Martinez39:
No. I am simply a smart and observant guy. Many people are not observant and don't study their fellow human beings. Many have short attention span and are focused on work and entertainment.

Martinez39:
No. I am simply a smart and observant guy. Many people are not observant and don't study their fellow human beings. Many have short attention span and are focused on work and entertainment.

You talked about women hiding the contacts of their kids from their fathers. How do you observe such without being inside?

You talked about women poisoning the minds of their kids..

You talked...... Let me just stop here. It's possible you've forgotten all what you typed

Have a nice life. This thread would have made sense if it actually happened to you.

But then, your mum is a real woman. Isn't she?

izzou:


You talked about women hiding the contacts of their kids from their fathers. How do you observe such without being inside?

You talked about women poisoning the minds of their kids..

You talked...... Let me just stop here. It's possible you've forgotten all what you typed

Have a nice life. This thread would have made sense if it actually happened to you.

But then, your mum is a real woman. Isn't she?

Martinez39:
I know where you are going with this your this but I don't have your time. It's hard to accept that someone can be smart, exposed and very observant...

Anyway, good day. No more replies from me to you.

IamPlato:
Are You Dumb? WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY WHAT IF?


At Least At 20 you Should Be Able To Know The Personalities Of Your parents And Identify The Smarter One, the Selfish One or The Wise One

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AT LEAST, I KNOW SO MANY ADULTS THAT THEIR PARENTS STILL MAKE DECISIONS FOR. WHO TO MARRY. WHAT TO DO. WHERE TO GO. AND MANY OTHER DECISIONS ADULTS ARE SUPPOSED TO TAKE BY THEMSELVES.

SOME PEOPLE ARE TOO BRAINWASHED AND DECEIVED TO REALIZE THAT SOME PARENTS CAN BE UNSMART, SELFISH AND FOOLISH.

THAT'S WHY IN THIS AGE, IT IS YOUNG PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT STILL PEDDLES THE SAYING "WHAT AN ELDER (OR MOTHER) CAN SEE SEE WHILE SITTING, A FULL AGILE MATURED MAN OF 40 CANNOT SEE EVEN IF HE CLIMBS THE PLANET".

MANY ADULTS CANNOT REASON BY THEMSELVES, FOR THEMSELVES.

IamPlato:
Your IQ is Very High But Wisdom Is What You Seriously Lack...


Why Make A Big Deal Out Of Something Like This? Some Young Folks Here Would Read This And Probably Start Seeing Their Mothers wrongly As Something Different out Of Trying To Be Smart

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IS IT SUCH A BAD THING FOR MOTHERS TO BE SEEN WRONGLY? DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY FATHERS HAVE BEEN SEEN WRONGLY ALL OVER THE WORLD SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIME?

THIS THREAD CALLS IN CHILDREN OF DEADBEATS.... BUT HERE YOU ALL ARE, ACTING AS IF MARTINEZ39 PERSONALLY INSULTS YOUR MOTHERS. WHY NOT READ AND WALK AWAY AND LET CONCERNED PEOPLE REASON TOGETHER.

YOUR MUM IS NOT LIKE THAT, YOUR MUM IS THIS AND THAT....
OGA, EXIT THE THREAD FOR PEOPLE THAT THEIR MUMS ARE LIKE THAT. THIS THREAD IS FOR THEM. TO HELP THEM THINK AND POSSIBLY RECONCILE WITH THEIR DADS IF SUCH SITUATIONS HAVE CAUSED DISPUTES.

YOU SAY YOU'RE WISE AND REASONABLE, BUT EVEN THE SIMPLEST THINGS MISSES YOUR COMPREHENSION. NA WA.

Martinez39:
I never said people should see their mother wrongly. I simply said people should start asking the appropriate questions and not assume without any evidence that their fathers are bad because their mother stold them so. You show read my post and comprehend properly. If only your mother breastfed and nourished you properly, your brain will not be like this.

Martinez39:
Are you minding him? The other one was try to insist that, for me to write this topic, I must have been a victim of the kind of mothers I described in my op. People dey dis world.

