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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 10:34am On Sep 08, 2019 |
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KanuSE: 10:40am On Sep 08, 2019 |
realtalk19: I believe everyone of us quite understand the context of a violent husband/father but we're not deliberating on that here. We're discussing 'manipulating mothers'. 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by liberalchick(f): 10:43am On Sep 08, 2019 |
wow! how original. You don’t have two brain cells to rub together to contribute anything meaningful to this thread, so you decided to quote me with the old and tired “she’s being emotional” sexist slur. GLYCOLYSISS: 7 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 08, 2019 |
liberalchick:Are you done ? 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KanuSE: 10:46am On Sep 08, 2019 |
liberalchick: I quite understand your drift but this is not an issue of We vs Them. The Op is addressing the issue of 'manipulating mothers' whose actions ain't in the best interest of the kids. Gerrit? 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by eyizlive(m): 10:46am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Sorry ooo but abeg I want Madame marialavina and Prof marvelous000 to finish the grammar war... In between, when are we finally having our #redpill guys vs #feminists girls face-off? E go sweet oo |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by zeb04(f): 10:47am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Two kinds of women, those who cover up for their Absentee partners with things like( daddy loves you, he is just very busy) And those who don’t. None is wrong. I I would prefer not to cover up for my kids, because I don’t want to teach them that inconsistency and abandonment is love. I don’t want my kids to growing up learning to accept little in life. My take. Good thing I don’t have to deal with that. 4 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 10:48am On Sep 08, 2019 |
[s] KanuSE:[/s] 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 10:48am On Sep 08, 2019 |
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Nobody: 10:48am On Sep 08, 2019 |
I can't believe Martinez39 king of logical counter have been silent since last night and has refused to respond to my 'logical' submission lol. I remember how you and your ilks were ranting about how Nl girls do not argue intelligently and sentiments free, I laugh out loud when I saw your comments and said, these guys can't recognize logic and intelligence even if it's hitting them on their toes, funny how they go about crying for it. Well let me call on your friends to help you out Pansophist Ubunja Franchisng Daddytime. Please come and help your logical friend out, he is stuck. 6 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by alexola20(m): 10:53am On Sep 08, 2019 |
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Nobody: 10:53am On Sep 08, 2019 |
eyizlive:War? lol I don't have the luxury for that, the boy is simply throwing fists in the air. Your last paragraph? You must have mistaken me for one who gives a hoot about those two madness you mentioned. |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by liberalchick(f): 10:54am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Confirmation bias is very strong on this thread, we interpret what we want to interpret. What I inferred from the first half of his post is that most deadbeat dads wouldn’t be deadbeats if women didn’t poison the well. Regiomontanus: 7 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KanuSE: 10:55am On Sep 08, 2019 |
MariaLavina: A little while you made sense, a little while your emotions took over - no premise in the end. 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 10:58am On Sep 08, 2019 |
[s] KanuSE:[/s] 2 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Nobody: 11:02am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Still waiting... 1 Like
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KanuSE: 11:03am On Sep 08, 2019 |
fyneboi79: What a pity. |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by eyizlive(m): 11:07am On Sep 08, 2019 |
MariaLavina: I guess so but at least for the banter nau, like isn't that what's left to do on NL...imagine that sorta thread...it'll be FIRE!!! Just tell Ubunja and let's have it. |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Nobody: 11:10am On Sep 08, 2019 |
eyizlive:Direct your childishness to one who is in for it, you mistake my response for interest. Have a nice day. 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KanuSE: 11:11am On Sep 08, 2019 |
TheEminentLaity: Lol they would rather have the dad dead & this shows what they harbour in their minds. Just take another look at the term...WOMEN ! 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by eyizlive(m): 11:12am On Sep 08, 2019 |
MariaLavina: I did indeed. |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Regiomontanus(m): 11:13am On Sep 08, 2019 |
liberalchick:Either you are a shameless and pathetic liar or your brain did not develop properly. You are very manipulative. Beside, why read just the first part? Are you not supposed to read the whole thing? What sensible person reads just the first half of someone's write up and attacks them? Are you okay? Everyone(GLYCOLYSISS, KanuSE, JONNYSPUTE, CAPSLOCKED, etc), come see the game liberalchick is playing? You purposely picked just the first part so you can avoid the clarification in the second picture below and therefore have some ground to attack me and accuse me of generalising since your emotions are against me. pic 1: The very first thing you will see in his write up. How come you got your inference for the first half of his post? Are you that dull? Despite this you and other dull girls still attacked him for painting all fathers as saints and all mothers as evil. pic 2: @blue part, Martinez39 made himself clear again that some mothers could be good while the fathers could be at fault. No sensible person has any ground to accuse Martinez39 of generalising. Only daft humans claimed Martinez39 was generalising. 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by liberalchick(f): 11:15am On Sep 08, 2019 |
lol where did I make it a We vs Them? I was calling out the generalization of women in the OP, I never compared the roles of both gender in parental alienation. If you are referring to my example, I used it to highlight my premise, just because you have few anecdotes doesn’t mean you have enough facts/authority to generalize. Most posters have commented that the OP is just about mothers who alienate their kids from their fathers, if it was I wouldn’t be on this thread. The first half of his post infers that most deadbeat dads wouldn’t be deadbeats if women didn’t badmouth dads in front of their kids. KanuSE: 7 Likes |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Regiomontanus(m): 11:19am On Sep 08, 2019 |
liberalchick:Read my post above yours and see the analysis of those two pictures and tell me where Martinez39 generalised. Indeed, foolishness is intentional at times. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 11:21am On Sep 08, 2019 |
[s] KanuSE:[/s] 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 11:21am On Sep 08, 2019 |
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KanuSE: 11:30am On Sep 08, 2019 |
somehow: I believe this is the man you just described. 2 Likes
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by liberalchick(f): 11:35am On Sep 08, 2019 |
What?!! So why are you choosing to ignore the first part of his post? Why type the first half if it’s not relevant to his post? Just because the OP decided to add “some” in his posts or added a disclaimer doesn’t magically erase the generalizations in his post, the OP put them there for a reason. I read a post and I posted my comments on the parts I disagreed with. Regarding your childish emotional outburst, get help. Regiomontanus: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by KanuSE: 11:35am On Sep 08, 2019 |
liberalchick: Op has not generalized on women in his post & many commenters here have tried to get your likes back in line. 1 Like |
Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 11:37am On Sep 08, 2019 |
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by DevilhimseIf: 11:37am On Sep 08, 2019 |
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Re: Children Of "Deadbeat" Fathers. Time To Think. by Regiomontanus(m): 11:43am On Sep 08, 2019 |
liberalchick:I did not any part of his post instead I pointed you out for ignoring certain parts of his post. Keep playing dumb. If at this stage you don't know that read a write up completely before attacking the writer, you can't be helped. If you can't understand such a simple write up by Martinez39, you can't be helped. At your age, you call a clarification the addition of "some"? Do you know what it means to clarify? When Martinez39 said he can't expect reasoning from the female gender on certain issues, he seemed like a misogynist but now I can see where the wise guy is coming from. Good day and from henceforth, I won't engage you. Rot in your foolishness. 4 Likes |
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