Budex40:
When are you dropping the next sermon ??

Members don dey on sit for over 2 weeks now !!!!
Yours sincerely,

#Deacon_RedPill.

P.S: We need to bind every spirit of Amatarasha

U wont suceed because hell & heaven are with me ...hahaha

Budex40:
When are you dropping the next sermon ??

Members don dey on sit for over 2 weeks now !!!!
Yours sincerely,

#Deacon_RedPill.

P.S: We need to bind every spirit of Amatarasha

I release typically once a month and more than 5 posts at a time. So either monthend or first week of next month.

Any guy that reads your thread will never weep over a girl in his entire life .
Baba I dey enjoy you joor.

Ubunja your wisdom no be here i swear, i've been in such situation, when i did my intenship at one private hospital, the lab scientist did exactly that to me, she will always come to work dressed in a provocative way, put music on her phone and will be dancing seductively in my presense, i thought i have found a cheap hoe but i was wrong, everything i did to Bleep that girl proved abortive, but i bleeped almost all the nurses that carries themselves like angels with so much ease

pryme:


But then do the scantily dressed women have class?

Or are they expecting a man that has class to come after them?

Why do they complain when perverts come after them?

If like you said these women are depending on men without discipline to come after them, why discriminate when they actually do come for them?

The question should be seeing as men are the 'superior' and 'logical' gender, shouldn't they have class.

MarieSucre:


The question should be seeing as men are the 'superior' and 'logical' gender, shouldn't they have class.

True, thats why I feel gays should be castrated, but would ignore the lesbians cos I expect men to know better.

Unfortunately for women, there are some that have class, so if class exist among the women folks, it ruins everything for the classless ones cos most men try to build up class just to settle with women with class.

So it would fly if NO WOMAN has class.

lubish

LillyVal:
lubish

of course

Dude is good

Defenderalert:
Op

Women who dress scantily are only passing one message, "Pay me to lay me" if you doubt that ask tbe filthy hookers on Allen& the filthier ones you buy sex from why they are ALWAYS scantily dressed.

You get just the seduction part because you are broke AF. You cant afford the punnah. Flash the cash and see the scanty clothes drop. Don't be a dumb analyst. You ain't making sense.

All you are saying in a nutshell in all your dumb
WASTE OF TIME epistles. I will summarise thus "Abeg dudes i am fvcking sex starved because you keep pampering,appreciating and spending on your women,"

Thats not gonna change svcker. Go get your jobless ass to work and irk a living instead of sitting home all day waiting for that cougar that won't come.

Why wont you be broke as fvck when all you spend your time on is fantacising about sex from butt and chest implant hoes .

Go and marry a decent wife and stop being a fool. Your life is too messed up for redemption clearly

He said the same thing but u just don't know how to read. You can't pick up subtly made points , everything has to be forced (literally) down your throat.

ubunja:
true boss. But resisting is hard work. It's a daily struggle

There must be a way to get girls like this without giving them what they want. I think addressing them like you are very must NOT interested in them while having it at the back of your mind that you want them.

Probably only a handful of guys can pull that off.

obiie:
I really haven't thought of this before but this is too Apt. Those Instagram girls now comes to mind.
Nice Analysis bro

I wish guys would stop telling then thing's like "you're beautiful, you're sexy", and start criticizing their bodily flaws. Those thirsty guys are the number one enablers on insta airhead girls.

Dudeweedlmao:


I wish guys would stop telling then thing's like "you're beautiful, you're sexy", and start criticizing their bodily flaws. Those thirsty guys are the number one enablers on insta airhead girls.

weed I tell you. It gets tiring bro.

A simple pic gets 1,000 Likes. Wtf??

Did an Instagram model get caught selling her bath water to some losers on the internet? I think I heard a story like that. Simps tho...

ubunja:
weed I tell you. It gets tiring bro.

A simple pic gets 1,000 Likes. Wtf??

Did an Instagram model get caught selling her bath water to some losers on the internet? I think I heard a story like that. Simps tho...

Yeah, I saw that story too. Worst part of it was that the bath water she was selling got sold out. She makes like $400,000+ annually just from male donations alone and not from sales of products. That's the same salary with the president of the United States.

Dudeweedlmao:


Yeah, I saw that story too. Worst part of it was that the bath water she was selling got sold out. She makes like $400,000+ annually just from male donations alone and not from sales of products. That's the same salary with the president of the United States.

a part of me just died.

ubunja:
a part of me just died.

Ubunja please help me out here.... What should I do?

