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Edoloaded:
I met this girl last 2 months and ever since the whole thing was going smoothly.

Never have i had the intention to take advantage of my kindness and maybe request for sex or romance or anything of such simply because i wanted this one to be different, i wanted her to be my last..


Whenever she asks i always do my best to provide for her.


So we went to the cinema and the next thing this girl receives a call from someone.. the next thing i heard she tells the person that she went out with a friend.. habaa.. me friend

Meanwhile before the call i was listening to music on my headset. So she thought the headset was still on..

So after telling the guy (i heard a male voice) she is with a friend they talked for almost 20 mins while the movie was going on.. the next thing this girl is already flirting with the guy on the phone telling him she's going to come see him tomorrow at his place...

After the whole thing I talked to her about the call. Immediately i asked her who she was talking to she was shocked at first, the next thing she said it was a friend.

I then asked her how come she and her so called friend were discussing something like that and she said " haba should i say i was talking to an enemy before? That it's just a friend"... After that i was just surprised i just told her okay no probs


Guys I'm so confused right now about the decision i decided to take..

I want to end it like right now.... Please what do u think

CosmicJames:
I think you spoil the girl by your actions and created your own predicament.
Is she your sister?
What were you thinking when you were providing for her and removing romance and sex?
She gotta get that romance and sex elsewhere.

Please don't blame her brother.
Put the blame on your own head

Griiiiiin:
hahaha..it pain am o ,i love this! come and take breast milk na,cry cry baby,second class citizen!

Earth2:
Pls Nigeria girls are not harlot.we have many decent girls out there.my elder sister is 29 and she is still a virgin and getting married very soon.

ericsmith:
i will just say 4gives those guys most don't know how to be a man, like you said self-worth is sanscrosant.
The truth is most guys no get game, dey rely solely on money .. as a guy ur money is just to provide comfort, women like comfort that earns the man there attention buh it doesnt end there.. the selfworth a lady finds in a man is what will decide her respect for the him. Acting mr nice guy mean low self esteem to the ladies. women quickly move on or friendzone guys that are alway hesitant.
It really annoying reading post from guys ranting over heartbreak, learn the rules players. sisi mii no vex jare

GoldenJulius:
Most this girls thought they are wise in there stupid conduct.
Time is coming, guys will turn them all into rags.
If you are a good girl reading most of the comments here, please remain faithful to your man and stay away from crazy girl friends with social media mentality
Men are nice and loyal, but some stupid girls want to change that about us.
Kings stat strong, there is a good Queen out there. Don't give up.
Money can get you any kind of girl but money won't get you a real and loyal woman.

xendra:
abeg end it and go home and go and sit down.

with the level of disappointment most guys put girls through these days and how the rest of you clap for them and shame the girl, you are still expecting a girl to be faithful to a boyfriend

Griiiiiin:
Hello OP, how much have u spent on her that u already have this feeling that u are entitled to her..mtchw,naira land boys and their cvck and bull stories

franchasng:
the earlier you guys realised that all ladies are virtually the same; coded cheats who give best attention to highest bidder with highest financial value or worth, the better for u guys.

I am tired of typing here everyday, just wise up.

What I have seen, heard, witnessed in this my short period on earth is more than what King Solomon saw, so when I speak listen: ladies are the same, if u like her ignore some things cos if u want a girl that only u is dating or have dated and kissed and romanced, then u are wasting your time cos even the so-called virgins are all technical virgins that kiss, handle, cuddle, pet, finger, squeeze, sometimes suck, etc while preserving the hymen to deceive one mumu guy to get a ring.

Don't see any girl above 17yrs as innocent, they are all sexually exposed in one way or the other.

pansophist:
OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further?

You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows.

She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner.

The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you.

The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world.

I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple.

xendra:
abeg end it and go home and go and sit down.

with the level of disappointment most guys put girls through these days and how the rest of you clap for them and shame the girl, you are still expecting a girl to be faithful to a boyfriend

Edoloaded:
I met this girl last 2 months and ever since the whole thing was going smoothly.

Never have i had the intention to take advantage of my kindness and maybe request for sex or romance or anything of such simply because i wanted this one to be different, i wanted her to be my last..


Whenever she asks i always do my best to provide for her.


So we went to the cinema and the next thing this girl receives a call from someone.. the next thing i heard she tells the person that she went out with a friend.. habaa.. me friend

Meanwhile before the call i was listening to music on my headset. So she thought the headset was still on..

So after telling the guy (i heard a male voice) she is with a friend they talked for almost 20 mins while the movie was going on.. the next thing this girl is already flirting with the guy on the phone telling him she's going to come see him tomorrow at his place...

After the whole thing I talked to her about the call. Immediately i asked her who she was talking to she was shocked at first, the next thing she said it was a friend.

I then asked her how come she and her so called friend were discussing something like that and she said " haba should i say i was talking to an enemy before? That it's just a friend"... After that i was just surprised i just told her okay no probs


Guys I'm so confused right now about the decision i decided to take..

I want to end it like right now.... Please what do u think

pansophist:
OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further?

You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows.

She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner.

The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you.

The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world.

I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple.

MrHistorian:
There is NOTHING (fuçking nothing, I repeat) as life-changing as this. Thanks a lot for this insightful eye opener even though it isn't meant for me.

One of the perks of following social media handle of people cerebrally blessed.

daewoorazer:
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We have 2 types of niggas

1. The ones who spend and carry girls to eateries and cinemas, buy panties

2. The ones who collect money from girls, have the key to their rooms and eat their foods, shift or remove the panties.

As it turned out, you belong to the former

In the zanga, we call ur type OMUTE
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TFLAME:
How much have you spent on her lol .. how much have you spent on your boyfriend ?

If you like spend billions on a hoe , a hoe will always be a hoe .

Op most ( not all ) of the ladies in Nigeria are parasites . Find a lady that will add value to your life . They exist and yes they are here in Nigeria . [/b]Don’t date a lady that was not born into love but survival . Most of them just want to hustle you . That’s how the were brought up (environment ) ( mentality )and they will go to any extent to make money off a man , most of them see the world differently[b] . You will see a good lady and well behaved lady , they will have some flaws too but nobody is perfect . They will add value to your life . Such ladies exits and if you are lucky to find one . Don’t mess it up . Matured and hard working ladies exist .work together and build something meaningful. all these girls that trip for money . Money will buy them and slave them

NYCnextStop:
best comment. I wish I could like it a million times

You really made sense especially @ the bolded

pansophist:
OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further?

You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows.

She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner.

The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you.

The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world.

I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple.