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Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Baby mama wahala |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
pocohantas: |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by realtalk19: 5:32pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
frozen70: There are such kind of men but very subtle and low keyed. some are widows or divorced .you need to have a close relationship to study their kind if not you wunt know. They are very rare and among us. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
MariaLavina: so the woman is a blank slate who has no say in being impregnated? in the end - the choice to have the baby is the woman's choice. a woman can even decide to terminate without telling the father she has taken in. what is good for the goose is good for the gander. no double standards pls
there are plenty of stories of absolutely horrible mothers out there. just like having a dick does not make a man an all in all, having a vagina and giving birth does not automatically confer parental competence |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Jobia:Lol. You are very funny. An evening newspaper man. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by realtalk19: 5:40pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
eni4real: Maybe day the same way he treated his ex wuld have been the same way he will eventually treat you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by okeniti: 5:44pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
For the exact same reasons if you swap genders. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
ornicus:Same questions I ask when the tables are turned and it's about single mothers. This isn't about double or triple standard but going according to Men standard. I've read a lot derogatory comments about single moms here and I've seen lots of men applaud such.But now the discourse is about Single men and women are suppose to just swallow their opinion and applaud them. And you speak of double standard? That's laughable! You are right about your last paragraph though, I agree with that. However I must point to you that those cases are rare.Most court hardly separate mother from child, so out of 10 single fathers with the custody of their children, 7 most likely won through family intervention and not court's. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
realtalk19:Thoughtful comment! |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by themaestro08(m): 5:48pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
LANDLORD72:may I know his name? I mean the ex president name. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by freethinker01: 5:49pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Korllami007:I don't know whether it's emotion that clouds the way most women reason or they have impaired cognitive. I know of at least five single fathers that and they're married personally. Don't know which planet all these ones come from. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by weyreypey: 5:50pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
themaestro08:Withdrawn comment. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
MobilityExpress:I still can find the reason why Linda Ikeji came into that list up there. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by frozen70(f): 5:52pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
realtalk19: They have already been taken even before you get to know them, same is applicable to women too |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by themaestro08(m): 5:53pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
MobilityExpress:my thought. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by rikithor(m): 5:58pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
am a single dad,wifey parked out of the home by herself, this about three years now,efforts had been made to reconcile even with her kids begging her,the kids are ages 8 (twin boys)and 10 a boy,yes,I had also made efforts in search for another,here on this platform,seen n date three,a single mum n two singles ladies in a about two and half years,its the ladies that would end the relationship owing to fear of marital future of what ifs,kids involvements,amongst others as tribal differences. twas when I hands off dating nor marriage matter, was prompted to take a last shot, boom! this one is taking promising shape and hope.'...of course yes,Money shall be involved, education,status and influence,good n reasonable job and bright prospects are also involved in my case. Single dad,invest on yourself, you would convince the ladies not only with words but with body language, substance,knowledge, skills eg,driving,spirituality ( in things of God) demonstrate you have capacity to lead her and others without bias,when it comes to romance,show dem you gat a skill. interestingly, the ones that left are showing signs of seeking re- attention but local man ain't wanna be a polygamist. I appreciate nairaland,appreciate Ubunja's miseducation,he has given sufficient knowledge about woman, am in charge of my new marital relationship and the new girl is feeling at home with everything and everyone. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by annyberry: 5:58pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Most tyms dey end up seeing d said ex again,giving d current lady unnecessary headache....... |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Kaynnedy(m): 5:59pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Automatically the man's property will be split in two, for his kids and yours. It's like being in a polygamous marriage. But for a single mother, her child(ren) can always inherit from their biological father. Unless the man adopts the child and decided to give him/her something, which is good, and the child can chop both side. It's a win win in that case. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:Don't mind him. He is weak and doesn't know what to say in this case. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Never been scared even of the other woman I am a woman of peace and prosperity |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:Ubunja can't say much and I know why, this thread is like a torn in the flesh for him. Pity! People can't take half of what they dish out to others here! According to Ubunja's standard, it is safe to say Single fathers are losers! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by deavicky(m): 6:10pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Because the are many single guys out there so they don't need the one with a child. Except u are wiskid or Davido. |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by KingRabota: 6:11pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