I met a girl in April this year through a friend... I liked her immediately we became friend and gradually fell in love with her and I told her that... But she declined and wanted to keep it just friends... Well I said okay and resolved not to give up... We continued as friends but on a deeper level... We video chat and talk to each other daily... She is in Lagos while I am in Abuja.. We became very close... Fast forward to Five months in August, this month.... I became more serious about relationship with her...all this while I had been refusing to spend anything on her... She would ask me for money to go eat out or airtym but I will find one way to decline...

So finally, I did spend on her on data this month, then I ask her out again and she declines... Now this is someone that we have grown use to using love terms of endearment on each other like honey, darling, sugar, strawberry e.t.c. And even said "I love you" to each other but she doesn't mean it while I do... I know its not a yardstick but I like to think she feels something because I can vouch that she does not have a boyfriend... And she also told me she is a virgin... Now after spending on her a little, and she declines, I figured now is the best time to move on with my life.... So immediately I asked her out and she declined, I said okay and that was the last message she received from me...

She called and called.... She texted and texted but no response from me... After some days, she gave up and I thought that was it... I have moved on.... Only to see her message today on whatsapp telling me "she misses me"with a crying emoji.... I am beyond words right now... What is she up to? Does she love me? I love this girl and I was trying to protect my heart but I feel like I can't trust her right now If I let her in.... What does she want?

Does she want to get back at me? Please I need more understanding on this before I go and pour out my heart to the girl and she gets back at me.... I have moved on completely but I really don't want to be in a conversation with her.... Or could it be that her ego was bruised and she wants revenge? I can say she is a good girl since I have known her but for someone to be this relentless on something is what I don't get....

Bankalert:
Ubunja please help me out here.... What should I do?

I met a girl in April this year through a friend... I liked her immediately we became friend and gradually fell in love with her and I told her that... But she declined and wanted to keep it just friends... Well I said okay and resolved not to give up... We continued as friends but on a deeper level... We video chat and talk to each other daily... She is in Lagos while I am in Abuja.. We became very close... Fast forward to Five months in August, this month.... I became more serious about relationship with her...all this while I had been refusing to spend anything on her... She would ask me for money to go eat out or airtym but I will find one way to decline...

So finally, I did spend on her on data this month, then I ask her out again and she declines... Now this is someone that we have grown use to using love terms of endearment on each other like honey, darling, sugar, strawberry e.t.c. And even said "I love you" to each other but she doesn't mean it while I do... I know its not a yardstick but I like to think she feels something because I can vouch that she does not have a boyfriend... And she also told me she is a virgin... Now after spending on her a little, and she declines, I figured now is the best time to move on with my life.... So immediately I asked her out and she declined, I said okay and that was the last message she received from me...

She called and called.... She texted and texted but no response from me... After some days, she gave up and I thought that was it... I have moved on.... Only to see her message today on whatsapp telling me "she misses me"with a crying emoji.... I am beyond words right now... What is she up to? Does she love me? I love this girl and I was trying to protect my heart but I feel like I can't trust her right now If I let her in.... What does she want?

Does she want to get back at me? Please I need more understanding on this before I go and pour out my heart to the girl and she gets back at me.... I have moved on completely but I really don't want to be in a conversation with her.... Or could it be that her ego was bruised and she wants revenge? I can say she is a good girl since I have known her but for someone to be this relentless on something is what I don't get....

Why the hell would you do this??

Okay let's get some things out of the way;

1) That a girl is single doesn't mean she's looking for a relationship.

2)That a girl is a virgin doesn't mean anything in terms of your chances with her. If anything it makes your job HARDER.

3)Terms of endearment like "honey", "darling" etc mean nothing from a woman who turned down your love.

Have you ever heard of something called The Friendzone? You sir are in it. Full time. And the longer you think about this girl the longer you prolong your own mental torture.

I don't know what makes you think you get a girl by first being friends with her. I don't know where you guys get that formula from. You meet a girl and you like her tell her you like her BEFORE you become friends. Once you've become friends you've been Friendzoned. Did you get that?

If a girl declines your advances LEARN TO MOVE ON. Don't force it. That's how you get used.

Forget about this girl. It doesn't matter what her words mean in detail. The big picture is SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. Move along.

Go read my post CHOOSING A GIRL. and help yourself.

ubunja:

Why the hell would you do this??

Okay let's get some things out of the way;

1) That a girl is single doesn't mean she's looking for a relationship.

2)That a girl is a virgin doesn't mean anything in terms of your chances with her. If anything it makes your job HARDER.

3)Terms of endearment like "honey", "darling" etc mean nothing from a woman who turned down your love.

