Hi Everyone,

I had to create another account for this,

I'll be as brief as possible.

Sometime this year, I cheated on my girlfriend with a former "bestie" and somehow she found out sometime this month.


I apologized and was remorseful (I still am) she said she has forgiven me but somehow I still see that vengeful look in her eyes and the relationship has grown pretty cold, she talks to me with so much spite in her voice.

The truth is, I don't want to lose her; I still love her very much and if all goes well, I plan on settling down with her;

We've been together for almost 2 years now and this is the only time I've ever cheated on her despite the fact that she has a very very low sexual drive, before we have s*x, I'll have to talk as if I'm trying to compel a virgin to lose her virginity and we'll still drag her undies like it's world war 3.

I don't know how to revamp this relationship, I direly want to; she's got everything I need in a woman

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myndd44

Set yourself on fire and there, you're ignited!

Leave that relationship. It’s clear you guys don’t match. Don’t marry her, you might regret it

i don't think you can cope with her low sex drive because you will cheat again but anyhow love conquer all..

You didn't ask for advice before cheating on her, but you're here now b|c she found out and your r|ship is no longer the same. What were you expecting?

"She's got everything you need in a woman" except the libido of a manic nymphomaniac, to go with you ravenous appetite for sex

Leave her alone. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole too if I were her. You deserve more than dirty looks, you deserve to be dumped, so you can be free to indulge in unrestrained sex with your kind of woman

XhosaNostra:
"She's got everything you need in a woman" except the libido of a manic nymphomaniac, to go with you ravenous appetite for sex

Leave her alone. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole too if I were her. You deserve more than dirty looks, you deserve to be dumped, so you can be free to indulge in unrestrained sex with your kind of woman

calm down and stop mentioning me

XhosaNostra:
"She's got everything you need in a woman" except the libido of a manic nymphomaniac, to go with you ravenous appetite for sex

Leave her alone. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole too if I were her. You deserve more than dirty looks, you deserve to be dumped, so you can be free to indulge in unrestrained sex with your kind of woman

Madam, OP said her sex drive is below average.... You don't seems to understand that. Perhaps, you've never had someone who will mess your mood up....

She doesn't want him to hit her well and wouldn't still have him rip it off from outside.....

low sexual drive, before we have s*x, I'll have to talk as if I'm trying to compel a virgin to lose her virginity and we'll still drag her undies like it's world war 3.
early momo you crack me up ...ALOL, i can relate

"she has everything you want"
you just said she has low sex drive, i think "everything" is an overstatement bore out of clouded in love. no envy
My advice is, stop atoning for your sin over & over again ..yours actions around her shows you are, and it only reminds her of what she couldnt forget been a woman, buh she as forgiven you, focus on that n move on, act normal, act like nothing happened, the vibe you bring on is what we influence her unconsciously, n the sacrifices you make is what we earn you her trust once again. do not rush

yanabasee:




Madam, OP said her sex drive is below average.... You don't seems to understand that. Perhaps, you've never had someone who will mess your mood up....

She doesn't want him to hit her well and wouldn't still have him rip it off from outside.....

That's according to him. One man's trash is another man's treasure. Comprende?

edu442:
Hi Everyone,

I had to create another account for this,

I'll be as brief as possible.

Sometime this year, I cheated on my girlfriend with a former "bestie" and somehow she found out sometime this month.


I apologized and was remorseful (I still am) she said she has forgiven me but somehow I still see that vengeful look in her eyes and the relationship has grown pretty cold, she talks to me with so much spite in her voice.

The truth is, I don't want to lose her; I still love her very much and if all goes well, I plan on settling down with her;

We've been together for almost 2 years now and this is the only time I've ever cheated on her despite the fact that she has a very very low sexual drive, before we have s*x, I'll have to talk as if I'm trying to compel a virgin to lose her virginity and we'll still drag her undies like it's world war 3.

I don't know how to revamp this relationship, I direly want to; she's got everything I need in a woman

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myndd44

bro... The truth is, she won't stop until she has her revenge which is letting another guy finer than you to shift her pant and sink the iron rod deep inside her until she screams cum inside me.. if you can handle that, then let her open legs for another guy after which she'll tell you (cos they usually tell) then ask for forgiveness...if you can forgive her too, you both will be good again.

Women are 100% vengeful.