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THEY WOULD NOT UNDERSTAND, BECAUSE THEIR MOTHERS CONDITIONED THEM PROPERLY. OR BECAUSE THEIR MOTHERS ARE ON THE GOOD SIDE.
IT DOESN'T MEAN ALL MOTHERS ARE ON THE SIDE THAT THEIR MOTHERS ARE.
WHY ARE THEY BUYING THIS CASE LIKE ONLY THIER MOTHERS EXIST IN THIS WORLD FULL OF MOTHERS?

DO THEY EVEN KNOW HOW MANY FATHERS WENT THROUGH MATTERS LIKE THIS?
IZZOU IS TAKING ABOUT EXPERIENCE, I EXPERIENCED IT. I HAVE ALSO KNOWN MANY PEOPLE WHO GREW UP LIKE ME. NOW, ONCE IN A WHILE I MEET DADS GOING THROUGH SUCH PHASES.
BESIDES YOU'RE NOT MAKING SENSE. IT'S JUST LIKE SAYING BEFORE WE TALK ABOUT CANCER, XENOPHOBIA OR BOKOHARAM, WE MUST BE VICTIMS. LIKE WHAT!

SO LET THE PEOPLE CONCERNED COME AND OWN THIS.

THERE'S NO GENDER OR EMOTIONAL CONTEST GOING ON HERE. THE POSTER IS ONLY ASKING PEOPLE TO THINK. THAT IS ALL.

Hypocrite39:
Are you minding him? The other one was try to insist that, for me to write this topic, I must have been a victim of the kind of mothers I described in my op. People dey dis world.

pocohantas:


Sure, people really dey this world. That is why someone would think I must be a slut to write on different price tags.

People can't take what they give or it is more about changing the rules as they go.

I would not mind him. Never did anyway

Some Mothers are manipulative and poison the minds of their kids against their fathers

Me: Did your mum do this to you?

Him: Nooo... My mum is a real woman

izzou:


Some Mothers are manipulative and poison the minds of their kids against their fathers

Me: Did your mum do this to you?

Him: Nooo... My mum is a real woman

tpiander:
Try to work something out, not every male sets out to be a deadbeat father, you have to see how proactively you are allowed to be a father to your kids and involved with them even if you have relatively limited finances, generally speaking.

It also doesn't mean there are no males who don't intentionally set out to be deadbeat fathers.

Some of the bitterness of Nigerian ladies about their SO comes from the womanizing, most women don't like that even if they're not innocent.

ABCthings:
Okay let settle this once and for all
If you're for op like if you're not share.
Majority rules

IamPlato:
So After Your Whole probably Assumption Theory you Now Need Dr. Ubunja to Tell You If You Are Alright or Not.


Come Closer Let Me Remove Something From Your Brain..

ImaIma1:
That's why we see so many mummy's boys around even on this forum. A grown man will tell you he needs to get his mother's consent for everything.

I just laugh when I see such men-boys. As for mother's turning their kids against their dad, it's a character flaw from the mum and as the child grows, he or she should be able to see through the mother's plight though some are blinded by "she carried me for 9 months" "she sacrificed her life and destiny for me" blah blah blah. Women have the gift of manipulation and a child is not above that manipulation.

A child should be allowed to form his/her own opinion of the father without bias from the mum. And a mother should learn to put aside her hatred and bitterness and let the children bond with their dad too. There should be no competition.

Martinez19:
I am emotionally woowoo and unrelated to the topic.

Okay. Obviously.

On no condition must a mum deny her children fatherly love because of personal dispute with her husband.

tpiander:


What are you on about?


I responded to the topic and the poster, why exactly are you quoting me?

This is not if a mum is or isn't denying fatherly love to the kids, I said in the situation where you have a quandary, the father should do what he can to be there for his kids. Within the limits of what he's allowed to do.

I am not interested in assigning blame nor castigating the mother and neither am I indulging in emotional jargon and woman bashing like you are.

Please do not address me again with "I know you are a female", why are you people so unrepentantly and shamelessly rude?

Grow up.

Fountainofyouth:
Deranged psych on display here.

izzou:


Some Mothers are manipulative and poison the minds of their kids against their fathers

Me: Did your mum do this to you?

Him: Nooo... My mum is a real woman