My guy, I don zero mind . Love Is a Luxury that I will never be able to Afford again .it's best I focus on my child and concentrate on my career. Instead of hoping in and dreaming for Illusions Ryan03: |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
KingRabota:Touché! |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by pocohantas(f): 6:16pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
KingRabota: Well, according to Mobilityexpress theory, you are probably not a Ned. Maybe he should introduce you to the women in his life. People that don'y have money always be thinking money is everything. Anyway, you will definitely find one. Give it time.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
pocohantas:These guys dey baffle me! They will rant about money money money. Biko, guy no get money but get baggage what's his use? . If person go chop frog he suppose be the one wey go get eggs nah. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by frozen70(f): 6:28pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
larryking540: And you think that they are not hooked already ❓ |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by pocohantas(f): 6:28pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
MariaLavina: Na people wey no get money dey always write nonsense na. Even Dangote in one interview said he was searching and might consider remarrying if he finds an ideal woman. The so called celebrities know that it is a whole lot harder to get that woman they need to compliment them, not random slay queens without values. Yet all these boys on NL will be screaming money. In this same Nigeria with a high poverty and unemployment rate. Whereas their broke asses are in relationships and chatting with their gfs while managing their weekly sub. You no even fit come their house see light. Na to knack inside heat sure pass. Only on NL. 3 Likes
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Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by iykeirozuru: 6:34pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Mostly women have no choice in this matter, As a Man I would never let my baby mama take my child to another man in the name of relationship or marriage. On the other hand a man can marry as much women and even end up getting married to someone his child age so I don't even know what the ladies are here "I can't, God forbid" all lies they only wish for better life they don't care if your a father or not. For each child that comes into this earth, it was a woman's choice to bring him/her, in a situation she feels the man she brought the child for is not responsible she might abandon the child, how is that a man's fault?? You ladies want to judge him as irresponsible... "How on earth did a smart lady bring an irresponsible man's child to this world" Maybe ladies are not smart afterall. Oh wait what if it was even a surrogate like I am planing with one oyinbo and I pay for my child do you want to judge me for that as being irresponsible? |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by Korllami007: 6:35pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
freethinker01: To be candid with you, I have never seen a single father that divorced his wife or his wife died, and he remained single. Some even remarry few months after the incidents. It's very hard to come by a single father without remarrying. The few ones you will see that don't marry choose not to marry. Do you know the number of single and young girls that are chasing married men. Some men have 2 to 3 side chicks when they were married so how is it going to be impossible for them to remarry when extra tires have been chasing them when they were married. No be naija again, where a woman will dumb her current boyfriend to become 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or 5th to a rich man. You can hardly see a Muslim without two or more wives. The same with kings. As old as Oba of Ibadan is, some women don't mind becoming his wife and he's over 80 years old and the man still marrying young women. The same thing with Fela that married 27 women. Are these women aliens? How some ladies don't mind becoming 2nd or 27th wife to a man or even to an 80 year old man but will be scared to date or marry a single father should be added among the wonders of the world. If you read the thread you will think that single father don't marry. Very funny. Hypocrisy at its peak. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by KingRabota: 6:41pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Interesting viewpoint, but In my tiny experience it's useless being with a woman who when she looks at me be seeing an ATM. The objective of relationship is companionship, to comfort each other in times of difficulty , best friends and lovers. When genuine emotions are shared, mutual respect, appreciation and Loyalty become a way of life. Sometimes we'll only have one chance at this. I've had my turn. And I'm not sure emotional experimentation is the way forward for me. To everyone out there looking for this elusive thing called love. I pray you'll find what y'all be looking for. pocohantas: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by meobizy(f): 6:45pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Yawn. The contrary thread was more detailed. This one looks no different from Onila’s scatter-brained write ups. Single fathers get more action than single mothers in every society, an attestation to world favouring men in some aspects over women. |
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