XhosaNostra:
"She's got everything you need in a woman" except the libido of a manic nymphomaniac, to go with you ravenous appetite for sex

Leave her alone. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole too if I were her. You deserve more than dirty looks, you deserve to be dumped, so you can be free to indulge in unrestrained sex with your kind of woman

You have said it all.

More reason a virgin male is better, because once these boys start-they do not stop till they self-destruct. Sex will now become the major thing in their heads.

If she didn't catch him, would he be telling us all this story?Abi na today im realize say she isn't at his sexual wavelength?

They want to have it all, like they have a factory that produces perfect women at their backyards.

XhosaNostra:
"She's got everything you need in a woman" except the libido of a manic nymphomaniac, to go with you ravenous appetite for sex

Leave her alone. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole too if I were her. You deserve more than dirty looks, you deserve to be dumped, so you can be free to indulge in unrestrained sex with your kind of woman

libido is libido these is not a case of nymphomaniac, low sex libido from any partner could be a terrible nightmare.
Buh the most annoying parts is women are "confused creatures" in my experience i av seen gurls who claimed to av low libido from there previous r/ship only to becum sex addict moving to another r/ship.
I don't know who made you the judge buh before you flatter yourself one more time ... OP deserves a 2nd chance.

pocohantas:


You have said it all.

More reason a virgin male is better, because once these boys start-they do not stop till they self-destruct. Sex will now become the major thing in their heads.

If she didn't catch him, would he be telling us all this story?Abi na today im realize say she isn't at his sexual wavelength?

They want to have it all, like they have a factory that produces perfect women at their backyards.

is it so bad for a guy to wanna have fun? My only concern is the fact that he cheated on his girlfriend in his quest for fun. I think he should get a sexually compatible girl. This life is too short to deprive one's self of the things one craves in life

nymphomaniac:
is it so bad for a guy to wanna have fun? My only concern is the fact that he cheated on his girlfriend in his quest for fun. I think he should get a sexually compatible girl. This life is too short to deprive one's self of the things one craves in life

No dear, it is not bad at all. When caught, own it. Don't start an epistle on how you love the person, blabla.

Yea, he should get a sexually compatible girl. He should have done that since ehn.

assuming u ain't broke it would be easy to figure out what to do... wake her up in the morning with an alert of #1 million naira.


that all !!!

broke men lack ideas... why?



up Manchester United anyway, we are winning.

You should never BEG your partner for sex. You guys are clearly sexually incompatible and should break up.

pocohantas:


You have said it all.

More reason a virgin male is better, because once these boys start-they do not stop till they self-destruct. Sex will now become the major thing in their heads.

If she didn't catch him, would he be telling us all this story?Abi na today im realize say she isn't at his sexual wavelength?

They want to have it all, like they have a factory that produces perfect women at their backyards.

Looooool. I completely agree with you. The bottom line is, nobody is perfect. I'm sure he doesn't meet all her specifications either, but she didn't go searching for the missing link elsewhere.

Virgin boys think about sex THE MOST.

They will learn work with you and still be nymphomanic. If you then deprive them of sex, they will find it outside.

pocohantas:


You have said it all.

More reason a virgin male is better, because once these boys start-they do not stop till they self-destruct. Sex will now become the major thing in their heads.

If she didn't catch him, would he be telling us all this story?Abi na today im realize say she isn't at his sexual wavelength?

They want to have it all, like they have a factory that produces perfect women at their backyards.

What if the girl is concerned that any other guy will also cheat because of her low libido??

XhosaNostra:
"She's got everything you need in a woman" except the libido of a manic nymphomaniac, to go with you ravenous appetite for sex

Leave her alone. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole too if I were her. You deserve more than dirty looks, you deserve to be dumped, so you can be free to indulge in unrestrained sex with your kind of woman

ericsmith:



libido is libido these is not a case of nymphomaniac, low sex libido from any partner could be a terrible nightmare.
Buh the most annoying parts is women are "confused creatures" in my experience i av seen gurls who claimed to av low libido from there previous r/ship only to becum sex addict moving to another r/ship.
I don't know who made you the judge buh before you flatter yourself one more time ... OP deserves a 2nd chance.

No, some are much higher. These two are obviously not on the same spectrum. It's not a crime. He should go be with someone that'll match him perfectly in that area, instead of projecting issues on her. His cheating will not make things easier either. Go figure!