Have you ever heard of something called The Friendzone? You sir are in it. Full time. And the longer you think about this girl the longer you prolong your own mental torture.

I don't know what makes you think you get a girl by first being friends with her. I don't know where you guys get that formula from. You meet a girl and you like her tell her you like her BEFORE you become friends. Once you've become friends you've been Friendzoned. Did you get that?

If a girl declines your advances LEARN TO MOVE ON. Don't force it. That's how you get used.

Forget about this girl. It doesn't matter what her words mean in detail. The big picture is SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. Move along.

Go read my post CHOOSING A GIRL. and help yourself.

thanks.... The Thing is I HAVE MOVED ON.... but she is trying to come back to where we left off and its just getting me confused....
I wasn't trying to force love on her... I just thought time will change her feelings or perceptions but that is not the case... Though I subscribed data for her against all odds, I knew that was the last straw before I lose my patience. Now, it beats me to think she still misses me after I have ignored her...

Well, I will just keep ignoring her... But I am thinking, what if I strike another conversation with her and she says she loves me for real, should I fall for it? I honestly don't think I can trust her... She may just want more goodies.

Bankalert:
thanks.... The Thing is I HAVE MOVED ON.... but she is trying to come back to where we left off and its just getting me confused....
I wasn't trying to force love on her... I just thought time will change her feelings or perceptions but that is not the case... Though I subscribed data for her against all odds, I knew that was the last straw before I lose my patience. Now, it beats me to think she still misses me after I have ignored her...

Well, I will just keep ignoring her... But I am thinking, what if I strike another conversation with her and she says she loves me for real, should I fall for it? I honestly don't think I can trust her... She may just want more goodies.

Attraction can't be negotiated.

A woman knows the first 2 seconds if she wants you or not. If she turns you down first time its game over. You may get her later on but the relationship will be troubled and full of headaches for you cause hey she didn't want you to begin with.

I wish guys would stop vexing over things women say. Women's words mean NOTHING. It's her actions that matter.

Yes honest to God she misses you. Yes. But AS A FRIEND.

ubunja:

Attraction can't be negotiated.

A woman knows the first 2 seconds if she wants you or not. If she turns you down first time its game over. You may get her later on but the relationship will be troubled and full of headaches for you cause hey she didn't want you to begin with.

I wish guys would stop vexing over things women say. Women's words mean NOTHING. It's her actions that matter.

Yes honest to God she misses you. Yes. But AS A FRIEND.

You are right... Thanks...

Bankalert:
Ubunja please help me out here.... What should I do?

I met a girl in April this year through a friend... I liked her immediately we became friend and gradually fell in love with her and I told her that... But she declined and wanted to keep it just friends... Well I said okay and resolved not to give up... We continued as friends but on a deeper level... We video chat and talk to each other daily... She is in Lagos while I am in Abuja.. We became very close... Fast forward to Five months in August, this month.... I became more serious about relationship with her...all this while I had been refusing to spend anything on her... She would ask me for money to go eat out or airtym but I will find one way to decline...

So finally, I did spend on her on data this month, then I ask her out again and she declines... Now this is someone that we have grown use to using love terms of endearment on each other like honey, darling, sugar, strawberry e.t.c. And even said "I love you" to each other but she doesn't mean it while I do... I know its not a yardstick but I like to think she feels something because I can vouch that she does not have a boyfriend... And she also told me she is a virgin... Now after spending on her a little, and she declines, I figured now is the best time to move on with my life.... So immediately I asked her out and she declined, I said okay and that was the last message she received from me...

She called and called.... She texted and texted but no response from me... After some days, she gave up and I thought that was it... I have moved on.... Only to see her message today on whatsapp telling me "she misses me"with a crying emoji.... I am beyond words right now... What is she up to? Does she love me? I love this girl and I was trying to protect my heart but I feel like I can't trust her right now If I let her in.... What does she want?

Does she want to get back at me? Please I need more understanding on this before I go and pour out my heart to the girl and she gets back at me.... I have moved on completely but I really don't want to be in a conversation with her.... Or could it be that her ego was bruised and she wants revenge? I can say she is a good girl since I have known her but for someone to be this relentless on something is what I don't get....

how do you want to start a new relationship on a long distance basis, do you have the money to fund transportation between Abuja and Lagos? How do you get to know yourselves very well? Long distance relationship is good for people who dated closely before something made them far from each other, at least you already know yourselves deeply before being far from each other.

Cc Ubunja

nuelyoyo:
how do you want to start a new relationship on a long distance basis, do you have the money to fund transportation between Abuja and Lagos? How do you get to know yourselves very well? Long distance relationship is good for people who dated closely before something made them far from each other, at least you already know yourselves deeply before being far from each other.

