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BadAdviser:
Bro that girl is really hurting me I'm an introvert but she don let all her friends know that we are in a relationship any small problem they will start calling me and b forming one peacemaker or something.
I'm really tired honestly.
She's still in town with that guy that's the reason she's still yet to call me when she gets home she will start blowing my phone off forming a saint and making me feel guilty.
Bro i agree I'm really weak and too soft but I'll do my best to cut her off completely.
Thank you

BadAdviser:
Bro i agree with you I'm a fool I'm so disappointed with myself I fell for her fake tears and swears.

lukui:
fvck the whoore and marry the virgin!!

just two worded advice guy!! Move on!!!!

BadAdviser:
Rocktation please help a brother

BadAdviser:
Romancelanders I'm a final year student of university of ibadan. I got to meet this girl through a friend and we got along immediately and before you know it we started dating.
During the early stage of our relationship she told me she want to know the password of my phone which I agreed to but on the condition that I'll also have her password and fingerprint.

There was a day she was cooking and i just decided to go through her phone I saw a conversation of her with her class rep where she told him that she's in a relationship but she's ready to be his side chick and i also saw the part where he asked her for nude picture of her ass and she sent a picture to him but i couldn't see it cos it was already deleted in her gallery so it was just dark with the whatsapp re downloading sign which always show when a picture is deleted from your gallery.
I didn't tell her about that immediately after about a week i told her and she started shouting and raking that she can swear with anything in this world that they were only joking and they didn't mean what they were saying that that's how she jokes with her class rep and even called the idiot in my presence and he said they were joking and she was only pulling his legs that she only sent her a dark empty picture just to make joke with him.

We forgot about that incident after few days and in 3 days time she came to my lodge and told me that a known very rich yahoo boy in Engineering department came to her lodge to look for her after they started talking on Instagram. She was telling me all these and was saying she doesn't know what the guy want with her that she doesn't like guy even with all his money and cars that she can't leave me for anyone bla bla blah.

After 3 days i got ahold of her phone and was going through her conversation with the guy and saw she went to visit the guy in town and she was thanking him for the nice treat he gave her the day she came.
I closed her phone and pretended I didn't see anything even till today she doesn't know i have seen her conversation with the said yahoo boy and she's the one pushing herself on him and even saw where the guy told her that he's a player and won't want to hurt her. All these are happening after she told me he's just a friend and she can't have anything to do with him and shit.

Today which is Sunday she told me she will be going to somewhere with a male classmate to get something for their project and I said no problem only for her to go outside to see a friend and I went through her whatsapp and saw a conversation of her with another yahoo boy telling him that she's going to start coming by 1.30pm which she did cos she hurriedly left my house trying to cause a problem blaming me that I always act weird and strange lol. She left immediately 1pm trying to keep her appointment with the guy and i called her when she was on her way and she was trying to act all friendly asking me if i have seen what i was looking for and if I have eaten and other shit trying to act all Friendly this is someone who left the house feeling all paranoid.

This girl is really hurting me and I'm ready to break up with her and move on with my life but anytime I try to do that she always deny ever having anything to do with all those guys even with all the evidence and will be shouting in my room swearing to God and all that before you know it i accept her back and we continue with the relationship.

I don't know what to do anymore the last time she left my room angrily after i brought to her notice about what she did she angrily left the house and later came back late in the night with a very good friend of mine to apologize.

She live a bit close to me so she always have the advantage of coming to my house to apologize and shit.

I don't know what to do anymore I'm tired seriously

Jagaban880:
don't continue to be a clingy nice guy joor

search for Harddon on Nairaland search box
follow him and read up his thread

tank mi later sha.....

aprilwise:
You don't a [b] soothsayer[/b]to tell you who your girlfriend is. You have seen enough, breakup with her and move on.

stubbornman:
Which kind men follow us dey Earth now sef!! in the old this guy would be beheaded for being so weak!!!

Op just allow her do the dating reduce your attention and care to 20%....Act normal but uninterested, have lots of sex, include bat style if you want!!!.....Change your fvcking Facebook password , Sisi man, who does that in this modern age sharing passwords with idiots....even married couples don't do that shit!!!
most of the niggers sef wey she dey carry come beg you fit don shine her kondo.
Your babe dey find cash, you dey find true love!!!


Finally!!!!...... just get out of my face....You don't fall hand ....I say get out and bang the door!!!

correctyourself:
One thing would have help you on this condition if you can play the game; to take her as a side chick and always have it in mind that she is not the one you would marry at the end.

Stop taking her serious as well as develop a mind of associating with other ladies that would give you joy which can lead to a relationship, if you can do this it would help your feelings better, while her brain would likely reset along the line.
Though it would be too late for her to realized what she has done to her self. Then get ready to see her crying like a how under the rain, coming with your friends to beg.

correctyourself:
One thing would have help you on this condition if you can play the game; to take her as a side chick and always have it in mind that she is not the one you would marry at the end.

Stop taking her serious as well as develop a mind of associating with other ladies that would give you joy which can lead to a relationship, if you can do this it would help your feelings better, while her brain would likely reset along the line.
Though it would be too late for her to realized what she has done to her self. Then get ready to see her crying like a how under the rain, coming with your friends to beg.

