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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Regiomontanus(m): 5:52pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:In the US, look at what their men are facing because they couldn't put their women in their place. Divorce laws, Alimony laws, too much money than necessary in child support, believing women without evidence and convicting men of rape, women serve lower times in jail, and other gynocentric laws and privileges, feminism, #metoo etc. Do you know that in divorce courts in the US, you wife has automatic custody of the kids? Women are believed without evidence during divorce proceedings if they claim you are an abusive father and husband and you sexually molested your kid? As I have said, the greatest mistake men made was thinking that women are their equals in intellect, morality and virtues. Many men are still making that mistake hence they are surprised when their "perfect" wife and girlfriends misbehaves during hard times. For this same reason, many men are deeply surprised when that girl, girlfriend or female friend accuses them of rape. In the US, when they compared women's vote to men's votes, they found out that if women's vote determined the results, the US will be in trouble. Most women want the welfare state (the very thing that has destroyed black Americans), socialism, abortion (even killing a baby at 9 months. Talk about nurturing), open borders, reparations etc. It is also known in the US that an all female company will collapse. Show me one all female top company headed by women from CEO to staff that is standing. If men can't be strong, they will suffer. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by 1Sharon(f): 6:04pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
My father isn't deadbeat but my parents arent together so this thread is very relatable 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by doitforyou(f): 6:08pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
lol I see all of Nairaland's finest and brightest have come out to play. So why were you guys pretending to be objective 3-4 pages ago? What was the kerfuffle about? It's good that you guys have dropped all pretense at any objectivity and we can now all see you guys in your misogynistic glory. The last shred of sanity just exited the thread, you guys can keep playing with each other's dicks. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 6:35pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:Very good. Let them know you are involved. Back in the days, each time my uncle wanted to pay his children's school fees, he would call his wife and children in the sitting room with the bundle of cash on the table. He would tell them that he has provided money for their school fees and is about to pay and he will say "what do you have to say?" and the children will say "thank you" and he will proceed to hug them and tell them nice things. I thought it was unnecessary, weird, and a show off but now I know better. 7 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:36pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED: One of the machismo chauvinistic sexist I talked about, now women reason like a child, same as your mother I presume, what a degradation, for someone that birth you, now, going by your silly submission, when the said child/children becomes an adult, and the said adult still didn't reach out to his said "deadbeat" dad to hear his side, what do we call the adult, since he is no more a child? 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 6:38pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Regiomontanus and the rest have shown that men are beginning to wake up. People must start asking questions. 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 6:42pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Regiomontanus:Indeed I have no time for her. I won't stoop so low. There is a level below which someone's IQ would fall that I can't be bothered to acknowledge their existence. #GLYCOLYSISS 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 6:43pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
1Sharon:Eyah. Have you connected with your dad? |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:48pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Reason why I decided to say my two lines sentence at first page cos I know this thread will turn to whining of the male gender just to suit their degrading, dwindling ego, But the fact still remains that a deadbeat dad is RIGHTLY a deadbeat because he chooses to be so, if he is really the head of the house, he would exercise that notion well, cos I don't see how an adult male will be deprived of being part of his children's lives, if he is deprived of calls, he should look for their school and visit them during breaks, churches, whatever means necessary, not sitting down blaming the "weaker vessel" as they call us lol, who really is the "weaker vessel" in this case? Very laughable 5 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 6:49pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Wow! So now, a man is the head of the house? So you admit despite you feminists calling the notion of a man being the head of the house misogynistic and patriarchal. Lol. Typical woman, always employing any narrative that is suitable. CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Regiomontanus 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 6:52pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
hopefulLandlord:Long time Mr. Landlord. Nothing you say will change her mind. 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by hopefulLandlord: 6:54pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39:Longest time bro. |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by hopefulLandlord: 6:55pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: One thing I strongly like about the OP is his putting Deadbeat in quotes 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:55pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39:.. You ve just taught me another method.Wonderful topic bro.Stay blessed. 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:57pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE: It is really surprising of you, a married man, to take the words of wondering minds here, and use that as a standpoint for how to relate and regard your wife, word of advice: do not let schmucks still questioning their sanity as humans be a yardstick on how to run your family, what may work for A may not work for B. 3 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by 1Sharon(f): 6:57pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39: Lol we have always been in contact. My dad never distanced himself from us kids. Me especially as the only girl and 1st child My mum hates me in particular because she feels I'm on his side and just like him as african mothers like to say 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 7:02pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