XhosaNostra:


Looooool. I completely agree with you. The bottom line is, nobody is perfect. I'm sure he doesn't meet all her specifications either, but she didn't go searching for the missing link elsewhere.

I guess she sees cow dung when she looks at him... Make that girl no poison am sha

cooooooks:
Virgin boys think about sex THE MOST.

They will learn work with you and still be nymphomanic. If you then deprive them of sex, they will find it outside.

This sounds like what someone will say when trying to sell a Naija used car.

cooooooks:
What if the girl is concerned that any other guy will also cheat because of her low libido??

Her low libido or a simple mismatch? It's obvious they're not on the same wavelength sexually, hence he looked for sex elsewhere. She's unhappy about it & rightly so. If you're unhappy with an aspect of your relationship, work on it or don't, but don't drag people into a shitstorm they didn't sign up for.

I like how you turned your cheating on her as a 'fault' of hers. Low sex drive bla bla bla.

You are not apologetic only regretful she found out. May you find someone just like you.

I wonder what you would be saying had she been the cheater in this case; who knows? Heaven might have fallen.

Take this advice just ignore her and give her space for like a week dont pick her call or call her.If she truly loves you and have sincerely forgiven u ,she will look for you but if she doesn't my guy you better move on with your life.
NB :Note all women forgive and forget easily like that

pocohantas:


I guess she sees cow dung when she looks at him... Make that girl no poison am sha

Some guys can be surprising with their fish brains sometimes Always giving more thinking power to the little head between their legs & then act dumbfounded when their stupid actions come back to bite them in the ass.

XhosaNostra:


Some guys can be surprising with their fish brains sometimes Always giving more thinking power to the little head between their legs & then act dumbfounded when their stupid actions come back to bite them in the ass.

Don't blame them, women have always tolerated their cheating way, they now think it is the standard. Anything less is an abberation and should be questioned...your mothers, their mothers, tolerated worse.

Don't blame them at all, blame women for forgetting a simple rule;

Give him an inch and he'll take a mile.

pocohantas:


Don't blame them, women have always tolerated their cheating way, they now think it is the standard. Anything less is an abberation and should be questioned...your mothers, their mothers, tolerated worse.

Don't blame them at all, blame women for forgetting a simple rule;

Give him an inch and he'll take a mile.

@bolded, very true.

pocohantas:




Give him an inch and he'll take a mile.

Yes na.
Give us just the tip and we go balls deep.

XhosaNostra:


No, some are much higher. These two are obviously not on the same spectrum. It's not a crime. He should go be with someone that'll match him perfectly in that area, instead of projecting issues on her. His cheating will not make things easier either. Go figure!

lol !! you are talkin from women point of view, that you av dated lots of guys doesnt mean you'll understand men.
Most times we men seek r/ship just to av sex buh when it comes to marriage we men consider a whole lot of things ahead of sex ... that why OP said she has everything forgettin she has low sex drive imagine!
These era of scarcity its fvckin so easy to find a porn star buh a gurl that as every other thing is so rare ... OP needs to study & understand her body,understandin a woman's body is d perfect way to unleash her, women are naturally whores. do it right n you must certainly get a reponse

edu442:
Hi Everyone,

I had to create another account for this,

I'll be as brief as possible.

Sometime this year, I cheated on my girlfriend with a former "bestie" and somehow she found out sometime this month.


I apologized and was remorseful (I still am) she said she has forgiven me but somehow I still see that vengeful look in her eyes and the relationship has grown pretty cold, she talks to me with so much spite in her voice.

The truth is, I don't want to lose her; I still love her very much and if all goes well, I plan on settling down with her;

We've been together for almost 2 years now and this is the only time I've ever cheated on her despite the fact that she has a very very low sexual drive, before we have s*x, I'll have to talk as if I'm trying to compel a virgin to lose her virginity and we'll still drag her undies like it's world war 3.

I don't know how to revamp this relationship, I direly want to; she's got everything I need in a woman

cc lalasticlala
myndd44

You have been busted. It was not a random chick, but her best friend. U sef think am. Who wants a bf who will potentially be sticking it to everyone in her circle?

As per the low libido, either she has a low libido or you have poor dick game. A lifetime of unsatisfactory sex no dey there ooo. If you are doing this in a small boyfriend girlfriend relationship, what will you do in a marriage proper?

Take your L and move on.