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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 2:12pm On Aug 31, 2019
hell no! what if he's a 1 minute man
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by EEZe(m): 2:23pm On Aug 31, 2019
As a Christian sex before marriage is a sin if only you have genuinely repented and would like to keep yourself pure before God
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by djoe21(m): 2:27pm On Aug 31, 2019
Blackivy27:
grin Why?
'cos I know you like sex. You fantasize a lot about it.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by djoe21(m): 2:28pm On Aug 31, 2019
Sammy555:
yes bro
No wonder she fantasizes a lot about sex.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by castro(m): 2:28pm On Aug 31, 2019
To the ladies, yes it is a good thing for abstinence before marriage. However, what if he is a one minute man or he can not even get it up at all? Would you still be faithful to him for life? That is when you would truly know whether you love him or not. I have seen this kind of scenario before and it did not end well even though the man is clergy.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 2:29pm On Aug 31, 2019
cooooooks:
Gotta second the point of MAdam over here but I've got a serious question to you and the other women on this thread:

Is sexual compatibility and satisfaction in your marriage important to you?
And Premarital sex is the way to measure sexual compatibility ? ? Develop your self and stop thinking in the dark, People fake sexual interest to get the ring and after marriage turn to something else, there are such stories online from married ones lamenting how they were tricked with sex.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Candycrushy(f): 2:32pm On Aug 31, 2019
harrwix:
There are still guys who would stand out for a no sex relationship... The issue is knowing where to find them.

90% of guys who make such decisions are out of religious beliefs than moral.... I cannot speak for ladies though.

So if you meet a Christian brother, there is a 95% chance that he will prefer to keep sexual acts till after marriage. But the issue now lie that most ladies might not find such guys and such relationship attractive. Some that stays , still find ways to find warmth outside and act all cool with the innocent guy.
If i can see that kind of here in this part of the world, i will definitely keep him
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Sammy555(m): 2:34pm On Aug 31, 2019
djoe21:
No wonder she fantasizes a lot about sex.
that's what girls do at that age
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Aug 31, 2019
pocohantas:
Thank you for being a rational male.
Your type is almost going extinct. cheesy
Oya do your bit to save the rational males in the human race. Come and procreate with us. kiss kiss

Do it for the next generation, or there will be no rational males left
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 2:38pm On Aug 31, 2019
ornicus:
Oya do your bit to save the rational males in the human race. Come and procreate with us. kiss kiss

Do it for the next generation, or there will be no rational males left
Lmao. I done learn pickup line o
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by sanyahkod(m): 2:42pm On Aug 31, 2019
14 pages already after only few hours on front page. Sex yi noni shaaa..Nkan ti a man ri gbogbo eyan si niyen.

Anyways! It is very possible but the devil has dealt with this generation so badly. Any small cold na weather for two. A shoulder to lean on or cry upon sef will lead to something else.
The solution?? Christ alone is. If you are a Christian, then live like one and determine not to engage in pre-marital sex. My wife and I had that determination and God saw us through till we tied the knot.

It is still possible. Refuse to join the perverse generation irrespective of your pasts. Stay blessed!
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Thegamingorca(m): 2:43pm On Aug 31, 2019
pocohantas:
Lmao. I done learn pickup line o
cheesy
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Aug 31, 2019
Candycrushy:
If i can see that kind of here in this part of the world, i will definitely keep him
Not surprise "keep" is the word grin so that when the guys u are giving d sex back2back fvckup u switch to broda wey mumu.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by harrwix(m): 2:49pm On Aug 31, 2019
Candycrushy:
If i can see that kind of here in this part of the world, i will definitely keep him
They are all around you.... look carefully

But one thing is certain no premarital sex is not a sure recipe for a successful marriage... other things too must play their part from both partners
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 3:07pm On Aug 31, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Nope. Compatibility in that area is stupendously important
Then why do people who sex before marriage still complain of their partner changing ?

Why do people still go out and seek side chic despite they sex before marriage ?

Does this not prove compatibility isn't measure by premarital sex ?
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 3:10pm On Aug 31, 2019
pryme:
The best comment I have read so far.
And all those married men and women cheating up and down despite sex before marriage are not compatible ?

Its funny how y'all use pre marital sex as yard stick when it fails repeatedly
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Barristter07: 3:11pm On Aug 31, 2019
osinimegaciousi:
yes na, my man never ask for sex through out our courtship, yes we discussed about it and that was all until we got married..and for those that feels its not normal or such men is rare well am a witness we still have such men and YES he is sexually active
Greetings from a brother , How are brothers and sisters over there ?
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by dochenaj: 3:29pm On Aug 31, 2019
Blackivy27:
grin Yes.
but finding a guy like that is like passing a camel through the eye of a needle. Impossible.
modified: to all the guys quoting me. That they are virgins or married their wives or are in a relationship without sex, kudos to you. You're rare though.
With men it might be impossible, but with God all things are possible.

But just as this rarity applies to men it much more applies to women.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by ruggedadventure(m): 3:45pm On Aug 31, 2019
ubunja:
I'm here to read lies.
Seconded
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Mykel51(m): 3:53pm On Aug 31, 2019
BORN2RULE20:
SEX IS SWEET BUT........
Have you ever
wondered why God carefully
positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a tiny membrane that
partially or completely covers the opening of
the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.
Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable
tissue full of blood at the very door of the
sexual opening of the female?
Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance,
like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new
house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away
when it is broken?
Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a
sign and a token of a covenant between the
bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.
Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a
casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant
struck and confirmed by the blood shed on
that day.
This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges
in to this woman shall only be able to do so by
making a blood covenant to be joined to her
for the rest of his life, from that point onward.
Little wonder why sexual intercourse was
designed by God to take place only and only
after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one
who made the body (the hormones, organs,
nerves, tissues, e.tc) God said it in clear terms
, “Now, the body is not for fornication”.
Anyone who chooses to use the body for
fornication must know that he/she is working
directly against God’s plan and there would
definitely be a consequence either now or at
old age!
There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural
process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the
first guy that enters in to her especially at that
particular time when the hymen breaks.
There
is no covenant without blood: this is why the
membrane contains enough of it.
As a matter of fact, what happens the first
time a lady has sex is not just sex but an
immersion and a bathing of the man with her
hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is
highly recognized in the spirit realm of both
light and darkness!
The first time this happens
just marks her opening day covenant ceremony
and each subsequent experience goes on to
further refresh or strengthen that covenant or
establish another version of it with another
person.
Many have washed useless boys with that
hymen-blood.
Many have struck irreversible covenants with
men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual
activity with demon-possessed men while some
others have struck such precious covenants
with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it.
If only they knew,many girls who carelessly
allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid
to be among the so called “big girls” would
never have done so.
The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not
know that he who is joined to a harlot
(through sexual activity) is one with her ?
This is why many girls are not yet married yet
their spiritual composition is already shattered
and imbalanced, because they have mingled
their souls with that of different men.
Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite
proportion of your virtue that leaves you each
time a man enters into you and when that man
leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how
much of yourself would be lost each time a
man enters into you without any properly
signed marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to
another. All of these things have strong and
terrible spiritual implications.
A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of
the man that broke it, any other spirit
whatsoever that may have mingled with that
man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs
with him and the spirit of any other man that
enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that
pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What
happens between the lines could be deadly and
dangerous.
The very first day a lady, or a man does that
there will be spiritual transfer of destiny.
What if the lady was raped ?
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Jhamzy(m): 3:55pm On Aug 31, 2019
Blackivy27:
grin Yes.
but finding a guy like that is like passing a camel through the eye of a needle. Impossible.
modified: to all the guys quoting me. That they are virgins or married their wives or are in a relationship without sex, kudos to you. You're rare though.
You just made me feel like a king cheesy
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by echelonfashion(m): 4:05pm On Aug 31, 2019
#Ati lo Ati de
shocked
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Mruwa1(m): 4:10pm On Aug 31, 2019
Zinny25:
Do such men existhuh

infact since i was born and now that I'm getting old, I have never seen a man like that

sisters have you seen ooo
yes ooh my broda did it
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Candycrushy(f): 4:12pm On Aug 31, 2019
harrwix:
They are all around you.... look carefully

But one thing is certain no premarital sex is not a sure recipe for a successful marriage... other things too must play their part from both partners
Noted....i like ur signature too grin
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Ayomiposi001: 4:13pm On Aug 31, 2019
Magnoliaa:
Yes.
oh... Congratulations Hanty
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Candycrushy(f): 4:14pm On Aug 31, 2019
ericsmith:
Not surprise "keep" is the word grin so that when the guys u are giving d sex back2back fvckup u switch to broda wey mumu.
Guys like u abi
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by internationalman(m): 4:15pm On Aug 31, 2019
MissJoy29:
Still haven't answered my question
what's the question
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by lovethchioma(f): 4:27pm On Aug 31, 2019
Yes.. and Yes again.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by cooooooks(m): 4:31pm On Aug 31, 2019
People can successfully fake in our customary 3 month "engagements".

You can't fake your sexuality if you're in a committed relationship that lasts maybe 6 months.

Barristter07:
And Premarital sex is the way to measure sexual compatibility ? ? Develop your self and stop thinking in the dark, People fake sexual interest to get the ring and after marriage turn to something else, there are such stories online from married ones lamenting how they were tricked with sex.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by harrwix(m): 4:42pm On Aug 31, 2019
Candycrushy:
Noted....i like ur signature too grin
Thanks....
PM.... let's learn about our signatures
wink wink
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by augustine: 4:46pm On Aug 31, 2019
LINTUNE:
Why do gals pretend like they dont fancy sex, have got lots of female friends ok and have had fun with some, no fucking string attached, there are gals out there that like sex than an average boy.. Infact i remembered one of my friend that almost sexed me when my roomie was arround.. He eas taking his bath and next thing i knew it she held my dick, said she wanted it right now, i was like hey my roomie is arround... Gals stop pretending abeg mtcheww angry
Hahaha. Your female friend obviously got turned on by your roomie's physique as he undressed to take his bathe. Since it wasn't possible for her to seduce your room mate in your presence, she grabbed you.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Aug 31, 2019
Blackivy27:
grin Yes.
but finding a guy like that is like passing a camel through the eye of a needle. Impossible.
modified: to all the guys quoting me. That they are virgins or married their wives or are in a relationship without sex, kudos to you. You're rare though.
I dated close to 19 girls in d Uni - and I never asked any 4 sex. They gave me willingly coz they were not stingy.
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