Salt3:


lol. you're funny

No, I’m serious. U never know.
Except that she calls herself goddess. I can imagine the ego that permits that

czarina:
You've been crying on people's mentions.

Na your room be that?

my dear it is not my room but the way you ladies act... be like say, I go rent one room like this say find wife

Kazeemakeem:



The fuss is rich does not guarantee good marriage

And poor does?

damoceile:


growing with a man simply means you staying idle right.... no man in his right senses would ever want his girl to be idle while he's hustling to make things happen...

keep ur head down ehn, this stubbornness will take u knowhere

Kazeemakeem:



I wonder who will marry some ladies in this forum, u ladies are looking for ready mademan ,men no we men not whT we are doing before proposing u cant build relationships u just want man who has arrived home woman

Make una go make money too and see how he easy

Tufiakwa

I support you. They should go and make money and stop acting as if we are their fathers.Some will be behaving as if they are orphans,give me this, buy me that, how will someone "blow" when you want to buy everything on this earth?

CanadaOrBust:


See her signature. Ask her to put u onto her okirika and rice and forex biz. U never know. That’s how it starts. Before u know it u r married. Riyadhgoddess, right?

Ti olorun ba fo wo si, kosi wahala

CanadaOrBust:


No, I’m serious. U never know.
Except that she calls herself goddess. I can imagine the ego that permits that

I'm also a god. Check somewhere in the Bible

The post is incomplete. If it said the guy is jobless, then those advocating against would be justified. But if the guy has a job, that apartment is just a passing phase. I'd advise my sister to marry the guy.


After all my apartment was just a little better than this one when my wife married me.


My living situation is 1000% better now.

eddkeys:
On a second thought... What if the guy has money, probably he is just pretending to see if he can find a lady that will really love him not because of money...

My thought tho...

That means he nor go marry be that. But if the lady don reach 45 ,she go accept am or even beg him to marry her even when he is less than 35

sunkieisland:
The post is incomplete. If it said the guy is jobless, then those advocating against would be justified. But if the guy has a job, that apartment is just a passing phase. I'd advise my sister to marry the guy.


After all my apartment was just a little better than this one when my wife married me.


My living situation is 1000% better now.

Thank you very much. Please tell them.

CanadaOrBust:


I only asked people what they think.
So why don’t u wait 4 what God ordained 4 u in other aspects of your life too? How come u go 4 what u want and feel u deserve? I’m sure u want a certain type of car, for example, and worked towards it. Why didn’t u wait 4 the car God ordained 4 u

My dear, if only you know what I request from God, you will be shocked.
Long ago, I threw away all my worries, troubles and cares of this world for only for the love of Jesus.
Whether I have a car or not is my least worries. Whether I wear designers or not is really not my concern.

pocohantas:
We can't date, let alone acceptance.

We are not even the same circle...
He should pick a wife from his circle. Guys should learn to pick a wife from their social class and stop disturbing SM.

Checked ur profile... If na u be DAT on ur profile then I no know watin I want tell u

RiyadhGoddess:



My dear, if only you know what I request from God, you will be shocked.
Long ago, I threw away all my worries, troubles and cares of this world for only for the love of Jesus.
Whether I have a car or not is my least worries. Whether I wear designers or not is really not my concern.

Your signature that u r constantly promoting (in fact more than anyone else, which is ok too) says otherwise.
It says u r a real hustler who desires worldly success and material possessions

Salt3:


I'm also a god. Check somewhere in the Bible

Aha, but not God. She is Goddess

AntiBrutus:


Start from marrying that girl sweeping the road amd cleaning gutters. Now we are all gonna act righteous like we don't have individual taste and standards.

I ain't dating any man in such shithole, if he wants support to get a new apartment- I can help, as a FRIEND. But I am definitely not living there with him as a WIFE.

You said you started working at 21, perhaps you have a fabulous resume and a wealth of work experience kudos! Many weren't given same opportunity (not your fault)...I had colleagues who married themselves, had some who married from similar sphere but the truth is destiny differs. I had this friend who worked in Advisory for one of the big 4 accounting firms got married to a captain (Pilot)and was abused until divorced. Some people who married same class have had fantastic marriages. Like I said destiny differs... Whether you like it or not, you cannot choose who you will get married to(bitter truth) you can only turn down proposals you are not cool with. If you have a good job, like you claim, you shouldn't worry much about the size of guys pocket. A colleague fell in love with this guy who was not financially OK (no job), when she seeked my opinion I simply told her if you are happy with him go ahead. Today dude is doing uber and she bought the car, 2 kids already. she wasn't even 26 then, so it is not a case of family pressure. Money is never enough. I have jumped from Engineering to Fmcg, construction now banking looking at consulting... Almost 30...money is numbers...numbers never end, if you want money to give you comfort, your search for comfort will never end. Finally it is good to have a good life, but if you can pay the piper, why not allow you and the one who makes you happy enjoy the tune?

RiyadhGoddess:



Ti olorun ba fo wo si, kosi wahala

Mi ogbo Yoruba. Itshekiri ni mi

CanadaOrBust:


Your signature that u r constantly promoting (in fact more than anyone else, which is ok too) says otherwise.
It says u r a real hustler who desires worldly success and material possessions

Smile.
I can't talk much here.
it's well

Chidelis:



Checked ur profile... If na u be DAT on ur profile then I no know watin I want tell u

Na she be that. Oya tell her your mind.

bluskyee:
You said you started working at 21, perhaps you have a fabulous resume and a wealth of work experience kudos! Many weren't given same opportunity (not your fault)...I had colleagues who married themselves, had some who married from similar sphere but the truth is destiny differs. I had this friend who worked in Advisory for one of the big 4 accounting firms got married to a captain (Pilot)and was abused until divorced. Some people who married same class have had fantastic marriages. Like I said destiny differs... Whether you like it or not, you cannot choose who you will get married to(bitter truth) you can only turn down proposals you are not cool with. If you have a good job, like you claim, you shouldn't worry much about the size of guys pocket. A colleague fell in love with this guy who was not financially OK (no job), when she seeked my opinion I simply told her if you are happy with him go ahead. Today dude is doing uber and she bought the car, 2 kids already. she wasn't even 26 then, so it is not a case of family pressure. Money is never enough. I have jumped from Engineering to Fmcg, construction now banking looking at consulting... Almost 30...money is numbers...numbers never end, if you want money to give you comfort, your search for comfort will never end. Finally it is good to have a good life, but if you can pay the piper, why not allow you and the one who makes you happy enjoy the tune?

I can choose who I will marry.
I will choose who I would marry.

Here comes the emotional blackmail. Why care about a guy's pocket? He didn't care about my looks, cooking skills, sexual history before coming for me ba? Why did he choose me and not the fish seller? So, I am the one that shouldn't care because I want to prove I am not materialistic? I am sorry, that blackmail won't work.

I CARE ABOUT HIS POCKET.

Must I love a broke man? Is it only broke men that give peace? All the ones beating their wives that we see on FP. All the university boys with 2boxers that cheat like dogs. But no, NL definition of love is being with a broke guy...lmao.

Abeg, to each his own.

A man that is good is good, irrespective of his financial stand and I choose to go for the one that is financially capable.

You can marry that girl selling pepper in the market, I am sure there is one that will definitely love you. But I wouldn't marry anyone in such a room!!!!!! NEVER

RiyadhGoddess:
Yes I will say YES.
I will help him bring his dream to pass with the help of God.
He definitely knows what he wants from life, together we will both achieve that...
Read my signature

Modified

All of you mentioning me because I said Yes na wa for una ooo.
What is your own definition of poverty please It could be that your own definition of poverty is different from mine.
To me, a man who is rich spiritually, morally, wisdom, knowledge, values is the definition of riches. With all that I have mentioned combined, financial wealth will flow in in due time if properly guided/managed and mentored, He will be super rich in no time.
A man who sleeps on a student size mattress or on the mat today can sleep on a king size bed tomorrow if he finds the wife the bible referred to as good thing because that good thing (Wife) comes with Favor from the Lord.
Read the story of the virtuous woman again in the book of proverb.
The woman is meant to help the man build/grow and not scatter.
What some of you don't know is that there are some men that God has destined to be blessed through their wife. There are some men that God will bless the woman first so she can use it to lift the man up.
You all need to understand the principles of marriage in order to understand what I am talking about.
That's why so many marriages can't stand the test of time today because many are built on money money money foundation...

wow!! you're so full of wisdom.
God bless you.

AntiBrutus:

Let me know if you are ready to marry a non-Nigerian. Send me a PM, if you're interested, let me connect you to him sharp sharp. He's a very good friend and he has plenty money.

What if the guy actually disguised himself?

LordKO:


Let me know if you are ready to marry a non-Nigerian. Send me a PM, if you're interested, let me connect you to him sharp sharp. He's a very good friend and he has plenty money.

See better person.

Which country is he from?
Or continent at least?

AntiBrutus:


I can choose who I will marry.
I will choose who I would marry.

Here comes the emotional blackmail. Why care about a guy's pocket? He didn't care about my looks, cooking skills, sexual history before coming for me ba? So, I am the one that shouldn't care because I want to prove I am not materialistic? I am sorry, that blackmail won't work.

I CARE ABOUT HIS POCKET.

Must I must love a broke man? I guess this is NL definition of love, lmao.

Abeg, to each his own.

You can marry that girl selling pepper in the market, I won't marry anyone in such a room!!!!!! NEVER

I trust I am having this convo with one with a good IQ...I really do not care about how you make your judgements. You cannot propose to a guy to marry you (guys makes the proposal), hence you only have a choice of refusal or acceptance but you cannot initiate. Since you like pepper sellers a lot, Yes I can marry a pepper seller if I get to know her and like her. It only takes a year to get a diploma and 4 years to get a degree. Perhaps you are not as buoyant as you sound then it is logical to aspire to get a buoyant partner and you both can form a symbiotic relationship. Where your relationship will hedge your insecurities.

AntiBrutus:


See better person.

Which country is he from?
Or continent at least?

Na private thing nah!

bluskyee:
I trust I am having this convo with one with a good IQ...I really do not care about how you make your judgements. You cannot propose to a guy to marry you (guys makes the proposal), hence you only have a choice of refusal or acceptance but you cannot initiate. Since you like pepper sellers a lot, Yes I can marry a pepper seller if I get to know her and like her. It only takes a year to get a diploma and 4 years to get a degree. Perhaps you are not as buoyant as you sound then it is logical to aspire to get a buoyant partner and you both can form a symbiotic relationship. Where your relationship will hedge your insecurities.

He makes the proposal.
I accept the proposal.

If that isn't choice, I don't know what is.

A good sales man is only considered good when he has been able to clinch a sale, not before. Because in the long run, acceptance is very important.

I never said I am that buoyant, I only said I WOULD NEVER MARRY A MAN IN THAT ROOM!!! ahn! Leave me to my choice na.

Your guilt tripping won't work oooo!

I guess Zara Buhari was trying to hedge insecurities by marrying an Indimi. Maybe he is also trying to use to me to hedge his insecurities.

Beer parlour logic.

LordKO:


Na private thing nah!

Just answer that one first.

AntiBrutus:


Just answer that one first.

You don begin de fear now. Send me your Whatsapp number via a PM.

I don't have a sister, thank God am learning a lot here too. Marry from your social class simple.

ImaIma1:


You should know that on this forum, ladies are deemed worthy when they marry or date"poor guys". Because many guys on this forum believe they are poor and would probably remain that way. So they talk down any lady that prefers someone more comfortable.

But in truth, they would frown at their sisters marrying a man in such condition. They are just hypocrites.

RiyadhGoddess:




Smile.
I can't talk much here.
it's well

It’s well. Smile

CanadaOrBust:


This is not totally true. Nigerian women are wired to love men with success or status or money or power or such (at least more than the woman has). But just because their love is intertwined with those attributes does not mean it not genuine or true love

SAYING NIGERIAN WOMEN HAVE GENUINE AND TRUE LOVE FOR A MAN IS LIKE SAYING PRESIDENT TRUMP LOVES BLACK PEOPLE AND ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS.



EVEN HERE ABROAD IN AMERICA AND CANADA, THERE'S A NAME THEY CALL WOMEN WHO LOVES A MAN BASED ON THE CONDITIONS YOU STATED.

THAT NAME IS CALLED H0E. FULLNAME IS STANK H0E.

AntiBrutus:


He makes the proposal.
I accept the proposal.

If that isn't choice, I don't know what is.

A good sales man is only considered good when he has been able to clinch a sale, not before. Because in the long run, acceptance is very important.

I never said I am that buoyant, I only said I WOULD NEVER MARRY A MAN IN THAT ROOM!!! ahn! Leave me to my choice na.

Your guilt tripping won't work oooo!

I guess Zara Buhari was trying to hedge insecurities by marrying an Indimi. Maybe he is also trying to use to me to hedge his insecurities.

Beer parlour logic.

Looooooollllllllllllll f***k....it is not beer parlour logic that is reality. I think I remember this moniker from a thread I created about how difficult it is getting a partner. If he is using you to hedge...he is giving you something in return " happiness". As sacarstic as this might sound, happiness is greater than whatever you are bringing to the table. For the room, with 300k the aesthetics of the room will be given a rebirth. Agreed, you won't date or marry a broke brother, case closed.