Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Sirmuel1(m): 8:16am On Jul 25, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by nwachukwu9(m): 8:16am On Jul 25, 2019 |
GOLDEN RULE 1: Any relationship that is one sided, is not healthy relationship, from the looks of things, it is obvious you are in a one sided Relationship, it means all the commitments comes from you. My personal advice is try and be less available, withdraw all commitments and watch how she responds, if she does not care or even ask you why, then end the relationship she has no felling for you. If she comes back begging, then turn the table around and be in charge of the relationship, make sure this time around, your relationship is mutual and not one sided 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Kingluqman(m): 8:25am On Jul 25, 2019 |
CosmicJames: I think you spoil the girl by your actions and created your own predicament. Is she your sister? What were you thinking when you were providing for her and removing romance and sex? She gotta get that romance and sex elsewhere.
Please don't blame her brother. Put the blame on your own head
I feel you ma nigga |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Is obvious you guys didn't plan how una want d relationship to look like/be, is likely she is a flirting type but you wanna keep her as your personal property till you're ready to tie the knot but one thing I must tell you is ds 1. Don't expect your gf to be 100% trustworthy to you when can't trust yourself. 2. Don't go into a relationship and expect her to be like a woman tie down to her husband alone when you are not going to marry her. 3. Ask yourself what your expectations are towards the relationship you want to start with her, she may not be interested in your love but your money. |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Nobody: 8:39am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Griiiiiin: hahaha..it pain am o ,i love this! come and take breast milk na,cry cry baby,second class citizen! i will just say 4gives those guys most don't know how to be a man, like you said self-worth is sanscrosant. The truth is most guys no get game, dey rely solely on money .. as a guy ur money is just to provide comfort, women like comfort that earns the man there attention buh it doesnt end there.. the selfworth a lady finds in a man is what will decide her respect for the him. Acting mr nice guy mean low self esteem to the ladies. women quickly move on or friendzone guys that are alway hesitant. It really annoying reading post from guys ranting over heartbreak, learn the rules players. sisi mii no vex jare 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Chevronstaff: 8:42am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Earth2:
Pls Nigeria girls are not harlot.we have many decent girls out there.my elder sister is 29 and she is still a virgin and getting married very soon. Lolz .. How do you know she is still a virgin? |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Nobody: 8:56am On Jul 25, 2019 |
ericsmith:
i will just say 4gives those guys most don't know how to be a man, like you said self-worth is sanscrosant. The truth is most guys no get game, dey rely solely on money .. as a guy ur money is just to provide comfort, women like comfort that earns the man there attention buh it doesnt end there.. the selfworth a lady finds in a man is what will decide her respect for the him. Acting mr nice guy mean low self esteem to the ladies. women quickly move on or friendzone guys that are alway hesitant. It really annoying reading post from guys ranting over heartbreak, learn the rules players. sisi mii no vex jare Thanks dear and good morning, when I posted my comment ,I expected ppl quoting me to argue with me logically to prove my statement wrong,but a lot of guys were just shouting "prostitute" .very funny.,I feel befor u support a particular party,we should hear from both sides,we hvnt heard the gal part of story ,what prompted her to make that call ,and whether he defined what type of relationship it is before the started,well for those I insulted yesterday ,I am sorry and I was joking tho, have a nice day |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by pointblank247(m): 9:01am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Even if she is not bleeping the guy on phone, still go ahead and drop her as she has no respect for you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by GoldenJulius(m): 9:14am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Most this girls thought they are wise in there stupid conduct. Time is coming, guys will turn them all into rags. If you are a good girl reading most of the comments here, please remain faithful to your man and stay away from crazy girl friends with social media mentality Men are nice and loyal, but some stupid girls want to change that about us. Kings stat strong, there is a good Queen out there. Don't give up. Money can get you any kind of girl but money won't get you a real and loyal woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by carter009(m): 9:18am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Bitter truth, but if only they will listen. GoldenJulius: Most this girls thought they are wise in there stupid conduct. Time is coming, guys will turn them all into rags. If you are a good girl reading most of the comments here, please remain faithful to your man and stay away from crazy girl friends with social media mentality Men are nice and loyal, but some stupid girls want to change that about us. Kings stat strong, there is a good Queen out there. Don't give up. Money can get you any kind of girl but money won't get you a real and loyal woman. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Funkyswagzz(m): 9:20am On Jul 25, 2019 |
xendra: abeg end it and go home and go and sit down.