Cc Ubunja

to me a long distance relationship is equal to NO RELATIONSHIP.

I dont encourage it

ubunja:

Attraction can't be negotiated.

A woman knows the first 2 seconds if she wants you or not. If she turns you down first time its game over. You may get her later on but the relationship will be troubled and full of headaches for you cause hey she didn't want you to begin with.

I wish guys would stop vexing over things women say. Women's words mean NOTHING. It's her actions that matter

Yes honest to God she misses you. Yes. But AS A FRIEND.

@Emboldened I believe many men don't understand this not only because they lack real world experience with women but also because they view their interactions with women from a male perspective.For example:
1.Woman smiles at a man simply to be polite.Man sees woman smiling at him and thinks she is romantically interested because that is what he would do.

2.Woman sees a man she is romantically interested in and frowns at him to get his attention.Man sees woman frowning at him and thinks she hates his guts because that is what he would do.

3.Man is a virgin and loves virgin ladies too.He walks around telling women he is a virgin to impress them because he thinks they are just as interested in male virginity as men are in female virginity.

And so on...this is why I personally recommend the redpill for everyman because it gives men the tools/knowledge/awareness to be three steps ahead of the curve in their interactions with women their entire lives.

mablie:

@Emboldened I believe many men don't understand this not only because they lack real world experience with women but also because they view their interactions with women from a male perspective.For example:
1.Woman smiles at a man simply to be polite.Man sees woman smiling at him and thinks she is romantically interested because that is what he would do.

2.Woman sees a man she is romantically interested in and frowns at him to get his attention.Man sees woman frowning at him and thinks she hates his guts because that is what he would do.

3.Man is a virgin and loves virgin ladies too.He walks around telling women he is a virgin to impress them because he thinks they are just as interested in male virginity as men are in female virginity.

And so on...this is why I personally recommend the redpill for everyman because it gives men the tools/knowledge/awareness to be three steps ahead of the curve in their interactions with women their entire lives.

im laughing as I read this.
It feels like another version of myself from another dimension wrote it. Because 100% these are my thoughts. I can't add or subtract. Mablie I salute.


I realized the mistranslation men do when applying their own actions but from a female point of view early on in my writings. That's why always when I write I explain things TWO TIMES. From a female point of view then from a male point of view. I make sure I explain how women and men view the same thing/situation/scenario but in different ways.

Cause whats an asset for women (eg Virginity) is a liability for men. As you have rightly pointed out.
Hence I've always equated the female Virgin to the male Player. Cause that's the easiest most direct way I can highlight how men and women differently attain greatness and success.

I really made an effort with this thread to bring this issue to men's attention:
https://www.nairaland.com/4955345/ubunjas-miseducation-guys-like-girls

Nothing new here. Most of these ideas have been around the internet for more than a decade it is unfortunate that many men outside the west have not been exposed to them. That is why ubunja seems like a wonder to many men on NL. Nevertheless, this guy is doing a decent job exposing the woman for what she truly is. Most of the ideas are copied and pasted from famous pick up artists and MGTOWs. I personally think pick up artists are generally lost souls whose only goal in life is sticking their d1cks in as many punas as possible. Not that there is anything wrong with loving sex, but some of that energy (imo) should be utilized to enhanced the true self - spiritually. MGTOWs are far more enlightened (IMO) and offer a more robust and sensible approach on how to conduct one self as a man in this world. Those of you men who care to listen should pay attention. By the time a girl is 14 or 15 years old, she has already attained PhD is the art of emotional manipulation - usually taught by her mother or another older woman. Meanwhile, at that age the guy has not even started pre-kindergarten in the art of emotional jiu jitsu. Most men go through life without understanding even the basics of the female manipulation. Love is not only a modern invention, it is nothing but a mirage and undiluted illusion. Any man who falls in love with a woman is a fool plain and simple. Here is my philosophy. Focus on yourself. Spiritually, physically and financially. Be 100% committed to you. If a woman comes around and she wants you to focus some of that male energy on her, walk away from her. Never get in a serious relationship with 1. a woman who does not work for her own money. 2. a woman who is too far below your level financially. 3. a woman whose main goal is to find a man who will take care of all her financial needs so she can retire from work for the rest of her life. 4. a woman who has had sex with more than 10 different men in her life time. 5. a woman who has children from other men. 6. any woman who is too religious - this type will elevate their pastors or spiritual guru over you. Dooming your relationship from the onset.

