend. So I went outside and she began to list all my sins to my friends and she swear that she will never forgive me till she die.
Well, you advice me to " give her a kind of victory she deserve" and move on which I have done. At least I have move on happily and holds no grudge towards her. Thank you.

emilas1979:
Dunno why naija ladies be like that
Having same experience with one,
For 6yrs was asking her out she refused.
Later when she found out that I traveled out of
the country, she got me contact through a friend. Came back later we had 3months romance but my h@has been taken by another.
She later marry another and I to another
But she is not saying anything good about me and ready to kill saying I disappointed her.

tommyken:
Yes I did....

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Unik3030:
u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u

Celestial777:
I never know say they bad reach like that
Na now I know ....i dey date her friend now and her younger sister na my sure prissy now wey sure gidi

tohyorsih2:
*rolls eyes*
Pls leave us out of this o

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

BareFacedLies:
In that case she has every reason to be bitter towards you cos she probably turned away other potential suitors cos of your promise

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

placeofallure:
Sorry bro, but your post gave me a lot of headache trying to figure out You can hire me as your English tutor. No malice intended.

skultrick:
I dare to say you're a real puxxxsy, unless the story you initially told us is lie.

Why do we have so many weak men this days, ehh, why?

You claimed your so called love betrayed your trust and love by sleeping with other guys, and that's why you broke up with her.

Why then should it concern you if she wears a fucking grudge against you, even to the extent of going to beg her. Tomorrow now you'll come here telling us how you ended up with the wrong woman.

Common, it's like your saleman you employed and trusted, steals from you, you find out, then sacked him, but because he bears grudges against you for sacking him, you then went to his house to beg him to forgive you.

You're a very big fool, you deserve the worse kind of women.

Trust is golden and when it's broken, it's better to work away, otherwise it'll be an impending catastrophe waiting to happen.

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

tommyken:
I followed your advice bro, I went to her house with a friend with an intension to tell her no need to hold a grudge against me when we could all moved on happily but guess the funny thing? She lock herself inside the room with key that she don't want to see but she can talk with my friend. So I went outside and she began to list all my sins to my friends and she swear that she will never forgive me till she die.
Well, you advice me to " give her a kind of victory she deserve" and move on which I have done. At least I have move on happily and holds no grudge towards her. Thank you.

Magnoliaa:
I hope you have something left to keep for your future wifey sha?

Jaymoney5000:
Must you tell us that it was a pastor's daughter.... you bleeped a girl is enough Bruh...smh

BareFacedLies:
Error of assumption...

The poster said and i quote "I broke up with her because of her cunning and cheating nature".

Where in the post did he say that he caught her with multiple guys?

Oversabi people like you just quickly jumped to conclusions!

The fact is that when an individual is tired of a relationship he/she hinges his decision to quit on a trivial issue like the OP has done here

whiteeyes:
No, don't say that!! Heaven honours the tears of a woman passionately especially when she is hurting for no just cause.
You see @poster, I'll tell you to apologize, speaking out of experience.
I had this relationship for about 5years, gave and put my all in it to succeed. The guy hurt me in the end, i vowed never to forgive him because he never considered my emotionally grieving heart. He went ahead and got married to another, till today as I type, no offspring yet after more than 10years.
Yes, I eventually forgave him and moved on but it's a scar never to be forgotten. What am I saying? Do NOT allow this issue linger, ask her to forgive while still fresh, tuck in your ego and kneel for her. You might have hurt her in several ways and she stomached it all for love, she's hurting because of her sacrifice for you. Yes, not all relationships must lead to marriage but, must not end in hate either.
Good luck!

yeyeosoronga:
He never said she cheated on him though. He broke up with her due to her "cunning and cheating nature", which could also mean she lies abt money and gets it fraudulently from him or a thousand other things.
Ask OP to expantiate further on this cheating nature. Has he ever caught her ?