with the level of disappointment most guys put girls through these days and how the rest of you clap for them and shame the girl, you are still expecting a girl to be faithful to a boyfriend Pls are we going backwards or forward?.. are we at war? U girls are just ruthless I swear 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Karleb(m): 9:44am On Jul 25, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by toms55(m): 9:57am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Griiiiiin: Hello OP, how much have u spent on her that u already have this feeling that u are entitled to her..mtchw,naira land boys and their cvck and bull stories Ori e ti daru , omo ale |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by pansophist(m): 10:09am On Jul 25, 2019 |
franchasng: the earlier you guys realised that all ladies are virtually the same; coded cheats who give best attention to highest bidder with highest financial value or worth, the better for u guys.
I am tired of typing here everyday, just wise up.
What I have seen, heard, witnessed in this my short period on earth is more than what King Solomon saw, so when I speak listen: ladies are the same, if u like her ignore some things cos if u want a girl that only u is dating or have dated and kissed and romanced, then u are wasting your time cos even the so-called virgins are all technical virgins that kiss, handle, cuddle, pet, finger, squeeze, sometimes suck, etc while preserving the hymen to deceive one mumu guy to get a ring.
Don't see any girl above 17yrs as innocent, they are all sexually exposed in one way or the other. OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further? You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows. She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner. The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you. The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world. I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Nobody: 10:33am On Jul 25, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by carter009(m): 11:51am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Case closed, you have said it all. pansophist:
OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further?
You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows.
She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner.
The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you.
The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world.
I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple.
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Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Londonboyrep(m): 1:27pm On Jul 25, 2019 |
Any relationship that hasn't been consummated is not a relationship..the girl is right you are just friends. Why do you think marriages can be annulled on the simple basis that both parties have not had sex? Think about it. If you haven't had sex with a girl then she's not your girlfriend simple 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:30pm On Jul 25, 2019 |
xendra: abeg end it and go home and go and sit down.
with the level of disappointment most guys put girls through these days and how the rest of you clap for them and shame the girl, you are still expecting a girl to be faithful to a boyfriend |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by dottozil: 1:54pm On Jul 25, 2019 |
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Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by MrHistorian: 2:01pm On Jul 25, 2019 |
pansophist:
OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further?
You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows.
She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner.
The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you.
The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world.
I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple.
There is NOTHING (fuçking nothing, I repeat) as life-changing as this. Thanks a lot for this insightful eye opener even though it isn't meant for me. One of the perks of following social media handle of people cerebrally blessed. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by pansophist(m): 3:11pm On Jul 25, 2019 |
MrHistorian:
There is NOTHING (fuçking nothing, I repeat) as life-changing as this. Thanks a lot for this insightful eye opener even though it isn't meant for me.
One of the perks of following social media handle of people cerebrally blessed. Thanks for your appreciation though, you're mouthed, and I do enjoy your write up, your delivery is eloquent, making nairaland a intellectually richer place. Greetings |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jul 25, 2019 |
So many funerals on Romance sections these days.... Arrrrhhhhhhhggggg!