BadAdviser:
Bro I'm a fool bro she's back she has started sending different messages swearing that she didn't go to see anyone lol.
This life is just fvcked up, I hate seeing people hurt bro i guess I'm too weak it's high time i start living the reckless life these girls want.

Thank you

J4JUVENTUS:
Baddest Jaga my guy

BadAdviser:
Bro I'm a fool bro she's back she has started sending different messages swearing that she didn't go to see anyone lol.
This life is just fvcked up, I hate seeing people hurt bro i guess I'm too weak it's high time i start living the reckless life these girls want.

Thank you

Jagaban880:
Baba nla twale..joor.....


we suffer to learn

i wan lead de guy to the path of light na

BadAdviser:
Bro I'm a fool bro she's back she has started sending different messages swearing that she didn't go to see anyone lol.
This life is just fvcked up, I hate seeing people hurt bro i guess I'm too weak it's high time i start living the reckless life these girls want.

Thank you

stupidity:
We should use you as sacrifice to appease the gods only if the gods will accept.

She must be from Ibadan
I guess. Ibadan girls . I know their type very well.

BadAdviser:
She's still in town with that guy that's the reason she's still yet to call me when she gets home she will start blowing my phone off forming a saint and making me feel guilty.

obekediamondfuto:
well, my theory is proven again

"Even if an examiner writes the questions on one side of the board and writes the answers on the other side, some people will still fail".

op first of all don't be sad.
I mean, some people still fail waec, neco and jamb woefully while using special center.... so u are not alone.

My candid advise is this:
Give her a another chance; again and again because love conquers all.
The fact that u love her is all that matters, even if u catch STD or STI in the process, my guy.... something must kill a man.
if your own death will be caused by love, then so be it!


afterall, Romeo died for love.

BadAdviser:
Romancelanders I'm a final year student of university of ibadan. I got to meet this girl through a friend and we got along immediately and before you know it we started dating.
During the early stage of our relationship she told me she want to know the password of my phone which I agreed to but on the condition that I'll also have her password and fingerprint.

There was a day she was cooking and i just decided to go through her phone I saw a conversation of her with her class rep where she told him that she's in a relationship but she's ready to be his side chick and i also saw the part where he asked her for nude picture of her ass and she sent a picture to him but i couldn't see it cos it was already deleted in her gallery so it was just dark with the whatsapp re downloading sign which always show when a picture is deleted from your gallery.
I didn't tell her about that immediately after about a week i told her and she started shouting and raking that she can swear with anything in this world that they were only joking and they didn't mean what they were saying that that's how she jokes with her class rep and even called the idiot in my presence and he said they were joking and she was only pulling his legs that she only sent her a dark empty picture just to make joke with him.

We forgot about that incident after few days and in 3 days time she came to my lodge and told me that a known very rich yahoo boy in Engineering department came to her lodge to look for her after they started talking on Instagram. She was telling me all these and was saying she doesn't know what the guy want with her that she doesn't like guy even with all his money and cars that she can't leave me for anyone bla bla blah.

After 3 days i got ahold of her phone and was going through her conversation with the guy and saw she went to visit the guy in town and she was thanking him for the nice treat he gave her the day she came.
I closed her phone and pretended I didn't see anything even till today she doesn't know i have seen her conversation with the said yahoo boy and she's the one pushing herself on him and even saw where the guy told her that he's a player and won't want to hurt her. All these are happening after she told me he's just a friend and she can't have anything to do with him and shit.

Today which is Sunday she told me she will be going to somewhere with a male classmate to get something for their project and I said no problem only for her to go outside to see a friend and I went through her whatsapp and saw a conversation of her with another yahoo boy telling him that she's going to start coming by 1.30pm which she did cos she hurriedly left my house trying to cause a problem blaming me that I always act weird and strange lol. She left immediately 1pm trying to keep her appointment with the guy and i called her when she was on her way and she was trying to act all friendly asking me if i have seen what i was looking for and if I have eaten and other shit trying to act all Friendly this is someone who left the house feeling all paranoid.

This girl is really hurting me and I'm ready to break up with her and move on with my life but anytime I try to do that she always deny ever having anything to do with all those guys even with all the evidence and will be shouting in my room swearing to God and all that before you know it i accept her back and we continue with the relationship.

I don't know what to do anymore the last time she left my room angrily after i brought to her notice about what she did she angrily left the house and later came back late in the night with a very good friend of mine to apologize.

She live a bit close to me so she always have the advantage of coming to my house to apologize and shit.

I don't know what to do anymore I'm tired seriously

grandstar:
You're wrong and naive.

She likes you cause you're the type she can take home to Mama and say he's the one and that's why she doesn't want to dump you.

The Yahoo guys she dates are the opposite of the side chick. They are the sidekick.

If you have any sense at all, dump her as she's holding unto you because she feel's you're responsible. She's presently eating her cake and having it.

Cut her off. If you can't do so immediate, then do it gradually and eventually. Call her far less often, do not pick up her calls or pick after long repeat calls etc. After a while she'll realize she can't force a horse to the river and make it drink.

And better still, face your studies and be diligent. Come out with excellent grades.

user4321:
Like words from a Loving Father to a son.