dollytino4real:
this question can also be asked ( why are guys scarred of wedding a lady with a son? )

LANDLORD72:
*A Former President Of United States Had this To Say, Hear Him:*
```When I think of the depth of the grave and the pounds of sand that will be thrown at us, no need to harm my brother.
When I think of the darkness that will invade the grave after closing, no need to hurt my sister.
When I think of the heat repressed by the soil and the amount of water that will drown me during the rains in the tomb I cannot make my neighbor suffer.
When I think that I will be alone, abandoned by all, I prefer to enjoy communion when I am alive.
When I think that my relationships are mowed by my past, I wish to perfect my future.
If I could be reborn to resume everything from scratch, I would no longer make mistakes in my actions. Because after a long meditation I understood that all is vanity on earth.
```
*May God help us to cultivate humility and love to our neighbors because vanity of vanity, everything is vanity.*

LilMissFavvy:
Who wants problems? I can't date or marry a single father. I would rather marry a not-so-rich- man, than marry a single dad.

weyreypey:
Sinicere opinions will be appreciated...

LilMissFavvy:
Who wants problems? I can't date or marry a single father. I would rather marry a not-so-rich- man, than marry a single dad.

weyreypey:
Once they know that you are a single dad most ladies turn off....why?

frankkydee:















Oh really, even if the single dad is so lovely,caring and wealthy?

Op80:
What about dating a guy who doesnt have any child from the marriage yet and wife packed out of his house?

ubunja:
i have said all I have to say on this Single Mother - Single Father topic.

If I have more to say I will have to post a Miseducation on it.

weyreypey:

But love covereth all...why not focus on the man you're in love with?

MobilityExpress:
This is the most hypocritical question ever on Nairaland. Nigerian girls will date anybody that has money, or big abula, or both. And most Nigerian girls don't have much to offer besides sex, so they come to the dating negotiating table as handicaps and beggars. If Nigerian girls can date criminals, thieves, ritualists, armed robbers, cultists, yahoo boys etc, then why won't they date a single father? Nigerian girls that date married men, mtshewwwww, na single fathers go come hard dem to date ? You guys commenting here should continue deceiving yourselves. Go on social media, see Nigerian girls shouting "zaddy" with pride, some dey even date their ancestors, like Regina Daniels .

Michellekabod2:

Am yet to see u discourage ladies from marrying single men...you see how mute and quiet you are now the table is turned round....look at the vibes you had when you called single ladies losers and argued vehemently against marrying them...
But single dad? You are quiet now.....it's ok

Korllami007:


So, we're many that see the hypocrisy. I want to ask you, na alien date wizkid, David, patoranking and so on. After like 3 or 2 baby mamas, chioma still wan die dia. Wizkid nkor? Despite the fact that they are calling wizkid deadbeat dad, girls still de die for him even if it's a drop of wizkid sperm, make e enter their womb . I can't even remember the number of baby mama wey 2face get before he finally married. If 2face no finally marry, federal government go don create state for him, his baby mamas, and his children.

When I saw the post I was like, "Which planet is Op from? Abi na me change planet wey I know ni."

The think weak me.

placeofallure:


I was once in a relationship with one. To me it doesn't mean anything. He was separated from the wife before we met. He'd moved on. He was serious about remarrying and he was already showing me sensitive documents. He's comfortable at the least. I don't know, maybe the wife was still hoping they'd get back together or something and you know the way info flies around. I think she got wind of the affair between me and the husband. So she called me on phone (dunno how she got my number) and introduced herself. She asked if I am the new wife. Wife? I haven't even decided yet! She told me she's still in the marriage.

As expected I told him and he was livid with anger. He asked her to call me again and apologise or no child support from him anymore. Few days later she called and apologized, she passed the phone to some random women on the phone, they were all pleading. Only God knows the magnitude of threat she got that got them all jittery.
I feel if a fellow woman can be made to swallow the humble pie from her rival like this....Damn! I also feel for their 2 kids. She doesn't sound like she could care for them on her own. So I left him. Yes! I left him. I don't want to be involved in their drama. Even if he won't make up with her, it shouldn't be because of me.

rubyjan:


Without kids, he is not a single father.
He is a single married man

MariaLavina:
Single dad or baby daddies are No no for me, Most of these single dads are irresponsible and unrepentant women haters except for those who lost their partners to death.