Sad beings everywhere.... phew! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Isha327(f): 12:03am On Jul 26, 2019 |
Op Run for ur life She'll suck u dry |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by uthlaw: 12:32am On Jul 26, 2019 |
you have no right to leave her when you have not got ur 3point,make sure you did that if you don't want to end in six position like Manchester United..... make sure you Bleep that girl...never take them special cos there is someone in somewhere fucking her free! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by goalgetter01: 12:59am On Jul 26, 2019 |
daewoorazer:
We have 2 types of niggas
1. The ones who spend and carry girls to eateries and cinemas, buy panties
2. The ones who collect money from girls, have the key to their rooms and eat their foods, shift or remove the panties.
As it turned out, you belong to the former
In the zanga, we call ur type OMUTE ���
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Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by NYCnextStop(m): 7:55am On Jul 26, 2019 |
TFLAME:
How much have you spent on her lol .. how much have you spent on your boyfriend ?
If you like spend billions on a hoe , a hoe will always be a hoe .
Op most ( not all ) of the ladies in Nigeria are parasites . Find a lady that will add value to your life . They exist and yes they are here in Nigeria . [/b]Don’t date a lady that was not born into love but survival . Most of them just want to hustle you . That’s how the were brought up (environment ) ( mentality )and they will go to any extent to make money off a man , most of them see the world differently[b] . You will see a good lady and well behaved lady , they will have some flaws too but nobody is perfect . They will add value to your life . Such ladies exits and if you are lucky to find one . Don’t mess it up . Matured and hard working ladies exist .work together and build something meaningful. all these girls that trip for money . Money will buy them and slave them best comment. I wish I could like it a million times You really made sense especially @ the bolded 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by TFLAME(m): 10:18am On Jul 26, 2019 |
NYCnextStop: best comment. I wish I could like it a million times
You really made sense especially @ the bolded Thanks bro |
Re: Why Are Girls Like This, Please What Should I Do by Ozana77(m): 1:21pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
pansophist:
OP, you don hear? Abi you want make I shock you further?
You have no respect for yourself, and the fact she could call another guy in your presence, disregarding your reaction only goes to show that she is the prize and doing you a favor to be with you, at least that's what her action shows.
She is young, she is at a stage of abundance, and it is biologically hardwired in her brain to seek higher quality males. There is something called SMV (sexual-market-value), and women from 14 up to 35 generally reached their and enjoy waves of male attention. She doesn't have to do anything special and men will queue for her attention, and beg her with riches to get her commitment, and that's exactly what you are doing. But quite frankly, she is treating you that way because she knows your SMV is still low, and under-refined. For men, our SMV is not something that comes naturally like women (which is beauty-based), we have to work for it (resource-based). By building wealth, intellect, and growing your social status, women will find you attractive and an equal match. Do you honestly think if you are let's say Davido, she will treat you like that? You are just a boy yet, and it is your duty to transform yourself into a man, by building a lifestyle of value that makes both men want to be your friend, and women want to be your partner.
The new mugu is just better than you, and if another better one shows up, she will migrate, that's how it is. Forget about what society have brainwashed you with about women, that they are some delicate, incapable of terror, sweet loving, sugar and spice being, it is a lie, if anything, a 16 years old girl will manipulate you in such a way that you will need to employ a psychologist to decode her behaviors. Leave her, and focus on yourself, sounds alienating, I know. I understand that you are at the stage of hormone rage, you want to explore your sexuality, and feel like you are not missing, but the truth is nevertheless the truth. When you finish building yourself, you will see women will fight just to have you.
The same Nigerian girls that most men complain of, that they are leeches and stuff, they usually never leeched on me, and instead, do take me out and buy me stuff. Yes, they do that and the reason is simple. They are trying to pass a good impression, that they are not leeches, and that I should see them as wife material. They know my value, and they know that if they lose me, it is their loss, and there are many that will want their place. The only thing I am doing is that I do not chase women, I chase success. I am in my 20's and have everything figured out financially, from business to finance, to my own place and I travel the world.
I am not trying to brag here, but I have to go personal, to tell you that you have been doing it wrong. Women are like a cat, when you chase them, they go, when you ignore, they come. Feel free to ask any questions, but remember this, women are a sexual object for men, while men are success object to women. Just as you are on the look-out for an attractive, beautiful girl, women are also on the look-out for a succesful man. Be the successful man and women will come, it's that simple.
ReaLshii |