1Sharon:Hurray!!! Don't mind her jare. As long as you love both them duly, keep loving your father. That love must not be one sided. To separate you from your father, Kole werk. #JealousyNoGoWork
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:04pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:. Sis, even before this topic came up,I know and understand that shits like this happens.That's the reason I spend so much time with my kids whenever I'm around.Right know I'm so happy that whenever I travel,my kids misses me alot.and once I get home,they cling to me,sleep in my bedroom and eat with me.Men should start waking up to realities to avoid stories that touch. 4 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:05pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39:. They can deny it for all I care,but the truth will always remain the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by 1Sharon(f): 7:11pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39: Lool.. you no well |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by ImaIma1(f): 7:11pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED: What quadruple standard? |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by elektra(f): 7:13pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Regiomontanus: LOL, it is paining you so much that women have rights in the US, that you refuse to educate yourself on the rights of fathers. Fathers have rights in the US courts too. A father has enforceable visitation and custody rights to his child. A woman can go to prison for keeping a child away from their father. But a judge is not going to come to your house to help you get your rights. It is up to the father to make out time to visit his kids and plan activities with them. It is up to the father to go to court to apply for joint custody. It is your responsibility as a father to participate in your children’s life. 3 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Ishilove: 7:14pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39:If you consider ubunja's brand of psychosis 'wisdom', then I pray that God open your eyes to what wisdom truly is 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 7:15pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Come, are you smart, observant and exposed?
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:15pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Regiomontanus: Going by this motion, let's say you're right, what of in this era where everyone, men and women, are allowed to vote, and most men, for example, most northern MEN, are always brainwashed to vote based on free stuffs and more promises cos they are emotional, without using their intellect and logical reasoning, what should we call them since they are men like you? Don't bother arguing based on education cos our forefathers were not remotely educated, so reason based on that since you are intellectual and logical, fvcking sexist, It's very sweet to talk down on the oposite gender to boost ego, but when thrown one for your gender, y"all become mute, like your hands becomes dead to typing, same as your brain, Now, intellectual and logical reasoning knows no gender, colour, or race, some persons own will always be higher than another, I hope your tiny brain digest and understands that. 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 7:20pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
elektra:Keep spreading lies and misrepresentating facts. Those that live in the US know better, I don't have your time. Ever wondered why the MGTOW movement started in western developed countries not Islamic or African countries? What is saving Nigerian men is that 99.99% of our top politicians are men and they are tenaciously holding on to power. Also our police force and judicial system are not too rapid and effective. If not, all the beta boys in Nigeria who are still putting girls on the pedestal will see red. 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by 1Sharon(f): 7:22pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
fyneboi79: Oh dear. |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:22pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39: I would like you to quote where I ever argued that notion to the 't', and if not, counter my comment logically, but if I should think like you, or should I say, what you assume I ever said, should we now say the wife is the head and controls the home since she can automatically pronounce her husband a deadbeat dad while the husband whine about it without proving his children wrong till he dies? Cos it's still the same circle...... 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:26pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Martinez39: For a "great smart thinker" to say the U.S court only favours women is surprisingly laughable, this is how you know minds that are not exposed far and wide, very shameful, Most politicians in U.S are men, I presume they are also "beta" right? 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KevinDein: 7:29pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Regiomontanus:Not an ounce of sympathy for those simps over there in the US and the west in general. Motherfukkers handed their balls to their women and now even dogs and cats have more rights than them. They should live with it. 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 7:29pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:I don't have your time. You typed "if he is really the head of the house..." why else would you say that? If you really thought both couples are in charge, you would not have typed that. You are just deceiving yourself. Boys are waking up. Given the display of your underdeveloped brain, 3 Likes
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Martinez39(m): 7:32pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:Our politicians are patriarchal unlike the beta simps in the US. Trump, the great white hope, is one of the few alphas in the US. Good day. |
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