If you can read the book " The manipulated man" by Esther Vilar. Here you see a woman's views of how she beliefs that women manipulate men so that they (women) do not have to work (or do any hard labor). You can order the hard copy or buy electronic copy online.

Emilokoiyawon:
Nothing new here. Most of these ideas have been around the internet for more than a decade it is unfortunate that many men outside the west have not been exposed to them. That is why ubunja seems like a wonder to many men on NL. Nevertheless, this guy is doing a decent job exposing the woman for what she truly is. Most of the ideas are copied and pasted from famous pick up artists and MGTOWs. I personally think pick up artists are generally lost souls whose only goal in life is sticking their d1cks in as many punas as possible. Not that there is anything wrong with loving sex, but some of that energy (imo) should be utilized to enhanced the true self - spiritually. MGTOWs are far more enlightened (IMO) and offer a more robust and sensible approach on how to conduct one self as a man in this world. Those of you men who care to listen should pay attention. By the time a girl is 14 or 15 years old, she has already attained PhD is the art of emotional manipulation - usually taught by her mother or another older woman. Meanwhile, at that age the guy has not even started pre-kindergarten in the art of emotional jiu jitsu. Most men go through life without understanding even the basics of the female manipulation. Love is not only a modern invention, it is nothing but a mirage and undiluted illusion. Any man who falls in love with a woman is a fool plain and simple. Here is my philosophy. Focus on yourself. Spiritually, physically and financially. Be 100% committed to you. If a woman comes around and she wants you to focus some of that male energy on her, walk away from her.

If you can read the book " The manipulated man" by Esther Vilar. Here you see a woman's views of how she beliefs that women manipulate men so that they (women) do not have to work (or do any hard labor). You can order the hard copy or buy electronic copy online.

go back to the internet. Find where I copy pasted then bring that here and we talk.

Otherwise you guys can get tiring with your superior attitudes.


And that Esther Villa book is old news. Check out my old threads where I provide download links for it.

Nthrone:
Dude is good

He needs to give credit to the pick up artists and MGTOWs whose ideas he is using. Everything is saying is available on the internet. These ideas are not original far from it. They have been around the net for almost 2 decades.

ubunja:
go back to the internet. Find where I copy pasted then bring that here and we talk.

Otherwise you guys can get tiring with your superior attitudes.


And that Esther Villa book is old news. Check out my old threads where I provide download links for it.

No mind the guy. While I agree with him that these are ideas that have been shared by PUAs and MGTOWs for a very long time, I suspect you have absorbed these ideas to the point that they are now part of you. This is not an academic thesis so no need for references.

GodIsBiafran:


No mind the guy. While I agree with him that these are ideas that have been shared by PUAs and MGTOWs for a very long time, I suspect you have absorbed these ideas to the point that they are now part of you. This is not an academic thesis so no need for references.

He doesn't have to do an academic reference. He could just let the readers know that these ideas are not original to him. That's all. That shows integrity. Which IMO is one of the hallmarks of been a man. While you and I may know that these ideas are not original to him, many on NL do not. And by not been honest about this, one might begin to question his motives. If his goals are to enlighten, then he should not have any problem with honesty. However, if his goal is to control (and be some kinda of NL PUA guru) then his reluctance to shady about the sources of his ideas is understandable.

Emilokoiyawon:


He doesn't have to do an academic reference. He could just let the readers know that these ideas are not original to him. That's all. That shows integrity. Which IMO is one of the hallmarks of been a man.

. Mr know all,why ve you not done it since. Jealousy will destroy people like you.Ubunja keep up with your good works

GodIsBiafran:


No mind the guy. While I agree with him that these are ideas that have been shared by PUAs and MGTOWs for a very long time, I suspect you have absorbed these ideas to the point that they are now part of you. This is not an academic thesis so no need for references.

I always tell guys here the truth is One. So at the end we'll all repeat the same thing. But I always make sure I present a fresh angle to the truths they know. And for real, some of the things I will write people won't read anywhere else but on the Miseducations.

Guys need to chill.

Emilokoiyawon:


He doesn't have to do an academic reference. He could just let the readers know that these ideas are not original to him. That's all. That shows integrity. Which IMO is one of the hallmarks of been a man. While you and I may know that these ideas are not original to him, many on NL do not. And by not been honest about this, one might begin to question his motives. If his goals are to enlighten, then he should not have any problem with honesty. However, if his goal is to control (and be some kinda of NL PUA guru) then his reluctance to shady about the sources of his ideas is understandable.

I told you to go bring the sources. Why are you still here??


And you're sounding like an envious entity. What's up with you?